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1. Welcome- Lets start this journey together: Welcome. I'm so glad you're here. I always wondered,
how could I meditate? Would I meditate when I was
older or maybe more wiser? But guess what? Over the course of
research, reading up, going through multiple
workshops and courses, I realised meditation has to be something
that's part of me, that's integral to me. Something I can use and
feel good about myself, irrespective of variable I am. Whether I decide to do this with my eyes open or
with my eyes closed, or if I decide to do this whilst I'm doing
some other activities, I feel like that
would be more me than anything else because
if I were to sit down, come down, and then
meditate, Yes, I've achieved the bulb
is already because I already juggling quite
a bit of things. So this is an insight
from me to you, somebody like you who
was on the other side, who has faced challenges
of meditating. And, you know, it
has been a journey. And I'm sharing
what worked for me. I'm hoping to hear
from you as well. Feel free to reach
out and tell me how this meditation is
helping you because I've designed this as
a seven-day course, keeping it very,
very easy and light. You start with something on day one with your eyes closed, then you do it with
your eyes open while you're doing
some other activities. And even when you're shifting and doing some other activities, it's not necessary that you're always in the
same state of mind, which is where I realized that meditation
can be very handy. So this is my guide
which has worked for me. This is truly a testimonial
from me to you, and this is how I'm going
to share it with you. I also believe in
self-care, self-love. So there are videos which are going to be
around that as well. And I hope you enjoy it. Once again. I'm really glad you're
here and looking forward to hearing from
you what worked for you.
2. Day 1- Self guided mediation with eyes close & sitting down: Welcome to day one. This one, you can keep your
eyes open or eyes closed, sets in a relaxed and
comfortable space. I will also show you these exercises when
you're moving around. But for today, we'll sit down. Now. If you have
feet on the ground, try to wiggle them a little. Even if you're wearing
shoes, that's okay. Try to finish all your tools. Try to maybe even touch the ground while
you're doing that. Try to feel the texture of the slippers or the
shoes that you're reading. Now breathe in through
your nose and breathe out. That one more time. Breathe in. Breathe out. One more time. Breathe in. Breathe out. Not put your hand on your
belly, on your stomach. When you breathing in. Try to see how your stomach goes up. To see the movement and breathing in
and breathing out. Notice how your belly
rises and falls. The same time. You will also noticed something
about this breathing, but you haven't really noticed. Maybe every reader,
maybe you breathe a little shadow or do you bring in a way that's different? What ever it maybe. Pay attention to it. The focus your mind to listening to a sound
that's farthest from you. Something that's
really, really far. It could be the sound
of butt's dropping. It could be the sound
of children playing. It could be the sound of mean. Really tried to listen to it. Really tried to pay
attention to the voice. You might be able
to hear it clearly. Now. Get your mind now to think about the voice
that's loses to you. It could be again, my voice, or it could be your breathing, or it could be anything
else. That's fine. Just really pay attention to it. Listen to something you've
never listened to before. The attention to it. And at this stage or
any of the stage when you mind drifts, It's okay. It happens, gets your
mind gently back. What matters is how
you can get your mind. How many times do you manage
to get your mind back? For those of you who
have your eyes closed. Focus on the
documents or just the greatness that you see
or don't see rather. And for those of you who
have your eyes open, try to really see
something in front of you. Try not to seem. More details. Start noticing the color that shape, the texture. Stay with it for a bit. Try breathing in again. Leaving out. All the lovely day.
3. Self guided exercise with eyes open sitting down: Today's session.
We're going to be actually doing this
with our eyes open. Keep your eyes open and
sit somewhere comfortably. While you're sitting. Notice
something ahead of you? It could be anything. It could be the screen
that you're looking at. It could be any object. It could be a person. Really try to pay attention to colors and look how bright those colors become as you keep
looking at them. Notice how the texture is. You might also want to, if you're looking at the screen, you might also want to
look at from end-to-end, which means take point
and follow it through. Much the same way as the
infinity sign in front of you. Try to take the point
and move your eyes. And really try to look
slowly, but surely. Look at the object
or look at the bus and continue to do so. You don't need to
do this very fast. You do a database that
you're comfortable with. This, something you've
never noticed before. And try to get your
attention back when it's drifting
and that's okay. Like I mentioned, even
in the previous one, it's okay for your
mind to drift. What is important
is for you to get your mind back is real to be attention back into
what we're doing right now. Now. In this moment, a little bit longer. I wouldn't like now for you to take your fingertips
to fingertips, drop them against each other. Notice how hard or soft it is. Notice how the dextro fumes. And now really pay
attention to it. Thanks, you've never
noticed before. Now take the fingertips of one hand and drop them against the palm of
your other hand. You may have done this
a 100 thousand times. Which really do this. You start to feel the softness
or hardness of your hand. You'll notice the
lines decreases. Notice something
you've never noticed? It could be the
temperature. Is it warm? Is it called just the fact that your hands
could be sweating. While you do this. Try to put your hands on
the cloth that's on. You. Really tried to
notice a texture. The threads. Is it soft? Is it hard? Is it smooth? If that is done, notice that even
if it's a plane, you wouldn't notice
certain patterns. Just looking at them, try to follow that pattern. Suppose you can see
you're noticing something about the dress or the
clothes you're wearing. Something you've
never noticed before. The buttons on it, the feeding, all the just
the brightness of the club. You're noticing the textures, you're noticing the patterns. You may also want to notice how comfortable it is or maybe not. Focus on it for a moment. As you do this, you will realize that there
is a certain account. You've gone through
your second. Thank you.
4. Calming the mind while walking: Welcome. Welcome. Today you're going
to do this exercise with your eyes open and
while you're moving around. If you're walking, that's fine. You can continue to
walk. If you're not. That's also okay. That these exercises
are equipping you is to be able to perform
these exercises, Amy there. Anytime that for
whatever reason, if you sit it seated and you have your eyes
closed, that's also fine. You can always take
the benefit of it. Why do you continue to walk? Remember at any point in
time, you feel uncomfortable? You feel like you are so relaxed that you're
about to fall asleep. That's okay. Take a break. Sit down. Let's begin. If you're sitting
around or you're working with your eyes open. Noticed something about
the bot, the ground. You feed out on. Something about that ground. What extruders it would
meet D realistic. Do you feel it's
easy to walk on it? Something you have
never observed before. Really pay attention to it. While you're paying
attention to it. Remember that you are looking at this pathway
from a new lens, from a new perspective. You could stop and stare at it, or you could continue to walk. And whenever you find that you suddenly being drifted
away, that's okay. Just get your attention back
to whatever we're doing. But notice the
sounds around you. It could be the sounds
you naturally heal. The nature makes. Or it could be
sounds that people, human beings are
making it out to you to find some blur the minute you find
some pattern in it. Try to hear certain sounds
you've never heard before. Really pay attention to that
sound that you're hearing. Listen to it. Maybe you can even enjoy it. Even if it is scales, even if it is loud noises. And if this is on a headphone, you could really be
attention to the time that my voice isn't
coming through. You could pay attention to my wife. Now. While you're walking regularly, fingers try to feel or touch whatever your
fingers are closest to. It could be a leaf. It could be a metal. All it could be your
glutes. That's okay. Now, attention to
the temperature. To find it cooled, to find it warm or hot. And notice how when
you keep touching it, the temperature varies. Eventually. Really pay attention
to its texture. The outline of whatever
you're touching. Try to follow the outline. If you see certain patterns, you can notice it. The blankness of the
object in front of you. And vanilla, you're drifting. Just gently. Get your mind trying to continue to walk. Thinking in your senses. Bless your observation. Just imagine. These are things you've
seen so many times. These are things you may
have heard so many times. All you're doing is
paying attention to it and noticing something
you never did before. You may enjoy this
or you may not. You could also be agnostic to your feelings
and that's okay. Be in that moment for
a little bit longer. And then you do take
in as much as you can or as little as you can. Which path you choose. And that's okay. You'll receive your heel. Thank you so much for doing
this exercise with me.
5. While performing activity- learn to center yourself: Welcome to today's session. I'm glad you're here. In today's session. We're going to try and
meditate with our eyes open. And while we are trying
to do an activity, please air with caution that
if you at some point in time feel it's overwhelming
or that you cannot continue due to certain reasons. I would urge you to stop stop the recording and also for you to sit down and stop
doing the activity. The idea here is for us into this entire meditation
is to be able to learn, to calm ourselves down or to
find and center ourselves. That is what the purpose
of meditation is. Keeping that in mind. We're going to go ahead
with this exercise where say you are performing
your daily chores. Now while you're performing
your daily chores? We most often than not, do these activities with an absence of a mind or a mind being distracted
somewhere else. What I would invite you to do today is pay attention
to the activity at hand. Say you're putting the
clothes back in the closet, all your cleaning up the room, or say you adjust, writing down your to-do list. Whatever it may be. You will need to pay
attention to this activity. Which means if you
have something in your hand like you to
really pay attention to it. Notice that texture,
notice the color. Notice something about
what's in your hand. If you're making a list, you're writing down. Notice your handwriting. Notice the color of
the ink or the pencil. Notice the paper. And notice how when
you pay attention, the way you do this
activity, That's a change. And really pay attention to the way you perform these
activities every day. These are your
mundane activities. These are some things that
you do day in, day out. Really pay attention to it. Touch the paper, feel the paper. See how it feels for you. If it's something that you've
noticed peculiarly today. Take a look at this
activity and see how you have changed
over the years. The way you make clean, the way you may write. It could have evolved
over the years. And how is that for you? How does it make you feel? Get in touch with
your inner self? Ask yourself these questions. Try to really pay
attention to it. Try to understand yourself
through this activity. Even just the art of writing
can be very calming. And it can only take seconds. For example, pickup
that pen or pencil. Or if you're cleaning the
tool that you have at hand. Really pay attention to it. Is it a soft cloth? Is it is it something
that's loved? It. Over the years and the month, is it something that
you really like? It's something that
you feel does the job. When you see these answers. When you see these responses, it is not necessary that
your mind is always centered and that you may get distracted and
it's okay, it's fine. Do not judge yourself. What is important
is for the times that you can get your mind
back to the activity. We always have multiple
things that we are juggling. But doing sometimes that
one activity at a time, being a full attention to it, really centering our port to it. You will realize that it has
the most calming effect. That it has a very
impacting investment, which means that the investment of time you do
for those few minutes, we'll have a lasting
result in the coming time. It could be in the
middle of your busy day. It could be in the middle of
your crazy filled up week. And that's okay. So the next time you're
doing an activity, just pay attention to it. Pay attention to
the little details that you may have been missing out or that you have
assumed over the years. And you will realize a simple mundane activity
will feel very different. They have a calming
centering effect. It is very similar
to people who calm themselves before
entering a crazy world. Or in the ancient times, there are so many stories where the Warriors have
centered themselves in the middle of a war
so that they can refocus and strategize and
go on to win that war. Our multitasking
days, a very slumber law in the sense
that we are juggling so many things and sometimes just taking out
those couple of minutes to pay attention to really what we
have done and what we are doing without a 100%
undivided attention. You will notice that
has a lasting impact. I hope you have a wonderful
day and a fantastic session. Thank you.
6. Calm yourself while making a change, shift & accepting yourself: Welcome to another day. Outdated feeling yesterday. When you try to do this
exercise on your own. If for whatever reason
you were unable to do that, that's fine too. The day what ever
you may be doing? Fitting line down the
middle of an activity. Take a moment. Pause from it. If you're sitting, you
may want to lie down. And if you're lying down, try shifting from one
position to another. Make a change. If you're doing an activity. Maybe do the next
one for a change. Make a shift. When you're
making this shift, notice what's happening to you. Finding something
about your body. Your reaction could be the fact that you needed to
get the next activity going. Did you need to pause to get your next activity ready
to make that shift? Think about that. Think about that
for some time now. Really try to understand
something about yourself. In the way you look
up that shift. It's not necessarily that you're focusing only
on the feelings. You could be focusing
on other aspects. Something you've
never noticed before. An observation and
insight into yourself, into how you are, into something that tells you about how you are
when you need a shift. You require to do a shift. Really pay attention to it. Stay in it for a
little bit longer. If it's something that's
making you uncomfortable, it's okay to start
thinking about what did you like about your
previous activity or what did you like
about your second one? Notice how your
perspective is shifting. Absorb it absorbs red light. You want to call it person. Between these two activities,
you're observing it. Like an ongoing
making observations. Like you or not, you
don't be judgmental. It's okay. And it's
okay if your line shifts and you get shifted
with some other thought, just gently get your
attention back. Get your focus. Now. If for some reason you've not shifted to the second
activity, that's fine too. Give you credit for what you do and
encouragement to do it. Anyways. Appreciate
that you learn. Just appreciate how you would able to observe the
attention to yourself. And maybe in the
process tank yourself. Doing this. You've come this far. You're doing amazingly well. If you have to say it out
loud, that's fine too. If you want to pat
yourself, that's fine too. Just as today's activity,
then you had to shift. This what you're going through, a journey of personal
transformation is also a shift. Slowly. You will start noticing certain
observations about yourself, about how you will
before and after. On tooling. Please give
yourself credit for trying. Say Thank you just as much
as I'm going to tell you. Thank you for doing this. Thank you. And
have a lovely day.
7. Self Guided Meditation- Accepting yourself I am going through a journey!: Hello. How are you
today? I'm asking sound. And maybe onset it. Only to yourself. You going through a journey. You're going through it in the
best way you possibly can. You didn't investing in habits. You investing in yourself. For a moment. Pay attention to how
in the past few days. Some days you could really
do these exercises easy. But some days it was
very challenging. Please don't judge yourself and let those negative
emotions pass. Something about it. Observes something
about yourself. You never did. Notice the fact that niche of the exercises you'll easily able to
focus on. One of those. If for whatever reason
your attention is again, drifting into other things. That's okay. Get your
focus back gently. Now, breathe in through your nose. Out
through your mouth. Again. This time, nor much more secure. When you Then did you notice how your breathing is? Maybe you might want
to put your hand on your chest or a
finger on your nose. Just to feel the n. Notice how the temperature of the air is when it's
going in and coming out. Notate that fingertip
which is on your nose. She falls. Not there's
something about it, something you've
never noticed before. Really pay attention to it. You might find it.
You might find it strange. It's okay. Do it anyways. This nose helps you
believe him to live. Maybe take a moment to
be grateful for it. The day. You are born to be grateful for three things and you're
going to observe them. And really pay attention to
what you're grateful for. Maybe you might
want to write this down or you might want to think about it after a while. So go back on it
and pay attention to did you miss out or do you
want to add to that list? No judgment here. Just something you
shedding with yourself. In the safety of yourself. You're doing wonderfully well. That's your today's challenge. Three things you're
grateful for. Maybe pay attention
to it. Thank you.
8. Self Guided Meditation- Acknowledge & appreciate: Hello. Today, you
wondered why some days you're not able to do these exercises here to try
to help you, to guide you. Because it happens to all
of us. And it's natural. It's a change. It's a shift. There will be resistance. You need to do is keep at it. If database, you
feel you can't go through these 78 minutes audios. You could do this for
a really short span. Because your subconscious
is beginning to rewire. Do not consciously skip it. Because you still have to make a full investment onto yourself to be able
to reap the benefits. If for some reason you notice that you'll want to
keep listening to the videos and audios over and
over again. You can do so. If for some reason you feel there are certain exercises
you can easily focus on, do them all sorts
slowly begin to, except the other exercises
into your daily routine. Example. If right
now your fingertips are on a desk or a
chair or on your lap. Whatever they may be. And wherever they may be. Try to try to really pay attention to the
texture to the column. And try to pay attention to every little detail
you possibly can. Notice the temperature. Notice how you feel
when you touch that. Again. Keep the negative
in Washington's away. And if for some reason you're
drifting, that's okay. Just catch your attention
and gently back. You want to take a moment and give you tools again today. And try to feel the ground
or the shoes you're reading. Notice something.
You've never noticed. It could be as simple as
I like wiggling my tools are I don't think I
can regulate my toes. If for some reason you can't
try wrangling them again. Enjoy this process must be attention to the
way you're doing it. Via attention to how
it makes you feel. Something. You've
never noticed before. Notice something about
yourself in the process. It could be a small
observation, and that's fine. You bringing in utero when
it's okay to take baby steps. It's okay if you don't
find anything new. In these exercises. As you are building
your mental fitness. You didn't bar in your mind. You will also have
to show self-love. Be grateful. Grateful because you're investing in yourself. You grateful because
you are amazing. You create full
because you have come so far in your
journey of changing, of going through a
transformation yourself. You're grateful for being alive. Met an awesome feeling. Thank you. I am grateful for you.
9. Learn Continually: Welcome to today's session. Like you to close your eyes and breathe
in and breathe out. One more time. Breathe
in and breathe out. Like you to do this. One more time. Breathe out. Gently. Bring your thoughts. Do something you did today. Something that felt nothing. It could be waking
up in the morning. It could be a cup
of tea or coffee. It could be something
as small as that. Old. The fact that
someone's minded to you felt good about yourself. Focus on focus on that feeling. Focus on that. Why that came through. If for whatever reason
your mind is distracting, gently get back to the feeling. The feeling of feeling, amazing, feeling of Austin, or
just being in the moment. You realize one thing. Now realize the second
thing about it. I'd like you to also look at
now that fell in your body. When you feel nice. Is that a part of your body that gets a tingling sensation? Or just seems more relaxed. Now really pay
attention to that. Three then again. Breathe out. Breathe in again. Now notice I'm try to recollect something
you did for someone. It could be as simple as just smiling at a stranger
in an elevator, or it could be just
holding the door. If you are not able to
recollect anything from today. I didn't lie to you to
think about yesterday. How did that feel? Really observe about some attention to how that medial
or do you feel. Now that you're
thinking about it? You may not have felt
anything in that moment. How do you feel now when you think about line Y2? In case of these two feelings
to be replicated today. And how can you do that? You could feel nice
about yourself. Just smile at yourself in
the mirror, that's fine. I'll just put your feet on the ground and feel the
temperature of the floor. Just walking bare feet. And that of making somebody else being nice or
doing something for someone. You're doing this. You said. Now after you've
completed your dance, think of how it made you feel. You consciously doing something. You're bringing in your
subconscious slowly. The awareness you've created
into your conscious world. The next few days. Try to really pay attention
to what feels nice. Taking a shower, just
putting on some homed loads, or the fact that, you know, you sleeping in the night. What ever it maybe. Just think about it. For the next couple of days. Attention to when you do
something for someone. Yourself. See how you feel. You are creating a very
powerful positive mind. You will need to go
through a journey. These are your small
baby steps towards its hope you're excited. On a lovely day.
10. One more thing to learn: Welcome to today's session. Take a moment and consider
how you are right now. Try to notice something about your body you've
never noticed before. Maybe you're comfortable,
maybe you're not. Maybe you're thinking
about something. Whatever it may be. Gently just see your
thought process back into, into thinking about yourself. We often take time to
consider things around us that we take
very little time to think about ourselves
and ask ourselves, how am I am I doing? Okay? See how you feel. Clv respond to it and whatever maybe the
response that's okay. Don't judge that to slated
come like you're listening to a friend except spawns
for what it is. What I would like you to do. Really consider uterus
bonds truly for what it is. Not for what it could be that I should have
been happy already, should have been this or
that out of the equation. Just as if somebody
were to ask you, how's the day-to-day
how's the weather today? How would your response be? Similarly, try to disassociate
yourself and truly answer and accept yourself for who you are. Sometimes acknowledging
their BR be rho k. Naught helps us
build on, do a lot more. Uses. It says something's as guiding or tuning you. Knowing yourself. Also make you think of the last time
you asked yourself, what if I told them was once? I'd like you to
really pay attention. That are you using words
like fine and good? You really describing
how you feeling. Are you doing today? We need to take a step forward into Bus
new transformation. We accept ourselves for
who VR, breathe in, breathe out, breathe in G. That tried to think of full-time. But usually the boy yourself. Yeah, we're just happy to be that it could be
something from today. It could be something from
these before. And that's okay. Really think, oh,
that made you feel enjoy that moment. Next time. Usually again, feeling yourself
feeling absolutely comfortable to be in self ankle. How that's changing you. Daniel Day, take some time off. Even if it's you and end
of the day to just be you. And to be embrace you. We need to accept who we are. We always want to be a
better version. Today. You're going to take a
moment to accept who you are and how good you are in that for as long as you need. Because it's a big change for validation
from someone else. From yourself. Be then. Thank you.
11. Learning & growing through awarness: Welcome. I hope you're feeling
great. Everyone good. What that would mean? Do you? When was the last
time you felt great? Night you too go on
a journey with me. Try to remember the last
time you felt great. It could be more
than one instance that's coming to
your mind right now. And that's okay. But I'd
like you to think about it. Really pay attention to it. See how that made. You bought the field. Was this something that
you would do consciously? Like say jumping or snapping fingers are
just dancing or singing? Or was it something that
you were doing mentally? Be attention to that. Really pay attention to that. Try to think of how
that made you feel. Something about that feeling
which you never had before. Notice how your
expression right? Minerals changing. Like you to shift your
attention to the now. Think about how that's
making you feel. Now. Imagine something that has
happened in your past. You can still look at it. That memory back and
feel excited about it. Euphoria. I'd like you to theme
that greatness. Now. You have on which you felt last
time in front of you. And if that means
that you want to jump or smile or snap your
fingers, that's fine. Go ahead and do so. Or if you're
mentally excited and doing something,
you can do that. What I'd like you to
get that feeling. Now. Some reason you still finding it challenging
to get that feeling. I'd like you to remind
yourself that you've come this far on your journey
of transformation. You almost sunlight you. Amazing. I knew. I'd like you to bring all the goodness that
you've been failing and the boss few days on now, bringing anything
positive that you feel about going through
this transformation. The fact that you felt my
going through this change, the fact that you've
been listening it, the fact that you still here, you have it in you
to make that change. You'll have it in you to feel
that greatness constantly. Even if you don't want
to feel that constantly, because it feels too
much, then guess what? You can bring in that greatness into your
life whenever you want. Your next exercise. We'll be focused on going. So let's bring that amazing, powerful glade person that
you are in the forefront. Sustain and stay tuned. Because I will meet you soon.
12. Self Awarness: Hi everyone. I hope you're
happy to be here today. Because today's journey is
designed to get the amazing, the awesome that convey
to you in the forefront. Now think of it this way, that how nice would
it be that every time if you just close your eyes and
thought of something, it actually appeared
in front of you. This exercise is
to help you do so. So if you're not in a
place which a *****, you will not be disturbed. Or the fact that you're
doing some other activity. I would like you to
take a pause right now and find a spot which you can then be
comfortable and not be disturbed during the
duration of this exercise. I hope you're sitting or lying down, but
you're comfortable. And what you're going to do now is gently close your eyes. Breathe in and breathe out. Breathe in again. And breathe out. Do that one more time. Breathe in and breathe out. I'd like you to relax Every
single part of your body. Try to keep your mind clear. Whenever you find
yourself drifting away. Get yourself back. And do that by
breathing in again. And breathe out. Breathe in. Breathe out. Think
about the last time. You felt amazing. Awesome. Try thinking of that moment. That those minutes
that felt amazing. While you're thinking about it, start rubbing your
two fingers together, the thumb and the index finger. And continue to do so
until I asked you to stop. I'd like you to think of
the time you felt awesome. Something you achieved,
something you did that made you feel amazing. It doesn't matter what it is. I want you to feel that
awesomeness all over again. I want you to feel the exact same way that
you felt that that second. And if possible, hire. You believe you're awesome. You know, you're awesome. You believe your men
for great things. And you know, you're going to
do amazingly great things. Keep rubbing your
fingers together. I want you to feel awesome. I want you to. In fact, if it requires you to feel multiple memories
where you felt amazing, you've had, you felt awesome. Those feelings come to you. Now. Think of it as it
is happening now, or watch of it. Like you are watching yourself. When you do so by looking
at videos or pictures. But feel that notice
how your faces, notice how your expressions, or notice how you're feeling. It's because you know, you're amazing and you're,
you're achieving that. You have that awesomeness
that's come to the forward. Stain that moment for
a little bit longer. Now stop rubbing your fingers, the index finger, and the thumb. You can stop rubbing that. And breathing out. Breathing again. Breathe out. I'd like you now to just take your finger and the thumb and start rubbing them together. Do this gently. What feelings are
coming towards you now? Are you feeling awesome? Are you feeling amazing? You're feeling like
you are great. If not, believe it again. You are great. You are amazing. You are awesome. Imagine yourself to
be amazingly Austin. You are doing so great. You can stop rubbing your
fingers and breathe in again. Be redone again. Readout. Take that index
finger and the thumb. Rub it again together. Jessup. So what's happening to you? Continue to wrap
the fingers gently. See what's happening to you. I wrote expressions changing. Are you feeling amazing? I'd like you to breathe in. And stop rubbing
your fingers now and readout. Then again. Breathe out. Let your mind know that you have
created a superpower. And your superpower now is
to feel amazing, great. At a drop off a second. And how can you do that? By just taking your index finger and the thumb and try
to wrap that together. It's a small act. It's something you can do in, even if you're in
a crowded place, even if you're
surrounded by people, and what will happen. Your feelings of amazingness, awesomeness are going
to come forward. And you will feel very differently than what you did
even seconds before that. So anytime you need to
use the superpower, you know what to do. And I urge you to
keep listening to this exercise every
now and then, keep coming back to it. Because you need to make
your superpower stronger. You need to be able to invoke
this feeling constantly, anytime, anywhere you want. And there is no end
to that energy. So you can bring it forward. And you can feel Bostrom, good rate, amazing,
all over again. And guess what you do
when you feel these, you can do anything. So that is your superpower. I like you to gently
open your eyes now. You are doing amazingly great. And you are awesome. Thank you.
13. Looking inwards: Hello. How are you today? Let's try two. Centered ourselves and increase the power of a mental fitness through some really daily dusk. For today. While you're eating. I'd like you to really taste every single thing that you put in your mouth. Which means that you
would pay attention to the texture that taste. How juicy is it
or how dry it is, the sourness, sweetness, the, you know, you can
describe it how many I will be as you can. Even if it is as
simple as a cookie, even if it's something
as simple as a sandwich, even if it says Some blues, just taking a morsel of rice. Even if you're having
your coffee or your tea. Like you to really
feel the taste. Really enjoy the texture and really be able
to acknowledge, wow, I did not know this. I can taste this, I can feel this, I can It's more
crunchier than normal, or is this different
than what it used to be? What ever may be the case? Just notice it. Just imagine if
you can do this to your these pads and every time that you're eating
or drinking something, even if it's a glass of
water for that matter, you can invoke your
power of exercising your VO exercising
your mental fitness and making this as a part
of your daily habits. So each time that
you pick a glance, really look at the
glass, like, Oh, I didn't know it was this cold or this is the shape of it. And then when you taste
the water, enjoy it. Maybe even tank, good thing. Wow, I'm getting such good water and that's helping
me stay hydrated. I'm glad I had that
glass of water today. I'm glad I had that cup of tea. It made me relax, it made me start my day. It charged me up
whatever it may be, giving the credit
where it's due. Acknowledging the small
details about ourselves. When you begin to do this, you will realize
that initially it may be really do I
need to do this? Do I assess how I need to do? But maybe after a couple of minutes or a couple
of iterations, you will realize
it's not so bad. It only takes me ten to 15 s. You may land up forgetting
some times and that's okay. Please do not judge yourself. As any other exercise. It's important to
accept who we are. Going through a change. Unexpected knowledge it. Whenever that happens, gently bring your mind back to
following the exercise. It's important to get her mind
back and acknowledging it. So hope you have a nice day and enjoy doing this
through the day.
14. Its a Journey: I'm so glad that you have
decided to do the scores. And while I've got some
inputs and feedback, I've decided to
continue the journey. Because when that
is a goal in mind, I believe personally it's not just that you
achieved that goal. And there you say, hooray, I've done it. It is a journey. It is an ongoing way
for you to learn, to grow, to enhance,
and to improve. And keeping that in mind. Let's continue
with that journey. One of the things
that have mentioned, and I think in all
the videos that have come through for you, is the mentioning of the
fact that, you know, you could do this
with your eyes open, with your eyes closed
while walking. But do it with caution. Always keep in mind
your well-being, your health because
that is a priority. I would just like to
for one at again. And then let's continue
with our motto here. If you really look at
anything or say in our lives, whether you're the art
of writing something, even if it's writing
notes in the school, writing notes for work, or making a note of the things that you need
to buy for groceries. Very small does a mundane task. Now let's try to see how a mundane task can becomes
something that's calming. To make this a possibility. There is an understanding
that as needed or ritual, any ritual, the art of
waking up in the morning, the way you would wake up. Some people are used
to save turning, twisting, maybe even hitting the snooze button on the alarm. Which you need to do
is in that moment. Of course, it could be a
moment of frustration or excitement the wake up because depending
on how your day is, which when you look back
onto life, onto your D, some of these
consistent behaviors or the mundane or the routine behaviors are what we try for when we see I
want to retire. Does that mean waking up later, hitting the snooze button or maybe not even bothering
to keep an alarm. When you say I
want to be more on vacation or I want to be taking a break and
spending the time. That obviously means putting a pause to everything
else in life. Which is why I
think my advice to you would be reflect
back on your mundane just usual teen does
that waking up of alarm, revisit it right now. Think of the way you wake up. Number one, it might bring
some smile on your face. It could bring in like, Hey, why did I do that? That's fine. What a will maybe
running in your mind. Watch it. But you don't need to
change that thought. Instead, I invite you to just observe yourself
as you're waking up. Be that stranger in the
room or the butterfly in the room where you're observing
how the button wakes up, how they pleasant starts there
d s something about that. That's absolutely brilliant. You're starting your
day on a fresh naught. There are moments use, so excited that you can't mate. Maybe it's the day of the big announcement or it's the deal. It's your birthday or it's it's a it's an important occasion. Whatever it may be, the leaking of does not change. It's the way you look at it, starts to evolve,
starts to change. And I think it's important
for us to realize that. At both of those reactions, both of those personalities
is driven by the same person. And what I love is the fact
that how I look at it, how do I reflect back on it? Like I'm closing my eyes while
I'm recording this video. I'm pretty visiting
my morning Today. It's my anniversary by the way. So that is an occasion. I'm also revisiting yesterday. I love the fact that I decided to give it a minute and
then get out of the bed. But we did it. I started to
realize my surroundings, the texture of my pillow, which I completely
may have forgotten. The blanket that
was making me warm. I started to feel
like I was breathing. Of course I was breathing
throughout the night, but I started to
realize my bread. That's able to focus on it
just for a teeny tiny bit. Fact that I tried to open my eyes and there'll
be I opened my eyelids. That brings in something that
makes me smile right now. Because it's the routine. Is this what I look at every single day on the weekend to be able
to sleep a little more on the weekday, to get up and get out and
make some things happen. Why does the exact same
routine every day? It's the way I look at it. Just before I go to bed, Just as I wake up. And when I'm on vacation. This very moment is such a different thought
process altogether. Waking up to completely
new experiences, new textures, new plays. The air I breathe, I find the difference in it. I soak into all of it. It would be great to be
able to do the same thing. Even on a day that I have
extremely busy schedule. All I need is a couple of moments to be able to
reflect back and say, let me take that in. Let me take a breath
of fresh air. Let me cherish. But they shut off my pillow. Let me find the warm that
my blanket comforting. Maybe regular my toes
while I'm at it. My tips of the fingers. It's these little things that make me look
and reflect back. As I'm even looking at it. I'm beginning to reflect on times when I've been
able to take a nap. The privilege of taking
a nap in the afternoon. I associated when I was
growing up to taking a nap, do something of being unwell. But as I grew, I started to think of
it as a privilege, as, as a bonus, as a luxury. Because the commodity wasn't
available very easily. Because there was just so
much to be done in a day. So I started to
cherish these maps. I would give myself a nap every now and
then on a holiday, on weekends or on a day
that I just felt like, hey, I'm just going through a lot of power nap would do
wonders for me right now. Even if that meant
a micro power nap. That's more changed. The way I looked at that now, the very narrow over the
years, over the decades. I turn back, I look at
it and I'm amazed at how the way I wake up from an app even now is completely different
from the way I wake up from my morning sleep. I wake up from an app
with the feeling like, Oh, I may have just
hit a jackpot. I had this big smile or a
smoke sometimes on my face. Oh wow. I managed. The reality is these naps and maybe sometimes one-tenth
the size of my actual sleep. But because it's a luxury, a thing I don't have a lot of. I enjoy it. I truly cherish it. I truly reflect back on
that Knapp and say, Wow, I wanted I enjoyed it, or maybe I could have
a little more of it. That nap felt good. But I'm just happy to
have that boldness. I'm just happy to have
that extra little scene. And it's so important
to be able to look back on the little moments of
our life and think of it. Find them to be comforting. Find them to be making us happy. Find them to bring in joy. And interestingly, joys
are very different. Don't then happiness. As I've been growing
wiser, hopefully, I've come to realize that joy is a feeling that
comes in, in my mind. Sometimes we hire
than happiness. Because a lot of times
I look back again, I find my childhood
filled up with a lot of joyful moments. As I grew older, I saw a lot of happiness. This is a choice I made to reflect on what was the
good part of my life. Now the good thing about it is, each time I think of joy, I somehow find it to
be a bit more playful, exciting buildup with energy. And that is happiness in it. That's an association
I have done. I have created that in my mind. I have tried to start
looking at my naps as joy. I have truly started looking at my morning waking
up as happiness. Yet another day. I have so
much more to conquer today. Oh wow. I'm alive and
I feel fantastic. So my waking up
makes me very happy. And my afternoon naps
in me a lot of joy. It's very interesting to draw that value and to be able to
see the exact same thing, which is lean into
different windows. Let's open another
dimension to it. When we hit the bed, just before we hit the bed. That's reflect back
on how that feeds. It's interesting, isn't it? There are these. We go to bed with 100 dust less than a day. Is we go to bed having this
really nice feeling that yes, I did that today. I made that happen today. Some days. You just oh, wow. I'm so glad to just meet now. I have had an exhausting day. It's like a solace. It's like a nice little
fuzzy, warm blanket. It's like a nice feeling
when you're getting into it. That is that maybe I'm probably frustrated and angry because
something did not happen. Like I wanted it to. So that disappointment shoes
when I am trying to sleep. But as I drift away, as my eyes are closing off, I like how the pods just vanish or disappeared
into the open. View. It at times that these
dogs or the pots. Feel like a dream. Or sometimes it feels like Hey,
medium silhouette. I'm sometimes very
confused by the way, when I have especially slept
with a thought in my mind. But that makes it interesting because I wake up
the next day and I tried to reflect on my night
sleep and I tried to think, was that my way or was that my body trying to
tell me what to do, how to do how to make it happen. Maybe it was solutioning. Maybe it was trying
to find a fix. Maybe it was trying
to support me. And it's lovely, isn't it? When your subconscious
is doing something, you have the conscious side. I loved the fact that when I'm sleeping and when I
wake up next day, I'm wondering whether that
was my dream or reality. But I think the most
important derivative of that equation is that my body was
trying to help me out. And that's somehow is an
interesting feeling for me. Maybe it could be
different for you. Maybe it could be
different for everyone. I know a lot of
people also say that. I just don't understand
why can't I go through my sleep without
having any dreams? And he thought, I wish I did
not think before I slept. All that, you know,
I wasn't trying to solution myself.
Why does sleeping? I do that all day anyways. Same situation. Differently. Kobe. Mind you you could be the fence where you could be sometimes feeling
this way or the other. And it's perfectly alright. It's perfectly okay
to feel that way. Which you are going through. How you feel, how you react
to a situation your own. And it's beautiful dawn that I love the fact that when I'm going for
a good night sleep. There are times I sleep with a big factor feeling happiness because I've achieved what I had planned for the day. Or there are times
that I'm disappointed. But in the two ends of
the spectrum that a times in-between that it's just I'm
just glad to be sleeping. I'm just glad that
the day is over. I'm just glad that
there's another day. And I'm watchful on
hopeful for now. To add to this. How does it feel when
I'm going for that? Not because it's a luxury. It's a commodity
that's rare for me. I associate with that. Going for an app in a
very different way. I maybe set up some music. I sometimes have
this little alarm because I do want to
take a micro nap. Or the days that I have the luxury of taking
a very long nap, I still need a timer because I don't want to
wake up the next day wanting what I have done that
I know I'm capable of it. The interesting thing is
the way I take my afternoon that is very different
from the way I observed my night's rest. I have this adrenaline pump
that is happening when I'm taking an afternoon that I
need to set up the music, I need to make sure
that I'm having a good time because this is
a commodity that's rare. I need to make the most of it. I tried to sleep. I need to get to that sleep. Even if it's for 5 min, I need to make it happen. I approach it very differently. When I hit the bed
and the night. It's very different
because I know I have a long one gamete and
that's a few hours and that feels nice to put everything else to rest with
an afternoon nap. I know it's a matter of
minutes and I'm going to be that way I reflect on it, the way I look at it. Surely different. And I approach it. With that much excitement
and when that is excitement, the nap rarely happens. At least in my case, it rarely happens because there's just too
much excitement. Like, Oh wow, I run this. I'm going to get an app
and I'm going to sleep and I'm gonna be able to
get this extra rest. But the reality is sometimes turns out to be very
different for me. Now I'd like you to focus
now on the four instances. So the four dimensions of the sleep that
we just discussed, the auto faking up from sleep
in the mornings or however, whenever you schedule it. If you're sleeping
for a few hours and then waking up,
that's your rest. How do you wake up from it? How do you wake
up from a luxury, which is a nap? That's what I dumb it. How do you approach that loan sleep that's
going to happen. May need Sunday evening, maybe it's in the morning, maybe it's in the night
for you and that's okay. But how do you approach it? I you really winding down. And how do you approach a nap? Was it just too boring to see something or
observe something? And I decided to take an app. But how does it feel? How are the exact same pains
in four different contexts? Beam bay different. And how our emotions change. How do we be looking at it? Change how we observe. So when you reflect
back on the day, how that changes, it's
quite amazing, isn't it? Much the same way as
this video right now, which is a bonus. But it's a different
way to reflect. Everybody could have a
very different reaction. That's fine. Dog leash. Fine. Let me give you a few moments. Now. Revisit your this week's schedule. The way you woke up. Fdd tried to go
back and reflect on it today. How did you wake up? You wake up yesterday. There's something about it that stays natural. Snakes. What about the day before? I'm so hauled back? Reflect back on for days. How did you wake up? Maybe five days prior. How about six days? Getting difficult to reflect. That's okay. How about seven days? It's possible each of these
days is very different. All very similar. And that's fine. Vr individuals. And we have to respect that. For some reason. If you're uncomfortable
revisiting a day, that's okay. You can skip it. I
just want you to be mindful of how that waking up flex truly on you and
how you would solve it. How do you look back at it? When you look at last
night or yesterday, are you trying to get to sleep? They have a lot of horse
running in your mind away. You just happy to
be able to sleep? Or was it one of those things that you didn't
really pay attention to? But now that you're
reflecting back, you're trying to screen. What was my state
at that moment? During that time. It's also interesting to reflect back on sometimes
the sleeplessness. At some of us do software with It's basically the
mind That's the net work. Actively at work. How does that feel? Has that reflection? Let's revisit the day before. Three days prior when you
were getting ready to sneeze? Let's reflect on that. Sometimes it's possible
that we recap the whole day into night just
before we are about to sleep. Or the practice of prayer,
OB practice, meditation, or you're just looking
at the next days to do whatever that may
be and that's fine. Let's try to revisit. How about five days prior? Six days prior. I know it feels like you're revisiting
something historic, but it's just six days prior. And it's interesting how
they reflect a look at it. Like, Oh wow, that
was long time ago. I know that wasn't men. Whatever may be your
reaction. It's fine. Let's revisit seven days prior. Now let's try to scream. When was the last
time you had enough? Maybe it could be just today. It could be something
that was a week ago, a month ago, years ago. Let's try to visit it. Let's try to find it. How did that feel? Was it on a holiday? Wasn't one of those
things that you did when you feel good or you did because you need it to be whatever may be the reason. It's good to kind of
reflect back sometimes. If you're able to be visited more than one instance
of the variation. How about now? Visiting the way
YouTube that now was it just something that
you will say watching or reading and you go Gordon. You, your mind or your body
decided to take an hour? Or was it just one of those where you had planned to take an app and you did. However that maybe it's interesting to reflect
back and observe it. Look back to say, this is what I was thinking
or probably not the thing. You might want to take an
observation on how all of these four different occasions or instances that different. Or maybe for a better
understanding, we'll call them dimensions
because BD visited multiple of our
evening night sleep. The loan rest, the
waking up from it. But probably not so
many of the next. So it'd be interesting to know how that dimension,
each of them, How the same instance of v have been able to
reflect back and absorb it. And look at it and say, wow, that felt different. And it's interesting how we look back and absorb all
the four dimensions. And probably
different takeaways. And that's fine.
That's perfectly okay. Imagine if this is the reflection of
something that happened sometimes and macros beckons some things in minutes and
sometimes a bit longer. How would you feel? Or how I'm rich would be the expedience of reflecting
back on an entire day. I'm serving cells from a point of view and maybe
a distant point of view. And how that feels. Albedo reflect how we observe. What are the takeaways? Does that bring in
certain emotions? Does that bring in happiness? Doesn't bring in. Unhappiness. May be interesting to
observe the situation? Or is it the exact same
situation on different days? I choose to react differently. I observed things differently. This was one of my biggest
learning recently. Unlike I have promised
to you at the start of the session that this is my knowledge that
I'm sharing with you. I was on the other side. And that's why my
learning is more, I feel relatable to a lot of people who may have
never meditated before. Done mindful exercises. So from time to time, as I have learning, I will introduce them to you. I will share them with you. Because in my mind, knowledge is a gift. When it's shared. I upsell, but I love it. I have takeaways from it. But when I shared it, I have a certain comfort of knowing that probably it's
going to help somebody. Probably it's going to
the board, someone else. Maybe you have the
exact same taught or maybe a very
different point of view. And that's fine. That's okay. Because if I look at my
every day so differently, Isn't it possible that
you and I could be looking at the exact same thing in the opposite
ends of spectrum. And you could possibly
look at me and say, I have the exact same
thought process. Every single day when I wake up, every single day
when I go to bed. And that's fine. It's totally fine. It's interesting groups though, we'll have it like that. It's interesting to reflect
back on the habit like that. Mean, every nap,
every sleep pattern, every time I hit the pillow, it's a different part. And every time when
I'm getting all fit, it's a different observation. And then I reflect that even bigger observations like I feel sometimes your case
could be very different. And that's all right. Yet, the possibility of taking
observation on IT, spending some time
on quality time, reflecting back on it. To say, wow, I do this. I have the exact same routine. The exact same way I feel
every single morning. And that's all right. I hope this has been beneficial. I would love for you to
share your comments, your observation, and
from time to time, I want to stay with sharing
my observations with you. Thank you.