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The Art of Networking: The Power of Relationships

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Lessons in This Class

    • 1.

      Welcome to the Class

      1:41

    • 2.

      Why Networking Matters

      2:49

    • 3.

      Networking Mindset

      4:35

    • 4.

      First Steps

      6:26

    • 5.

      3 Must Do's for Every Interaction

      3:08

    • 6.

      Building Meaningful Relationships

      4:06

    • 7.

      Pro Tips

      4:52

    • 8.

      Things to Avoid

      1:54

    • 9.

      It's Your Turn

      0:29

    • 10.

      Final Thoughts

      0:41

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Are you looking to grow your career through new connections? Or develop more meaningful relationships in your business and personal life? 

It all starts with building strong networking and relationship skills. And It’s not just the quantity but the quality of those relationships. From your personal circle to business, networking skills can help you get ahead and unlock the gifts of life.

It’s time!

If you want to hear about the strategies that can boost your network and personal success, please join me in this class.

You will walk away with:

  1. Practical strategies to start networking right away
  2. Game plan and tools to reach the next level
  3. Pro tips to stand out from the crowd

You will also hear practical examples from my own experience, notable networking concepts (ex: 6 degrees of separation), bestseller books, master networkers and many more. 

I developed this class while working at Google in the US and shared it with hundreds of Googlers. It became one of the top rated classes and that inspired me to share with all of you.

Testimonials at Google:

  • “The personal stories struck a chord with me”
  • “Love the organizational aspect of training. Organization is something I am working on in my life and this helps me tremendously” 
  • “It was wonderful to have tangible tools to take away and use for our networking” 

Who am I?

My name is Mehmet - I’m a technology executive based in the US, and a big networking enthusiast. From my native city Istanbul to all parts of Europe and now the US, networking helped me discover so many amazing people and places. It also helped my career grow in very meaningful ways. Through reading books, articles, interviews, biographies as well as experimenting with various techniques myself over the years, I feel that I’ve developed some knowledge about networking and decided to share with everyone. It changed my life so many times, and it can change yours too. 

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My name is Mehmet - I’m a technology executive based in the US, and a big networking enthusiast. From my native city Istanbul to all parts of Europe and now the US, networking helped me discover so many amazing people and places. It also helped my career grow in very meaningful ways. Through reading books, articles, interviews, biographies as well as experimenting with various techniques myself over the years, I feel that I’ve developed some knowledge about networking and decided to share with everyone. It changed my life so many times, and it can change yours too. 

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1. Welcome to the Class: When people think of networking, they usually imagine a mechanical process, writing formal emails, exchanging business cards at events, or having boring conversations until you get what you want. But networking doesn't have to be this way. It can be fun, engaging, and very rewarding. In this class, we will go through a number of topics that truly humanizes network. Key principles and strategies, ways to maintain your relationships, pro tips and things to avoid. This way, you can unlock the next level in your personal life, business life, or even academic life through hierarchy. Hi everyone. Welcome to my class, the Art of networking. My name is Mehmet media. I'm a huge networking enthusiast and had the good fortune of working at some of the biggest tech companies in the world, as well as studying and living in multiple confidence. I can safely say that none of these would be possible without using networking skills. As a foundation kid, I always know what to do or have a special talent. Absolutely not. In fact, I knew nothing about how to start and what to do initially, but with small steps, a growing network and deeper relationships helped me so much. So my goal is to help you build networking as a key skill to achieve your dream goals. I developed this class while working at Google and shared with hundreds of people at all levels. So if you want to learn more about the art of networking, you should definitely join me in this class. And along the way, we will go through a number of practical methods that you can apply it right away. Remember the famous proverb, if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together with that. Thank you for watching and I hope to see you on the other side. 2. Why Networking Matters: Why networking matters in today's world, we sometimes have this sense of belief that individuality can be somewhat sufficient and we can figure things out on our own. Of course, this has some truth in it because technological advancements put so many things at our fingertips that weren't available before we start jobs, online courses, online, friends online, even romantic partners online, which are all fine. But as a side effect, we may become somewhat lazy, building deep relationships and investing in our network. Here is a statistic, adds more color to this point. According to a recent research at Harvard University, 61% of young American adults feel serious loneliness. These people suffer from high rates of loneliness, anxiety, and even depression. If we're honest with ourselves, we don't always put the required effort to form deeper connections and often gets sucked into our day-to-day activities. This can make us feel lonely and isolated, but there's a moment that we usually remember to build our network. And it's usually when the pressure hits us. It can be when we look for a new job, feel stuck in our careers, in our studies, in our lives. But then we often realize that we don't know enough people who can help us or we didn't maintain our former relationships. And that's a hard moment, right? We try some fast tactics like reaching out to 50 people in one week, right? Identical e-mails do some fire drills lot more often than not, doors are slammed to our faces. When I asked hundreds of people at Google, they all asked me the same set of questions around networking and relationships. How to use networking skills for my work and professional life. How to develop genuine relationships, how to avoid being forced and instead bring value to each networking interaction. This class is an attempt to help you open your eyes to what's possible with networking before it's too late, not because it can help your career or other areas in your life. It can also help you form more meaningful relationships. It changed my life so many times and it can change your store. You know what they say, your network is your net worth. Thinking about it for a second. When we take a closer look to those who achieved big things in life, we see that they had invested greatly in networking and building relationships. Steve Jobs had massively successful founders, investors, engineers around him when he was building Apple, Nelson Mandela, the first president of South Africa, connected with hundreds and thousands of followers when he rose again, suppression with his ideals, Lady Diana won the hearts of the world through her kindness to people and her focus to doing good to humanity. If you just stop and look back at some of your biggest achievements, you will notice that it most likely involves somehow or support from other people. It can be a friend, a colleague, or a family member, sometimes even a stranger. There is always a pupil elements, so it's time to explore that together. Thank you for watching, and I'll see you in the next video. 3. Networking Mindset: So far we talked about the importance of networking and white matters from our personal to professional life, it can make a ton of difference. However, networking requires a special type of mindset that will make it so much more fun and engaging. Here are four rules that ultimately changed my perspective about it. Number one, it's not a seasonal skill, it's a lifestyle. Most of the time we dive into networking when we really need it. E.g. when you feel stuck at our jobs, we tap into our network, but that often doesn't work. We feel unprepared, forced, and not at our best selves for these reasons, we have to build it before we need it. Just like a muscle, it takes time and consistent effort, e.g. if I tell you that you need to run a marathon next week, you'll probably would say, I don't feel ready and you'll be right because it's too short notice and you would need more practice, but with the right preparation and consistency, you will get there eventually. Networking is very similar if you put in time and effort consistently, even if it's a small commitment every week or month, you will significantly increase the chances of your success. You know the famous saying, luck. What happens when preparation meets opportunity? Make it work in your favor and be always prepared. Number to networking is about giving. There are tons of examples of people reaching out to their network and saying, I just quit my job. Can you help me find a new one? I'm not happy with my salary or I heard, you know, a person x. Can you introduce me if you stop and think. The common theme on all these is that it's centers around me, me, me, I need something, I want something. It's about receiving, you might say, of course, that's why you reach out to the other person. But I would respectfully challenge that, especially if you did reach out only because you needed them and not because you kept a meaningful relationship. For this reason, I recommend everyone to think about what can I offer this person and return when I ask a favor? He doesn't have to be something material, but something that shows that you care for their time and help. Here are some examples. Hey, I asked his favor, but I would love to use this opportunity to get together and hear about how everything is going in your life or I run a business and would love to offer my services to you at a future date or I ask for your help, but I'm ready to offer mind whenever you need X, Y, Z, a line, a sentence which shows that you really value their time and you're ready to offer your help in return, this will go a long way, even if it's just listening to them, showing friendship, helping their loved ones, you can be creative and differentiate yourself this way. Remember what the former US President John F Kennedy said to the American people? Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country. So that's always ask ourselves, what can we do for our network? Number three, enjoy the process. One of the main reasons that people think networking is challenging is that they find it boring and forced. They are often afraid of rejections and don't like to depend on others. These are all natural feelings and there's nothing wrong with them. But what I recommend is to see it as rather enjoyable process if you approach networking as a lifestyle, but lots of curiosity to get to know the other person and look for ways to make them successful, rather than focusing on yourself all the time, you will start to have a lot more fun with it. It will no longer feel like an activity centered around me, but centered around the way I admit that is hard to change this perspective quickly and start enjoying it. But with practice, you will see that as possible. Number four, have a purpose and vision. We talked about networking as a key skill. But if you don't have a purpose or vision, it will serve you in a limited way if you have a clearer idea of what you want to achieve, even if it's something directional, you can benefit from networking much more effectively. E.g. when I decided to apply for business schools in the US, I didn't know exactly where to start or which schools to target. I didn't have a network either. But after doing a quick research, the list was down to five universities. And I particularly reached out to graduates, are current students of those universities. I use LinkedIn student portals, visited campuses as questions to admissions officers, and collected as much information as possible. This helped me build a small but growing network. As I prepared my applications without such purpose or vision, I would waste precious time. There is a great example from the famous story of Alice's Adventures in Wonderland, from Lewis Carroll. Would you tell me please which way I ought to go from here? Ask Alice, That depends a good deal on where you want to get to set the cat. I don't much care where set Alice then it doesn't matter which way you go. Set the cat. More clarity brings more focus and resourcefulness to your network. In this way, you can identify the right people and develop the right approaches. This brings us to the end of this part. Thank you for watching and I'll see you in the next video. 4. First Steps: Now it's time to dive into the concrete first steps of networking. This is probably the most commonly asked question at my trainings. So how do I actually start? Let's get to it. Number one, start with your small circle. The simplest and the most straightforward way to start networking is to ask the people closest to you. It can be a family member or relative, classmate, coworker, neighbor, Dr. and anyone else in your close circle, people usually underestimate the power of these people, but you'd be surprised how much they can guide you. The reason you may not know their power is because you may not have asked them in the first place. If I can give you a simple example from my own life when I was at Google in there Michigan office, I had a chance to visit New York office for a business trip, but I didn't know anyone there. I wanted to get to know the people in that office and learn about their roles and what they do. Long story short, I asked my fellow managers, and it turned out that one of them actually worked in Google New York before and immediately connected me with a number of senior pupil. This way, I traveled to New York with a list of people that are already scheduled meetings with. I had a great time and made plenty of new connections. In fact, two years later, I switched to the New York office and those connections helped me so much. This brings me to an important point. Have you ever heard about the six degrees of separation? The idea is that all people are or fewer social connections away from each other. So you can connect any two people in a maximum of six steps. This idea was first introduced in 1929 and followed by several studies, e.g. if you want to reach out to Bill Gates or Barack Obama, you will likely achieve that through six successful connections or less. What usually ends up happening is that you eventually get connected to superconductors. These are people who are very well connected. I know a lot of key people. Once you get to the superconductors, you will get your final contact. You can find much more information online about this concept. Number two, get introduced if you have two options of either getting introduced to a contact or reaching out on your own. Always ask to get introduced. I know it sounds simple, but not everyone really applies this rule. Going back to my previous example, when I reached out to my colleague about her contacts and Google New York office, she offered to give me their email addresses, but I kindly asked her to send introductory e-mails to increase chances of a response, e.g. hygiene, hope all is well. I have a new colleague and he would like to meet some great contacts in New York office to learn more about different teams. I thought of you're giving your senior role, even if you have 15 min for a coffee chat, that will be helpful. I will also send you famous Michigan candies sending home. This node has much higher rates of receiving a response. And we will also put a big smile on the recipients phase, along with some delicious candy in a nutshell, always seek for introductions. Number three, open your senses where your focus goes, energy flows. Tony Robins, the world famous motivational speaker and author, shares is quote, where focus goes, energy flows. Here's an example. Let's say you bought a brand new blue car of a certain brand. You enjoy driving. It smelled a new car and so on. Soon enough, you start to notice other blue cars of the same brand in traffic. You say, Oh, here's the same blue color. Here's another one. Just like my car. It feels like there are more blue cars than before. But in fact, there were around you simply didn't notice them all the time. You start to notice as your brain signals to you, that this color is now important because it's part of your life in a similar fashion. When networking becomes a part of your life, you will start to notice more and more opportunities to connect with people. It can happen when you're on a vacation, wait in line to get your food, or when you pick up your kid from school, any moment in your life can turn into a networking opportunity if you open your senses and focus on it, look, I'm not saying that you go and talk to the pupil in the queue every time. That won't be a problem. Just be open and know that networking doesn't only happen in formal settings. Number four, keep asking when you start networking, rejections or no responses will become part of your life. No hiding. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. People can't possibly answer every single email. The speed you expect that can be tons of reasons when you relieve that pressure from yourself and don't have that expectation, you become much more confident and you shift your focus to those who actually answered. E.g. when I was studying for a bachelor's degree at the university, I was eligible to study abroad as an exchange student, but our school didn't have mutual agreements with other universities. Our faculty Dean and I decided to send close to 100 emails to several universities in Europe to establish formal relationships. In the end, only about 15% of those respondents. And that was okay because I ended up going to one of those universities. And this experience changed my life completely. When you reach out to people for connections, don't have the expectation that they will answer you right away. They may be occupied at work, have personal challenges, not be checking their messages regularly or whatever reason might be, simply focus on crafting a message that is respectful, kind, and caring, you will greatly increase your chances of success. Number five, have a game plan. This step is probably one of the most important. When you start networking, it quickly becomes hard to keep track of who you talk to and when, what was the context, What were the next steps? And so on. This limits you making the most of your networking activities when it comes to tracking your efforts and staying organized, it will be so helpful to take notes and keep records of your engagements that are many ways to do that. You can choose your own. You can use their smartphones, notes section, productivity apps, your laptop and so on. You can keep it very simple, but the key is being consistent. E.g. I. Use Google Sheets to note various details of my networking engagements, name, e-mail, company, title, location, date, conversation node's next steps. This also helps to plan your engagements before they happen so you can prepare well, this kind of approach also helps after you conclude your conversations, you can send follow-up notes, revert your conversation details, and try to find ways to contribute to the other person. You can use this list to send notes for special occasions, holidays, birthdays, and keep in touch. Without this approach, it will be much more difficult to make networking a lifestyle since there'll be no system behind it. Another example can be when someone asks you whether you know a contact in a certain location, company or industry, you simply go to your list and search easily. This effort became a backbone of my networking strategy and I highly recommend it. Again, things simple and be open to using a variety of tools or apps to execute your game plan. With that, thank you for watching and I'll see you in the next video. 5. 3 Must Do's for Every Interaction: People organize their networking introductions in millions of ways. There is no one-size-fits-all. But over the years, I observe that there are three questions that makes a networking interaction more purposeful. These questions are centered around the fundamental principles of focusing on the other side and expanding the network meaningfully. Let's see what they are. Number one, what's your story? So many times I've seen people jumping to a networking conversation and telling what they do and what they need without asking questions in return. This is such a missed opportunity because you're wasting your precious time at the beginning to bond and find common areas. If you ask the simple, What's Your Story question, you will uncover so much about the person in two 3 min and most likely find common areas in your joint stories, your contact will feel warmer about you and be more open to help no matter how urgent is your topic. If you meet a person for the first time, try to create time to ask about their life and their story. As an example, hey John, I know we have topics to discuss today, but first, I'd like to hear your brief background story and how you achieved so much. People love to talk about themselves, try it next time and let me know. World-renowned finance executive Charles Schwab, one said, I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among people. The greatest asset I possess, the way to develop the best that is in a person is Baia appreciation and encouragement. Number two, how can I help you? We talked about this before, but I cannot emphasize enough. It's important to have the mindset of helping the other side. But if you make the habit to ask at every interaction, how can I help you? You will stand out from many other people who didn't bother to ask this. Let's say you reached out to someone and discuss your topics. At the end of the call, you can turn and say, hey, this has been so helpful and I want to return the favor. Is there anything I can help you with your contact may say, no, thanks a lot. It's very kind of you, you still get bonus points for your attempt. However, if you hear that there can be something you can help bingo, you have a golden opportunity. Yeah. I'm writing a book and I'd like you to be one of the first readers and provide feedback. Amazing, right? That's exactly what happened when I contacted the New York Times bestselling author, keeps harassing his book, never eat alone. Really opened my eyes about networking and I decided to reach out to him. My goal was to turn his book into a class and we ended up having a great conversation. At the end, I asked him, How can I help you? He offered me to read his upcoming book and share feedback from a simple question to such an outcome. You just never know if you don't ever ask. Number three, is that anyone else you recommend me to connect with? Remember the power of introductions. This question is exactly aimed to leverage that power. Let's say you're talking to your contact and at the end you didn't ask this question, you may be leaving your precious follow-up conversation. But another key contacts, great people know, other great people. Just take the opportunity and ask, is there anyone else you recommend me to connect with your contact may say, Oh yeah, you should also talk to my colleague who specializes in your area. I'll send an email to introduce you. This will be amazing. Not only you get another contact, but you will learn about the field you are curious about. This brings us to the end of this section. Thank you for watching and I'll see you in the next video. 6. Building Meaningful Relationships: So far we covered topics about developing a special mindset about networking, taking the first steps and must do is for every interaction, if we execute them, we will see some good initial results. But we also know that networking is not about quantity but about quality. If we keep focusing on increasing the number of people we interact with, it may feel like a numbers game. There are a number of ways to make your connections more meaningful and form deeper relationships. Here are four tips that you may find useful. Number one, think of them, feed their hobbies and interests. Remember our network list that we keep track of each interaction. This part is well-connected to that when we shift our focus from what we get and become genuinely interested in other people, we will learn about what interests them and what hobbies they have. When you spot that kind of detail, take a good note and tried to feed it in the future, e.g. if your contact tells you that she's interested in reading about leadership tactics these days, it may be a good idea to send an interesting article or send a copy of a bestseller book about leadership. You're not simply nodding your head and say How interesting when you hear about their interest, but you actually care and send something. You will see that most of the time your gestures will make your relationship richer number to contribute to their work. This is about the mindset shift. Networking is about giving. When you have that focus, you will notice more opportunities to help the other person, e.g. if you hear that your contact is building a new website for her business and someone really good at it. You can offer to connect them with each other. Or if you hear that she is recruiting people for her team, you can refer great candidates. When I was at Google, I developed a good relationship with the manager in Chicago office. One of our interactions, he said that he's looking for talented salespeople to join his team. I could have said, oh, good luck with the search, but instead I offered to help and get back to him. After checking my network, I forwarded him a number of candidates and after series of interviews, he ended up hiring two of them who were top performers. After that, my colleague always checked in with me when he has new openings and the promising candidates connected with me regularly knowing that I keep and network of people at other offices. Such a result is not a coincidence and it simply requires a change of perspective with a question, how can I make them more successful? Number Three, care about them and their loved ones. We are all humans and deep down know what caring attitude is. It can be in many shapes or forms. The key is that it involves a genuine interests and intention to detail e.g. your contacts says that her child was sick and spend the day at the hospital. You can ask at your next call. I remember that your child was sick last time we spoke. How is she doing or your contact may have told you that she's celebrating tenth wedding anniversary. You can congratulate and ask next time how it went, what I heard tips for such a beautiful marriage that will start a fun and warm conversation. I'm not saying be creepy and dig into all little details, but pay attention to things that matter to your contacts. You will see that you will form much deeper relationships while having lots of fun. Let's remember a famous line from Dale Carnegie is legendary book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. Number four, be creative, gathered people around a value. A lot of people enjoy a well organized gatherings, a barbecue event, a work of side, a speaker session, or an online cooking class. There can be many versions, but the common theme is that a value is generated by the organizers and people come together to enjoy it. Organizing anything will take time and effort. I admit that, but it will make your network much stronger. When I was at business school in the US, we formed the first European student club. Our goal was to promote what Europe has to offer to all the global students. Number of students from all over the world joined us to explore job opportunities in Europe, networking events, speaker sessions, food festivals, and so on. It took a lot of time and effort, but this club contributed to so many job tracks, hirings, and learnings that it was worth the effort. You can find many ways to create value, big or small. Don't forget to enjoy the process. Thank you for watching, and I'll see you in the next video. 7. Pro Tips: After delivering networking trainings for several years, people started to ask for some advanced tactics or pro tips. These are some of the tips that may not feel the inherent at first, but they make a lot of difference at the right time. Let's see what they are. One, managing the gatekeeper. If you tried to read someone at a company, especially at an executive level, you open the first connect with their executive assistants. Some people call them gatekeepers. They help executives manage their time well and make sure that the meetings have productive agendas with the right people. For this reason, it's very smart to treat executive assistance with the respect they deserve when you communicate with them, always mentioned the necessary details for your meeting requests with the executive. What's the purpose of the meeting? How much time do you need? Is a time-sensitive? Who else is joining the meeting? It sounds overwhelming at first, but after some practice, you get used to it. And the executive assistants will be amazed by your level of preparation. And after your scheduled meeting, make sure to send a thank you note. This will be really appreciated as a show of gratitude number to follow up and keep buzzing regularly after each of your networking interactions, make sure to send a brief recap note which simply captures your discuss topics, action items, next steps, and your gratitude for the meeting. This kind of action will set you apart as a professional and respectful individually. Additionally, you can set reminders for yourself to send a follow-up note or additional materials. It's important to keep buzzing meaningfully and stay top of mind. Number three, show up before everyone else. This is probably one of the most subtle tactics that I learned from a colleague, but never a senior executive visits our office and is about to give a speech. My colleague was the first show up near the stage. He arrived at least ten, 15 min before the speech and looked for opportunities to have a meaningful conversation with the executive. If you think about it, it's a pretty smart move. If you waited to talk to the executive after the speech, it might be too late and too difficult because of the sheer amount of people who will try to do the same, but before the speech exists, may have more available time in a rather empty room. And you can get the full focus if you time it right, surely doesn't always work, but it's worth a shot number for customized LinkedIn invitations, we are operating in a digital world, and LinkedIn remains as the number one professional and social platform. It deserves its own separate class, but I'll mention one tactic which can really help your outreach efforts. If you'd like to connect with someone on LinkedIn, first, you need to send an invitation in order to start messaging each other. Paid versions of LinkedIn also allow you to send direct messages. Keep the focus to the general version. When you click the connect button at the page of your contacts profile, LinkedIn gives you the option to customize our invitation. This means that you can add a personal note as part of your invitation. It's surprising that not a lot of people are using this feature and they send a blank connection request. Instead, you can mention who you are, why you would like to connect, and how you can be helpful to disperse and it's such a precious space right? Here's an example of a customized node. Hi John, Hope you're well, I admire your work in artificial intelligence. As a fellow engineer, I would like to stay in touch on LinkedIn. I saw that you're working on a new project and my team has some experience in that space. Perhaps we can connect later on and exchange some ideas looking forward to hearing from you, it's short and sweet and shows her intentions of adding value and exchanging ideas. Never miss the opportunity to mention these details when you reach out to someone on LinkedIn. Number five, research, research, research. We already talked about the importance of preparing ahead of our meetings and gathering necessary information about our contacts. But doing this systematically is a true pro tip. Researching about your contact, especially if he or she has public information available, is a no-brainer. It will give you so many more topics to discuss and identify how you can help that person. Here's an example of someone who is a master at it. Professor Jeffrey someone felt is a legendary professor at the Yale School of Management and founder of Chief Executive Leadership Institute is specialized in CEO leadership and a mentor to countless CEOs worldwide. At each of his classes, he brought in top CEOs from companies like Morgan Stanley for Harley-Davidson, IBM Warner media, and the list goes on. I had incredible fortune to be a student and research assistant. He also holds leadership summits twice a year and host hundreds of CEOs, politicians, and world leaders as his research assistant, Given a number of CEO profiles to research before such an event so that our professor is up-to-date about eight CEO. I was astonished by the level of preparation he went through before each of these events which Hobbes DC has developed, what were their latest financial results at their companies? Who did they hire to their executive boards and so on. He commanded these summits masterfully. And every CEO was amazed by the level of detail that our professor was able to deliver this experience taught me that researching about your contact is a remarkable skill that hopefully will benefit your networking efforts as well. With that, thank you for watching and I'll see you in the next video. 8. Things to Avoid: It's now time to cover some of the things to avoid while networking, they may feel pretty obvious, but you'd be surprised how frequent they still are. The first one coming unprepared and not following up. This may have happened to some of you at work. Someone requests a meeting from you, but doesn't share any agenda or doesn't even send a calendar invitation when the meeting starts, you spend the first five to 10 min understanding why you're having this meeting. And finally get to the crux of the discussion. And after the meeting, this person doesn't send a follow-up note and simply disappears from your radar? No, thank you. Notes or no next steps. Well, this is a pretty poor experience, but it happens all the time. Networking enthusiast, make sure you pay close attention to follow a consistent meeting rigor number to see it as a mechanical process. But networking rootkits, networking events continue to happen in many formats. Company kickoff, external seminar, social gatherings and so on. And a type of networking rookie tends to appear consistently, someone who jumps from person to person delivering business cards and not spending more than two or 3 min with each person. Don't get me wrong. I'm not against giving business cards, but I much rather prefer a meaningful set of conversations over many, many short and shallow ones. You can almost feel the anxiety of such people. Seeing networking as a numbers game at such events. Choose not to be networking rookie and choose quality over quantity. Number three, waiting for the perfect time. Networking can happen anytime and anywhere. One of the biggest traps our minds play with us is that a perfect time will come. I can tell you once again, there is no perfect time and you don't have to wait for networking events to get going. The time is right here, right now, in order to practice this, I said regular reminders to connect or follow up with x number of people in the coming week. I don't always hit that number, but having such a reminder helps me stay centered with that. Thank you for watching and I'll see you in the next video. 9. It's Your Turn: It's your turn. Networking and building relationships are constant art forms. They evolve over time. That's why at each of my trainings, I ask the audience their own networking or relationship building tactics, and I always learn something new. So I asked you here too, what are your favorite tactics on networking? What are your pro tips? What do you recommend that we avoid? Please share it down below and comments are discussions so that others can benefit too. 10. Final Thoughts: Welcome graduations. You made it to the end of this course and hopefully learn something new that you can apply it right away. But remember this, when you started this class, you already had superpowers inside the ability to offer kindness and build meaningful relationships. And you use them many times in your life for your work, studies, friendships, love is just waiting to be utilized more and more as with everything else, it gets better and better through practice. I leave you with one of my favorite crops in a world where you can be anything, the kind, huge thanks for watching and I hope to see you in another class.