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1. Introduction: Hi there. I'm on
yesterday snack, a creative artist,
author and teacher. I'm so enthusiastic
about self-care, and I'm also
passionate about art. That's why I love mixing the
two together in some way. This course I'd like
to share with you some tried to improve in
self-care habits and routines expressed through these creative craft pages. Here are the specific topics of self-care that we'll
cover in this course. Practical, physical, social, professional,
and create effective. Bringing my love for creativity. And at the same time, growing and self-care has been such a satisfying
experience in my life. And it's even been a
wonderful bonding experience to do together with
my team daughter. A time for us to connect, to reflect and improve
our communication skills, as well as encourage and
motivate us towards progress. In this course, I'll take you through the process of finding pictures and inspiration
that spark joy and meaning. You'll learn to
personalize it in a way that is just
right for you. How to use certain materials to create a beautiful
craft page. Adding final touches of decor, creating space for reflection
time and journal prompts. You'll learn how to question
yourself for further growth. I'll share with you some
examples of activities, habits, and rituals
related to self-care. Most of all, you'll learn
what self-care means for you, how to continue to make
progress and how to use and refer back to these
pages and much, much more. I'm inviting you today to follow along and get all
creative and artsy. And maybe challenge
yourself to try something different in a new ways for
your personal well-being. And most of all, to find some calm and joy. I'm looking forward to
exploring this artistic journey together as we grow
in our self-care.
2. Practical Self-care Craft: So today we are
going to be diving into our practical
self-care craft page. I welcome you to take
your craft book. You can also use the download
that's available for you. For this part of the class, we're going to prepare
our little download page. You can decide and
choose which size is better for you and
for your craft book. And maybe for anything
else that you would like to add on your page. This one is nice and small
because that way I can add some other things
around my page, but I would like it
to fill up my page. So I think I'm gonna go
with this beaker one. You take your
scissors and you just cut around your house. You find a pretty
picture of a house. Something that
really sparks joy. If you're very artsy and you
have a little extra time. Also, just draw your house, maybe even draw your own house. Because that will help to personalize it
even more for you. I wanted to save a little
bit of time today, so I drew my house
ahead of time. Then I printed out
a copy and I've made one for you as well in case you would like to use it. I'm not cutting
directly on the line. I like to leave a little
whitespace around. Kind of gives it a
little sticker look. If you think you can kind of see, have an idea of how it will fit on your page now
a little bit better, because I chose the big one. I'm going to probably make my title over here on
this part of the page. If you go with a smaller one, you could make your title on
the top or on the bottom. So it's really up to you to
how you want to visualize this page and what seems
more fitting for you. Something else that will
do to prepare this page. He's give it a
little bit of color. I'm gonna use my two
digital markers here. Just bring a little bit of shading or a little bit
of color for extra fun. You choose any colors
that you like. Maybe that's fitting to
your house or fitting to your mood, your style. Think I'm going to start
by making the tiles. And I'm not going to cover
the whole thing in just, just a little touch of
color is all that needs. You can also find a
picture in a magazine, or better yet, which I just thought of now is take a
photograph of your own house. You would like
that. This doesn't look exactly like my house, but it has lots of
windows like this. Since an attached house, this type of roof. And I probably added a few
extra fun touches to it. Maybe it's my dream house. I have my colors are
sort of light pink. That's because I don't want
to have them too bright. I just wanted a little
touch of color. And this is kind of matching
to my style, these colors. I love the color pink. Because today where delving
into practical self-care. I'm already thinking
about things related to my
practical self-care, which even colors is
a big one for me. That's the reason why
I've chosen today to do a drawing of a little house. Because what better example
of something practical. That's where we take
care of ourselves. Sometimes that's where we work. Where we like to relax,
enjoy ourselves. That's where we
nourish ourselves. Course we're not
home all the time, but I just thought it was
a good picture for me. Feel free to personalize
it to you, for example, if there is something more
practical that you can think of in a sense of a
picture in your mind. Maybe you're thinking
of something else, then he's that you're
really free to do here. What you want. Even just adding a
little bit of shading, not even covering fully. I think a little
bit of shading just gives it a little
bit more depth. What's even fun for me? Using my pencil? Adding a little bit
of shading that way. I'm just giving you
different examples of what you can do
for your picture. If you prefer using
color pencils, paints. And you could really do that. There are loads of
ideas and you can use whichever medium of art of coloring that
suits you best. Which is the
wonderful thing about this little project in activity. If you don't have the time
for this and you just skip this part altogether. You don't have to, it's not
so important to the project. But I find that
the more textile, the more senses I use, the more artistic the project, almost the better I remember
it sticks in my mind. That's why I like to
use whenever I can, whether it's coloring, painting. And it's so relaxing for me. I hope that you're enjoying
the process as well. As I've said before, I've also been doing these projects along
with my daughter. We have so much fun. If you're here
doing it together, then I congratulate
you for that. I hope you're enjoying it
together with a friend. Because sometimes
things are even better when done
with someone else. It's not to say that you
can't do this project alone. I could probably go on and on for a long time
with this shading, but don't want it
to take too long. Sort of depends how much
time I have as well. Okay, well, we have it
pretty nicely done. Next part of preparing our print out will be to open
up the windows. So I have this piece
of cardboard here. You can see it's quite
thick because that way, when I use my exact or knife
won't cut through my table. So you can take
your exacto knife and your ruler for this part. I'm going to be opening
up my windows and doors. I think the windows
I'm going on the top, I'm going to open them this way. And then the windows here, I might open up towards
the middle like that. So let's see how it goes. So if you're doing the top ones, I'll do the three at once
might make it easier. You just put your ruler
in place and cut through. Make the bottom cut
at the same time. Since it's facing
the same direction. I'll turn my page upper and do the right side of my window. Where to open then you
can give it a try. So it should open like this. I love using any extra
little fun project for my craft book. I think that's where my
child-like self comes out. Just like little babies
and kids love opening up little flat books and
I have loads of fun too. It's also fun to create. Now for my middle windows, I'm going to do the top. It's okay to go slow
for this process. Another thing I love about these craft pages is that
it uses all types of art. That's why I find
them so creative. Doing some cutting and gluing. We're doing some coloring. Sometimes you will
be doing painting. Sometimes we will be creating something a little
bit more challenging. But that's the fun of it. For example, this one, you have to concentrate. Now we will do our middle Hut. Again. For each window we
just have three cuts, whether it's in the middle, we have the top, the
bottom, the middle, or the side, which is what
we did for the top Windows. You can choose to do all of
yours one way or the other. Just enjoy the variety. See if they work. That's good. Now we have just
our bottom windows. This one we have a
little plant in a way but which is going to have
to open it like that. Working. Whoops, almost. Check them to make sure
they're open all the way. And lastly, we have our
door just going to make the straight line to
make it easier rather than going for the
curved milk here, be a little bit more
challenging to open that. You have your page already and we can put
it towards the side. We can put it aside
for now as we move on to the next
part of our project. For this part of project, you will need your craft
book and you will also need either your printout
page if you want to use these letters here that
I've made available for you, or you can do as I do, or you can do is
I do and collect some letters from old magazines or newspapers, even old books. I have my book so
that I can measure. And I also have my
house that I can see how much space I have
to work with for my title. So I can either put it on this side or I
could put it here. I'm thinking I might even
put it on this side for fun, for something a
little different. So I will find letters that
spell the word practicals. Since we're focusing on
our practical self-care. I can move this to
the side little bit. Take out some of my letters. I have here P. Kind of like
using a variety of letters. And if there's one that
I don't have file, probably use the one
from the printout. Then you place it in the
spot that you decided. And I like to use
different fonts, different colors,
different fonts. So for example,
here's an other aid, but it's written a
little bit differently. Sometimes I even like to
use in different colors. I'll put it here for my a. And you will have
to keep an eye on how much space you have for now. We're just getting
started, so it's okay. I'm going to get everything. My C and R here. This is really newspaper, so it kind of adds
to the charm of it. Let's see any other
type of font color. Here's a T, or I
could always use the a. I wanted to from here. Since this one has a little bit it with
a different color. In case that way they're not
all brown in the same place, practical and I'll need
another a low anyways, I'm looking for a C. I can always cut out
a teeth for now. The eye like this r because
it's on a black background, so I like to mix and match. So because these two
are the same color, I might even choose that one. Again, this is another
creative process. Each one has their own charm. Paying attention to the
details, shapes, and sizes. And so I'm ready to
glue it in place. I want to glue it quite soon so that they don't
mess up all the time. And that gives me
an idea as well on how to continue
the rest of my page. I'm just using a glue stick. Trying to keep them in place
as I glue one at a time. Don't worry, we'll dive more, delve more into the aspects
of practical self-care. Maybe you're creating this
and you're wondering, Oh, what is this
all about anyways? Just let yourself enjoy this little artsy
project and don't worry, we'll take plenty of time for some reflection time
to understand how we can grow in our
practical self-care. Or maybe what it means for us. How we can improve or what
are we doing already? In our practical self-care? There's so many benefits
to mixing a little bit of artsy stuff with
your self-care. I'm sure there's some
special to you as well. I love how it's a little bit. Exam, it's not
perfect is kind of more fun not to
straighten formal. Now if you have your paper
from your house cut out, you can use a
little piece of it. It'll scrap of it for a
little self-care title. Just going to put it here
to take the measurement. My house is going
to fit like that. And I'm going to
draw a little flag. Might even make it a bit bigger. And it can go on top because
it can be a little flat. We just cut towards the middle to make it look
like a little flag. And then we will use
this side instead. Without the pencil. You can either put
yours underneath the house or you can
also make it on top. Like putting up
black line outline. Just so it stands out
a little bit more. Then we're going to
write the words. Self-care. Can use a pencil first
if you want to make sure that everything
will fit in. If you choose whatever
lettering you want. I'm going for cursive here
for a little variety. Since we have lots of and then I just erase
it for a cleaned up. There we have our
little flag and our whole title done a
practical self-care. And I'm just going to do a
little bit on this side. It's enough to keep it in place. That way I can glue my
house a terrane underneath. So that was it for our little
practical self-care title. I'll see you in the
next class, so forth. This portion of the class, you will need a little house without the little
windows and doors, and you will need a
sheet of white paper. You will also need
your lined paper. For some of our
journaling prompts. I have two options here. I have one with smaller lines, one with a bit wider lines. I just took these from an
old notebook so you can choose whatever lines
you prefer to use. To start with. You're just going
to fold your page. So this is an A4 page. You're going to fold it in half. And then you can place
your house on top. Because we've taken
up so much space with our house for
the craft page, I thought that's
opening up a flap. Not only is exciting
and fun and playful, but it's also giving
us much more space and room for anything that
we'd like to add. Bletchley, all those
reflections are little heart expressions that they want to work through
for our self-care. So I'm going to glue
the house on top. I'm just being careful not to glue over the windows and door. Of course. You just put glue on
the sides mainly. And also you do want to protect
your windows and doors. If you put glue next to it, that when you open them,
they're still firm. Doesn't come apart to easily. Then padded nicely gently
down each little spot, especially the places close
to the windows and doors. So at this point you can also take your windows and we're going to give
them a little full. Enclose them again. Even this part of
the project is fun. Relaxing. These windows were
open to the side. Whoops, something
already gotten glued. So that's why it's
important to do it. Now in case you got some
glue in the wrong spot, you want your windows to open nicely fully without any glue. Instructing them. At this point, I think our house is starting
to take shape. Starting to look really cute. It's starting to
look more realistic, starting to be fun.
Then your door. Oops, I made a little mistake. You might have noticed. See the door handles on the
wrong side of the Uzzi. I'm going to be creative and
draw my new door handle. On this side. I'm going to cover
my little mistake. Just a little piece of
paper and glue it on top. You have some white gouache. You can also do it that way. Maybe you noticed it before me. We have our little windows open. To finish this part off. We're just going to cut again. I'm going to just leave
a little white around the house. There are two sides. You want to make sure
your windows are closed so that we
can put it flat down without them bending
in the wrong place. You can choose to either
have one page like this. You could have two pages
opening up something like this. I think I'm going
to go with one. I liked this one because it's a little bit of a
different color. I'm going to cut it
nice and straight. I'm going to really go for them. Notebook page all the way. I'm going to make some
little circles as if it were a little ring ring page from a ring binder to even make that little
look as if they're cut. Then I'm even going to
trace the outside of it. I like the hand-drawn look, so it's not perfect. My lines are in super straight, which is what I like about it. Not too formal and straight. We're including this page here for a little reflection
time later on. These craft pages, I'd love to add as much
into them as possible. So I load them with goodies. Goodies that you'll be creating, that you'll be Journal,
journaling about. This is what makes it so special
because that way you get to go back to it
after least for me, it makes me want to go back
to it after when I have all these fun little details. Before I glue it in place, I want to sort of check with
my house and see the size. I'm going to cut it just
like we had before. I like the little curvy look. It's less formal and straight. This cut may alter our
little notebook page. Let's see how it goes. You can just take your book
at this time and try it out. See my pages a
little bit too big. But that's no problem because
we can just fit it to size. The width is okay. I'm going to take my
pencil to draw it out. Draw the shape of
my house so that I know what I have to work with. That's kind of like this. And at this point I can
also draw it with my pen. Can either make a
straight line or you can follow the
shape of the house. It's okay if we make a mistake. All this takes lots
of patients st, stay in kind to ourselves, forgiving ourselves
for little mishaps. I find also that I
changed my mind sometimes halfway in-between the
project. That's okay. We're ready to glue it in place. I'm just going to put glue
on one side like this. I don't feel it necessary
to cuckoo all over. That way. I can always, if I want to eternal some more, I can always do it back as well. Or even on this
side of the page. That's it for our little
house flap or house card. I'm looking forward to seeing you in the next
part of the class. Welcome back. In this part of the
class we're going to work a little bit
on our questions. You can open to your page
that you just worked on for the journaling with
your little notebook page. And you can use either a pencil or you can start
directly with your pen. I'm going to jot down a
few little questions, a few little reminders
for myself that I like to refer back to, kind of like journaling prompts. I'm not going to answer
the questions right now. I'm going to list the questions and I'll do my
answers a little bit down the line maybe during
my morning routine or my journaling time just to
help personalize it to me. But I like to have
the questions, so I'm going to put
them right here. That way. They're really clear and I can always go
to them when I want a little quick reminder or a quick reflection time of
my practical self-care. Right now I had thought of six, that'll questions, but of
course, as you know me, I always like to add to it and continue to personalize
it for more situations. Just going to write down the
questions that come to mind. I'm going to change pen
because I have a feeling that this one is
going to go through. This is what's
something that you want to be careful about. And I think it's
safer to switch from your ink pen to a ballpoint pen. What is it about my
surroundings that make me feel overwhelmed or stressed? So I think it's
very important to find that out so that we can
let go of those feelings. What about it makes me feel most calmed, balanced, or joyful. After releasing our
negative feedings, we can move on to what
we want to focus on. What we want to
pay attention to. What are the feelings
that we want to feel? What improvements can I make width or in my
practical self-care? You might even be
wondering, well, what is practical self-care? Just as a quick
side note before I delve into the questions
as an example, practical self-care for me. It would be anything
related to home. For example, having an organized
space, well-maintained, clutter-free for my
work or business, just my environment
in my surroundings. So practical is more like
what we do in our home, or even it'll habits or routines that make a
difference around us, that affect us in some way. So that's the way that I see it. It's maybe things
that I do that keep me from feeling stressed
or overwhelmed. That's why I pay
attention to that here. And also things that bring
me joy and calm and peace. So our surroundings, our home
are very big part of that, which is why I decided
to make it and it'll house image for myself, kind of like a
visual aid for me, visual reminder of what it is. What do I want to
start with related to any improvements that I can make in my practical self-care. The more that we understand and reflect on what practical
self-care is for us personally, the more that we'll be able
to answer these questions. But it takes a little
bit of practice. I remember for me when I
first started delving into self-care and kind of it
was overwhelming for me. So that's why I
sort of put it into different categories for myself that made it very
clear and creating this craft page
needed even clear. That's why I'm inviting you today in case you
want to delve in to the physical aspects of
self-care and practical being, very much a part of that. What tiny habit can
I begin with today? Here's more like what do
I want to start with? Like maybe the goal or
my vision? Big picture? And here putting it down into a tiny little bite size
doable step for myself, that's the best way
to learn something new or to begin a habit. And my very favorite
question of all, why is this important
to my self-care? Once we understand what it is, then we can go deeper and ask it ourselves why it's important, or maybe how is it
related to our self-care? I think for each of us it's
going to be different. I'm going to place
it row numbers here. I have some more space for
more questions down the line. And here is where I will
answer these questions. You can either do that
online like this, or you can use the numbers, the same numbers
for the questions, the same numbers
for your answers. As you notice, I didn't
write down the numbers. That's because I want
to add a little fun, little more color and
maybe find some numbers. I might have some stickers or maybe some magazines
with numbers. Again, this is another way that you can personalize
it and have fun. I have a little book
here of stickers. So it's a little sticker block. It's got tons of
little shapes, nodes. It has some numbers, so I'm going to use these. You can just place
your little sticker. If you don't have a sticker, if you don't have
magazines to cut out, then of course feel
free to write it. Using a sticker even
kind of helps make It's easier to write. Just let the variety of
the colors, the textures. If you want, you can even keep going until you're
age is finished. I might add a few more so
that later down the line. I don't use them
for something else. That way I'll have
them for this project. There we have our funded or numbers page and our questions. For this side, you
can just write your numbers unless you
have more stickers. That will be fun as well. You can just add more of those. Bye for now and I'll see
you in the next class. Welcome back. This time today
we're going to fill up our little windows mix. You may have been
anxiously waiting for him. I would like to
fill this up with different aspects of my
practical self-care. Here we're going to maybe
understand and dive in. A little bit more into what
it means for us personally. I'm going to personalize
it for me, but of course, feel free to write or to think about what it
would mean for you. Maybe some of mine will
give you some ideas or bring something to mind that you would like to include
on your page. I'm going to start with my door because it's
the biggest one. Again, I'm going to take my
ballpoint pen so that it doesn't bleed through the
page on the other side. Here I'm going to write
on the little flap here. I'm going to write home. This is where I'll focus a little bit more about
my home in general. That's probably a
big one for me. Next year I'm going
to put office. I write it in and I just
underline it to make it clearer. I'm going to write
and be even more specific and write desk. These are all different aspects of my practical self-care. And so I'm putting
it down and it'll steps for one,
anything home related. So of course, this is all, it's all to do with my home. But you may have practical aspects may be
related to your work. But since I work from home, That's why I've
included it altogether. But if you have your work or your business or
maybe your studies, school outside of the house, you could use one of
those windows for that. That's why I've specified
it to my office. So maybe you are
working at an office, maybe you're working
in a factory, maybe a nursery or a kitchen or shop so you can write whatever would work
or your situation. I have lots of space just because I'm home
most of the time. Office desk and
I'm going to write one that says technology. So you might wonder
why this one, but I feel that it's
very practical because technology is such a big thing these days and we
use it for our work, we use it for Hobbes, we use it for home life, we use it for so many things. So I want to have
some little habits in place or little reminders in place to help put it into
perspective for myself care. These bigger windows
here I'm going to write, maybe I'll write it this way. Since there's more space
to doodle journal, I'm going to write habits. Little dot, swim. I'm going to write
wardrobe or closet. Here we're getting
very practical. As you can see, an ongoing really into the details of what it
could include from you. And here I will write
kitchen because I'm the main In the
kitchen in my home, I'm the main cook. Keep it clean. Even though we all
use the kitchen. We all eat in the kitchen, but it's my responsibility. I've used that most
of my home spaces where I do a lot of
my practical stuff. So here I'm going to
write what I want to focus on. Here. I want to write down, let go. Now that we wrote the
little type tools where we want to focus on for our
practical self-care. It can either take
another color pen. I might even choose red, and I'm going to write
inside more specific. Here we're going to get
a little bit deeper. And I'm really asking myself, how can I grow into this
practical self-care? First of all, how can
I understand it fully? How can I be mindful of it? Because I think that's
a big part to being able to improve or work or build habits or find joy in
it is by understanding it. Firstly, we don't have
very much space to write, but even if it's just
one thing for you, I think that's a good start. For example, in my office, something that I do to keep
my practical self-care and check is to do a five-minute
pay. So what is that? That's just I spend
five minutes or sometimes I even put on a song. I just pick up anything out of place and put it back
in place because sometimes I get
overloaded with work and my George's piles up with
stuff or my desk piles up. So at the end of the day, I tried to just
spend five minutes and pick up whatever is
not done in five minutes. It's okay. I'll leave
it for the next day, but at least I've done
a little part and it just feels bachelor going
back to it the next day. So that's a little practical
thing that I've found that works really well
for me in my office. Another one is. Go through my books
and art supplies. I have to do that pretty
regularly because it just seems to accumulate and I get more and more
without getting rid of stuff and it piles on and
my cupboards don't close, my drawers don't close. That's another one that keeps me also from stress and overwhelm and also gives me much
more clarity in my work. I need free spaces to
think and to be creative. So those are two little
examples of what I would do for my practical
self-care in my office. It is on my desk. I think the biggest
one would be to empty empty it before bed. Just so that the next morning
I come back and I'm clear, I'm fresh and I can just start
a new I'm sure I'll think of some more down the
line. Technology. What would really help
me in my self-care would be to unplug once in awhile or have no
phone no phones zone. For example, in the kitchen
or in the dining room. We it try not to have
phones that way we can ensure meals together as a
family without distractions. Another one, I would say, read a paper book rather than on the phone or a
Kindle book and use a timer. So these are very
simple little prompts. To remind myself of
some things I can do. Practically. I can't really
get into a big long sentence, but just a little
keyword is enough. I think we don't
like being nagged, but just one word is
good enough habits. I think one big habit is
having a morning routine. That really helps me
get going with the day. It gives me a good start
to the day if I had my morning routine done and I feel that I've
accomplished in thinking, I've taken care of myself because my morning
routine really does involve a lot of
my self-care habits, rituals, and it's
kind of like me time. My kids are grown up and
they are responsible. They handle their breakfast
and school homework. So I have the morning
to take care of myself before the day
starts, before work begins. Another one for me
would be Journal time. I think it has to do with practical self-care because
everything comes out on my journal pages
and sometimes very practical things as
practical things really affect us emotionally, mentally, physically as well. Our bodies are health, so giving myself this journal
time is a practical thing. I think another habit is
take the weekend off. So easy for me to just keep working because I worked from home and because I love my work, but I just need to shut
down for a little bit and breathe and think
of something different. Just have fun and play
with my kids and not do anything specific or with
a certain result in mind, and that's what I
do on the weekend. Maybe we go out as an
hour for an outing. I could include that. Go outside. Also electrical. It's also physical thing. Just going outside
helps me come back refreshed with a new
take on my work. Well, I have loads that
I can add to it later. Just wanted to do one
or two for each one. Just to give you an
example, in ideas. Wardrobe, I have quite
a few for this one, when I put on something
that I don't really like, I put it in a bag. I'm just going to
write code away. I enjoy. Feel great in. So I'll put it away for
a few months or a year. And if by next year, next season I haven't
missed it, get rid of it. I get rid of it if I haven't
missed it after one year. There's many, many more, but we want to have the time
to do all of it Kitchen. Think a big one is
to keep my counters cleared, neared and empty. That way. I love going
into my kitchen and I feel more inspired to cook
and prepare something nice. Another big one for
me is new dishes. Clean up. Before bed. I try not to leave anything out. Even if we have gas and
it's a late evening, I prefer doing it in the evening so that the next morning
I don't have a big, humongous pile of
dishes to clean, but of course this is
not for everybody. I know some people who prefer doing it in the
morning into them, It's enjoy doing
it in the morning. Personalize it to you. I focus on, for my
practical self-care, I focus on what brings me joy, calm, comfort, Posey feeling. What brings me clarity. Those things many, many more
which add to it later on. Then what do I let go of? I think I want to
let go of clutter. So I need to once in
awhile, the collector, which is probably what I'm going to add into my home here. Collector junk. I think I keep too much junk just because one
day I'll need it. So easy for an artist. I want to keep
those little papers and odd objects,
cardboard boxes, just because I might
have a project in mind later down the
line to use it for, but I find that I just
need to get rid of it. It take up too much space
and then leave me stressed. I let go of clutter,
junk, stress, mess because it leads
to frustration. And plenty of other things. Just helps me to write it down because it's
what I focus on. I can only focus
on these if I've let go of these on the y's, my mind is taken up
with too much at once. Home. I'm going to have a plan I want to have a
plan for de-cluttering. Often, whether it's once a week, I go through a drawer which is kind of
like what I had set in place for myself once a week. One shells or drawer space. So I put it in little
bite-size step for myself. I just go through it. I let go of things
that I don't need anymore that don't
serve me anymore. Because we all change, we evolve, our kids grow up, things go out of style, or we might change preferences
and things that we love. So it's helpful to do
it on a regular basis. At least I find that for me. Well, that was a little
bit more delving into our practical self-care. I hope that was a help
to give you some ideas of maybe things
that you can do in your home or in your
spaces to help give you a little more clarity
and solutions, a way to de-stress and to have more time for the
things that you love. In this next part of the class. We're going to be
putting it together. We're going to be In
our house. In our book. You have it all filled out. We have our little title here. And you just decide where
you want to place it, where it would fit best. You want to make sure
that the windows can open here even with acetyl
self-care flap. I think I'll put
mine right here. I have my glue stick. What I'm going to do
is just put glue on the sides. Right now. On the bottom. Glute ear. Here, you can just open it and makes sure
that the glues all nice and everything is gluing in place just
like you want it. Notice that this little sign here might need
to open this way. So I'm going to make it, give it a little fold. That when I open my
house in the way, the reason I didn't clue the house fully down is because I want a little flap here. Now you can use your
other little lined paper. I'm going to cut it to the
size that I need because I wanted to add a
little paper inside to write down something about
my practical self-care. Just so I hadn't really
clear in my mind what it is, what it means for me. And I might even add
in a quote, I want to. You can try it out. There we go. Just right. I'm going to give
it a pretty title. Very simple, practical self-care for me. You can write just a
quick little description of what it means to you
or what you think it is. Practical self-care for me
means having an organized, well-maintained, and
clutter-free work, business and home environment. That's the general part of it. And tasks that I
complete that fulfill core aspects of my life in order to prevent stressful situations, overwhelm frustrations
dot, dot, dot and y. Practical self-care. Because I want to feel joy and
I want to feel at my best. I went more time for the people and the
things that I love. I really feel it's
important to include the y. Because then I'm
more motivated to do these things
for my self-care. And for me. I might even
underlying these keywords. That's at the heart of
the practical self-care. We have. Our little addition is probably the most
important part of it. If you want, you can
even cut it out and fun, cool way, little
artsy, creative way. It's not perfect.
Come to pharma. There we go. And that's it for this
part of the class. I'll see you for
the very final one. For this next part of the class, It's going to be our
final little touches. We've done most of our
Journaling course. You can spend some
more time doing your answers to the questions. We've done, given
some ideas, listed, some ideas of what are
practical self-care is, we've even written it down
for us what it means and why. It's important to us. Now comes adding a
little extra decor. If you know me, I love to
add in a little touch of color and flowers
and extra d course, make it even more beautiful
and inviting to come back to. Now's when you can take your
little sticker pages or maybe your magazine
pictures or cutouts. I have a variety of things here. I have some pattern pages,
have these stickers. So I think I'll do
a little variety, maybe cut some out. These are a die cut, pre-cut. Like the word here, it says new home. Think that we can
almost make it like a new home if we pay attention to our
practical self-care. The time he just play around with where you want
to add something. Maybe on the door on
the outside here, or you could even have
it on the inside. Here's lots of variety of
colored papers with patterns. I'm going to see if
anything's sparks a little inspiration for me. My kind of like these flowers because they're the same
color as my house roof. I think I'm going to
choose this page. Do a few cutouts. Of course, if you
have some stickers, it would be a lot easier. You'd save this time. It's also a relaxing
time for me. Sort of reflective, mindful
time because I can keep paying attention to my
practical self-care. It's not time wasted either. Something I want to
remind you of for this activity and project, feel that you're wasting
your time by taking it. You are so important
and valuable. The more difficult it
is to make the time it's probably the most
necessary for you. I'm just going to
cut out the roses.
3. Physical Self-care Craft: Welcome to another course
of self-care crafts. Today, we will be focusing
on our physical self-care. So you can take your
self-care craft book as well as the printout page, if you would like. You'll find this one as an
attached file which you can use or you can make your own from other pictures
that you have. I've included the title, but you can also feel
free to write it yourself or maybe
to cut out letters, whatever suits your fancy. For this part, we're going to be starting with our little title. I'm going to take
the printout sheet and just cut this out for now. Just do a rough cut
around the edges. I'm not going to do it
perfectly to the edges yet. Because I would like to create a little booklet that
opens and closes. So I'm starting just with the rough cut to make it easier. Then you can take some regular white paper or you could also use some lined paper from
a Notepad or a notebook. That's what I'm going to do. I'm going to rip out a
page from my notebook. I kind of like the lines and the colors a little bit
different than white. I'm going to measure
with my title here. I'm going to again do a
rough cut three times. That way. I can have a little
booklet with three pages. Each time I just
add to it and cut. You can make as many
or as few as you want. I might even make a
force that as well. Physical self-care is a
big aspect of self-care. I feel that there's
so much to it. So that's the reason I'm
including lots of papers. And now you can take your glue. You can either use a stick
glue or you can also use white glue if you prefer. Before I blew it all down, I'm going to take my ruler
and do a little fold. That way. I know where to glue them. So I'll take it
to the edge here. I want to leave enough space
for the fold and the glue. I would say like half a
centimeter from the title here. And I've used my
nails or you can use your ruler to straighten
it, flattened it. That way we'll have an
easier time gluing it down and we'll know
exactly where to glue. I start with my first one and
I just glue this flag down. If it's not totally centered, you can move it easily
because it's stick glue. Then I'll do the next
one on the flap, the middle fold, and make sure it's centered
the next fold. Then again the next one. I'm not sure if this is
the easiest way to do it, but it works. And then the last one, What's nice is you
don't have to be so picky yet about where
you're gluing it. Because we haven't
done the final cuts. Exactly. Because we haven't done
the final cuts yet. It's going to be way easier now that it's all
glued in place. Now I can go ahead and cut around my title
around the edges. So you decide if you
want to leave some white or if you wanted
just all black. I'm leaving just a
very thin line of white just for a little
contrast on my brown paper. So it stands out here again. And I can also curve
them because we have enough booth to
keep it together. There you have your
little notepad title. For our physical self-care. For the next part of this class, I have a picture of a hand
and I'm going to cut it out. I found this picture
in a magazine. You could find something
similar if you wanted to, or you could even print one
out if you don't have one. And I liked this one because it matched exactly the shape, the size of my tight. It'll even without
planning it out, it is found that it
matched perfectly. I'm going to cut out the
hand as straight as I can, as perfectly as I can. Well, not perfect. I'm not going for perfection, but I'm not so into the blue behind because it's not going
with the color of my page. I'll see how best
I can cut it out. I'm sure you could find
something online and little hand or even a photo of
your hand into the shape. That you want. I would
just suggest a hand holding something and
if you don't have that, you don't need it, it's not a necessity. I just thought it would be a fun addition to my page shot. You could just have your title anywhere on the page as well. It would work just fine. To also cut the inside part. We don't need that. It's almost perfectly, I
have a little touch up here that I could maybe do
with marker in here as well. It's not perfect, but
it's okay because it's it's kind of
the cutout look. Another picture that we'll need is something related
to physical. So you can think about,
you can reflect, you can look at
your magazines or any cutout pictures
that you have, something that would
be meaningful to you on what physical
self-care is? I even had a difficult
time choosing one because I had quite
a few to pick from. I have this one. Then I found this one
from an old calendar. I feel that they both have some meaning to me on what physical
self-care is this one, she's taking care of her body. She's taking a bath or shower. And this one she's
taking time to relax. Maybe she's enjoying some sun, getting in some
vitamin D. So to me, those are both aspects
of physical self-care. I'm going to see which
one fits best on my page. Enough to put her
underneath a little bit. This one, I have more space. This part Really comes
with your preference and let yourself be
lead your heart. Maybe which one has
more meaning for you? Which one you feel would
fit best on your page. So I'm gonna start
by cutting it. Appear. I'm going to cut it like this first and then see how much space I
have to work with. Because I can also move
the hand up a little bit. You find a way to
make it fit for you. I'm going to draw a line
here so I know where to cut. Then I'll cut it out. I'm going to try to
keep the hand as far from the head as possible. I could also cut her
feet out a little bit. Maybe I'll do that so that
her head is not cut off. So again, I'm going
to draw a line. We have our main
pictures for our page. So you can go ahead and
choose something to hold your title or to
add to your title. Maybe you have a
pretty banner or something that could work as well if you don't find a hand. And then you have your main
picture for your self-care, something that is
meaningful to you and your personal self-care. For this next part of the class, you're going to need
your old newspaper or old book page with some
text if you'd like that. This is just for an, a little
touch of pattern and decor. It's not super important, but I liked the old look of it. You will need an envelope or some paper to make an envelope. I have here a very large one. So this is going to be big. But I like the texture of it. Again, it's not
just plain white. But if that's all you have, that will work fine as well. So I have here a sheet of paper, so it's a little bit textured and it's very strong and sturdy. I'm going to make
my own envelope. Since the other one
I had was to beak. I'm going to measure
in the center of my page in centimeters. I'm going to make my
rectangle, rectangular shape. It was ten by six. Make sure to center
is correct as well. Then I'm going to add
a little side thing on each part for the flaps
that I will glue. Then for the top. I'm going to measure the
center of that, which is five. Draw a line up here
and down here. For the top, I'm
going to make it straight from my corner
to the top of the line. For the bottom, I'm going to add another little flap
again for gluing. Then again to the
top of the line. I can just draw it here, doesn't have to be perfect. I want it centered and then
I will straighten it out. So hopefully this
will turn out okay. Just in case I'm going to cut a little bit extra
space than what I drew because I want enough space to be able
to glue it together. It helps to follow
an envelope design, which is what I did just to make sure I got it
right. So we'll see. Now I'm going to
fold it on my lines. So I start with the
bottom, the sides. I'm going to make sure they're cut all the way
to the edge here. Because I want them folded in. This one will be
over the top one. I can cut directly on the line. Because this one, we don't
need to glue it anywhere. If it's not exactly centered, you can always trim
this part a little bit. You can always give it a
little curve if you want. A little envelope
is coming together. Now we're ready to blue it. For gluing, you'll
just need to put glue on these little side
flaps on the bottom. That's all. Which makes it nice and easy. I'm also going to erase
the lines that I have. They're not needed anymore. Looks better without
the lines two. Then I can fold the top part. I'm taking my ruler just
to have a straight fold. Start with making
sure it's centered. If it's not totally centered, you could always trim it. There. We have our little envelope. Now we can check out and see
how it fits into our book. A habit behind the hand,
behind the fingers. Hey, it's starting to take shape and it opens
just perfectly. So if you had your
measurements correct, then there should be
no problem at all. Now for my little old paper, you'd have to see if
this fits or not. You decide if it fits
with your style. I might just add
very little piece, old paper right here. So old that it just
rips when I draw on it. Going to cut it and see how it works underneath the hand
and over this picture, what I like about
it is that you kind of blends the colors together. I have some light Spanish here. My envelope is beige as well, so it kind of brings it on both sides of the page since
we already have gray here, black here, skin
color, peach here. So it brings this, these two colors
together somehow rather than everything
a different color. So now that we have everything laid out in place how he wanted, we're ready to glue it down. But before I do that, I have one more little
step I'd like to do. I'm going to take my picture. I'm going to cut a
little slit on it. So I have my very
thick cardboard here to protect my
book and my table. Because I'm going to use
a cutter to cut a slit into the picture so you can
do this if you want to. You don't have to. I wanted to make an
extra little pocket, so I'm going to just
do a little cut here all the way until her feet. So as you can see, there's a little cut That
was quick and easy. Now we're ready to
glue everything down. So I'm going to start by gluing this girl down first because. She's going to be on
the bottom of the page. So I make sure to
glue all the sides. Add glue on all the sides. I'm just not going to
put any in the middle. It's going to be slipped. It's going to be like
a little pocket and I had it around here, I think. Then this page was next. Because it's so sensitive, I'm going to put the
glue on my book instead. It's so delicate because it's
such a full piece of paper. I can glue. I'm going to see where
my hand goes and the envelope down because it
goes underneath the hand. Around one centimeter from
each side of my page. For the envelope, I'm
going to put glue all over so that it's
nice and strong, especially because I'm going
to be filling it with stuff. Make sure I have it right
in place, straight. So you can already congratulate
yourself because you learned how to make an
envelope new Pixel, a beautiful pictures
for your page so far. Now I'm going to glue
the fingers down. I liked this hand too because
it also pictures for me. It also made me think of physical self-care
because feeling physical, lot of it has to
do with our hands, taking care of ourselves, keeping healthy, keeping
ourselves beautiful. Then I can glue this
little titled down, which is our little book. It's okay if it goes
on top of the envelope because we're not going to be
moving it around anywhere. I like to include
loads of little spaces for little journal prompts
in my craft pages, which is why I added lots of
pages to this part as well. There we have the main
part of our page. So it's really starting
to take shape already. We haven't really
delved into yet what physical self-care
means or what it is, though I think that it's
different for all of us. There's a time. This is a space and part
of the class that you can reflect and you can personalize it to you and what it
would mean for you. For me, when I think
about physical self-care, I think of activities
or rituals, maybe habits that improved my well-being in my
physical health. It can mean a lot of
different things. Like the picture shows
taking some time alone, taking some time outside, getting some sunshine,
some vitamin D, even a little
detail like wearing sunglasses to protect my eyes. She's wearing some nail polish that could be a little sign of self-care because it
makes, Is feel beautiful. Wearing something that we love, sitting on a comfortable seat, maybe watching a
beautiful sunset, sitting in front of
a beautiful view. Anyway, I'm just thinking
about this picture here, but this is the part
that we're going to have fun filling
up our envelope. So you can be already thinking, what is physical
self-care for you? So I've made a little list. I have my little
self-care journal here and I listed physical
self-care and I started writing a list of what
it means for me that might be helpful for you
and give you some ideas. If you want, you
can pause the video and do that even now. And if you already know what it is or maybe you
have a few ideas, then please continue
with me here. As I mentioned before, there is a page that you can download that goes
along with this class. And here I've included just a few little
examples of things that I've drawn that I want to
include in my envelope. So we'll start off with those. You can go ahead and
start cutting those out. To me. Physical self-care
means taking care of my body, washing there, maybe with a shampoo that
is good for my hair. That would be something that
I conclude into my infinite. In other one is taking
care of my face, making sure I take
out my makeup. Maybe putting some cleanser, some lotion or cream night, maybe getting myself
some anti-aging cream. So all those little details are part of physical self-care and they all make a difference. So I'm going to be
putting in here are some of the things that
I do for myself care. Of them, I would
like to improve it. It's not that I do everything. I wanted to serve as a
gentle little reminder for myself of something that
I can work towards. Even a little detail like
putting on some makeup in the morning helps me feel
really good in confident. I don't put a lot. I don't have fancy makeup, but it's a little
detail that makes me feel physically great. The other one is having clothes, wearing clothes that I know
of that are comfortable, that suits my style, the right color, so that I don't go into
my closet and think, what do I have to wear? I have nothing to air. So it's really finding those
clothes that suit me well, that fit my body
shape, my body size. That other one is taking a bath. I don't get to do
this very often. Maybe I just don't take the
time to do this very often. This is something that
I would like to do. Maybe add some nice soaps
or send some nice oils, relaxing oils, I think
I could enjoy that. Other one is moving my body, staying physically, it fits. So you decide what
is right for you. It might meet dancing. If I want to have
fun and just play, but still move around, get some exercise, I'll put
on some music and dance. Maybe. I'll do a workout
video with my gym ball. These are just a few. You can include these
or any of these. You don't have to
include them all. Now, we're going to also
choose some magazine pictures. So I had this one, since I'm not using
it for the cover, I could even add
it to my envelope. I've also gone to my
magazines and old books, old newspapers for anything
else that would spark something related to
my physical self-care. I'm going to go through
those with you just to give you some other
examples and ideas. I have here a little tube. So for me, it's, it could be related to putting
some cream on my dry legs. That's why I cut this one out. This girl is putting
some makeup on, maybe some blush to
cut out the words. I love, including any and
as many pictures as I possibly can because
to me a picture, It's, a picture says so
much even more than words. It's more like a
little encouragement and reminder rather
than a sermon. That's the fun,
crafty part of this. Oh, here I have a
beautiful bathtub and I love the color yellow. I might include this one
instead of my other bathtub. So you can compare
with the pictures that you had in the pictures
that you cut out before. So I'm going to leave this one out and maybe use
this one instead. This is loads more fun. I'm going to measure, make sure it fits
in my envelope. That's what's fun about
these magazine pictures too. The ad a little bit of color, little bit more style. I love reading a good book. I think that's also good for my. It might not fit so well
with physical self-care. But the reason I
included it here, I would I would
think it would be more under mental self-care. Maybe. The reason
I added here is because I love reading
books about health, about my body, about style, about fitness, related
to physical health. And it's kind of
helps me to learn new things and make progress
in different areas. This one, it looks like
they're playing outside, definitely outside
time nature time, nature exercise as part
of physical self-care. There's some French words they're gonna see if
it fits into my box. Not I will just cut it out. Let me into my envelope. To that they're
doing it together. I loved going for a
walk with my husband, makes it all the more
special and I think it's more motivating to do
it with somebody else. I also have a day a week that I go for a walk with a friend. Here I have some
beautiful grapes. This reminds me about
eating healthy. What's so nice about this
project is you can add to it. You can change them around depending on what
you want to work on, depending on your priorities,
doesn't quite fit. So I'm going to this leaf. Then I loved to take them out. And whenever I
look at this page, I refer back to them. It's like, oh, how am
I doing with this one? I can ask myself, how does this one make me feel? I feel this one is
still important for me or exists a priority. Oh, yes, I wanted
to take a bath. I forgot about that. So just little
reminders like that really makes a big
difference here. This one is to remind me
to drink lots of water. That's a very important
one for my self-care. I tend to enjoy coffee and T's, but I often forget
about drinking water. This is something
I want to work on. I have a clock here. I'm wondering why I
included a clock. This clock can mean many things. I think it's mainly just
taking the time off, taking the time
for these things. Realizing that time for
me is not time wasted, this physical self-care is an important thing and something that I can
add to my schedule. I love going back
to these because each time I think of
something different. Here are some pencils. I kept this one because
doing some type of art or creative activity is very physical and I think really
benefits me and my self-care. Some shoes I loved pretty
shoes doesn't just help me build a little
bit more confidence or be a little bit taller. But I think I feel more elegant. I feel more beautiful
when I wear nice shoes. Here's an apple could be related to eating
a healthy as well. Cup of coffee? Yes, this is physical and this is my
special little treat. Definitely include this
into my physical self-care. I have one in the morning
and one in the afternoon, but it's such a little
tree to because it's also the time I have some gratitude time in the
morning and the afternoon. It's a time I just take for myself to be quiet
and to be still. This cologne maybe. Putting on a touch of Cologne
makes me feel beautiful. And it's another form of
physical self-care as well. Some of these are bigger, some are very little details, but it's also important. Here's a little girl reading
charity, have a book, but the little girl,
maybe it's me. Letting myself dream and wish. Just like a little
girl, snow boundaries. There's no worries,
no anxieties. To just enjoys the moment. This is a picture of a ship. Yes, I love going to new
places, exploring new horizons. So I'm still looking
forward to that. I've done a lot of
traveling as a child, but I'm looking forward to more traveling with my husband, maybe went to kids, grew up. Here's another one,
something art. See, my new thing
has been to paint, so I cut this one out. It's it's a new hobby of
mine and it's so relaxing. It's not just coloring,
using colors, but it's something
I've never done before, which is painting. So things just trying
something new, challenging myself is also
part of physical self-care. Here, little notebooks. I think I'm going to add
this little notebook here, notepad because being organize, staying organized, either having little planner or a little
notebook or middle journal. It's also very physical
and helps in my self-care. As you can see, there are
loads of little ideas, states that mean
physical self-care is again, are just a few. So this is the part that you
really want to personalize about what this physical
self-care mean for you. I'm going to see how they
fit into my infinite loop, this net, it'll pile. We get to place them
in the envelope. Little examples that'll rituals, that'll habits,
physical self-care, yours don't all fit. Then you can even choose the ones that you
would like to focus on first or focus on at the moment. One is too big, so I'm
going to cut this part. Here we go. I think I'll have fun changing
them around as well because time goes by
NIH evolve, I mature. Maybe some reminders I don't
need anymore because I've learned and improved in them. And then we can
close our envelope. You fit in as many as you
want or as few as you want. For this next part
of the course, you will need some
fun that'll sticker pages or some cut out
pictures from magazines. Whatever you have on hand. Maybe you could draw some
or create some on your own. You could print some
out and color them. So this is just to add
a fun touch of decor, little bit more
color to our page. I've already gone ahead
and glue the couple. I wanted to give this a try. I took the sun hat from here and the little cup
of cold drink. It was hard for me to
decide what to choose from all these beautiful
pictures and stickers. But I'm trying to find
something that ties along with physical self-care and
is meaningful for me. It made me think of this girl, she needs a sun hat and this delicious pink drink would be the cherry
on top of the cake. And I'm looking around
what else inspires or sparks a little joy
for me, for my page. Here's a little boat and
I thought this could tie. And along with my little
adventure excitement, travel side of me that lead
us to experience new things. Which is also great for
my physical self-care. I'm going to see
where to place that. Maybe over here. Then I for sure I wanted to add some beautiful
flowers and leaves. Maybe this popsicle to
something to drink, something to do, something to protect herself with
missing something to eat. I'm going to just trim the
edges a little bit again. Maybe I'll put it right
here along with the dream. Now I'm going to look for some flowers and love these
beautiful flowers here. Little touch of summer. I'm creating this page
in the middle of winter. But for some reason I'm wishing and dreaming
of a warm summer day, at least this page is
making me feel that way. This morning and my
little journal time, I took some time to think about all the special things set
winter brings for myself care. There was plenty of them. I think each season
has something special. Some of the things I enjoy
most of this time of year is warm blankets, my fluffy blankets,
fluffy sweaters. Cuddles from my fluffy cat. Hot drinks, hot soups, hot water bottle, cozy candles, cozy fireplace or
all those things. I don't think I enjoy them
as much or appreciate them as much in the summer
as I do in winter. So I am really grateful for a little touch
of winter to my days. It brings coziness,
comfort, and joy. Every season I think has
their beauty and their charm. I'm appreciating
all of it already. It's looking sort of artsy now. Maybe I could add in
a couple of leaves or some green one here. You play around and see
how you would enjoy, where you would
enjoy putting them. This part is loads of fun. I'm going to add in
this little oil. This could be a nice
scented oil for my body as I take a bath, or maybe some healthy
olive oil for my salad. These little touches
of physical self-care, I can add to my page, not only to make it colorful and pretty, but also meaningful. I have another little leaf here, maybe adding some more green. I'm going to take off a
little bit of the white. And maybe one last
little flower. I don't want it to
overwhelm it either. I have a hard time stopping once I start decorating my package. I wanted to keep some of my
stickers for other pages. And I also want to
leave a little bit of space and breathing
room on my page. There we have all our
pretty little d course. In this part of the class. We're going to add in some little journal
prompts as we take a little time to
reflect and what it means for us
physical self-care. We've already determined
what we can do for our physical self-care by adding all these
little pictures here. I'm going to add a little bit
of text to say what it is. I have a little piece of
cardboard, a little scrap, so I could either
use my white side, like the pink as well. I'm going to cut a
little strip for my envelope to use
as a little title. I could place it right here, or even here, or even
sideways if I wanted to. I'm going to write the words. Because it reminds me that these are some things that I can do for my physical care. I asked myself what can I do? It's in that envelope. And I'm going to make
a nice little flag to tie along with my look, summer vibes,
little party facts. It just like it really
clear on my page. I can refer back to
it when I need to, as it gives me some ideas. To continue on with
our pink paper. I'm going to write physical, I'm going to add here self-care. Actually, I could
either write it on this paper or if you
have the printout, you also have the words
written self-care. I'm going to cut that out
and see if it can fit somewhere unless it's a little
bit too big for my page. So once I cut it out, I'll probably be able to tell
There's some room for it. And if not, I'll just write
it myself on a smaller paper. I don't really want it to
cover my pictures so much, but either I could do that, added here even on top of
the hat would be okay. Or I could also make
it as two words. If it fits better. I think I like it that way. Doesn't hide too much of my hat. And it's okay if it goes
underneath the little bit. That way it makes it very clear
what our pages all about. If I want to bring another
little touch of pink, I would go ahead and cut
a little piece again. This is just a scrap
from my sticker pages. I use up every little scrap. I don't like to waste. And also, it's a
pretty little pattern. I could even add a
little piece here. If I wanted to. Maybe four little quote, gonna have loads of
pink on our page. One more thing is
we're going to add a little piece here
to fit into our slit. I didn't. I forgot that
when I made the hat. So either you can just
have a smaller slit here or you can make a little
slit in the hat as well. I'm going to cut and preserve as much of this paper as I can. I can just include my
little slit like this. I wanted to I'm going to even
give it a little handle. I'm just taking that
extra piece that I cut and I'm going to glue it. Showing the white part. Maybe. Now when I have my little slit, shows it's easier to come out, shows that it's something
to be pulled in. I can have my little title here. There's loads of fun
little additions you can do to add some creativity to your craft page using just very simple little
things or scraps. Or now I might give
this a title here, as well as some little themes, topics for my journaling. Here. For here I'm just going
to write a little quote, alright, coat on my title. For here. I'm going to use a ballpoint pen so that it doesn't go through
the other side. Here, going to write as a
little journal prompts. How do I do it? I'm going to underline little. I'm going to think about
the different ways that I am able to fit in or schedule or plan some of these self-care little
rituals for myself, for my physical self-care. Because it can be a challenge, especially with our busy lives. But having it written
down on paper not only helps to keep me
motivated and challenge, but also finding solutions
in ways I can do it. And also even manifesting this time for me helps
it to become a reality. So I'm going to give a
couple of pages for that. Here. I'm going to
have a couple of pages for maybe I'm going
to include it fits. How does it make me feel? You know, I like to include that as a little booster, again, motivator for myself and gentle reminder of
the importance of it benefits and how
does it make me feel? I have again, lots
of space for that. We're almost done
and for celebrating. I've even added a
little touch up decor to my space, to my table. Maybe some of these things
bring you inspiration and joy, and that's what it does for me. This is the part that we will delve a little deeper into
our physical self-care and well-being by answering some of these questions
for ourselves. For this part, you will
just need your pen and attentive mind
and open heart. Ready to write down those
things that you feel and that are personalized
Just to you. I'll include some of
the things that I think about as I go through
this process. How do I do it? I'm thinking about
all the ways that I'm practicing with my physical
self-care at the moment. And then after I can
even move on to some of the things I would like
to do or improving. Focus on the little
things one at a time. That way I don't put
too much pressure on myself and I don't
get overwhelmed, which would be counterproductive to my physical well-being. So in light of that one, I do little
five-minute intervals. Which means I do little
five minutes of rest, maybe five-minute coffee time, five-minutes nap, five-minute
pickup and declutter. I find that five-minutes is doable and it's not
asking for too much. So that's how I like
to start again, focusing on the little things and the little times
that I do have. I might not have a whole hour
or whole big chunk of time, so I take advantage and I appreciate those little minutes. Also, it really helps me is
having and It's sticking to morning and evening
routine listing those. So I have them listed, which is a big help to
help remind me, listed. Just going to put a
little piece of cardboard so I can write on this part. Here. I'm going to write
building new habits. Again. This is one at a time. And sticking with
very small progress, small habits, tiny
steps, I would write. Time. Something that also really helps me is little rituals for myself. So I call them little
rituals that'll practices are little routines which helped me to check in with myself about these different
areas of self-care. Be check-ins. I do that with my journaling. Reflection, meditation. Even though these might
not be very physical, they might be more mindful, the emotional that
they have a big effect on my physical while they really tie in together because if I haven't taken
care of my physical, then I don't really
have the time to get to the mental part, the emotional part
of my self-care, even taking time
to stop, to relax. Another one that I find
that really helps me is to invite my daughter along. Because together we do workouts. Because at the
same time it's not just me taking the
time for myself, but it's also time
bonding with her. I feel that I'm doing
two things at once. That's not why I do it. It's also because I
enjoy my time with her. So we might do workouts, we do art activities,
art creativity. We might even do
our nails together. We do each other's hair, saw, that is physical
aspects taken care. We'll even do our legs together, even do cooking together. There's loads of things. And I find that it not only helps having that
bonding time together, but it also works as a motivation when you do
it with somebody else, we're both learning and growing in taking
care of ourselves. Then when it comes to exercise, I get to do it with my
husband. Once a week. I do it with a friend. Inviting somebody along
also really helps. Not only keeping
the habit of it, but also makes it even
more fun in special. Another one is probably
putting it on my calendar. If there's something
that I want to focus on, maybe that's not a habit yet. I put it on my calendar
schedule to-do list. That really helps me. I think those are a few
of the ways that I do it and that I am able to get to it. I have some other space that I can even add to it as I go. As I think of things. I'm sure there's more that
I can include later on. Benefits. How does it make me feel? So again, take the time
to pause, to listen, to reflect, and to find
these answers for you. One for me, it makes me feel
I'm worthy. I'm valued. This time is important. Because I'm important. Always be reminded of
that so that it doesn't feel like a selfish
thing because it's not, you're taking care of
yourself in order to be a better version
of you for others. We can only take
care of others as we have taken care of ourselves. So that's a huge lesson
that I've learned. That I'm still
learning every day. I get tested with every day. It's a challenge. It's difficult, but I keep
telling you it to myself. That's why that's
probably one of the first ones I went
to include there. Another benefit I think
is I feel more beautiful. I take a little bit more
time to dress nicely, pick out my clothes. What makes me feel good. And even more useful. By taking care of my hair, making hairstyle that
is fitting to me. Maybe putting on some
anti-aging cream even though it might not
make a big difference, but just the fact that I've
done it and taking time for myself to do that helps
me feel more youthful. I feel more energized, especially when I take
the time to in exercise, to walk, to move. All those things helped
me feel energized. I definitely feel healthy. I think this would be
especially from good food. And enjoying my food. Even taking my vitamins. I feel relaxed, especially
when I sleep well taken now, I don't usually do
that, but we've been. A little rest throughout the
day when I'm feeling a low. Maybe a bath helps
me feel relaxed. Even reading a good book. I just include a
few little things that helped me feel that way. Joyful. Definitely, I feel joyful
when I do some baking. My daughter or some creating. Those are very physical
things as well. Painting, drawing, all those artsy creative
things stopped dot, dot because there's
loads more I enjoy. Think another one. It gives me a boost. Boost of energy, a boost of inspiration, boost of clarity. Because all that's physical well-being affects my
mental well-being. They get new ideas in my work, all effects each other. Another one, I feel liberated. I feel free to do what I love, to let go of things that
no longer serve me. This could be in a physical way, could also be in a mental way, emotional way that I'm
thinking of to do what I love. I'm thinking of those hobbies. I enjoy taking, relaxing
time, new adventures, new things to explore, letting go of things
that no longer serve me. I kind of see it as either
maybe little habits or rituals that I've done
just because I've done it all my life where I
thought it was a good thing, but also to learn to question that because
that's also what makes me
4. Professional Self-care Craft: Welcome to the self-care course. Today, we're going to be
creating a craft page together alongside checking in and asking ourselves
different questions on the topic of
professional self-care. To get started, you will need your craft book or just a
craft page if you prefer. I have here my book. You may think, what is
professional self-care? Feel that professional
self-care for me is anything related
to my work-life, which could include practicing
self-care while at work or adopting self-care practices that lead to a
healthy work-life. Finding, balance, fulfillment, joy in my
work, all that stuff. This is one of the
self-care aspects that we may ignore some times or maybe not feel that it's even part or related
to our self-care. But since work is in such
a big part of our lives, and it does affect
big-time, our well-being. I felt that it was
very important, especially when it comes to practicing and
learning to reduce stress regarding our careers and finding joy in our work,
in our environment. That's why I've
included it as part of this physical
self-care course. I have here some pictures
from magazines, from a book. And I just collect pictures whenever I see some
that spark joy to me. I've put aside here are some
that are maybe related, could be related to work. I have loads to choose from. So I'm going to see
how it turns out. But as you can see, some are related to creativity, to some of the
things that I love. I also have this print out that I've made
available for you, which you can find on here
along with my course. For this craft page, instead of finding
one big picture that would take up
a lot of space, I've decided to go with
a few little ones. So I'm going to be cutting
those out and see how it goes. I feel that this clock
is meaningful for me. Since work is very much
so related in time. I like these old computers. I think there's something
about work in there, whether it's communications,
e-mails, secretarial work. I feel that any aspect of work today includes some technology. So this is a picture I had a very old fashioned
computers and phones, but it's what I had and
it's what I'll use. I have here a picture of a girl. I'm going to include that
because she looks happy, she looks joyful,
she looks peaceful. And that's something
that I really want related to my work life. I found this picture, these pictures of a little cars, looks like a little
pencil holder, but I enjoy it. I think this is bringing
out the fun of it. I'm doing this page personally
for me and my work. And since my work is creative, I'm an illustrator, I'm
an artist, I'm an author. So I'm going to do something
that ties in line with that. Encourage you again
to find the pictures that means the most for you. This is how you will
personalize it. Now I'm taking leftover
of this picture that I cut the clock
from and I'm going to rip out this old paper. I love adding a little
bit of different colors, textures, and I think
I'm just going to make a collage of all these
pictures together. For this page. Maybe it won't look
as tidy and clean as all my other pictures
and my other craft pages. But I'm just going with the flow and that's
what I encourage you to do. That's what I feel is right for me today, for my self-care. I'm going to cut a little piece here and just add
it to that name. I don't know who it is if
it's anything important. But I'm just going
to cover it in case it's somebody that
doesn't want to be known. Here's another one of the
pictures I've collected, and it's a cover of a notebook. I loved the colors of it, so I might just include that on my page as
a notebook cover. I also have lined
paper notebook. I'm going to rip out
a page for that. To create my little
notebook out of this cover. I'm just taking it and measuring it to the size that I need. Just drawing it over like
this is working for me. Then I'm going to cut it. I think I'm going to include four pages in my
little notebook. But feel free to
add in how many you feel would be right for you. I didn't have any big plans yet besides the
pictures that I chose. So I'm just following
my intuition. I'm going to glue my
paper in the back, especially seeing
that this little card already had something
in the back. That way I can use the back
for some journaling prompts, for some reflection
and checking in. I'm going to fold it. That way I have a
double-page to work with. I'll cut it out like this. And I'm going to make my second
fold and my second page. Glue those two together just
by putting glue on one side, making sure they fit
exactly together. So here we are creating a
little book if you want, you could just make
a double page. It, I always like
to include lots of space for my reflections. Maybe I'm a little
long winded sometimes. But I love referring
back to these pages are so much meaning
so much value for me. In these pages. It's not just the art or the
beautiful pictures. It's also the words. I'm going to have fun and
just rip up the last page. It's going to kind
of tie in with the old look at the
rest of my pictures. I have some more
in this color was kind of a catalog page
for some notebooks. And I'm going to
add another little fun addition to my book. It's a little drawers set. I'm going to make out
of it a little pocket. I'm going to add
glue 23 sides of it. Fluid right here on
the back of the cover. Let's test it out and
see if it would fit a nice piece of paper without
glue in the wrong place. I have a different lined paper. It's a little different color. For variety and fun. I'm just measuring it to the
size of my little pocket, to the height that
I need it to be. I might cut this side. Now I'm going to fold it to that right width so that
it will fit in the pocket. Again, that way I can have
lots more space to write. And again, leaving
the little rip luck. Let's see how it fits. Perfect. I love these little pockets, these little notebooks, these
extra little additions. You don't even notice it
when you see the page. I think it's so much fun to
lift a flap to open a book. Well, we have our
little book all set. We have our pictures. I'm going to place them around on my page and see
how I would like. It ought to look. By the end, I might switch things around because
that's what I do. I'm trying things
out here and there. I don't think there's
any rhyme and reason to what goes where, except it needs to look good. Book needs to be able to open. Yes. And I don't want to
forget to add my title. That way. I know really clearly
when I opened my book, what this page is all about. As I do this page, there are little moments
that I take advantage to do some thinking
and reflection work. Even right now, as I
cut these letters, It's a great time
to do just that. Now I'm thinking of
ways that I care for my professional and
creative well-being. Also, most of all to see clearly the ways that I add
up paying attention to my self-care in this area. Maybe in the areas
that I can improve in. I would say for me. Some have been having
clear boundaries for myself to be reminded
that whatever I say, yes too, I'm saying
no to something else. To be very choosy. My decisions, I guess. Another one would be two, would be work to improve
or develop new skills. Maybe with taking courses
or listening to podcasts, or even reading a good
book on the subject. Because learning and growing is part of professional self-care. I feel that for me at least I would say that
staying organized, keeping his schedule
to-do list a planner, but still be flexible
and gentle with myself. The one question, my
motives, visions, goals, even my mission
and career paths. That's something I want
to do on a regular basis. And that I find very
beneficial and helpful. I think about also
what brings me the most fulfillment
and satisfaction. I asked myself so much, what do I enjoy? What do I love about
my work in my work? And that's what I focus on. That's what I put most
time and effort to. I also make sure I recharge
and take necessary breaks. I try my best not to
work on the weekends. When I need a vacation, I take it with no guilt. Also notice when things get too hectic or
stress, easy for me, you are when I get overwhelmed because that happens
very often for me. So I learned and I am sure I can improve in but
practicing with routines, rituals that allow for more calm and peace and
balance in my life. I also find a mentor
or support group, someone I can be accountable to. That is so vital, I think to my well-being
in this area. I also upgrade and
brighten up my workspace, give it a little make over with even simple things like adding flowers or changing the colors, are adding some extra lighting. Those are big hits for
me to help me work even more efficiently and
to bring inspiration. When things get out of
balance for me in my work, I take time to be
reminded of my y's, why am I doing this? Why did I choose this
area of professionalism, or why am I doing this path? What are my goals? So just going back to
the wise is really key to help keep me motivated
and help keep me inspired. I encourage you
to maybe jot down those ideas that work
for you in this area. I have an idea for this girl. I'm going to place
her on top of fluid, on top of a sheet of paper. Just because this paper
is very delicate, I want to make it make her a little bit
stronger and sturdier. I glue it just on the printing
paper and cut her out. It doesn't have to be perfect because there'll
be things over her as well. I think I'll place her
there right in the middle. Now would probably
be a good time to start gluing things down, especially since we have
so much on our page. I don't want things to
start coming out of place. Also, especially the
things in the back. I know exactly
where I want them. I can start making some decisions where
to place everything. If I wait too long, I change my mind. So I'm just going to glue
them down right away. Especially since we have so many details to
work with this time. Not just one main
picture related to one aspect of self-care
was hard for me to choose something
on the topic of professional self-care
because I think it's so varied for
different people and even, even just for me. Because in my work I do so
many different aspects. I do creative work, do some social work. I do some inspirational work. I do computer work,
communication work. It involves so many
different things, so many different people. Alright, I'm going to
place my book right here. I like it a little
bit to the side as well, not totally straight. This clock will probably need to put it underneath
my book so that my book can open This pencils and pens. Let's put it here. This will fit just good there. Now I can start gluing
down my letters as well. I'm putting the glue
down on the book. Just to go a little faster. I can put down two
letters at once. I want to do it fairly quickly
in case I need to glue them underneath something while the glue is still fresh
with my pictures. So pages slowly coming together. I'm showing you a little bit
of the techniques that I use to make a craft
page like this. For this, oh, I might even just cut around it for variety again. Not all square shape. I like some curved lines. That's when you can get
really crafty and let your wishes run free. For this one. Again, I want to create
something extra fun. I'm just going to cut a strip
of paper to the right size, to the right width. I'm going to make a little
accordion book because I want some more space for those journaling prompts and for my thoughts and feelings. I'm just folding my
paper back and forth, one side and then the other. I feel that anything to open and close to stretch is not
only fun, but it's, It's also, it adds to their creativity project as well as more textile
and sensory. And bringing so much benefit,
even subconsciously. It's helping me to relax, to find calm and moments for me. And this is all
part of self-care, especially when the
professional side of things can get in the way. And it'll time to have
fun to connect with ourselves to do
something that we like in something that we
enjoy is so rewarding. Just think of this as
your creative play. I'm just showing you
a few little ideas of things that I use and that
I create on my craft pages. But you do what you like, you do as you feel lead. I'm going to add a
black piece of paper. I like adding colors. And I'm going to
add something on that side that I can tuck
into the girl's head. I'm going to do go with
the RIP look again. Since this is Cardboard, extra sturdy, I'm going to place
it there since I only glued three
sides of the girl. Might need to rip it out
a little bit smaller. There, I think that fits great. And I have here
another little part of this page that had all these notebooks I'm using
every little bit of it. I don't like wasting. In anything, but also it just adds some extra
fun to my page. There's a little bit of color,
there's different lines. Going to have fun and put
it here behind my pens. While I'm at it. I'm going to cut
out these flowers. The color I'm going for, I guess for my page, a little bit of pinks and reds. And it fits perfectly since
we already have some of this texture from the
little notebook cover. As you noticed in the supplies, you can use magazine pictures, old books pictures, which
is what I'm using today. You can use some scrap papers you can find in stationary
stores or stickers, pop out, die cut pictures, even old cards if you
want to cut them out. So I think there's so
many possibilities to be brightening up and adding a little touch of
decor on your page, which is what I'm doing now. We have the main pictures. Here. I have some sticker papers like I had mentioned
that you can use. I have some notebooks here, which is again ties
with professional work, whether it's studying something,
researching something. So let's see where
could we place it? There's already so much
going on on my page, but it doesn't hurt
to put in some more. I like adding extra
little color. I'm definitely going to
add this paintbrush, this page set, because
that's my type of work, That's my line of
work creativity. Here's another little
sticker book I have. I'm looking anything
else that would fit nicely with color is
swan, this little stamp. I don't really need
more stuff on my page, but I'm just going
to add it for fun. I feel like a kid. I used to write letters
and then filled up my page or fill up
my card was stickers. Just have fun,
enjoy the process. Some more. I have another
part of this page. I like this flower. I think it could fit really nicely right next
to my notebook. I love the red
kind of coming out on different parts of my page. On the left side in the
middle with a notebook cover. And I just need something
on the right side. I feel these extra
little touches of decor. I kind of like the cherry
on top of the cake. And this is what makes
me want to come back to these pages over and over again. It's the beautiful colors
as the beautiful flowers. The other pictures
that I've chosen, it's what brings me meaning and value related to
the topic of my page. So don't ignore those feelings, those things that
make you happy. That's all part of self-care. I'm going to glue them
all down in place now so that they don't get lost. I remember where I want them one more to go. I like this one. The same one as the others, again, bringing out
some of the red. As we cut out all
these pictures. It's also a great time to be reflecting and that's
what I love about this project because we're
taking the time for ourselves. We're making the time to create something
beautiful and fun. But not only that, we're
creating like little toolkit for ourselves to refer
back to at a later date. Some of the things that I'm learning about
professional self-care. It's really paying
attention to what I need at the moment,
finding the balance. For me. I find that I really
have to leave work at work, especially because
I work from home. It's sometimes difficult
and a challenge too cut off from work because
it's right in my home. And that's where I
spend the rest of my day with my family. So I need to even make
improvements in that area. Work stays in my office
and then the rest of my home is for fun and
play and relaxation. Now we're ready to move on to, I have here again on the download sheet the
words that say self-care. Because we're focusing
on our self-care. I'm going to include that
somewhere on my page. I'm cutting it out. Maybe not square, but this time following the curves
at the letters, place it here on
top of the book. That way it also hides the
little title of that notebook. Instead, I have my own
self-care notebook, professional self-care. I'm personalizing what
I have to work with. Moving on to some of these journal prompts and questions that I went
to include in here. I have all these four
pages and I've here for questions that
I've put for myself. I think it will fit
perfect in there. I didn't even plan exactly
to have the four pages. But I did know that I had
these four questions. I just printed out these
with a black background. I think it will stand
out nice with contrast. And I'm going to glue maybe
went on each the page. Let's start out by this one. What do I love? What I love to do? And I'm going to fold it
with the crease of my book. Next one. Maybe
what I'm good at. I think if we start with
knowing those things, so it doesn't just grow our confidence or builds
me up in confidence, but I think it kind
of builds me up in so many other ways as
well that others need. This is also paying attention
to my surroundings, my neighborhood, my community, how I can give to others, whether it's related
to profession, I think it's related
to profession, not just in my work, maybe. What do my co-workers need wood? Does my boss need from me? Lastly, what pays? Well, maybe you never took the time to question
yourself in that I haven't. So that's why I'm including it here because
I think it's important. I want to thank I want to
know what I'm valued at. I feel that valuing
myself is very important. If we have some time to journal and add in and
fill up all these papers now, I have my gel white pen, which I like to use
once in awhile, especially on this black paper. I'm going to just write a little quote for myself as
a little gentle reminder. Start where I am. Use what I have
and do what I can. So this is a perfect
reminder for me of the possibilities for me. That's success. Because really
anybody can do that. I don't have to wait for the next thing or the
next job opportunity, or to feel I'm so
confident or to take this extra cores to have
this certification. I can start with what
I have right now. I've printed out, I've
typed up and print it out a few little prompts for myself. That way it will save me
a little bit of time. I think I'm going to glue
these questions here. These are just general
questions related to my professional well-being. I can include those for you too in case you're interested. I'm going to number them 123. That way I can answer
these questions. This little accordion book. So I'm making sure that
the folds are the same. Just so it opens and
closes easily and nicely. Here we go. I'm going to add the numbers so I know where I
can answer these questions. I think on this
side I'm going to place I'm going to
answer number one. Decide it's a little bit bigger. I'm going to answer question 23. Should be enough space. I'm just doing the
prep work here. Again, for these questions, I even jotted down
some little thoughts, actually even more
questions related to those big questions
to give me an idea. What I loved to do might
be a little bit too vague, too broad, too general. So I've included even
some more prompts, question prompts for myself, which I'm going to add here. I don't want it to
take up so much space. I'm just going to
put a piece of tape and that way I can
open and close it. Still have enough
place for my answers. Is I take the time to journal. Here's the next one. What am I good at? That's a difficult
one to ask yourself. I know it was for me, so just having these
little extra prompts to jot down my memory or maybe different
little ideas or cues, clues as a big help for me. Maybe some of the skills
I've developed at my job or business went knowledge I've
gained through the years. What do people say
I'm really good at or what they like about me, what comes naturally
and easily to me. Those are just a few ideas. Next one is what do others need? Again, I can ask my friends or family what they'd
like to learn from me. What are people's pain points? How could I simplify someone's life with
the work that I do? What do others talk about? What are other struggling with? I love working with people
and being a innovative. I think I'm sensitive
to that as well. What do people need and want? And I think that's an aspect of something I can
do in my work. The last one, what pays? Well, how much? How much do I want? So I can break it
down for myself. Be very detailed and specific. From what avenues,
from where had to successful look like to me my wishes for financial freedom, my goals, steps of actions. So those are just
a little few ideas of things that I could, ways I could answer this
question for myself. There we have all
our little r for questions and our
question prompts. Feel free to use
these or to personal, personalize them for
yourself and maybe include different questions
that would speak more to you regarding your work. I'm a creative, I'm an artist. I work from home, so this
might be more related to me. That's why I'm adding lots of things related to creativity, is what I'm going to include
in this little pocket here. Creativity at Work. So I'm not sure what I'm
going to place here yet, but whether it's creative ideas, creative goals, creative wishes, creative mindset or quotes LC, but I'm going to have fun. I have a string here that
I think I'm going to add. This little wonky thing
is driving me nuts. So I'm going to
do something too. It down in place. Let's see if glue works. Not sure. I'm taking the n, So it's good, it's going to help
it not unravel. Little bit more glue to it. I think I'll even add a piece of tape to make it extra strong. I just want something
to keep it closed. And also I think it's a fun
addition to my scrap page, adding a little tie in there. And this piece of
tape also looks good. One end will be on this side. I'm going to cut
it in the middle. However size I need. I think it's a bit too long. And I might place the other end. Let's see, either
under my book or under this little paint box sticker. It's sticky, but I think
I could lift it up a bit and add some glue
to make an extra sturdy and strong so
it can stay in place. I push it down. Firmly, give it a nice
little tie. There we go. Now it's not too
wonky and wobbly. Just trim it however you want to for these journal prompts. So either you can go ahead
and do them now with me, or you can do it at a
later time when you know that you'll have some quiet
time and extra time for you. How often I create the
page and then later on, I like to reflect, put on some quiet music and take the time to ask
myself these questions. This is where you get to
personalize it just for you. Really listened to your heart. This is true self-care. Self-care at its best, paying attention to you
because you're important, your answers are valuable. Your answers are key for you. Just you don't have to feel that you have to
perfect them in any way. Nobody else is going to
see this page, but you. So feel free to add in all those wishes and
specially what you love, whether you told anybody or not. This is the time to
tell yourself and to allow all these feelings,
all these thoughts. What am I good at? So review those little prompts
so that you can answer this honestly and fully. There is no right or wrong. This is solo time for you. I'm guessing that you're
willing to do that because you are
taking this course. You chose to take
this course for you. Maybe you have a job and you feel like
you need to change. You're looking into new ideas, new aspects, a new career, and you don't know
where to turn to. Or you're in-between jobs
or maybe you have a few. None of them make you
feel happy or fulfilled. Maybe you have a job
and it's just too much, too much work, too
much pressure. You're not able to find
the balance that you need. In all these cases to
take the time to check in for yourself with
or without a job. Because I think our
job is not just a job, it's at least for me, it's really where
my confidence lies. It shouldn't have to be, but I think it is, it's what I feel
that I'm good at. Wood. Others will see
that I'm good at. I have to find
that in the first. If I can validate myself, five fine confidence
in myself and others will see it as well. I didn't think I would end up writing so much under
what I'm good at. But I think once you
start to notice, once you pay attention and are sensitive to maybe
what others tell you. Maybe something reminds
you of something. What others need. Again, what are
those little prompts to help you find these answers? Refer back to them, and then check in
with your heart. Just right. The first
thing that comes to mind, you have more space on the side to personalize it
at a later date if you want to add to it. What's so nice is referring
back to this page later on. Maybe when you've changed
goal or changed career, you'll have something
to look back on to see how it helped
you down the line. Last one, I'm going to
do it at a later date. I guess that's a very
personal one related to your finances and what pays. I'll let you personal that, personalized that for yourself. Moving on to our
little accordion. These questions, why is it important to me that
I'm successful? I'm going to just put this
book down so that I can have a flat surface to
work on, to write on. I'm just letting myself
express it all in words as best as I can. It's not going to
come out perfect. It's not anything that
I'm going to polish up. It's just my thoughts, feelings. Yeah. I don't even know how to
answer this question. I like to challenge myself
sometimes with these prompts. That's why you find questions
that are even difficult. For myself that I've never
asked myself before. I think by doing these, by questioning myself in
these different areas. It's helping me to learn to express things to
people as well. I can talk more clearly to
my husband, to my friends, express some of
these feelings and emotions not related to this, but maybe related
to something else. I think it takes
practice and if we feel good and honest
with ourselves, I think it helps us to be
honest with others as well. What I thought was just
going to be one mine, I filled up the page now. I could probably add even
more to this dot, dot, dot. So question two, what
is holding me back? I guess what, from feeding successful or from
being successful? What do I want to
let go of? Use? If you've seen some
of my other courses, this is little journal prompt that I like to do very often. Because I feel that
it's so important to let go of those
negative feelings. Putting them on paper. I'm not ignoring them or distracting myself
with something else. I am accepting
them, all of them. That then I'm moving on to
what do I want to focus on? Which is the next question. My wishes plans, action steps, even dreams and goals. For my professional
self-care in general. There's so many things I could probably be right on this one. I'm just going to stay
very general, I guess. But you can go as
deep as you want, as personal as you want, as practical as you
want, or as emotionally. I think down the line
things will come to you. Like me. I come up with
different things every time. I look at this page, I think of other things I
went to include or add. That's the great thing about it. You can even add an
extra little paper or journal prompt for yourself or add something to
an existing pocket. For this one, I'm just going
to cover up the middle word that says notes because I'm going it to use it
for something else. I'm going to include some
affirmations for myself. I love telling myself these
things that I want to feel. Just imagining myself already
being where I want to be. Whether its goals, whether
it's growing in confidence, whether it's a
specific career path, whether it's a skill that
I want to be good at. This just helps me feel great. I remind myself of these. I read them over and over again. Looking at this page
before I start my work, I'm going to include lots
related to creativity again, because my work does involve
lots of creativity course, there's always the
technical aspects, the details that aren't so fun, that just have to be done. Any work has those side
of things as well. So I use these affirmations
as I started my work. I read them out. I remind myself of them
when I feel I need some extra motivation or I feel some tension or stress
building up for, I just need some more joy
and confidence in my work. So I grabbed my book and
I read a few of these and it just lights me up and
kind of lifts my load. Oops, I don't have enough space. And I want to cover the
back of this as well. Just by adding this paper, I have more space to write
some more affirmations. It helps me visualize
what I am doing, where I am improving and growing and what
I'm getting done. It reminds me when
I'm capable of. So now that I've added
some extra paper, I can continue on
with my affirmations. Words that I want to encourage
myself with words that I know will keep me motivated
in my work, in my creativity. Let this be really special
and personal for you. Maybe it's aspects
of creativity, maybe it's aspects
of learning to say no to finding joy in the
little things that you do. Maybe finding balance in
your work so that there's less stress and I have way
more space to add to this, which is the
wonderful part of it. Oh, and another biggie
that I can't forget, one that's extra fund is
celebrate, I celebrate. My winds, my little progress, even a tiny little
step of action towards some difficulty
or a new challenge, a new skill that I'm
learning or practicing with. I find that just treating
myself too little moment of celebration of
validating myself, even if it's with a
few affirmations or an extra special treat or snack. Those are little things
that make a big difference. So I encourage you
to do that as well. Find out what is your special tree for
celebrating your winds. All right, well,
there we have it. Our professional
self-care craft page. I hope that this was
released special and meaningful for you
and that you'll be able to refer
back to this page and really be encouraged
and motivated to continue in your
goals and wishes and taking care of yourself.
5. Social Self-care Craft: Hello, and welcome to another
self-care craft page. Today we're going to be diving in to the aspect of
social self-care. I invite you to get
your supplies ready. You'll need to start off with your water paints
sheet of paper. I have here an A4 size page. I have my watch, a little bit of paints. I just have some light beige
and a little light pink. Whatever colors you enjoy, what colors suit you. It can choose and
loads of water. We're going to start off
with kind of measuring our page in line
with our craft book. My craft book is sort
of a square shape. I'm going to take
my pencil and just draw a few random shapes. I'm just going to do a little bit of paint
making sure I use lots of water coin to start
with a little beige color. Just make some very
quick strokes. I'm going for the very rough
type of look for this. I'm starting off with
the painting because that way it gives
time for it to dry. I'm going to take it
a little bit of pink, so it's a slight pink color. Maybe this one as well. Very simple. Tiny little bit of color. Back to Beijing. For this one. I'm kind of letting the water
just go where it likes. In the end, I'm not even
sure how it's going to look when it's dry. That's okay. That's all part of it. I find that painting
is so relaxing. That's it. That was
very easy and quick. I'm going to put it aside
and just let it dry for now. While we move on to the
next part of our page. Now we can bring in
our craft book or if you have just a regular
notebook, that's fine too. The Craft page that I'm
going to be working on, I'm just going to
do one side of it. As you saw in the
supplies needed. We're going to need
to find a picture related to social self care. So you decide whatever
that means for you. You can go through books, old books or magazines
or newspapers. I found this picture from an old calendar that I
saved from a long time ago. I thought that this suited me
well for social self-care. I'm going to cut that out. You decide what you would like. Maybe can even be a photo
of you and a friend. It could be you doing a
fun activity together, doing something that you love. I love this. They're having a little
coffee tea time together. One sparked inspiration
for me related to my social self-care because I enjoy doing
that with my friends. I'm going to choose because this is the
picture I've found. I'm going to kind
of play around it with the rest of my page. So this is the main attraction
that I want for this page because it paints a picture
for me of social self-care. I'm also going to take a
piece, the page paper. If you don't have
another color page, you can also use
a color that you like or just regular
white paper. This is the one I'm
going to quiz for now. I'm going to cut
it out to the size of my picture plus
a little extra. I would like to leave a
little border around it. I'm using my ruler
to just draw a line. And then I'll cut that out. Just like to include
different colors, different textures
into my craft page. Kind of adds to the
craftiness of it, sparks my creativity as well. Now I'm going to include another little piece the
same size as my picture, just to make a fold that my
picture can open and close. And since this paper is
very strong and sturdy, It's kind of like cloth. Half paper, half class. But regular paper
will work fine too. I'm going to include
this behind it. I can already go ahead
and glue the hat. I'm putting glue on half of it. While I put my picture on top. Then I'll fold in
the other half. Add some glue to that. Down in the center of
my paper. There we go. Now we have a little opening. Know from my other courses, I loved to have
any open flaps to be able to include as many
things as I can onto my page. And social self-care is an important aspect
of self-care as well. Social self-care for me is anything related to
my connections with other people who are social
beings after all, aren't we? That's why prioritizing
some type of social activities is
important incident. But oftentimes life gets
in the way. I know. I get so busy and
overwhelmed with everyday things and this gets put on the back-burner
many times. But in the midst of my day, I'm continually
involved with others, whether it be in person
or by phone, by mail, online somehow for work
or recreational purposes. But I realized that by being intentional about each of these, I can probably improve my level of happiness and well-being. Also, not only paying attention to what I can bring
into my relationships, but checking in on the
effects they have on me, that's a really important one. Because some relationships
can be socially and mentally uplifting
and fulfilling, but others could be
draining and negative. So it's important to ask
yourself about each one. I've noticed as I've laid
that doing something intentional socially is
also part of my self-care. Taking part in certain
activities that nurture and deepened my
relationships is so vital. For example, having a support
group of friends and, or family members
that I can really trust and rely on
when I need help. All right, so moving on, now that we have
our main picture, we're going to
work on our title. In the list of supplies you saw that we needed some
cut-out letters. And we're going to spell
out the word social. I cut these out from old
newspapers or magazines. I'm just going to
cut them out with you here to the right size. They're all different fonts, all different shapes
and sizes, even colors. Well, black and beige. Before I glue my title down, I'm going to maybe add a little background to
the corner of my page, either on this side or this
side, I'm not sure yet. I have some pink
paper like this, so this is just a scrap
of wrapping paper. I'm going to cut a straight
line the side of my page. I could either put. This side, maybe I'll do that sign and I'm
going to rip the rest. I'm going to glue
that down already. Actually just glue
these two sides in case I want to use the middle part
for a little pocket. I'm not sure yet. I'll see how it goes. Sometimes I have things a
little bit more planned out. Other times, not at all. Today I had my letters ready
and I had my picture ready, but the rest, it's just, you just go as it leads
to go by inspiration. That's what's so fun
about these pages. My time to play
with my creativity. Now I'm going to decide
where to place my title. In case I wanted to use
this as a little flap. I'm going to just cut
out a little paper and put it in there so that I'm sure there's
enough space for it. See if I use it or not. Using cardboard. Just so that it's nice and firm. And I find that
if it's too thin, it wouldn't slide
in very easily. So we'll see, I'm
not sure if I'm going to keep the
scenario or not. But I like all these
little hidden pockets and flaps and little slips of paper coming out more space to journal and dig deep
into my self-care. Now I want to place to
write self-care somewhere. I'm taking just a
regular sheet of paper and I'm going
to write self-care. If you want. You can also use the printout that I
have made available. It's got these words
written on it. You don't feel so comfortable
to write your own. I'm just going to
check the size. You can also give it a
nice shape if you want. Either curved ends or a little ribbon like
shaped like this or flag. That's kind of fun. Then I'm going to trace it over
with my black pen. Here. I'm gonna give it an
extra little black side. We can stand out a little more. Course, feel free to use your favorite font,
your favorite writing. Then I'm going to
erase the pencil. Then I can glue it into place. Like it going a little
bit over the L like that. It's kind of fun. I'm going to glue this one down, but I'm going to just go down three sides because I'm going
to leave this part open. I'm gluing it more towards
the left side as far as possible that I can it
can still open and close. We go now I'm going
to use my ruler just to make sure that it's nice opening and sure you know why
there's this opening. I'm going to use it as a pocket. We have this little
thing that comes out. We have this that
opens up and we have a pocket underneath here. Now, opening this part up, I'm going to use
some leftover of this wrapping paper to make
another little pocket, like a little envelope. I'm going to make
it straight line. Let's measure. It's about 15 centimeters. I'm going to make it it's
like 11 centimeters. Want the nice part of the paper. I'm going to cut that out. But I love about these
pages is that there's so much art involved,
so much creativity. You use your hands, you're using your
Coordination Skills. You're using thought process. You're deciding where
you want to put things, how you want to put things
where you want to glue them, the shape, the size. So there's so much
involved in this. So first I loved the
artsy part of it. And then later on as you'll see, we'll dive into more of the maybe the mentor
aspect of it. Taking a little deeper. I was thinking to cut the
science off the corners. Just for fun and variety. Again, different shape. Now I'm going to glue the sides, just leave the top open so
that I can use it as a pocket. Do you know what, if you
would want this would be a wonderful activity to
actually share with a friend. You could create
your own craft page, social self-care craft
page, even together. And I'll have fun with that, be at least the
creating part of it. And then you can always on to the more reflecting part alone. During your journal time, your morning routine time,
didn't reflection time. Now, if you take
out your download the attachment page with all
the patterns for this page, you'll find three questions, three words, who, what, and how. These we're going to use for
our little pockets here. I'm going to cut them out. I'm going to leave the
bottom part so that I can glue it onto my paper. You should have your
three like this. They should fit quite nicely. Hopefully they'll fit well for you as well underneath here. Now you can either
take regular paper, again, regular white paper. If you wanted to, you could
use little notepad paper. So I have different scraps
of lined papers here. I might choose my
swimming or one. I'm going to glue little
white flap underneath. I find that it's easier to glue them first before
I cut them out. That way, I can make sure to cut them out to the exact
size that I need. Then I'm going to cut them
out to the right size. I liked the length of it. And I'm just going to
follow here the lines. I don't know how much of social self-care you've
been thinking about. It's definitely
something new for me. I've been growing and
practicing with as of late and relieve
questioning myself about. That's what I love
about these craft pages because it really gives
me time to do that. Not only to reflect as I'm
creating the page right now, I'm thinking about my friends. I'm thinking about who
I consider a friend, why I consider them a friend, what they bring to
our friendships. So there's and loads
of questions I could be thinking
about right now. That's why I've included
these little questions here. What and how. You can put them in whatever
order you would like. Here I have my little pocket
and I'm going to write, and it'll question here so
that I can add another little, another little journaling
paper and here. So I'm going to maybe choose this paper again for
a different look. Just going to measure. You can draw a line if you want to make sure that
it's extra strength. You can either use
regular paper, again, regular printing paper. I find it fun to use these little lines
papers for variety and also it helps me to
journal on a straight line. We have another little
pocket to fill. Now we're going to go back. Remember it the way beginning, we did our little painting page. I'm going to put my
book aside for now. I'm going to use my
black pen to draw over the little box and you
can use a ruler if you want. But I'm just going to use my hand because I like
the hand-drawn duck. Kind of like with our painting. We didn't do anything to
straight and perfect. So I'm following along that. I'm drawing little
picture frames. I'm sure you can tell. And to make some
just very simple, straightforward, I might, might make each one a little bit
different for fun. If it's corners. I like to use some of these little moments
to have flagged, to be mindful, especially related to the topic
that we're working on. So this is a great
opportunity for that as I'm just doodling and tracing
over these picture frames. I'm going to be
thinking a little bit more about my social self care. Social self-care encourages
me to maintain and be mindful of what is important and meaningful to me in
my relationships. For example, I recognize
in myself the desire for the more personal one-on-one
deep conversations rather than the big group
settings or Robert parties. They can be great and all for certain occasions or
maybe special days, birthdays, or end of the year. But it's not going to
feed me emotionally. At least not anymore, like maybe it did
when I was younger. Because we all change and evolve and It's self-care is paying attention to those changes and letting that
be okay as well. I think that social
Self-care is really about all my interactions
with others. Loads of different types of interactions throughout my day. But in this page seems I'm
just going with the flow here, but I'm delving a little bit
more into my friendships. Really personalize this to you. Maybe that's the
way you want to go or you want to make it a little broader for all your interactions
may be work-related, professional, or
family or friends. You can include them all. But as you'll notice,
as we do this page, it will be a bit more
specific to my friendships. I encourage you to do
what is right for you. In a moment. We're going to use these
little picture frames to add photos or drawings. You can draw them if you prefer. Our friends of our best friends. I've only made six
just because that's what's going to fit on my page. You could always
make them smaller if you wanted to include it all. Passport size photos are going to make my photos
a little bit bigger. I went to include just
really my best friends. If you wanted to, you could also use the patterns I've made for
you on the attached file. If you prefer, then
drawing itself, then it would go a
little bit quicker. You wouldn't have to draw them. You could just paint
over my drawings. If you want to draw
them yourself, then you can take
this time to do so. Now that we finished
drawing them, I'm going to just cut them out. You can either leave a
little white border line around each one or cut them straight on the
lines up to you. I encourage you to find a photo
for each of your friends. Again, if you don't
have some, like, I don't think I could find
one of each of my friends. Either I'll ask them for one or I'll take one with them
the next time I see them. I might just sketch
a picture of them. Feel free to do what you prefer. And also what you would like to do into those little
cues for yourself, because that's really
part of self-care to That's what I asked
myself continually. As I make these craft
pages came out. What color do I want to use? What picture? Sometimes I have a
really hard time deciding when that happens. I just asked me, okay, which one brings
me the most joy? Which one makes me smile? Depending on how
much time you have. This also maybe what
you'll choose to do. If you only have time, if it's easier for you
to print them out, it still takes a little
time to find the photos. Maybe that's quicker for you then to try to sketch
out your friends. I know if I try to sketch out my friends won't look
very much like them. Have to be sure to
include their names. But it's also fun. Part of the child
injured, part of the creative clay
of this activity. Now if you're trying to
think as I am as well, what friends would
you include here? If you're only
making six like me? That list six closest friends. I have loads of friends, but I'm going to
include the ones here that really make a
difference in my life. Those that really add something. Whether it's Friendship, Council, support,
encouragement, positivity. They're there when I need them. I know that I can
tell them anything. They're not going to judge
me. Look down on me. I tell different friends,
different things. Semi get really deep with I
might tell them everything, almost everything that
I tell my husband. I think my husband
is my best friend. I think that's a good thing. I have another friend and she'll understand maybe
some more women, the things that my husband doesn't have to get into
or getting involved with. But I'll also get very
deep with her and she's a real amazing support to
me emotionally as well, spiritually to I
really look up to her. As you're doing these, this is reflecting and relaxing. That's why you can be
mindfully thinking about what you want to include, who you would like to include. I haven't measured these
with my craft page, so I really hope they'll fit. Now I'm going to
take my craft book back and open this page. And this is where we're going to include little picture frames. Let's see. Now comes to deciding moment. How do I want to place them? It looks like I could have made them a little bit smaller. That's not gonna look so great. You can also, you can
also tighten them up. They can overlap like this. And I can include a tiny
little photo of them as well. I don't have to fill
up the whole thing. You play around and
depending on the shapes, sizes, colors, and you
decide what's fits better. I'm going to use a little bit of TAC to put each one
down on my paper. So I'll need six of them. Then I'm going to
use the same thing to include the photos. That way if I ever
want to change them around, move them around. Friendships change, you
evolve, you change. You won't feel bad
about it either. I'm just going to put
a little dab of that. Also because I think
I'm going to change my picture frame size
and make them a little smaller for the next time. But for now I'm just
going to use them. We have a pretty
crowded page there. It looks fun and artsy and cute. Just wanted to make sure
that it closes well. Next time I'll
make them a little bit smaller so they can sit and I can see the
full picture frame. But for now, this is okay. Now I'm going to take
my paper and I'm going to write down
some other words that I can think of about
friendship or another way. I just think this is fun too, and I'm going to maybe
included on my picture here. You could either print them out or you could write
them yourself. Different words that come to mind when I think of friendship. So the first one being friends, Another one would be companion. Maybe soulmate. Thinking about these
different words I can, thalamus, I can almost relate certain friends to
each one of them. Confident, somebody that
you can tell everything to. My support. Maybe a best friend, listening ear, maybe a playmate. Anyway, those are just a few. I'm going to cut
them out. Again. This is for you to personalize. These are some of the
words that I thought of, but maybe you can think
of different ones. Maybe you'd like to list
some words down unrelated to all your social networks
or connections, not just related to friends, which I have done here. That way you might have even broader look at your
social self care, ill-being. Some other words that come
to mind at the moment would be contact, intimacy, links, networking, connectivity,
bonds, relationships, groups, friendships,
things in common. Companionship, Associates. I'm sure there are
loads more that you could use and
personalize for you. Then you can see where
you want to glue them. If you wanted to, you could even put them all
around your picture. Going to try and cover some of the spots that I
want to get rid of. For example, this blue here. Depending on the
picture you have, YOU CAN them around or you
can even put them on top. If they're all around your
picture actually it kind of hides the fact that I picked
your frames are too big. So it could be a solution
for you as well. Now the next part for
this craft page is adding a little bit more
color and fun is when you want to take maybe some stick accrues or
magazines or crafts, cutouts or old cards. There's a card book. I could choose
something from there. I have a piece of paper with some flowers that
I could cut out. I have some little hearts
here that I could pop out. I have some other ones. So I'm going to just look at what I have and see if
there's something that sparks something
enjoyable and fun for my page. It's so fun. Best friends here. I hadn't noticed that before. You'd have fun little
pages like this. I find that it's so useful
and it saves me time as well. Although it's just extra, I wouldn't probably add
them if I didn't have them. Maybe these roses could be
fun to include somewhere. So I'm going to just cut them
out and see how it looks. Sometimes I find that
if some pictures have really thin lines like
this, like the stem, just going to cut it
out and I can draw it after it would
be a lot easier. I could either have the
puppies there or not. I could also go
with just flowers. If something like that. I'm thinking I'm going to start gluing on all these
flowers down. For this one, I decided to put
it on this piece of paper. I can pull it in and out easily. Maybe I'm going to use a
few of these little hearts. Again, anything that
brings meaning related to friendships, social
social, self-care. I took it to mean friendships. But there are also
different social circles. You might have some
social circles related more to your work. To me, it's still kind of
related to friendship for me. I feel that we have to
be related to work. We have to be close in some way to be
able to work together well. Whether it's being
a listening ear, being a support,
help encouragement. Because there's times when it
all have our ups and downs. So even if we're not super close as in telling each
other everything, we did our final touches. That's one of my favorite parts. I'd love that. Now, our pages really
looking quite full. Now we're ready to
move on to some more of the reflection time. Maybe filling up our page with some of these line pages with some prompts related to our social, self-care
and well-being. This is really a time
to check in and to personalize what it
would mean for you. I'm going to take my pen, maybe an ink pen or a
ballpoint pen on here. I would like to add ways, ways to know I
have good friends. Just like being clear on some of these things and taking the time to stop and write about them
is so beneficial as well. It gives me time to think about some things that I maybe
never questioned before. This is a time to
personalize it. I'm just going to
write a few examples of things that come to mind. These are just a few
that I thought of. They make me feel included. Our friendship is equally
important to both of us. My biggest cheerleaders, they genuinely want
the best for me. We thrive off our
times together. We bring each other positivity. I can count on them for
their honest opinion. They share valuable advice. I can tell them anything. They listen without judgment. They still love me
even at my age. First. They accept all of me. Those are ways to know
I have good friends. So I think some of these things are for
some of my friends. It doesn't mean that
all my friends have to be that for me. But that's when I know that
they are really true friends. Here. I'm going to find it'll photos. Or again, like I said, either write their name
or even sketch them. And I'm not going to do that now because it's going
to take too long. But you can do that
as you feel that. Going to write down here
a few of the ways that I practice social self-care
in my life today. Maybe where I'd like to
improve in a little more. For example, hang
out with friends, volunteer, I volunteer at
the food bank once a month, keep in touch with family. I call my mom once a week, have a Zoom call
with my best friend, even though she's on the
other side of the world. It'll keep in touch. Go on a date with my husband. Balance finding balance
in social media, WhatsApp, voice messages
with certain friends. When it's complicated to find the exact times to meet
or to call in-person, walk with a friend
once a week and with certain wines I leave nodes are little
messages on their phone. So those are just a few
little examples that come to mind right now. Some that maybe I'd like to
improve in a little more would be to ask for
help when I need it. I know this is very humbling
and it's difficult for me. And another one would
be meet new people, maybe business meetings
or business events. That's also a tough one for
me because I'm very shy. I'm an introvert. Another one, engage with
like-minded people online. So maybe meeting
other creatives, other artists who
feel the same way about mindfulness,
self-care, creativity. I think that would be
interesting for me. But again, it's stepping
out of my level of comfort would be a bit
uncomfortable and new for me. Host a game night with friends. That's something I'd love to do. We all bring a little something, a little snack, and we
enjoy evening together. Notice when relationships
build me up or aware me out. This is not always
easy to figure out, but it's a good
opportunity to check-in. Be willing to say no. I've had to say no to a few friendships
lately because I just didn't feel they
were right for me anymore and that's
really tough to do. So I don't want to
feel guilty about it, but I just want wisdom to
handle it in the right ways. And most of all to notice
it when I need to say no and only engage in the activities that
I really deeply want. I realized that for my
social self care I need to be very choosy because
my time is important. So just saying yes to anybody, any friend and family member at anytime of the
day would not be helpful or healthy for my
self-care and well-being. Making sure that I check
in about that as well. I'm sure you can think of
more and I encourage you to personalize these
different ones for you. And in your situation, how you find to be
socially cared for. Here I'm going to right
sub-questions again for myself that I will take the time to reflect on and
journal about later on. Who do I look up to or admire? Who do I look up to for advice? Who do I go to for
help and support? Who do I want to hang out
with and just have fun? Then there's more room to even write some more who questions? I think this is important because we're
questioning ourselves. Because by questioning
more about our friends, I think we learned to understand more about ourselves as well. And it kind of goes
back to self-love. What do we want? What makes us truly
happy as we question our friendships or
about our social life? What, what do I look for in a friendship
or a relationship? Whether it be a
co-worker or a boss, could be a friendship
or relationship. What does each of my
friendships today bring me? Again, that's really important for self-care because if there's some that are not bringing
us anything positive, that more negative than
it's not a true friend, It's not a good relationship,
a good friendship. And I've had some of
those and they've just brought me down and I've had to let go of them because
they no longer served me wasn't what I
needed at the time. As I was changing
and evolving and especially now as I paying more attention to my self-care, I really want those
friends who will support me in this
and build me up that whole judge me or
criticized me for where I'm going or how I'm
changing or evolving. I see that that is such
an important one for practicing more
self-care and self-love. Final, how? How do I want to improve
in my social self-care? And y, being very clear
on the y will help us to keep us motivated in making some changes
or improvements. How can I be a better friend or companion related to that? More of a support in
my circle of friends. So again, those are just
a few that I would like to reflect on and
pay attention to. I can either journal
about them or journal my answers in my journal. Or if you have enough space, you could even replied on
the back of your paper. Something else you can
do is just include some other papers with
your answers inside here. If you would like to keep
them all in your book. That might be something
that I will do and you can do whatever
feels right for you. I like having everything
in one place. I know that I can come back
to this one to review it, to be reminded of it. See where I've made progress
and where do I want to continue to make changes? Here? I'm going to include a beautiful
quote on friendship, or maybe two of them. Something that will
stick with me, something that will help support me in this social self-care. And of course, feel
free to jot down any other words that you
would like or feeling words. I love to include
things like that. For example, I feel loved. That's part of the journal fund. Makes me feel joy. I also feel content. When I have good friends. When I know that my friends
are real, they're honest. There'll be honest with me. I also feel fulfilled. So brings me level of comfort. Not to forget confidence because I feel good about my friends. I have good friends, definitely makes me feel
confident in myself as well. Like I had written there,
like my cheerleaders. Of course, I know that I need
to be my own cheerleader, but it does really help to
get it from somebody as well. Alright, well, that was our
social self-care craft page. I hope that it brought you
lots of joy, lots of meaning. You'll continue to improve
and work on this area of self-care by continuing to
journal, question yourself, the check-in, and most of all, to notice and realize what makes you happy and what
brings you the most joy, most love, where you feel at your best in your
social self care. Thank you for joining me and I'm looking forward to
the next time with you. Bye for now.
6. Bonus - Examples of More Self-care Craft Pages: Hello beautiful Souls. I'm sharing here in
this little extra video a few examples of other craft pages that
I've recently made to give you a few more ideas
of what you can do as you let your creativity run
wild and get inspired. These pages here are more on the topic of physical self-care. But of course, as
you've noticed, I've taken time to
dig deep and ask myself some very personal and
mindful questions as well, because I feel that physical and emotional well-being tie
in so much together. We're talking about physical of care or health our bodies, how we can take better
care of ourselves. I'm showing a few
examples of the ones that I've made here related to that. These pages are chock-full of little routines and practices
that I've been doing, as well as journal
prompts for myself after checking in and
noticing some areas in ways that I went to
continue to make progress in regarding my self-care
and well-being. And there are loads of little treasures and
hidden secrets packed into little flaps or envelopes or secret
openings on these pages. Even sound that I forgot
about as I was filming. That may be our end up making more courses on these
at a later date. Let me know if you'd like that. In any case, I wanted to show you what you are
capable of doing. After you view my few
courses on the subject of combining your love for art and creativity together
with self-care. If I wanted to also
share with you here a few of the benefits
that I and others have received after making these art and creativity
makes me happy. It's my joy and passion. I get a sort of high from it. I'm paying attention to my physical needs,
my emotional needs. At the same time. I
use my creativity to facilitate
soul-searching and bring to light and conscious thoughts. Kenny, sort of art
form allows me to express what I have a difficult
time pretty into words. It works as a memory builder. Whatever I take time to do
and create with my hands, it has a greater effect
and meaning for me. It becomes like a
concrete manifestation of my imagination and thought. It's subconsciously
working for my good. I have a beautiful work
of art that I feel proud of and can refer back
to as often as I need. It helps grow my
confidence as I see all that I'm doing to
better myself care. It encourages me
to take time for me with no other distractions. I can't very well multitask
at the same time. It's concentrated. Meantime, it helps me
realize that I'm important. I'm a value and I
deserve this time. I'm able to reflect
and asked myself about so many questions that I never took the
time for it before. I feel I'm learning more about myself as I do
these craft pages. I realized that creativity is not so much about
the end result, but about the listening
during the process. It feels like play. But at the same time, I'm equipping myself
with an amazing gift. Not just for now, but to use and be reminded
of for as long as I need it. When I feel a low
of inspiration, when I need a little
pause to reflect. When I feel I could use a
boost of joy, peace, or calm. I go back to my craft book. I open a random page and I
reflect and focus on it. The more detailed, the
more sensory play, the more I love it and the more it helps me connect within. It brings up memories
of how I made it past a stressful situation
or a difficult moment. And it just suddenly builds
me up in confidence, encouraged for what I'm
going through today. I feel proud and satisfied with beautiful creative artsy work. I allow it to bring
me so much depth and wisdom as I related
to my situation. Now, I can continue
to add little notes to personalize it to what I'm going through right now today. There's room for evolving
with how I'm changing and growing and what
I need at the moment. I just need to add a little note or an extra little flap
into the envelope. What I love most about
these craft pages is that I have a way to connect
with my teen daughter. This is an outlet that we both can enjoy
and have fun with together as we grow and
progress in our self-care. It's a wonderful,
meaningful experience. I can share with even a friend. I'm equipping myself with a self-care toolkit that I can continue to
use down the line. This has become an
outlet for the pains, fears, humiliations,
challenges or disappointments. It helps me to check
within the strength, wisdom, grace and
joy to journey on. This has become art
healing for my soul, for my mental health, and for my whole well-being. These are just a few of the many benefits
that I'm sure you can also receive from paying
attention to your self-care. The things that you love. It might be music or
dance, of course, sewing or cooking,
or art in any form. So I encourage you to take the time for those things
that light you up, that make you happy in that gives you new
energy to journey on. Remember, to take care
of yourself because yes, you are that important. Self-care is one of those
things that is essential. But we often don't take
enough time for it or we feel that we don't
have the time for it. But taking care of yourself, your body, your health, and mental well-being is so
important to not just feel better and be happier,
calmer, more joyful. But you're also able to be
a greater help to others. Take care and I'll
see you next time.