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1. About Transformation Journey With Journaling: Hi, I'm Caprice, and welcome to the transformation
journey with Journaling. I'm a skill share
instructor and a writer. For the last seven years, I've been on a
transformation journey, and journaling has been
a huge part of that. I want to bring to you all of the things that I have
learned through journaling. In this course, you're going to learn journaling is important. Also, how to create a journaling practice
that works for you, even with your busy schedule. The benefits of journaling for your emotional well being and how quickly those
actually take effect. You're going to
remove perfectionism, that thing that's been holding you back for such a long time. You're going to learn simple and effective journaling prompts and techniques that make
journaline fun and easy to do. You're also going to learn how to do self care for yourself. Who is this course for?
This course is for anybody looking to make a
transformation in your life. It's for anyone who wants to
start a journaling practice. For those that maybe started a journaling practice before
and didn't keep with it. For those that have
been journaling for years and maybe want to up
their game a little bit. It's for anybody who again wants to make a
change in their life. At the end of this course, what you'll discover
is the new person that's been hiding
within you for so long. You're going to discover
new passions, new desires. You're going to remove all the things that you've
been holding onto for years. You are going to
get rid of that. You're going to
become the person that you've been wanting
to come for so long. I look forward to seeing you in class, and thank you so much.
2. Why Journal: So why journal. It's become a pretty buzz
word buzz thing to do, I want to say in the
last year, two years, probably, especially since we've had some changes to
our environment. But the thing is,
why not journal. So journaling has been
proven scientifically. They've done studies
for this that shows that in as little as 12 weeks, just journaling 15 minutes for a three days of those weeks. Your anxiety reduces your
overall health improves. And your mental
clarity is there. I guess the question
is why not journal. Journaling allows you to get all the rumble that you hear in your
mind all day long, and you just sometimes
want to say, stop, but you just don't
know where to stop. That is another
reason a journal, just to get it out of your mind. Sometimes you don't have
people that you can talk to. Maybe it's information you just don't want to
share with others, but it's wonderful to write
it down and to get it out. There is no reason or no format
that you have to follow. You can just take that pen, that piece of paper, and just write whatever
comes to your mind. Do not think about it. So journalin allows you to
release those emotions, release that energy that
you're having by there. It allows you to release
the fact that you're stuck. It allows you to find
the opportunities to evaluate what are those
constant thoughts that are always in your mind? You might think that you're having a thought
about something that happened at work or
something that happened at home or how the kids
are bothering you. When in fact, it
really could just be something that
someone had said or did or you saw something that might have
triggered something you buried a long time ago. Talking it through and
writing it down allows you to recognize those
little things that have been popping up for you that are constantly
in your mind and jagging around like little
blades of fire in your mind. Again, the question
is why not journal? Just journal and allow yourself
to be your own friend. Allow those inner
thoughts to come out. Allow yourself to be
free. Free yourself. Take the burden off
of your shoulders. Does it immediately
remove everything? Absolutely not. But
what it does is it takes you on a
journey where you start creating and you
start seeing places and ways that you could
make changes for yourself. It allows you to put some of
the puzzle pieces together. Maybe it's friends you're realizing are no longer
in a good spot or maybe it's friends that
are just jumping on you and you need to start
allowing for boundaries. Just allow yourself the
journaling process. We'll give you so
much more clarity and allow things to come
into focus for you. If at all anything, it
allows it just to be free from your mind
so you can get it out and not have to
think about it anymore. That is why you should journal. There's so many other things, but let's just start off
with that immediate why. Let's get it out of our minds. Let's allow you to move forward. Let's allow you to get
that clarity going. Let's allow you to feel free. Let's allow you to
remove that burden. So, you can go ahead and get
your workbook right now, the 30 day challenge and
fill out one of those pages, or you can simply just
get your own workbook, a notebook, a piece of paper. I even if you write
down today sucks, Today was a wonderful
day. That's journaling. You don't have to
write paragraphs, you don't have to
write a dissertation. You can write two
words. I'm happy. I'm loved. I love, and just move on from there. That is why we,
journal to let go, release, allow
things to come in, allow things to let go. Again, go find that cozy spot. Go enjoy your day, maybe
grab a cup of coffee, some tea, quiet
yourself in a place, set a time for 15 minutes, jot down whatever
comes to your mind, and I'll see you soon
on the next video.
3. How To Fit Journaling Into Your Busy Schedule: O. Hi. In this video, we're going to talk
about how to fit journaling into
your busy schedule. Unfortunately, we
use time restraints as a bit of an excuse
to not journal. We refuse sometimes to
give ourselves five, ten, even 15 minutes
of quiet time. And we just allow it to fall to the wayside and
not do it at all. Let's talk about ways we can incorporate journaling into
your very busy schedule. It's actually simple and
easy to do as long as you give yourself a little bit of grace and time to
go forward with it. So we're going to start small. It does not have to be a big
project because starting a big project ends up going to the wayside and
we don't end up doing it. So we're going to
start small and we're going to start with
just 5 minutes a day. I want you to schedule on your calendar for the next week, for the next seven days. I want you to set aside
5 minutes for yourself. Within those 5 minutes, you're going to
grab your journal, you're going to
find a quiet spot, and then you're just going to write whatever
comes to your mind. As I mentioned in
the other video, it does not have to be a
huge long list of anything. It could be five
words, ten words. But you'd be surprised
that once you start allowing your
mind to just release, how much you might actually
continue to write. It's not about thinking
about what you're writing, it's just about what you want
to get out of your mind. So, grab your calendar and put 5 minutes for
the next seven days. After seven days, I want
you to increase it to 10 minutes or maybe 15 or 20. Do it whatever
feels right for you and whatever is working right for your schedule at that time. Another way you can add journalin into your day is maybe pair it with
another activity. A lot of times we are very
much into our routine. Do you set aside a few
minutes in the morning, maybe to grab a coffee or eat a little bit of breakfast
or in the evenings? Right before you go to
bed instead of turning on your TV maybe or
looking at your phone, grab your journal instead. Again, set a timer for maybe
5 minutes, 10 minutes, 15 minutes or longer depending
on whatever works for you, and set that side or add it to that routine
that you normally have. Just go ahead. And put that in there just as you would
if one of your kids, your husband asked
you to do a favor and do this favor for yourself. Add that into your day. Set another timer for yourself. Set a timer for your five, ten, 15 minutes and just give
yourself the time to do it. Do it while you're waiting for something to
cook in the oven. Set that timer. I'm always
using the timer in my oven. When you're waiting
for the pasta to cook or your chicken nuggets
to come out of the oven, grab that journal,
hide yourself in a corner and write
something in that journal. Again, does not have to be long, short and sweet works as well. If long comes out, let it flow. Also be flexible. You do not have to write every Monday,
Tuesday, Wednesday, five days a week,
three days a week, set whatever works for you. If maybe you set aside a
time to actually journal, like I suggested to set a timer or a calendar invite
for yourself. If that doesn't work out for yourself because something
came up, that's okay. Reschedule it for yourself. It's okay to have flexibility. The key is to give
yourself consistency. It's about building a pattern, building your
mindset to do this. Again, flexibility is okay. Do not beat yourself up if you can't make that scheduled
time for yourself. Just reschedule a
time for yourself. What I want to do here is to start getting into the practice. If you didn't print out your 30 day journal, your
challenge journal, you can go grab that or go and grab another piece
of paper, a journal. Let's find some time
I want you to set a time for about
three, 5 minutes. I just want you to write down, write down one thing that
made you smile today. Whether it was seen
at bright and shiny, you got to leave work early, you got a discount at
the grocery store. It was just a relaxing day. Whatever made you smile, I want you to write that down. That will be your
first journal prompt for today to get you started. But again, go back, go schedule some time
for yourself and add it to your very busy day and just give yourself a
little bit of consistency. I hope this works out. I
see you in the next video.
4. Simple Journaling Prompts & Techniques: Hi. Today in this video, we're going to talk about simple journaling prompts
and techniques. I want to make journaling
fun and easy for you. It should not be hard. It should be about allowing yourself to grow
and feel better. So start with daily gratitude. What is something in your day
that you were grateful for? Was it being able to
talk to somebody, an old friend, a family member that you haven't talked
to in a long time? Was it just the fact you gave
yourself 20 minutes to go to your favorite local
coffee shop and grab a cup of tea or that
wonderful chi latte that you've been hoping
for in a long time? Be grateful for. When you write it down, it allows you to feel that emotion again and just bring it into yourself and
experience it again. Write something you've
been grateful for and allow it to
come full circle. Also, think about your
highlights from today. What was something exciting that happened to you or
just made you happy, just made you smile,
made you stand a little bit taller. What
was something you did? Write that down,
experience it again. Ask yourself a couple of questions or this question
to start out with, what were you proud of today? What is something that you
did that made you proud? Was it that you completed a task that's been hanging
out for a long time, that you were able to help somebody work through a problem, that you volunteered at a local shelter that you've
been wanting to do? Anything? What is something that
made you proud of today? Maybe it was the fact that
you just yell at somebody, that you were able to
have a very calm day. That would make me proud. Some days are a
little bit rough. Write yourself a future letter. So who are you in the future?
Who do you want to be? Who is this future self
that you see internally, that you want to bring out
that you want to experience. What advice would you give that person to help you
get to your future self? Write that letter
down, experience it, B bold, let it all out, all the things that you
think you can't do. Write that letter to
your future self and tell them how you
want to get there, what you want to see
in your future self? Another huge one for me
is just mind dumping. That is just allowing your day to just come
out of your mind. It's like your journal
is now your best friend, they're able to say anything to, and you just want to get it out. It's really amazing that
once even writing it down on paper and getting
it from mind to paper allows you
to just let it go, allows you to experience it. Most helps you get through
what do you need to do? How do you get
through this? Is it really as bad as
you thought it was? Or maybe it's even this
wonderful day that you were experiencing and you just want to let it all out and
keep experiencing it. I was such a great
feeling for that day. Sometimes you need some prompts
to help get you started, especially when you're
new to journaling. What I want you to do
is I want you to go grab a journal or grab
your third day journal. Here are three different things that we're going
to try in there. I want you to set a
timer for 3 minutes, and I want you to
do a brain dump. Just allow whatever's going to come out and allow it to flow. I also want you to write three good things. It
could be about anything. What are three good
things that either stood out for you,
that you want to do, that you completely love, that might change
something for you, just write three good things. And then I also want you
to do one word reflection. Just write down one word
that comes to mind. Don't think about what
that word should be. What is one word that
comes to your mind? Maybe it was love, hope. Fear, scarcity. Any of those. When you write down
those one words, you're going to start
seeing a pattern of where you were in that
day and what's going on. Then it's going to help you
bridge the gap and how to re thinkin through things and where you might need to make
some course corrections. So that's your goals for today. I want you to get
out those journals, set some time for yourself. Again, five, ten, 15 minutes, 30 minutes if you
really got some time, and go for it, and write it down, enjoy it, and I will see
you in the next video. Have fun day.
5. How Journaling Help Your Emotional Well Being: I. In this video, we're going to be
talking about journaling for our emotional well being and how it helps our mental
and physical being as well. Why does journaline or how
does journaline help that? Anytime you're able to
express your emotions, whether it's on paper
or even verbally, you feel so much better
because you're able to bring the emotion to the
top, feel in the presence. Think about a time when you may have written a
letter to somebody, and it's very positive or Maybe they weren't
feeling well, but you wanted to make
them feel better. You wrote these positive words
in this wonderful letter, and how did you feel after
you wrote that letter? I bet you felt
really good because you knew that when that
letter gets that person, that supportive letter
gets that person, how well they're going to feel. Those are words written down. The emotion that comes from
those words are powerful. The same thing goes for journal. Your own words are so powerful. However, we never
allow our words out. We keep them in our body. We don't release
them. Many times we will tell somebody else, say, like, I love you. Um, you know, have a great day. But you ever tell yourself that? Do you ever want to give
yourself that same emotion? I'm sure you feel that when
other people say that to you, that emotion comes to you. But when you journal, you're allowed to bring those emotions out and
experience those emotions. It helps you process those emotions and
take them in and then dissect them and see
where they should be in your system that day? Do you need to get rid of them? Do you need to just experience
it and be done with it? Do you want to experience it again because maybe
it was so positive? It allows that emotional
release and for you to provide clarity and understanding
to your emotions. So maybe you had a discussion with somebody and
you thought that it went one way and your interpretation was in such a way that it brought up these certain emotions for you. But you're really not sure and you really don't have
anybody to talk with. Writing that down, writing
that situation down allows you to re
evaluate the situation. Maybe at the time
that you heard it, you weren't in a decent mindset, and so you might have
taken it a different way. But when you wrote it down, when you re read it,
you might think, Oh, well, maybe I was
a little too at haste and I shouldn't
have thought that way. Oh my goodness, I was right and now I need to figure out
how to correct this issue. But what it does is allows
you to bring it back home, allows you to bring it
back to the present instead of continuing
to fester about it. Think about when you're
festering or have something inside of you that
you just haven't released. It makes you feel
tired and lethargic. Sometimes when you have
multiple situations like that, you start getting sick, like maybe physically sick. And it definitely, hinders
your emotional state. You might start getting a
little bit more stress, feel more anxious,
start getting a little depressed because you can't
get rid of those emotions. You can't accept them
in and feel them. So when you can't release them, they keep boiling up like a
big pot of boiling water, ready to explode one day, and you might have thought
that you've gotten rid of it because maybe they're not at the forefront
of your thought, but they are definitely buried
deep down in your soul, and the hard you get rid of. I'm sure there's times when
maybe during a conversation, something brought
up, something else from a long time
ago in your past. You're like, gosh, where
did that thought come from? Why do I feel like this? These are the emotions that
you can get out on paper. Once you release them and you might see
patterns with them, then you can see, you can
put your puzzle pieces together and how you need
to take care of that. What can you do to feel better so those same emotions
don't come up? Or again, what if there
are happy moments, what was I experiencing in my life that made
me feel so good, and how can I continue
to experience that? These are the things
that journaling allows you to put
together for yourself. It allows your mind just
to be free and feel free. Your journal is
your best friend. It's that person that you can just say
anything you want to. There's no filters, no nothing. You just write and
write and write. Allow yourself to listen, allow yourself to explore. Allow yourself to
feel the emotions. Allow yourself to be free. What I want you to do
is I have a couple of ways that we can go ahead and start journaling for this video. I want you to set a
timer for 15 minutes. Go grab your 30 day journal, go grab your regular journal, some pieces of paper, and I
want you just to freewrite. Just dump everything out
for 15 minutes or longer. And just write whatever
comes to your mind. Don't think of a topic, Don't think of what you
think you should be writing. On that day that you sit down, I want you just to whatever is on your mind, start writing. Right, right, right. One
thing will lead to another. Then when you're
done, just read it over and see where
you're at that day. Accept the emotions
that come with it. Do you feel that
inner turmoil inside? What can you do to release that? Do you need to have a
conversation with somebody? Do you just need to write
something more about it? Do you need to break it
down into further details? Just write about it, don't censor yourself, swear, yell, scream, cheer, smile, cry. Whatever you need to
do that comes up, allow yourself to feel it? It's going to be
cathartic for you. It will allow you
to come through. Another one that you can do is write a letter to someone
you're struggling with. Now that someone can
also be yourself. You might just be
struggling with yourself. But perhaps you are
having a dear friend of yours that you just might be going through
a bad time with. Whether you send this
letter or not is up to you, But definitely write a letter. Allow those feelings to flow, allow your voice to be heard, because a lot of times when we're having these
struggles with people, we don't allow our
voices to be heard. When you journal,
you allow for that. You allow your feelings
to come through, you allow your emotion
to come through, you allow your perceptions
to come through. There's no right or wrong. You are allowed to
feel how you feel. You are allowed to
experience those. The other person,
if you do send it, needs to also accept your feelings for who they
are and what you feel. Totally up to you if
you want to send it, but definitely write a letter and make it as long
or short as you need. Your mind will usually stop you when there's
nothing more to say. You can sit on it and
revisit that as well. Now, another thing, why is, as I mentioned in the beginning, what are the benefits
of journaling? There are so many
benefits and in such a short time
they can be achieved. As little as 12 weeks journaling
for three times a week, minimum 15 minutes each
of those sessions, you will have more
mental clarity. You will see your anxiety
and stress reduce, and you're going to
start feeling better. It's amazing when
you're just allowed to let these emotions
flow, how well you feel. Your mood improves, your
mental ability improves, things start to change for you. You might start moving in a new direction in
your life that you always wanted to go because
you're not stuck anymore. You felt them, you
allowed them to come. Just writing words
bring such new clarity. It allows you to get
over those hurdles. It allows you to move forward
instead of backwards. It allows you to not be stuck in that puddle of mud anymore or that quick sand that
you feel like you're in. With that, I want you to
go grab your journal, continue with your
30 day process, and I will see you
in the next video.
6. Perfectionism Is No Longer Your Enemy: Hi. In this video, we're going to talk
about perfectionism and how it's the enemy. We want to embrace imperfection. We want to embrace
your creativity. So perfection is so over rated. We know deep down in our souls, in our hearts,
nothing is perfect. There is no perfection, no matter where you go, and that's what makes
everything meat and cool and makes you want
to do something else. If everything was perfect, what a boring world we live in. The goal is that you want to do it to your best
of your ability. Just do the process
that you want, focus on the process, not the end result. Forget all the judgments that
you think might be coming. A lot of this probably
stems from when we were children because we lived
a lot of black and white. It's either right or wrong. There was no in between. You could supposedly
have creativity, but it was structured
for you in a box to do X Y and Z and
check all the boxes. This is not what
journaline is about. Journaline is
allowing and teaching you how to just be you, how to embrace yourself, how to be honest and vulnerable to write for
yourself and to yourself. Nobody else matters in
this process, only you. This is all about you, and yes, you can
be selfish here. This is all about how your journey is going to be
through your journaling. This is going to allow
you to embrace yourself, forget about all the
rules that might be lingering still in your
mind and just go with it. It's about growth for you. It's about your own
self expression that you might have been holding back for
quite some time. Maybe it's because you think
you should have been living life a certain way versus how
you really want to live it, or how you should be
expressing yourself, you can't say something because Aunt Susie is
going to get mad at you, or you can't do this because mom or dad told
you that was always wrong. When deep down in your gut, you knew that it
was always right. Let's start with
some affirmation. Grab your 30 day journal or your regular journal or
again, your piece of paper. Let's start writing down some affirmations so
we can get rid of this perfection nonsense that
still might be lingering. I want you to write down. I accept myself as I am. Again, I accept myself as I am. Write that five times,
write that once, write it every time you
feel that you need to just remind yourself that you don't have to be somebody else.
You can just be you. Next, I want you to write down, my best is good enough. You don't have to be at
somebody else's level. You are just at your level. You be you, you
enjoy who you are, because your best
is good enough. Write that down again.
My best is good enough. The next one is, this
one's a big one. I release the need for
everything to be flawless. So if you think your house always needs to be clean
because somebody's coming by, I doubt anybody's really
paying attention. Let it go. If you just didn't have
the time, let it be. I'm sure it's fine. You
want to release the need. Release the need for
everything to be flawless because will everything really
be flawless? Probably not. Even if you thought you cleaned your house as well as you did, there might be
something in the corner that you forgot and
then you're going to be so frustrated with it that's still
hanging out there. Just release that need. B you, B you in the moment, B you for what it is at that time. That's
all that matters. Now, here's a really
cool feature that I recently have taken on myself, and it's really become a huge part of my
journaling process. It's adding a drawing
to your journaling. I want you to find a blank page, and I'm sure back when
we were in school, we all were taught
color in the lines. If you didn't color in
the lines, it was wrong. I want you to draw
your own picture of how you're feeling about, maybe something you
wrote in your journal, maybe something you saw outside. Maybe it's an emotion
you want to get out, maybe it's just
something you want to express of where you want to go, what you want to
experience one day. Want you to color
outside the lines. I want you to be imperfect. I want you to create something
without thinking about it. I just want you to create. I want you to realize once
you see that picture, what is it that you're
bringing up for yourself? What is that emotion that you want to
share with yourself, that you wanted to
put in that book that's coming up in your mind. What is the picture that's relevant to whatever you're
working through right now? Again, make it yours.
This is about you. The process, not
about being perfect, because we know
perfect doesn't exist. B as perfect as you can, B as wild as you can
and enjoy the process. And I will see you
in the next video.
7. Self Care Through Journaling Making It A Priority: Hi. In this video, we're going to talk
about self care through the journaling and how
to make it a priority. You may have tried journaling in the past and found that
it didn't work for you. What I have found is
that primarily it doesn't work because we
don't set aside time. We don't give it a
level of importance. Now it is time to give it
that level of importance. You are going to make this
a priority for yourself. You are going to give yourself
at least 5 minutes a day, if not a little bit longer, but minimum 5 minutes
a day to do this. You are going to remove
any guilt that you might feel for giving
yourself some quiet time. If you even have to go hide in the bathroom to find your quiet space, I
want you to do it. And you are not to
feel guilty about it. There is no reason
why you cannot take minutes for
yourself to release your emotions and allow yourself time to just brain dump
and get it all out. No more keeping it in, no more keeping it tucked
inside and building up and just festering like that green little
monster inside of you. It's time to get rid of it. Now, think about this. When you start doing things that
you feel are good for you. When you start feeling
good about yourself. What do you think is the
ripple effect with that? When you start feeling
good about yourself, you start feeling good about creating that confidence in you. Do you see that you
attract new things to you, better things, the
things that you want? The old say misery
loves company. When you're miserable, you
find miserable things, but when you're happy,
you find a sense of peace and calm and peace and
calm starts to find you. You're not looking or you're not sending out the
vibes of negativity, you're bringing in positivity. Those are the ripple effects
that are going to help you. When you allow yourself
this importance to journal, because now you're
going to start feeling better about allowing
these motions to go. When you start feeling
better, again, the ripple effects happens and better is going
to come to you. So here's what we need to do. You need to prioritize
time for you. Yes, you are going to set aside
a specific time each day. I'm sure that you
have at least five or 10 minutes somewhere in the day. Even if you have to shove
something else aside, I'm asking that you do it. Do it for you. Set
aside that time. Let's start with a
specific time each day. I know I mentioned in one
of the earlier videos, you can have flexibility. But in the meantime, I want you to schedule
the same time every day. We want to get you into
a nice positive habit, a nice positive flow, something to look forward
to every single day, as you go ahead with your
day and you're like, Okay, now is my time for me, now is my time to release. Now is my time to allow my motions to accept
them and release them. Now I get to concentrate on
me and not everybody else. Set that time aside, grab your journal now. I'm sorry, grab your calendar now and do that whether
it's your phone, your calendar on your wall, wherever it is, we need to tap
it in your purse. Do that. Next is to find your favorite
quiet space to do this in. You might have your bedroom
that you lock yourself in. Again, I know I said, go hide
yourself in the bathroom, wherever you can find
a space where you know someone's going to be knocking at the door, looking
for something. I want you to pick
that as your spot. Maybe it starts
out at one spot in the beginning and then
later you might start clearing out a little nook
in your house and put a favorite chair there
and a nice little candle, maybe some essential oils to be blending where you're
going and free yourself, some tea, coffee, your favorite cola,
whatever it is for you. Create a little space for
yourself where you can go enjoy Feel the relaxation, you don't want to feel
anxious while you're there. You just want to feel
relaxed because again, this is about you. This
is about your time. Then I want you to realize about the mind shift that's going on while
you've been doing this? You might not see the
first couple days. But come seven, come ten days when
you've been doing this? I want you to go
back and I want you to reflect and see some of the things
that you've written. I want you to explore those from when you first started writing to six or seven days later. How has that changed for
you? How do you feel? How does I don't know, H your world changed at all yet? Do you feel a little bit
more positivity coming? Do you feel a
little bit lighter? So in your 30 day journal
on your sixth day, there is a reflection page. If you filled out
pages 1 through five, the first five days, I want you to go back
and review those. And then on the reflection page, I want you to write anything
that you might have come across that
might be you know, lingering that you
see similarities. And I want you to put
the reflection down. I want you to read through that. I want you to explore that. So go ahead and take your time, go schedule your time right now, and I look forward to seeing
you on the next video.
8. Creating A Journaling Practice That Sticks: Hi. In this video, we're
going to talk about how to make your
journaling practice stick. We want to make sure
that you create a nice habit for
yourself that allows you to be free and a new things that you've
never achieved before. I know you can get excited
once you start jumping into something new and the first seven days
sounds phenomenal, and you do really well
the first seven days, but then we tend to tee off and not continue with our practices. So some of these tips, I've already mentioned
the other videos, but sometimes hearing
them over again helps. I'm going to suggest that
you take these steps so you can create a journaling
practice or at least start one and then
modify it and go along as your needs
fit for yourself. The first one is
always to set aside a specific time of day to do it. Whether that's early
in the morning, before you go to bed, somewhere
in the middle of the day, maybe during your lunch break, I want you to put it in
whatever calendar that you use, you have a reminder
that pops up on maybe your phone and smack you in
the head a couple of times, but one that you're not
going to snooze and be like, I'm going to get back
to that in 5 minutes. This is something that when you set it, you
are going to stop, you're not going to
set it and forget it, you're going to set it, and you're going to do
it when it pops up. Whether you need to
carry your journal with you in your
bag or your purse, have it in a space for you, make sure it's always with you. For whatever reason
if it's not with you, here's a tip to, do
it in your phone. Create a note pad in your phone, where you can always translate
it to your other book, but find something or some place that you
can write it down on. So you can stick to that date and time that you have
scheduled for yourself. As I mentioned before, yes, you can have some flexibility. I'd rather you not
have flexibility at least in the first month. We want you to create your
nice journaling practice for yourself without allowing that flexibility
in the beginning. But do what you need to do, I don't want to become burdensome. We need this to be fun for you, achievable and also
pleasurable for you. So I also want you to if you're at home
or if you are out, create a dedicated
space for yourself. Maybe it is that special spot in your house where you
feel the most comfortable. Maybe you have a favorite chair. Maybe you have a
favorite coffee shop. Maybe you have a favorite
spot that you drive to at your local
forest preserve, where you find some free time. Maybe you take a walk
and you know there's a special bench that you
want to write your notes on. Any place that you find
comfort for yourself, that allows you to feel free, open, unbothered, unworried, nobody's
knocking at your door. Find that space for you
and make that your space. The next thing is to
is to start small. I don't want you to
have to feel that you need to write pages
and pages and pages. Now, if pages and pages come
out, allow them to come out. But if in the beginning,
you just take 5 minutes, 10 minutes, go ahead and
do that, take the time. As I mentioned before, if words are coming
out, draw pictures. Pictures are the
same as journaling. Pictures, as you know,
tell many stories, probably sometimes even a larger stories than
your words do. Draw pictures, I words
aren't coming out, do both, whatever your
mind is feeling that day. Then I want you every
five, six, seven days. I want you to go back
and I want you to review what you either
drew or written, and I want you to reflect on what you wrote, what you did. Now, in the 30 day challenge workbook that you
probably have downloaded, there is a page every
six day to go ahead and do that practice to
reflect on what you've done, or to go through it and see what might be some patterns
that you're finding. Make sure you do
reflection on that. And one really important
thing to do is to buy a journal or
notebook that you love. I always like to find ones
that have funky covers, maybe have a good affirmation
on the front of the cover. Whatever one gets
you excited about picking that book up,
grab that for yourself. I mean, you can get them
at your local target. Amazon always has a ton. There's many places
that you can find a favorite journal for yourself. Make sure it's
something you enjoy. It's a special book
for you. It's yours. You want to make
it yours, so make sure it's a book that
you really enjoy. Another fun thing
that I really enjoy doing is I love writing
in colored pens. So find your favorite pen
that you like to write with. Maybe it's even colored pencils. Whatever you feel
passionate about while you're writing what makes it
even more special for you, makes it more of
a special moment, not just jotting down
some words in a book, but makes it a journey, a special time for yourself. If buying that
special colored pen, maybe it's a little
bit more expensive. A few colors makes
it feel that much more exciting, I say, go for it. And add some affirmations. If you come across, you're reading a book,
see it on a sign, add these affirmations like
we did in the last videos, where you give yourself some
positive tunes to go on. If there's something that
helps drive a message for you. Write those in your
journal as well. They will help continue
the process for you and help you feel even more enlightened
as you go forward. Take all of these tips. Don't let journaling
go to the wayside. There's too many
health benefits. There's too much positivity
that comes from it, and I want you to take that
next journey for yourself. I know you probably do want to take that next journey
because you are here. You are watching these videos. You have downloaded the 30 day journal for the busy women. You want to learn
how to do this. Don't make it difficult
for yourself, make it as easy as possible, but be honest, be vulnerable, be consistent, and give
some time to yourself. So I want to thank you for being here with me
on this journey. You always know
where to reach me, and I look forward to learning more about your
journaly practices. I wish you all the success and a wonderful life going
forward. Thank you so much.
9. Congratulations Transformation Journey with Journaling: Thank. Congratulations. You have completed
the video series. I am so proud of you
for taking the steps to find the transformation to
the life that you desire. Now, don't stop these journalin practices,
continue to move forward. If at any time, you want to come back and
watch the videos, please feel free to do that. Remember, this is your time. Allow yourself the
vulnerability. Allow yourself the
time and self care. Allow yourself to become
who you want to be. This journey is yours
and no one else's, and you can make it anything
that you wanted to be. Congratulations again. If you ever need
anything for me, you can always find me
at caprice mae.com. Again, congratulations on your new pound
journaling practices. I wish you so much success, and I can't wait to hear what's changed for
you in your future. Take care and congratulations.