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1. Class Overview: How to Get Organised and Stay Organised: Well, hello and welcome
to this Skillshare class, where we're going to be talking about how to get organized at home so that you feel calmer and more control of your space. I bet you've been feeling frustrated when you're
looking for things in a rush or when it takes such a long time
to get the house ready for guests coming over. Now, it's one thing
to get organized, but this course will also
teach you how to stay organized so that you don't manage to undo all
of your hard work. Who am I? My name is Susie Kel. I'm a decluttering coach
from Dublin in Ireland. I help people to declutter their unwanted things and
make space for living well. I give them advice, encouragement
and create structure so that people can
tackle their stuff and conquer their chaos
once and for all. Firstly, I'll give you five
handy ways to get your stuff together so that it's easy to find and even
easier to put away. That way, you'll be
able to tidy up quickly and get on with the more fun things you want to do in life. Then we'll get into
ways to stay on top of things with some clever
storage ideas and easy tidy up routines that have worked for both me and my
clients over the years. So are you ready to
change your daily life for the better?
Let's get started.
2. Getting Organised: An Introduction: Let's start with a disclaimer, because I believe there's no one right way
to be organized. There are differences
of opinion. There's different
levels of comfort or desire to keep
things at a very, very clean level or
very organized level really is about how you
want to live your life. But there are some
general principles that you might want to take on board when deciding what systems you're
going to implement. So we want to be organized enough so that we feel
calm, we feel peaceful. We come home from work and
we don't feel overwhelmed. That's one of the things I
hear all the time from people, is that feeling of
just the sinking of, Oh, it's just so messy. We also want to
find things easily, find them quickly, get
out the door on time. You don't want to be rebuying things because
you can't find them. That is something I hear a lot, as well, which is really
frustrating for people. And also, you want to stay safe. We want things to
be organized in such a way that they
don't fall on you. You're not tripping over them. Nothing is spilling. Nothing
is damaging anything. You know, so these are the
things we're aiming for. And what we're not
aiming for is to be so organized that
you end up putting things down on
surfaces instead of in the organizing solution instead of in the fold or in the box, because it's just too difficult to maintain or
it's too annoying. We also don't want to be
so organized that only you can keep that organized and
to maintain the system, and no one else in your
house can keep up or even wants to participate
because it's too hard. And you also don't want it
to be so organized that you don't even try to maintain it because
it won't be perfect. You can't have the perfect color coded paper filing system. You can't have the
perfect cereal in different containers
in your kitchen system. So things just land
where they land, all or nothing thinking. We're aiming for something
that works for you, can be done on a daily basis
with any energy levels that you may have and that everyone else
can participate in. I'm going to give you five tips, five kind of guidelines
around this to help you stay organized once you've gotten
organized to begin with, because that's the main thing. We want it to be easy
to maintain and to feel satisfaction based on the resources that
we have available. Okay, so let's get into it.
3. The Cutlery Drawer Principle: So the first technique
I have for you is to implement the cutlery
drawer principle. When I first heard
about this, I thought, that's actually a brilliant way to think about organizing. Like, this is the
gold standard because a cutlery drawer typically works pretty well about
staying organized. It's very uncommon for you not to be able to
find a spoon or a fork when you need one because we need it
multiple times a day. So why does it work so well? Items have a specific place to go when they're not in use. It's very clear to everybody who uses these knives and forks
that that is where they go. If they don't, the
consequences are pretty big, we maintain them
because we need to eat. Everyone knows
where the drawer is and everyone uses
it the same way. It's easy to put things in, so there's no covers
over anything. It's clear where the knives go, the forks go, the spoons go. And we all participate in it. Every time a dishwasher is
emptied, that's what we do. Every time we need to grab
a spoon to have a yogurt, we know exactly where to go. So let's take some
of those principles and implement them in
other parts of our home. Using this as kind of
that gold standard. So here are some examples. Right. If you're the kind of
person who has post fliers, things coming from
kids' school bags, you come home from a
trade event and you have all these papers and they just
land on your coffee table, on a chair, on your kitchen counters,
it feels messy, right? But what if everybody
used a tray, used a folder somewhere for those incoming things to land, and there was a regular
rhythm of going to that tray and
moving things along, putting them in the recycling, paying bills, you know, leaving your vouchers
or anything there. And this can be as
simple as a tray, something that's just a dunk
and go kind of solution. But while it functions
really well, everybody knows that's
where the papers go. It's also still visual
and still just as easy as putting something down in a random place
around the house. But we've the benefit
of it's gathered, it's easy to see what's there, and it's easy to see when it's full up and needs attention. Try a tray, try a magazine file, something like that for papers, and it might be a great solution for papers coming
into the house. Another one is toys and crafts. I'm a crafter myself. I have paints, I do miniatures, origami, I do gardening. Each of those things has a clear pouch with a label on it. If I've planted some seeds
and I have a few leftover, I know where the seeds go. You know, if you've got a ego set or if you've
got a load of lego, a clear box with a label on it is where it can be swept up and put away very
quickly before dinner. Or you take out a load of paints to do a project
at the kitchen table, it's easy for
anybody to come in, sweep those things
up and put them back where they go because
they're clearly labeled, and it's easy to put
them away and to see where they
might have to land. So that's kind of a wonderful
way to make sure that different categories
of things are put away based on the
cutlery principle. Okay. Another one comes from a real life example that I
had with a client of mine. So she had a lovely work area, little office, the
front of her house, and her partner would come
in with his motorcycle gear, and it would just land
on top of shelves and cabinets and things and make it fairly unpleasant for her
to work in that small room. So what we maneuvered
and suggested was that we use a place that was just off of her utility room
to put up some hooks. She already had a few cabinets and things that she could use. There were places
for helmets to land, for any bicycle repair gear. There were hooks for the gear you have to
wear on the motorbike, the jackets and the
trousers and things. Just as easily, he could
get undressed from all of the motorcycle gear in that utility room as in
the front of the house. I meant that she
got her space back. So everyone knew that's
where the bike gear goes. There were very clear hooks. It was a very easy
system to implement. And if you needed to grab
something to do with the bike, it had a zone, and everything went back there
when we were finished with it. So there's just a few
examples where we can use that cutlery door principle
where everyone can participate and it's very
clear where things go. And then our lives are easier
and we're late less often, and we're not as
frustrated because we know where we
can find things.
4. Help Out Future You: Clear and Labelled Boxes: My next tip is to
help out future you. This I find very, very useful as somebody who is great at doing things
for someone else, not always great at
doing them for me. So it's the idea of
trying to do things now that make life easier for you so that you don't
have to remember things, you don't have to work
as hard because you can do a little bit more now to give yourself a
chance in the future. So how can I make life
easier for myself? Generally, I find externalizing the organizing system
as much as possible, making it really clear
what choices you made, how things should be maintained by making that as easy
as possible to follow. And you'll see what I
mean by that just now. So one example here is
say you had some wool, it could be for a
particular project. It could be just spare wool. If you put that in
a plastic bag and it goes in the bottom of your wardrobe and you don't
see it for six months, first of all, you might
not remember that it's there or you find it and you're not really
sure what it's for. So instead, you could have a clear box so you can see
pretty much all the time. Oh, there's wool there, so
you don't forget about it. You have a label on it
that says it's wool. You might say what kind of wool or how much of it there is, as much information as you like. So you don't have to remember
anything about that wool. And also it might be in a
box that's easier to clean. So say this was food items or paint or something
that might get messy, having it in a plastic
box, you know, whatever's handy
around the place, or something that's, you know, easy to wipe clean,
compared with, say, a wicker basket or
something like that that, you know, can't just be
wiped clean as easy as that. Thinking about how
can I make life as easy as possible for myself? By choosing the
containers by putting as much information as I can
into that organizing system. And then it's easy peasy
to find that will, use it again, and
understand what you were trying to achieve
while you were organizing.
5. Help Out Future You: Checklists: Another way you could do this in a very important example
is with a First Aid box. So maybe it's you're rushing
in there to get plasters, to get painkillers,
bandages, whatever you need. But keeping an inventory list that's ticked off,
that's crossed out, or even keeping I need to
buy again list can make it in an emergency very quick and easy to
find what do I need? Or you can keep
instructions in there, keep anything that's
really important so that you don't have
to hunt for things when you're already in a
difficult situation and you need help quickly now. You can also see
that those things are organized in a
vertical position, which means you can see as much as possible with one glance, because if you need something
from a first aid box, you need it quickly and clearly. So having a very
organized first aid list, a box, you know, something like that can really help in an emergency situation. So we don't have to
remember anything. We can see things clearly, and we're not caught out
at an important moment. A real life example of
thinking about future is here. This is a client that I had. She had boxes, as you see, a little bit of string with
labels attached saying, Okay, these are files. These are extra stationary,
whatever it is. Then within them, we had these reusable zip files and using a thing that I really
love is masking tape, which can be easily written
upon but also taken off. Here we have health claims. Maybe you put the date on
that as well, remember, yeah, that's this
year's health claims I need to do when I do my taxes. And then when that's finished, it can be taken off reused
for something else. But you can see that all of those files sit in
the box nicely. You can flip through
them if you want to and the label means it's really easy to see
what you have. If you have something
to add to that, something important, it doesn't just get thrown in the box. It goes in its exact folder because it's easy to unzip them. It's easy to see
where things go. Future you doing taxes,
looking for stationary. You can see there's even
one that says to file. It's clear what is required of the papers that go into that box and so you can
maintain that system. So that's one way
we can help out ourselves when we are choosing
an organizing system.
6. Help Out Future You: Set Up for the Next Day: An example of where you
can help out future you in an organizing system at home is with what some people have
called evening closing duties, a little bit like if you had a cafe and you were
wrapping up for the night. So maybe you have a list
of things that you do to help yourself out in the morning when you're
trying to get ready, I know myself, I'm more
of an evening person. So when you do things at night, when you're feeling a bit
groggy in the morning, you feel supported and cared
by yourself from the past. So this might be
washing the dishes, making sure you
have a clear sink, clearing any crumbs
off surfaces, giving them a quick wipe down, tidying up where you
spent the evening, clearing away books,
plates, you know, anything that you were
doing so that you have a nice welcoming seating area for when you come
to it the next day. Sometimes I find it
really helpful to lay out my outfit and to
prepare my breakfast, even if that's just
putting the little bit of coffee in the cafeterier, laying out, you know,
the plate and, you know, the knife and whatever you
need to make breakfast. So it kind of gives
you that little boost. It helps future you
to stay organized, to keep on your
toes, by just doing some things in the evening to
help out your future self.
7. Be the Guardian Surfaces: Handy Boxes: So the next tip goes hand in hand with all the
other things that I've said. You're helping out yourself. You are coordinating with
other people around you. And this is being the
guardian of surfaces. This is where things
tend to go and give us that visual information makes us feel overwhelmed because
there's a lot going on. It's very easy. It's
like a magnetism. Things just want to land places. So what we can do is we can
give them more clever places for them to land so that they look and feel more organized. So here's another
real life example. This was covered with bits of clothing and papers
and different things. So we've set up a lovely
little display here, a collection of items
in matching colors, and this is what you would
hope it would end up like. When you've protected
your surfaces, they're easier to clean, they
look nice, it's inviting. If something lands
on the surface, you pick it up quickly. You move that coffee cup
back to the kitchen, you deal with the papers or
you have somewhere that they land and that this is
the final product. This is what you want
it to look like when you're finished. And
to celebrate that. So what we do here
is, first of all, we have to identify
what surfaces are the hot zones
for gathering stuff, so then we know which ones to protect because it
might be that there are just a few different areas where things are
consistently landing. And as you're decluttering and you're doing
loads of good work, you don't want stuff to keep coming in to keep building up. So we can at least start
with protecting those areas. Or say you've cleared out
your kitchen cabinets, become the guardian
of those cabinets. Don't let spills, stay
unclean, not cleaned up. Don't let things
get out of order. Once you've decluttered
something, become its guardian. And that's just actions little
tweaks as you go along. So in this example,
it's a work desk. Stationery is piling up. There could be mugs here, papers, and it just
looks and feels messy. You can't find what you need. Without doing something
completely drastic, storing papers in a
completely different room, forcing yourself to do
something that feels unnatural, how about we use the actual surface that the hot zone has appeared on and giving
things place to go. I enjoy a jar or a mug
where you can have anything from hair
bobbins, scissors, pens, I even have matches
landing somewhere, and it looks really
neat and tidy, but it's just as easy as
landing on the table. Similarly here, there's
a magazine file for your papers to go in and
it's easier to browse them. The things are in
the same place with a tiny tweak that
means that they look and feel more organized. And so as things land
on your surfaces, pick them up and put them in these places that you've
given them to go. Another real life example
is there were a number of different cleaning products in this very small bathroom where there wasn't any other
storage available. We found some boxes. We
put the things in there. We put the cleaning products together and a few
little things, and all of them
were grab and go. And they weren't so overfilled we couldn't see or
get what we needed. But the same things
just hanging out on that ledge wouldn't look quite so purposefully organized if they
weren't in the boxes. So even just a simple box can
make you feel put together, feel important, and
also give you, okay, if it doesn't fit
in the box, maybe it doesn't deserve to have space in this little bathroom because how many products
do we really need? So it does a good job. So putting a box there
gives it somewhere to land.
8. Be the Guardian Surfaces: Be a Waiter: Another thing I often say about guarding surfaces
is be a waiter. Every time you get
up and leave a room, take your dirty dish with you. You're going upstairs, take
the thing up with you, take the thing down with you, make use of every
journey that you do around the house and
always be holding something. So it actually eliminates
you having to do a cleanup job
because you're just always doing it. And
it becomes a habit. Your hands kind of go, What can I grab every
time you get up? And it just builds
that organizing into every action that you're
doing rather than having to become its own chore.
9. Be the Guardian Surfaces: Strategic Storage: Another thing you could think of is strategically
placing storage, a bit like that desk. What if instead of things landing on the kitchen
table and on the chair, you gave them somewhere
nearby where they could land, a coat rack, a hook because then it looks
purposeful, it looks organized. But you're not forcing
yourself to do something really
unnatural and put it far away from where you
were just landing things down. Because we're not about forcing ourselves to do
difficult things. We're doing little tweaks that make things look
and feel organized. An example of this
from real life again, is what I call a
teddy bear hotel. There were toys all
over the floor in this particular house
that I worked on. We found a basket and I said, What if at the end of the day, the kids went, Okay,
everyone has to go to bed. They have to go to
the teddy bear hotel, rather than land on the floor, they can land on a
basket that sits on the floor that looks
nice, looks organized, and the kids know they
can find their toys and their teddies in there whenever they want
them after that. It's a little tweak, it's
a little bit of fun. It's still on the floor, but it looks and feels organized. This is some of
the ways that you can be a guardian
of your surfaces.
10. How to Store Temporary Things: This one was a real
aha moment for me. Keeping spaces for
temporary things. Why is it landing in an awkward place on
a kitchen counter, on a table, on the floor because it doesn't
deserve a long term home. Why don't we give it
somewhere that it's allowed to be while
it's in our house, it's easy to find,
easy to maintain, and so it doesn't land in
places we don't want it to be. So what kind of
things can these be? Well, when things don't
need a permanent home, things like a craft project. You're doing paint by numbers. You're doing a lego project
that's not finished. You're making something
for a friend. You know, those are not long
term craft supplies that deserve to go in a
particular labeled box that you make all special. But maybe you keep a pouch, you keep a shoe box, you keep something to store that craft project in
while you're doing it so that it's not taking over the kitchen table or your desk or something like that while you're working on it. And when you're finished, as we saw in previous examples, you can take the label off and reuse it for something else. I do this all the time
with cross stitch, with paintings, all
sorts of things, and I find it very helpful
to keep everything you need for a project in a kit for
the duration of that project. Another one that can
be very helpful is library books or books that
you've borrowed from someone. Keeping a little bit of empty space on a
shelf or somewhere nearby specifically
for library books that are being read and then will leave because otherwise, they land beside your bed on
the floor in strange places, and you'll need to find them
when you need to find them. But actually giving
them permission to land somewhere can be
very, very helpful. And I do love the
library myself. Charity shop donations. You may want to keep
a long term box or a bag for your charity
shop things so that you don't just find something and leave it beside the front door
under the stairs, ready to go out, but that
it has its container and it's ready to grab and go
when the opportunity arrives. And this can be helpful if you put a very
clear label on it. I suggest some masking tape, a bit of marker, and then you can even reuse that
box if you want to. But giving them a
designated container and a space can mean that they aren't scattered around or left where you
found them saying, I'll deal with that
some other day. It just gives that one little step further towards getting them
out of your house. And then another one is gifts. You may have a little gift bag, a little something
you brought back from a trip and you want
to give it to someone, and it just sits out on a counter so you don't
forget about it. So what about having
a little drawer, a shelf, a spot in your car? Whatever works for you, where
gifts can go so that you're reminded and that they're not taking up space
that they shouldn't, and that you get them out to the person so they
can enjoy them. So here are just some
temporary things that deserve a shelf that deserve a container for the time
that they're in your house, so that we can protect
our surfaces and we can keep organized without these
kinds of things taking over.
11. The One Step Rule: Remove Lids: Okay, so let's talk about
the one step put away rule. How can we make it so easy to put things away that
even your kids can do it? Even somebody who doesn't
know you can do it because we want it to be as easy as possible to get things
back where they should be. Now, you may have
heard the phrase, don't put it down, put it away. But that is only
something that works if your way of putting things
away is not complicated, if it's clear, if
it's easy to do. So let's make it easy to put things away
rather than put them down. Let's make us want to do
it, make it satisfying. Here are some ways that
we can make it less complicated to maintain
our organizing systems. Okay, so what if we made
it easier to tidy up? One thing I suggest
is to remove lids. It's really straightforward. What if it was as
easy as possible to just pop things
back in their boxes? In a drawer, you don't have to take three boxes down
and take the lids off. What if you had
them in such a way that you could just drop and go? So remember our wool
example for before. That's one way we could do that. I'd also suggest that
as you are setting up those lovely places
for things to drop easily, broaden
your categories. The more complicated your system is where you have guest
toels in one place, your upstairs tells,
your downstairs tells, your fancy ts, your messy tells. Broaden those categories,
allow those to go in one general area so that if someone was
putting away towels, it's okay if they
don't go exactly where you would need them to go because that's
just where towels go. One way you can
help yourself with this is if you color coordinate. I've seen it work really well where towels for
messy things can be, you know, a green color. Your guest towels can be blue. Your towels for the
master bathroom can be gray so that you know
exactly what they are. So as they land in the place, the color itself will help
you figure out what's what. This is also great for Duves. So having them very
specifically color coordinated to different rooms and different bed sizes can mean that you don't
get them mixed up, and it's just that bit
easier to put them where they need
to go and to take them out as you need them. So, consider broad categories
easy for things to go away.
12. The One Step Rule: Store Upright: Another thing I'm a big fan
of is storing things upright, making it literally
as easy to pick something up in one sweep. So what that means is
things aren't blocking. They aren't sitting
and stopping you from seeing what's there and also
from just picking them up. So here the examples are tools. Maybe you have pencils that sit in a drawer in some
kind of pencil case. It's just as easy to pick them out of a cup and
put them back in. Sometimes I use empty jars as well for
this kind of thing, for bobbins, for I even
have one for used matches. Just as easy to pop them in
as they're cooling down. Then also with filing papers, the more you have
to punch holes, you have to put things in
individual plastic pockets. The more fuss, the less likely you are to sit down and do
it or becomes a bigger job, whereas if you have
something that is like an accordion file, a simple file like this, drop and go, keep it simple, well labeled, and a one step put away and it makes
such a difference. Someone who's great at
this is Mari Condo. Here clothes are folded and
placed in an upright fashion. These boxes are from Ikea. I find it really helpful to be able to see everything
I have and that if I wanted to pick
any one of those t shirts up, it's one motion. I'm not disturbing
things that are piled on top and
causing more mess, like you may have seen in many
different clothing shops. It works really, really well. There's lots of videos where
she shows you how to do it. But this is something my
hands do automatically now, and I find that one step grab what I need and see
everything that's there. That visual and vertical
stacking is very, very helpful for keeping
things organized.
13. The One Step Rule: Limit Stacking: One thing that you
should particularly pay attention to in a kitchen is to limit
the stacking of things. Now, this tends to happen, as in this example
here with food, with plates, pots and
pans, particularly. So if you can have a
rule like you don't have more than two things
on top of each other, if it's possible,
it means that you can access the things at
the bottom that bit easier. And also, you don't have a crazy stack of things
that may fall on you. And one thing I do
particularly enjoy doing with cans or with anything you have multiples of is, like
in this picture, setting them up like
you're in a shop so that you can see all the
varieties that you have, and it's easy to get the
ones from the front. Sometimes I even stack cans of soft drinks in the
fridge like this. So it uses a small
sliver of space, but you know exactly what
it is because there's only one of each kind
of thing in each row. And it looks really nice
and satisfying as well.
14. The One Step Rule: Store Where Used: I also would recommend
storing things where you use them and that
might be sometimes in an unconventional way. Here are two examples
from my home. One is we have a large
scissors in the kitchen that sits with our cooking
utensils up on the hooks. What it means is at
a very quick glance, we can see where
the scissors is. Now, this is not a scissors
we use for cooking. It's just for all the
different things we need. You're opening a package,
you're cutting sellotape, you're doing something really quickly and you need scissors. It's a color that stands out from the other things
that are up there, and also it's just easy to find. You don't have to rummage
in a drawer for it, and it's one that's
placed where everyone in the family knows that
it needs to go back there. Another one is that I keep a spare little thing of deodorant
in my underwear drawer. So my official deodorant is in the bathroom where I
get ready every morning, brush my teeth, do my
skin care deodorant. But sometimes you forget or
you just need to top it up. So often I found that when I
was putting on my underwear, I would remember, Oh,
I need deodorant. I keep a deodorant there, so I don't have to
go looking for it. I keep smelling nice. But, you know, it's not the most conventional
place to keep a deodorant, but I find that keeping it
there where I use it means that I always know
where I can find some deodorant in that
particular instance. So that just takes a little bit of observing the
way that you use your space and putting
things where you use them.
15. Make it Look Pretty: Alright, here are
some bonus tips to make your organization
look pretty. So consider this the cherry
on top. Not necessary. But can make it just
extra satisfying when you've done the hard work of putting things in their place. So one thing when you're dealing with surfaces is
grouping things in threes or fives is a particular design principle and varying the
shapes and the sizes, I can look a little bit more
organized and purposeful. Also putting them
over to the side. It follows what's called
the rule of thirds and makes things just look kind of a little bit more artistic, a little bit more
pleasing to the eye. So remember, threes
and fives are what you're aiming for there
rather than even numbers. Here's an example, a couple
of little books together. Those are actually coasters made into a cactus,
which is cool. But it just works really well. If you consider the books as one item and then the
other two things on top. Can be cute, neat. As I said before, there is
something magical in a tray. Use a basket, use a tray, and suddenly cooking
utensils, as you can see, their bathroom accessories
look really purposeful and they are meant to
go together because there is something containing
them in a visual way. They could just as easily
sit on the counter, but for some reason, when things are gathered
together on a tray, on a basket,
something like that, they look like they have very, very craftily been
displayed there. The other thing is,
I usually stick with neutral tones because then you can use those trays around the
house in different places. They're not specific
to one color scheme. Another thing is if you have the means to get
all new containers, try and get matching ones, whether that's
matching in materials. You can see there you've got white plastic or maybe
they're from the same place. Or you have those
wicker containers. Having the same materials or
even getting them all from the same place means that they match each other both in size, which is great for stacking or for keeping extra
ones together, and they just look
more cohesive. So if you want to consider this, maybe just pick
one place that you get them from that you know you can get them
again and again, and choosing a matching color or even the same
containers can make things look very
cohesive and nice. And then, lastly, if you want to keep
things looking spiffy, keep your cleaning
supplies handy. If you're always wiping a sink, if you're always tidying up a particular surface or
your car gets a bit dusty, keeping a cloth handy
in that place can make things look really nice
and keep them organized. When you're already
just sitting there, you've just sat in the car, grab the cloth, do 3 seconds. You don't have to go looking
for your cleaning supplies, and it just means that a
bit like being a waiter, you're always doing a
little bit of organizing, a little bit of cleaning and to keep things
looking good because it's as convenient as possible for you to
keep them looking good.
16. Why Was it Landing There? View Like a Guest: Module, we're going to look at why was the Clutter landing
there to begin with. Sometimes it's hard to see
things from, you know, a different perspective or to imagine what might have
been if you had just moved into this place and you would
do things a different way or change your habits just slightly to stop things
building up again. Because if Clutter built
up before, you know, things don't stop
coming into our lives, and we have to think about you know, why is it landing there? And is there something I can
do to help it not build up, whether that's changing
your shopping habits, changing your routines, the things you do every
day to keep things tidy, and assessing how good the homes are for
things where they live. Are they holding you back from keeping your house clutter free? So basically, it's time
to look under the hood. Let's get to the root of the
issue to stop it building up again because it's not just about making
it look pretty, it's about making
real life changes. Sorry, we have to get
into the deep stuff. We have to face our
demons together. So, one thing I often suggest to people is to try viewing
your space like a guest. Like, what if you know, it's a bit like when you
invite someone over and suddenly see you
see the marks on the wall and the dirt and things that are
out of place that just your eyes glaze over, you know, in your regular life. So viewing it like a
guest, if you walked into, say, for example, here,
your work from home space, would you suddenly
see the coffee cups and the piles of
things on the floor, the things that shouldn't
be in this space? What if you were to
choose just three of those things and find
a solution for them? You know, what if you
kind of went, Okay, maybe if I just put the toys back in the
playroom, in the kids room? What if I gather up
those coffee cups? Hmm. I wonder if I
could put a tray there. I wonder if I could
have a flask that I refill instead of bringing cups after cups into this room, and maybe I need to think longer term about where
I store my files. Maybe I need to overhaul my home organization
system there. And we start to view
it like a guest. Don't panic, and we can start to dig into those
problems one at a time. We can make a list
we did before, put it in order of priority, and tackle it one
thing at a time.
17. Why Was it Landing There? More Examples: So here are some examples of where you may have glazed over. Here's some just examples
from clients that I've had. This was in a bedroom. You kind of don't
realize that you've got stuff there that's
been there for, like, there's videotapes
there for 20 years. And there's picture frames. You know, maybe
and there's vases. So maybe we just want to
dedicate that space to books. And something simple like that
suddenly you've got space. Suddenly, things are
looking a little bit more manageable and you
can find what you need, and you bring things
to other homes. Here's a simple living room from a family that
I worked with. And like, this isn't too bad. We moved the sofa and there was a fair few cheerios under the sofa as you do when
you have small kids. But by the end of the session, I set up different parts of the room with you can
see in the corner there, I've got a little teddy
bear hotel in the basket. I've got a nursing station. We've got clear floors. We've got cozy little cushions, and we just picked
up a few things, and that could just
be grabbing a basket, tray, and just going around and picking up anything that's
not meant to be there, putting a laundry
basket in that room to grab any loose clothing
that you find. But it's kind of
viewing things with fresh eyes and
thinking, Alright. Did I notice that before? Or is it something
that's just blended into the background and become an underlying
stress that I don't even know is
stressing me out?
18. Why Was it Landing There? Kitchen Problems: Okay, so now an
example of where you might have a room like this particular kitchen
where you can see, there's a fair bit of clutter. There's stuff getting
in the way of cooking, of living life comfortably of just making it easy to clean. And also, it's a bit
stressful to look at. So why? Not just what is landing here, but why are these
things landing there? And can we follow
that train of thought back to figure out what
we might need to do? So identifying
different problems, identify them here and
give you some ideas. And I do trust you to think of creative ways to
address these problems. Sometimes it's
simple, sometimes it takes a little bit of ingenuity. So let's have a look
at what's going on in this room. Okay. One of the first things here
is we have unfinished tasks. This one I'm referring
to the middle piece there where it looks like
they are baking, okay? Maybe pulled out
a load of stuff, started measuring
things, got distracted, something came up,
didn't finish it. A little bit like a
knitting project, and it sits in the
corner fridges or a book that you leave out somewhere and you never come back to it. So things are unfinished, so it feels like putting them away is not what you want to do. You do want to come back to it. So you just leave the stuff out. Another very common reason
is we need to remember it. So this is the fliers. This could be a
doctor's appointment. This could be a bill
that needs paying or brochure for something and you want to
remember it and go, Oh, yes, I need to do that. It gets dirty. It falls down. It's in the way. It gets overwhelming. And also, this might be
scattered all over the kitchen, not the most helpful. So sometimes people who
are very visual need things to stay out out
of sight is out of mind. Another reason might be that
your storage areas are full. We do the laundry, and we have towels, but we can't put them
away because, you know, the laundry cupboard,
the airing closet, whatever it is, the hot
press, we call it here. There's it's jam packed. There's no space for the towels, so the towels, just go on the
floor. They just hang out. You know, this makes
a lot of sense. I've seen people hanging
up clothes on chairs and just on hooks in their room because their wardrobes
are so full of clothes. So, interesting.
Why is it there? Because there's nowhere
to put it away. There's no home for it. It
could be that something is new or there are areas in your home that are being
used for something else. So you've got a nice tall
brush that you've just bought. There's nowhere to clip it on. There's no appropriate closet for it because it's brand new. So right now there's no home,
so you can't put it away. Sounds simple, find
a home for it, but we need to maybe do a bit of rearranging first before
we can figure that out. And lastly, with the pot, maybe this is something
you've cooked and you're just too busy. You've got to go take
care of the kids or your schedule is really full, too busy to deal with
something to completion now. So it sits out. It
hangs out there. And so all of these things are very valid reasons for things to be sitting out
and in front of you. So we come to it with
compassion with understanding, but let's see how we could maybe address some of
these by looking at why so that these problems don't keep happening
again and again. We make some changes,
we make some tweaks, and then hopefully
it'll be a little bit easier to tidy this up
again the next time.
19. Why Was it Landing There? Kitchen Solutions: Okay, so we can solve
all of these problems, and I'm going to give you
a few suggestions now. So, if we are too busy
to do it right now, why don't we just punch
out a little bit of time? Just a blitz 15 minutes.
Stick on some music. Sometimes I put on a TV show
on my laptop right next, the ironing or something
that's not that exciting. Also, if you have a project like we talked about, you know, the lovely jumper that you're
knitting or the book you didn't read or the baking
that didn't get finished, it's okay to abandon projects
and just say that is finished and return
those supplies to the box where they came from, give them to someone else. Sometimes it's just drawing a
line in the sand and going, I'm going to abandon
that project. That's absolutely fine. Okay, so we've done the dishes, grand. Need to remember it. What if we found a dedicated
space? I love a wall. I love a tray, a folder, somewhere where there's actually a dedicated space for
those things to go. And then it can
still be in view. There still can be
that visual reminder, but it is not taking
up counter space. It's not getting
lost because it is literally pinned into place. So think about giving visual reminders, things
you have to remember, whether it's a shelf to keep things you need
to give back to someone, a box,
something like that. Give it a spot, and then it'll
be just one place for it. There's no home for the bucket, the storage areas are full. This is where we go back
our inventory method. We write down things
that need to do. We follow our train
of thought, Well, I can't declutter that because I can't put it away anywhere. So we're going to prioritize high traffic spaces,
like for example, here, under the sink,
under the stairs, the linen cupboard, where those problems seem to be
coming up again and again. I know you might think, but
everywhere needs to be done. Some areas will have
a bigger impact. And if we prioritize clearing floors and
countertops first, we'll start to have that
ripple effect of things going away out of sight and
we can find them again. And then we're left with this. We've identified, you know, this isn't an impossible task. There are certain things. There are certain reasons
why things are falling here. And so now that we
have better storage, we have places for
visual reminders to go. We have given
ourselves, you know, a small period of time
to get things done, and we've abandoned projects, and we've just done
some simple things, given ourselves some solutions. We can repeat this
again and again, and the next time, it'll be even quicker and it'll
be even quicker, and we can protect those
surfaces and keep them clean, and then we can do anything
we want in this kitchen.
20. Room Rules: Part 1: So we've identified the reasons
why things are getting, you know, building up
and getting in the way. And now we want to do our
best to keep things tidy. So there are some ways we
can introduce some rules, some things to aim for
on a regular basis, which is very much customized to you so that we can
keep things in tiptop shape so we
don't have to do a big decluttering or
organizing blitz in the future. We can just keep
things ticking over. So first of all, do you
remember the cutlery drawer? Do you remember why
it worked so well to have these organized
a certain way? So everyone knows where
the drawer the drawer is. Everyone uses it the same way. We do the dishes, we use the dishwasher. We put the forks
spoons and knives in their respective places so
everyone can find them. And there's a ritual
involved that, you know, if we put
these in another place, things fall apart. So if we follow
these principles, if we keep our room, like we'd keep a cutlery drawer where things go back
where they should go, what if we introduce that to other parts of different rooms that we frequently use on
daily or weekly basis? So introducing room rules, which I think is more helpful
to call room guidelines. So giving yourself
something to aim for if you were to tidy a room, what would we be aiming for so that it feels livable,
it's manageable? This is especially
true in smaller spaces where a few things out of place really will
get on top of you. So say this is your living room, and this is typically
what it looks like just before you go to bed. What if you had some guidelines for when you finish
using a space, you're about to go out,
you're about to go to bed, whatever it is, so you
want to reset this room. You could have coats
and bags are hung up. You come home from work,
people come home from school. There are hooks where
things get hung up, whether that's here
on a coat rack, under the stairs in their rooms, so they have a home
for things to go. They aren't falling
on the floor, they aren't going
draped over things. It could be okay
that they initially land in different places. But if the room was
to get finished up, these things will go away. And the key here is to
have a few simple rules, the most important
because we can't spend an hour cleaning every room
every time we leave it. You're using blankets or you've got cushions
that get tossed around. Maybe they go back on
their respective couches, and we simply fold up or even ball up the blankets
and throw them in a basket. So we put something
next to where we use it so that it can
easily be put away. And in particular, I do enjoy
a cozy basket of blankets. It looks really nice,
but it also just means that it's a bit
easier to make things, you know, get back
to a reset point. And notice that
there's no lid on it, and it's big enough for
all of those blankets.
21. Room Rules: Part 2: Leave a room as you
found it. So if you've had some toast and tea in there, make it that you
bring those dishes out of there when you leave. One for cleanliness. That's, you know, grand. But also, it just
means that things will all gather
together in one place. And when you're doing
the dishes, you don't have that mad
scramble for things. So this could look like
having, say, a tray, where everybody puts
their dirty things on, and then you can
take it with you and you in a similar vein, I use often what's
called an upstairs, downstairs box that can gather things that need to go back to another place and making it a priority to clear
floors and surfaces. If you've got books or papers
or anything on any tables, just that they're neatly put away and that we
prioritize those areas. You're not going to deep clean the sofas and the
lamps and the shelves, but we can focus
on a few surfaces and aim for that to be clear. Then at the end, we have a
place that we can easily sit down and do any nice task that we might want to do without having
to clean up first. I protip could even be having a little mini hand
hoover nearby. So if you need to do
a quick little clean, you could do that
within seconds as well. So having some guidelines
for when you leave a room, for example, here,
here's a client's place. This was their bedroom. What I said to her was
this particular dresser, there were lots of
things gathering on it, I said that we're
going to aim for as much as possible
to clear the top, that we don't have
permanent homes for things on top because
it feels messy, it feels, you know, a
bit stressful to see. So this was an area we were
going to try and keep clear. As a rule, when we were
resetting the room, make the bed clear
this surface top. So I wonder what room
guidelines could keep your particular
problematic rooms tidy if we were to
just implement them.
22. Storage Tips: Hooks, Drawers and Boxes: Homes for things. It's
something you might hear a lot, and it's always nice to be reminded of that there's
lots of different options, and you might have
a preference for one kind of way of
storing versus another. But my basic principle
is to keep it simple, to remove as many steps as possible to getting
things to home. And make it obvious for people. So whether that's
labeling things or just, yeah, reducing the steps. So I'm a big fan of hooks
anytime you've got, so like a bag can easily, you know, go on a floor, go shoved in a closet. But when it's on a hook,
it's just so easy to grab to see it looks
really purposeful. And if you're dealing
with a smaller space, using any wall space is always a winner because
we're trying to use, you know, get things
up off the floor. It makes it easier to clean, as you can see from the
first picture there. Those don't even have to
be drilled into the wall. You can have them hook
over the top of a door. I've also used very successfully those temporary command hooks, and I have two in my wardrobe that are
just for my backpacks. So hooks, fantastic. It's a one step action and
gets things up off the floor. Drawers. We love a drawer. I particularly love a
drawer for clothing, done the Mi Condo method. It can be very, very useful in terms of seeing
everything that you have. And the key with drawers is to not let
things get muddled. So like here, we have
drawer dividers, whether that's like
the ones you'd find in a cutlery drawer or just
boxes to divide things. And it gives things a very clear home where they can land. We also don't want
to stack things on top of each other because
we can't see them, and then the drawer
cannot close. An effective drawer
is where it's easy to give something at home and things
don't get muddled. Boxes, easy peasy. This can be anything
from takeaway containers that you clean and
you upcycle them. A key thing for boxes is it makes a lot of sense
if you choose similar ones, one, because then
they slot together. I'm a big fan of
IKA boxes because they're just designed to
slot into Ikea shelves. And think about your materials. So, are they easy clean? Do they match each other?
Can they be recycled? And then neutral colors? Because if you have a white
box or just um wicker basket, it can go in many
different places. Whereas, if you've got a red
box and then you're trying to put it in a room that's
very calm and green, just be jarring and unpleasant. Think about the versatility of your boxes and
their ease of use. Matching boxes that stack in a neutral color, they're
a winner for me.
23. Storage Tips: Folders, Bags, Baskets and Limits: I'm just going to
end up stacking those papers next to the folder. So we've got an
accordion file in the middle there,
popping things in, nice and easy, you know, pretty much open
pop in. I'm happy. You've got a magazine
file on the left there, nice for stacking things. And that's a very
pretty looking one. So, you know, it's easy just to pop things in and they're not
getting in the way. Then a solution I had
with a client I really, really liked is kind of zip
files in different baskets. The baskets are labeled,
the zip files are labeled, and they have lovely
little labels made of masking tape that
can easily be pulled on and off because if you
put a permanent sticker on, it's not as nice having to, you know, color over
that or cover it. But if you have a sticker
that can come on and off, you can reuse things. So any kind of folder, try and have as few actions as possible to get things into
that and then happy days. Bags and baskets. You're pretty much going to have shoe boxes, bags
anywhere around. So when you're making
temporary solutions, you're going, Oh, I need to gather all these
things together. Brilliant. Grab them.
I love a basket. You've seen before
things are gathering. So if you wanted to make
a reading basket that has your book and glasses, lip bum, X, something like that. It looks so much tidier
than it all just being scattered all over a little table beside where
you're reading. Often, if I am
working downstairs, I will put all of my
workstuff in a bag and carry it down and it
becomes a little work bag. So when you're creating
kit things like that, it can be very, very useful to just use whatever bags
and baskets you have. And similarly, do you see how
pretty these materials are? If you go for something
neutral and chic, it'll look like it's
meant to be there, and it doesn't have
to be something gaudy or just a plastic shopping bag. But if that's all
you have to start with, that's absolutely fine. Lastly, I just want to
talk about when you're creating homes to
think about how much goes in that home and this is where you might
think about visual limits. So when we're decluttering but also organizing, going, Okay, once this bookshelf is full, the rules are it doesn't
go on the floor, it doesn't go beside it
doesn't go on top of it. This is how many
books I can have. And obviously, this is very
much from person to person. Another one might be, I have
the tools that can fit in this toolbox because we want to be able to
close our toolbox, or I have enough
towels, you know, that there's enough for every person and maybe if there's an accident
or something, there's an actual limit to the amount of towels that
I can fit in this space, and that's how many
towels that I need. So to consider giving
yourself limits, even not filling things to the brim so that there's
easy access in and out. If you've ever tried to
take clothing out of a wardrobe where everything is very tight, you can't browse. So consider giving
yourself the tipping point at which you need to
get different storage or reduce the amount of
stuff that you have.
24. Tidy Up Routines: Evening Tidy: So we've talked about rules for a room when you're moving
around your space, things landing in good homes, quick little tidy up things. But now I want to tell you
about some rituals you can do when maybe
bigger events happen, like coming home from a trip, like finishing a
project or school year or some big change that
comes with a lot of stuff, and it's good to have a bit of a routine around
that so that you can quickly get past that before it becomes a lingering
clutter and mess. So what makes an
effective routine? Well, it's a logical sequence. So things like maybe
if you were to write out some of the things you wanted
to do in your routine, if you were looking
at your kitchen, you're getting ready
for the next day, as we'll talk about just now, if you were to do the
dishes in the sink and clear the sink before
you fill the kettle, for the coffee the next morning before you fill
your water bottles, it's a lot easier to do. You know, it's a bit like trying to take your socks off
before your shoes. Like, make life
easier for yourself. Do things in a logical sequence. And maybe that'll just take
a bit of brainpower more. Maybe it'll be really obvious. Sometimes having a checklist can be very, very satisfying, whether that's you
have it on a busted or I've seen people
get a plastic pocket and use a whiteboard marker and tick it off every day or
a checklist on your phone. Be very satisfying to make
sure you feel like you're not forgetting anything
a little bit like when you're getting
ready to go on a trip. An effective routine
is repeatable. So it's not so intricate and perfect and
wonderful that you can't do it. So maybe it just has the
most essential steps to it, but it has to be something
that's not horrible to do, so it's repeatable. And
it adapts over time. What works and doesn't work.
It's like going on a trip. I used to always
sometimes I'd pack, like, a candle and tea and
things like that. And then I found that I
just wasn't using them. So then I just stopped
bringing them. Or you bring an extra
T shirt just in case, and you go, Oh, this
was a lifesaver. Maybe then that's something you definitely bring
on your next trip. So let's look at some
routines that might be helpful to keep on top
of things at home. So one might be an
evening house reset. This is a little bit
like room rules, but it's more dedicated
to gold the next morning. So, this might have
things like every night, I set up my coffee machine
so I just press the button, and coffee is ready
to go because, you know, if you're early, that's just something you don't
want to be fiddling with. Let the morning
greet you kindly. Maybe you don't have
any dirty dishes so that they don't get
crusty and they're not there to greet you
in the morning and making you feel like
you're not on top of things, and maybe you clear surfaces
and you wipe them down. Maybe you just have
those three steps or you pick up anything that's on the floor or
something like that. It can make a huge difference to starting off the next
really, really well.
25. Tidy Up Routines: Coming Home and Trips: How about a coming home routine? So this is something
that helps the kind of person that throws their
keys down somewhere, and they can never,
ever find them. So it's giving things
a dedicated spot. Currently, I have a
drawer that has boxes, somewhere where, you know, what are the things
you're always going out of the house with
keys, phone, wallet? That all lives in this
coming home zone. Near to that, there should be
somewhere where your shoes, the bags you're going to use, your scarves, your hats,
all that kind of stuff. So whether that's
just a little spot in your bedroom closet, having somewhere
dedicated to putting things down and basically
unpacking yourself, and then when you
need to get out of the house and easy packing
everything is just there, I do recommend a
coming home zone. So you have that little
routine to sort of unpack. One thing that could be
helpful is unpacking those essentials from
your bag and hanging up an empty bag makes
it a lot easier than figuring out where
everything is in different bags, especially if it's something
important like your wallet. So coming back from a trip, this is where you may have
been away for a few weeks, and we have that
thing where we have a looming bag full
of things to unpack. One thing I find
really helpful is just actually emptying the bag
onto a table, onto a surface. And then I can just pick a way. As I'm moving about the house, I might bring things down.
That can be very helpful. So giving yourself a time
frame and a place that's easy to put your suitcase away and to empty
your stuff out, putting things in the laundry, so maybe doing a load
of laundry as soon as you can, and
buying groceries. So giving yourself
kind of that ritual. So, you come home,
you have a shower. You literally just dump
out the bag, put it away. You put on some laundry. The next day you buy
groceries, dah dah dah dah. So having that kind
of list of things can help get back on your
feet after a trip and stop things building
up and feeling overwhelming and just boiling it down to those simple things. It's usually laundry, unpacking, and then getting the house
ready to live in again. Also bonus tip. If you clean
before you go on a holiday, come home to
something beautiful, it's a gift to yourself.
26. Class Project: Set Up an Organised Kit: Now it's time for
your class project. So we've learned different
ways to get organized, and a lot of those
involve containing things that make sense together
in a particular box, a basket, or even a tray. So what I want you to do is
to pick an area of your life. Maybe that's your
morning routine, maybe that's coming
home from a trip, something that's
frustrating for you, and I want you to create a
kit to make that easier. So this could be a baking kit where you get all the different baking ingredients together. In a lovely box, you
put a label on it, and then whenever you
feel like baking, you just pull that one box down and everything
you need is there. Or this could be a
tray where you put all the contents
of your pockets or your handbag so that when
you come in the door, you can put your
keys, your wallet, anything else you
might need there, and so you're not hunting for it the next time you
go out the door. I look forward to
seeing what you do and what kind of
kids you come up with. Please post your pictures
and I'll be sure to leave a comment and encourage
you for all your hard work.