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Self-Discipline: Learn To Be The Architect of Your Environment

teacher avatar Mohamed Semeunacte, Father, Husband, Entrepreneur.

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Lessons in This Class

    • 1.

      01 Welcome Everyone

      1:44

    • 2.

      02 Why Some People Are Disciplined (and others aren't)

      2:30

    • 3.

      03 Why Should You Organize Your Environment

      2:36

    • 4.

      04 What is THE Environment

      4:15

    • 5.

      05 How Do I Personally Organize My Environment

      8:35

    • 6.

      06 What Ways Can You Set Up Your Environment For Success?

      6:59

    • 7.

      07 Your Personal Project

      1:06

    • 8.

      08 Quick Last Word

      0:41

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About This Class

What’s the difference between self disciplined people and people who just can’t seem to do the hard work on a consistent basis?

This class is part of The Demeanor Trilogy: (learn more by clicking the title)

  1. Self-Discipline: Learn To Be The Architect of Your Environment
  2. Daily Habits: Start Making Time Your Best Ally!
  3. Behavior Change: How You Can Change Your Behavior By Altering Your Identity!

The difference between people who manage to make changes and get the rewards and those who can’t seem to become successful even when they really try!

A lot of us tend to say things like: willpower or motivation or maybe beliefs. They seem to have certain abilities to delay gratification that we do not possess. 

I think the answer is simpler than that, I believe these people have organized their life in a way that doesn’t take daily heroic willpower to do the things that need to be done. How they do it is what we discuss in this course: conscious environment shaping!

What will you learn in this course?

  • What is the difference between willpower and self-discipline.
  • How some people achieve their goals without daily shots of pseudo motivation.
  • How to alter your behavior almost without even thinking about it.
  • How to build self control that doesn’t feel like chains on your feet. 

This class is not designed only for people looking to become more self-disciplined. It is part of a demeanor series. The main goal is to alter your behavior slowly but surely. This course is made for people who want to design a world where it is easy to do the things that bring us long-term happiness.

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Additional Resources Mentioned in Class

Students get to download a special series of printable exercises that accompany this course. Once you watch the video, you get to apply the knowledge immediately in your own life. 

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About the instructor

My name is Mohamed and I have been married to the cutest French girl ever for the last 22 years (actually, we lived together before marriage but please don't tell my parents...). We now have 3 amazing boys that are simply the best kids a Dad could hope for!

Self-discipline, deliberate habit creation and conscious behavior modification are the themes my personal and professional lives are centered around. I believe procrastination and laziness are not inherent to the individual, they come from lifelong choices that were made for us even before we could decide for ourselves. My reward is to see people purposely take new roads that get them their 0.1% improvement per day and finally change the course of their lives. After all, we all deserve to be successful on our terms. 

You can connect with me on my website and Instagram

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Mohamed Semeunacte

Father, Husband, Entrepreneur.

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My name is Mohamed and I am a Father, a Husband, a Teacher and an Entrepreneur!

Deliberate behavior modification, conscious habit creation and self-discipline are the themes my personal and professional lives are centered around. I believe procrastination and laziness are not inherent to the individual, they come from lifelong choices that were made for us even before we could decide for ourselves.

My reward is to see people purposely take new roads that get them their 0.1% improvement per day and finally change the course of their lives.

After all, we all deserve to be successful on our terms. 

You can connect with me on my website and Instagram

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1. 01 Welcome Everyone: Hi, thanks for checking my new course on self-discipline. Let me ask you a quick question. What's standing between you and your success, between you and the results you want to achieve. And a lot of us, we tend to say things like information. There are things that I would like to learn in order to succeed and I should learn them before succeeding. While I believe this is true, there are also another components and this is the environment. I believe the fundamental question behind this as, how can I design a world where it's easy to do the right thing in order to wherever. This is what you're gonna learn in the following videos. First, we are going to see why some people are discipline and some are not. And why organizing your environment is extremely important. And then we are going to see exactly what is an environment, what we mean by the environments. I'm gonna show you how I personally organized my environment. And I will make you go through the whole process. We have a lot of resources to download. You will be able to design your perfect environments geared towards your version of success. If you like it, that feels good. Please feel free to just keep watching. See you on the other side. 2. 02 Why Some People Are Disciplined (and others aren't): Thanks for joining. So let's start with this question. Why some people are discipline and some people aren't? That's the obvious answer. All of us tend to Windsor that it's just willpower. Some people. They have it in them. They just know how to brute force this amazing skill. That's why actually they succeed. And we don't. I really believe it's not healthy to keep this in mind simply because it makes us believe that actually we are not trying enough. We are not trying hard enough. Obviously, a lot of other people are going to say discipline. It's the obvious answer. Some people are disciplined because well, they are discipline. I believe this is way too short. It's too easy to answer that. That's not even thinking of the problem really. I believe really what's the difference between discipline people and that discipline people is just the environment. I believe discipline people. They figured out on some unconscious level how to organize their environments to gear it toward the results they want to achieve. It's really that question. How can I design a world where it CZ to do the right thing? The most discipline, people that I know do it on some unconscious level. Maybe the education, maybe they figure it out. I don't know how, but it's just really that their environment, physical environment, and not physical environment is geared toward making them take the right choice. That's really it. That's what I believe, my belief. Next part. Why organizing your environment is extremely important. See you there. 3. 03 Why Should You Organize Your Environment: Why organizing your environment is extremely important. Less friction. Let's start with this one. Less friction. From the moment you wake up until the moment you sleep is just an easier way of living. It's just that's just you don't have to push and push and push and push to achieve anything. Things tend to organize themselves, themselves. It's like just really having a awesome day. Every single day. It's really less friction. I believe also the most important. And maybe that's the most important thing is you're not the victim of others deliberate design anymore. I call it stepping into the driver's seat. That's really powerful. I mean, this was mind-blowing for me. I really believe that if you, if you are a discipline person, if you organize your environment, simply, you are not the victim anymore. Some people design your life for you. You don't have to accept it anymore. Now you can really step into the drivers seats. It's also a feeling. It's also an amazing feeling that your life is trending in the right direction. That's, that's really a feeling that I wake up with every day and I wish the same for you. This is why we organize our environment. The whole goal of it, the whole goal of everything is creating a new identity, hopefully better identity. It's being productive and organized, not a task or a burden anymore. It's simply who you are. That's it. That's why organizing your environment is so, so, so powerful. Let's see how to do it. 4. 04 What is THE Environment: What is exactly the environment? That's, that's something that a lot of us, we don't even think of it because I mean, here is my environment. That's it. That's the books behind me, that's the camera in front of me, that's my environment. Really. Something important to understand right here is the environment is as physical as it is mental. It's what is obviously in front of you. What is hidden? It's your desk. But not only it's what is in front of you. I have kids. I mean, my desk is always a mess. But it's your desk. But not only it's your apartment or your house, but again, not only it's also your computer and your phone, but not normally, it's what is designed to be Hayden in your phone. Those things that designers and engineers make in order to facilitate certain behaviors. But certain behaviors, behaviors that are good for them, usually not really good for you. That's all the environment. And I will take, for example, my iPad Pro. This is, this is the thing that I'm working with. So in front of me I have my computer, but it's not really the thing that I'm working with. I work on this 13 inch iPad Pro, and it is designed, I designed it to be geared toward productivity. This is really what I called being the architect of your environment, not the victim anymore. So for example, I have no social media apps on my iPad. 0 really? Nothing. No Facebook, no. Instead, nope. Interests know wherever. Nothing. I don't have any random apps. All the apps that I couldn't get rid of. I just put them in a file that I call, no use. I never go in there. It's really that simple. No notifications whatsoever. It is remember, I need my iPad to make me work, to help me achieve the results that I put for myself. That means no notifications. I just simply there is really no notifications and you can go into the settings and just stuck them all. Sometimes I just really unplugged the Wi-Fi. That's it. It's going to be that easy. Unplugging the Wi-Fi is really, for example, taking charge of your environment, design it to be be productive for you. I have free apps that I'm working on every single day on this iPad, Google Calendar, google Keep google document, google world, whatever. That's it. That's really it. I have nothing else on my iPad. And I'm going to show you also how I work with this iPad. And you will see that designing your environment, designing an environment where it's easy to do the right thing is not that difficult. 5. 05 How Do I Personally Organize My Environment: In this part, I'm gonna take my life as an example. The thing that, that I do from really the very more in the, very early in the morning until late at night. In this course, I'm going to focus especially on the waking part and the evening part, simply because I want you to focus on some things that are going to bring us the most results really quickly. I wake up at I wake up every single day at 555. Why? I like the numbers, That's it. But I wake up at 555 simply because my phone is never sleeping next to me. Never It is charging or not, whatever, but it is on my desk somewhere. It is going to wake me up, but I have to stand up in order to shut it off. I have to make a conscious decision to go back to bed if I feel like it. But still, I have this very quick those moments, those seconds where I get to wake up and say, Okay, if I want to achieve what I want to achieve, I need to stay up. My routine. I do some yoga exercise every single day. Simply, I just wash my face and go and go into my yoga routine. I don't even think about it. It's just it's just really quick. Is just really like five-minutes, not more than that, but I need to do them in order to do anything else. It's called habit stacking, wash my face, and then I do my yoga poses very quickly. Then I go back to the kitchen. I pour a big glass of water for myself and another one for my wife. She loves it. It's for her away of my way of saying I love you, I think of you every day, whatever she loves it anyways. So just really habits that I stack on top of each other. So our wake up because my phone is away from me. Come here, do my yoga stuff, go to the kitchen, pour a glass of water. Then I go back to bed. And my iPad, the one that we talked before, my iPad is right beside me. It's really at its really on my left. I cannot not grab it. And then I take my iPad and I switch and switch it on. My iPad is always switched off. If it's switched on, that means work. That's it. By this time it's like 610615. I start my morning routine. My morning routine is very, very structured because I needed that way. I needed that way I need to know what is going to happen. So this is why I use Google Calendar. I need to quickly check my day. You have it on iPad, on my phone, whatever. I need Google Keep because I need to do my routine myself, talk, everything is on Google Keep. I journal. Journal every single day. Have been doing it for months. I journal every single day. That's extremely important. Well actually, that's a very good habit to start for anyone. Really. This is this is how I structure my my very, the very beginning of my day. Then go wake up the kids, make breakfasts, eggs usually, and milk, and then take the kids to school. I walk every single day, five kilometers, which means like free, 0.5 miles for the US. I do it every day. We have been doing it with my wife for more than 450 days. I think something like that. I do it every single day simply because it is embedded in my environment. I put the kids at school, I just keep walking. That's how we started this behavior. I just really kept walking. Really. It's not something that I I didn't bought the shoes. I didn't striding. I don't care about what I'm wearing at the very beginning. That that's really what was happening with the kids at school. Keep walking. That's it. And then we decided we want to after several weeks actually, we decided, okay, let's make it five kilometers, Let's make it, let's go by this way for whatever reason. This year we started to stack another habit which is skip roping. Today actually, I knew best score, I did it 377 times. You can see by my face that I'm really happy about it. I started at 20 times. I couldn't do more than 20 times. Habit stacking. I just put the rope. I just took it in the morning because actually Environment designing. Whereas the rope, it is in front of my eyes, I cannot put my jacket on. Without looking at the rope. I cannot forget it because it is really in front of my eyes. I take it. And every single day we pass through a park for kids. We just stopped there and skip rope. I really I mean, if I started at 20 and today it's more than 377. That's my new score. This is my morning routine. Everything is just stacking on each other. I want the minimum friction possible. And this is really the secret between designing your environment. It's really that it is minimizing an environment frictionless. So that's every behavior is geared towards doing something, Right? Remember the question. And really I believe when you ask the right questions, you'll get the right answers. Keep asking always yourself, how can I design a world where it's easy to do the right thing? Next, it is going to be your turn. We have resources that are coming. And we are going to ask this question, in what ways can you set up your environment for success? 6. 06 What Ways Can You Set Up Your Environment For Success?: It's your turn. It's your turn now to organize, setup. An environment that is conducive to your success. There are tons of resources that are coming with this parts and I just, it's really easy. You just look at the names and you download the resources. And we do it together. First of something that is, I didn't do it for a very long time and I believe it is extremely important to do. It's just follow your day schedule for free days. Just do that really. You need to know where are, where it's going your time effectively. Not really something that is not the belief about your time, really what you are doing from doing do we do it for free days and just follow half an hour by half an hour what you are doing. And I'm not talking only about the work. I'm already talking from the day you wake up until the moment you wake up, until the moment you sleep, just start with that. It is extremely important. In the meantime, during those three days, what do you feel? Answer those questions on the sheets that are downloadable. What do you feel is preventing you from achieving right now? Know that maybe it is true and maybe that's just a belief. What do you feel is preventing you from achieving? Just pause it. Just pause the video and just go answer it. When you come back, lists every item that is parts right now of your environment. And I'm not talking only about things that are work-related. I'm talking about everything that is in your environment. Like I said, you need to you need to view it not only not the physical stuff, only also the mental stuff. You need to think about. These things. Take the resources and print them. And right. Then we need to think about what do you want to achieve? I believe as long as you have a brain that works normally, I believe you can achieve everything. But I don't believe you can achieve everything at anytime. Some things are more important than others. The question that I'm always asking myself is, what is the master project? What is the project that renders the other projects less important? Or simply useless? If you achieve that project, your life is trending in the right direction. In order to, in order now to look at how you can design the best environment in order to achieve the results that you want. I believe that there are four types of changes that you need to make. I'm gonna start with the very useless from one and go until the one that we are going to focus on today. So first change is low impact, high effort. Low impact, high effort, which means it's very difficult to do it and it's basically useless. So we don't want to focus on that kind of change. The second change is low effort, low impact. This one also is pretty much useless. It's not very difficult to make that change, but basically it's not going to, it's not gonna change your life. It's not gonna make you do the right things. Then there is the low effort and high impacts, which is the one that we are going to focus on today. The resources also focused on this one. I'm coming back to it and there is the last one which is high effort, high-impact. This one is kind of out of the scope of this course. Very rapid course, because it's more geared toward big projects. We are going to focus on low effort, high-impact. I want you to find doubts. What changes you can make in your environment. Physical mantle. You can consider everything. Your desk, your phone, you, your computer, your environment, your physical environment, your apartment, house. What are the changes that you can make that will bring immediately between 40, 70% of results. That's what we're going to focus on. Between 40, I want to be very, I want to very quickly achieve 40% of results. I know that those rapid changes, low impact, low effort tie impacts, those changes are not gonna make not going to make big projects, but they are going to make me trend in the right direction, which is what we want right now. How can you design a world where you get between 40, 70% of results? Almost immediately. I put some examples in the sheet you can download. And it's important that you come up with your own. 7. 07 Your Personal Project: Now what's now it's your turn. We did a lot of things together. We did a lot of thinking together. But now it is your turn to think and do the exercise. Organize your environment so that you achieve the results that you want to achieve. And if you manage your projects, the way we discussed it, you are going to be successful. If you started to walk or to run just by putting your sneakers in front of your bed, for example. Well, we want to hear about it. We all like to celebrate. We all like to follow people that succeed. So there you go. As a project, you just posts whatever is your success in the section. And we will celebrate with you. Thanks. 8. 08 Quick Last Word: So that's about it. Thank you for following my demeanor series on discipline, behavior, and habits. You can check my other courses. I will be happy to take you through all the series. If you have any questions, feel free. My e-mail is down below. I am always happy to answer. I am always happy to celebrate. That's really a pleasure. Thank you for following me. You take care. Thanks.