Stoic Space: Mentoring Sessions

1. Introduction: Hi, my name is Part Sahney. I'm an author podcaster and success and lifestyle mentor to High Achievers. Through my writing, podcasts, courses, and other meaningful creations, I enjoy sharing life changing ideas and insights related to personal development, philosophy, success mindset, and the human condition. My recent books include an Apple a day thriving in the new normal and books from the daily learner series. And I also created a course called Stoicism one oh one not too long ago. For more information and other useful resources, please visit my website part shane.com. Stoicism is a school of hellenistic philosophy that was established by Zeno of Sium in the early third century BC. It is a simple approach to overcome destructive emotions and act with reason. Thetoic philosophy is predominantly about living ethically by practicing reason and logic. Also, it emphasizes on living in accordance with nature. This philosophy has been practiced by both historical and modern men, including artists, kings, precedents, authors, and entrepreneurs. Stoicism provides useful tools and practical strategies to navigate through everyday problems and living a more meaningful and happy life. In this course, I present to you a collection of powerful mentoring sessions from my stoicism themed online publication stoic space. In this sessions, you'll explore the foundational principles of stoic philosophy, learning how to cultivate resilience, inner peace, and moral clarity in the face of life's challenges. Employing practical insights and contemporary application of ancient wisdom, each session is thoughtfully crafted to help you navigate the complexities of modern life with the steadfastness of a true stoic. Whether you're new to stoicism or a seasoned practitioner, this class provides a nurturing environment for personal growth, equipping you with the tools to live a virtuous and fulfilling life. You learn how to, one, build mental and emotional fortitude to navigate life's challenges with grace and composure. Two, integrate stoic exercises and reflections into your routine to enhance mindfulness, focus, and intentionality. Three, develop techniques to manage your emotions, maintain self discipline, and stay true to your values. Four, learn strategies to turn obstacles into opportunities for growth, using stoic wisdom to remain calm and rational under pressure, and five. Align your actions with your core values, living each day with purpose, justice, and a commitment to personal and philosophical growth. These sessions are for all levels, and you don't need any prior knowledge, tools, or experience before beginning the class. I've included some exercises and prompts for reflection and writing in the accompanying PDF worksheets as well. To make sure that the lessons in this class stick, I encourage you to ponder upon them and write down your unfiltered thoughts in the worksheets. So with those things discussed, let's get rolling right away. I'll see you inside. 2. Session 1: Stoic Courage: Facing Life’s Storms with Virtue: For the stoics, courage wasn't just the ability to charge fearlessly into battle. It was a cornerstone of a fulfilling life, a virtue that allowed one to navigate the inevitable challenges and uncertainties of existence. Unlike the fleeting bravery of the warrior, stoic courage is a deep seated fortitude, a commitment to acting virtuously, even in the face of adversity. This courage stems from a fundamental stoic principle, the separation of what we can control from what we cannot. External events from physical pain to societal pressures fall outside our direct influence. However, how we choose to respond to these circumstances lies within our power. Stoic courage lies in acknowledging our fears and anxieties, yet refusing to let them dictate our actions. It's a strain to stand by our convictions, even when it means facing disapproval or discomfort. This virtue isn't about recklessness or a blind disregard for danger. It's about a clear eyed assessment of the situation, a recognition that certain things are truly worth fearing while others are merely external circumstances that must be accepted. True courage lies in choosing the right path, despite the fear and prioritizing our values over fleeting desires or anxieties. Stoic courage manifests in various ways, is the resilience to persevere through personal hardships, the unwaring commitment to justice, even in the face of opposition, and the strength to speak truth to power, regardless of potential consequences. It's the ability to accept death with dignity, recognizing it as a natural power of life, and the fortitude to face the unknown with a calm and resolute spirit. By cultivating stoic courage, we equip ourselves with the tools to navigate life's storms with greater composure and purpose. It's a virtue that allows us to rise above our fears, act with integrity, and ultimately live a life guided by reason and goodness, even in the face of adversity. 3. Session 2: How the Ancient Stoics Embodied Courage: The ancient Stoic philosophers believe that living a virtuous life, according to reason and nature was a path to true happiness and fulfillment. Of the four cardinal virtues, wisdom, justice, temperance, and courage, they saw courage as particularly important and inspirational. To the stoics, courage meant having an unwavering strength of mind that allowed one to remain steadfast and resilient. In the face of adversity, fear or misfortune. It meant doing the right thing and standing up for one's principles, even when it was extremely difficult or came at great personal cost. Courage enabled one to endure hardships and challenges with fortitude. Several famous stoics from ancient Greece and Rome exemplified the virtue of courage through their words and deeds. The freed slave, Epices, endured exile, poverty, and physical disability with a resilient spirit. The statesman and playwright, Seneca showed courage and defined a tyranical Emperor Nero, ultimately being ordered to kill himself. The Emperor Marcus Aurelius led the Roman armies with courage and equanimity. Founder of stoicism, Zeno of Situm, embodied courage as he overcame immense hardships. A wealthy merchant, he lost everything in a shipwreck. Undeterred by fate's blows, he found solace in philosophy and began teaching the concepts that would become stoicism. His courage manifested not in mighty battles, but in the steadfastness with which he embraced a new life path, transforming personal misfortune into a philosophy that shaped western thought for centuries. Perhaps the most legendary display of stoic courage was by C ato, the younger in his final stand against the dictatorial powers of Julius Caesar during the Roman Civil War. Although certain of defeat, Cato fought on and chose and chose to take his own life rather than accept Cesar's rule, become enslaved or compromise his principles. His courageous resistance was seen as inspirational ptoics. To the ancient stoics, courage flowed from a cosmic perspective on life's trials as natural events beyond one's control. By calmly accepting and enduring what cannot be changed with inner fortitude, the virtuous person's unshakable resilence would shine as a supreme example of courage. This unwavering strength of character was a vital part of the philosophical ideal. 4. Session 3: Meaningful Work: The Source of Lasting Joy: The human mind and body are extraordinary instruments, designed not for dlness, but for purposeful engagement. Left unused, they can become susceptible to a self destructive cycle, akin to an auto immune disease where the body's defenses turn against itself. This analogy highlights the inherent dangers of inactivity, revealing how stagnation can treat frustration, angst, and a profound sense of unfulfillment. In today's world, countless individuals find themselves trapped in jobs that offer little stimulation or meaning. Their days are filled with empty hours, their talents, and potential lying dormant. This lack of engagement not only hinders personal growth, but also creates a fertile ground for negativity to take root. Frustration builds and a sense of purposelessness permeates their lives. The key to escaping this downward spiral lies in meaningful and aligned work. The He old adage, work is therapy rings true, emphasizing the restorative power of purposeful activity. When we engage in work that aligns with our values and passions, we tap into a wellspring of fulfillment. It is through meaningful work that we find a sense of purpose, a reason to rise each morning with enthusiasm and anticipation. Work in its truest form is not merely a means to an end. It is an essential component of the human experience. Our minds crave challenge, our bodies yearn for activity, and our souls seek a sense of belonging and contribution. When we engage in work that nourishes these fundamental needs, we experience a profound sense of satisfaction and wholeness. Marcus Aurelius, the sic philosopher and Roman emperor, wisely observed. Joy for human beings lies in proper human work. This sentiment underscores the importance of finding work that aligns with our individual nature. It is through proper human work that we unlock our full potential, experiencing the joy that comes from utilizing our unique gifts and talents. Breaking free from the shackles of inertia and embracing meaningful work requires courage and determination. It demands that we let go of our vices, our distractions, and our excuses. It calls for a willingness to step outside our comfort zones and pursue work that truly resonates with our souls. The path to meaningful work will not always be easy, but the rewards are immeasurable. It is to purposeful engagement that we discover our true selves, our passions, and our place in the world. Work becomes not just a means of sustenance, but a source of joy, growth, and fulfillment. In the words of the poet, Khalil Gibran, work is love made visible. Let us therefore, embrace the transformative power of work and make our love visible through our actions. Let us find joy in proper human work and unlock the boundless potential that lies within each of us. 5. Session 4: Focus on Making Choices That Honor Your Best Self: Oh. In the ancient Indian epic Raman, behan Raven's younger brother, found the abduction of another man's wife and imprisoning her in a garden unacceptable. He tried his best to reason with Raven and convince him to return Sita back. However, Raven did not like Vibhin's opposition and his arguments in favor of Ram, and in anger expeled his brother from the kingdom. Later, Hanuman gave Vibhin the much needed courage to override his love for his brother and his desire to serve him and join forces with Ram. He urged him to fight for arma, not against it. In the end, after Raven was defeated, bishin became the king of Lanka and ruled in accordance with Herma taking good care of his people. What can we learn from this? In the grand scheme of things, it is Therma, not loyalty that defines and uplifts humanity. This is why the person who walks on the path of truth and Herma in spite of social pressure and negative external influences is revered by the whole world and becomes a worthy recipient of God's blessings. Today, as you go through different events and start thinking about their meanings, and the decisions you need to make, remember this. The right thing to do always comes from conscious thinking, from our reasoned choice. It's not about getting a reward or being successful, but about making the right choice. When faced with a difficult decision, take a moment to pause and think clearly. Consider your values and principles. Ask yourself if the choice aligns with what you believe is right and just. Rewards and success can be tempting, but they shouldn't be the deciding factors. They can cloud your judgment and lead you down a path that might not be true to who you are. Instead, focus on making decisions that you can be proud of that reflect your best self. In the end, what matters is not the outcome, but the integrity of the choices you make. Trust in your ability to reason and choose wisely. This way, you can navigate life with confidence and peace of mind, knowing that you did what was right, no matter the result. 6. Session 5: Stop Caring About What Other People Think: Oh. Author Terri Col Whitaker wrote a book called what you think of me is none of my business. That's a great maxim to practice and live by. Unfortunately, we all go through the tyranny of what other people will think in our lives. And the sooner we end, this self inflicted turmoil, the better for us. It's surprising how quickly we can change our feelings about something based on what others think. Imagine you buy a shirt or a dress you really like. You think it looks great and feel happy about it. But then a friend or co worker makes a negative comment about it. Suddenly, you feel embarrassed and regret buying it. This quick change in feelings shows how much power other people's opinions can have over us. We can be very content with our own lives. Maybe we are proud of what we have achieved and happy with what we have. Then we hear about someone we don't particularly like who has more or has done better. This can make us feel less satisfied with our own lives, even if we were happy just a moment before. Our contentment fades because we are comparing ourselves to someone else. It gets even more complicated when it comes to our accomplishments and talents. Often, we don't feel truly proud or confident about them until someone else tells us we should be. A third party validates our success, we feel good. If they don't, we might start to doubt ourselves. This dependency on others for validation can be very precarious. Thetoics, ancient philosophers had a wise insight into this issue. They taught that while we can control our own opinions, we can't control what others think. This is especially true when it comes to what others think about us. Trying to win their approval or change their opinions is risky and often futile. Earl Nightingale said if you knew how little other people were thinking, you wouldn't be concerned with what they are thinking. Bob Proctor, too, echoed this sentiment in these words? Most people are concerned with what other people think. They shouldn't be. They should be concerned with what they think of themselves. We've got to take a look at how we are living. Are we choosing our own path? Are we operating on an image of the kind of life we want and execute it? Or are we just trying to get by as best we can day to day? When we base our happiness and self worth on what others think, we put ourselves in a vulnerable position. People's opinions can change easily and are often beyond our control. By relying on them for our sense of worth, we set ourselves up for disappointment and insecurity. Instead, the stoics advise, focusing on what we can control, our own thoughts and actions. If we learn to value our own opinions and achievements, without needing others' approval, we can lead a more stable and fulfilling life. We should strive to be content with ourselves, regardless of what others might think or say. This mindset shift can protect us from the ups and downs caused by others' opinions. It can help us maintain our self esteem and happiness, even when faced with criticism or comparison. By focusing on our own values and judgments, we can build a stronger, more resilient sense of self. As Bob Proctor put it, what you think of yourself is very important. What other people think of you is not important. I used to be very concerned with what other people thought of me. I'm not anymore, because I realize what somebody else thinks of me really has no bearing on my life. What I think of me is everything. If I really work at being a nice person and I work at accomplishing something, other people will probably like me. But if I go around concerning myself with what other people think. I'm not going to accomplish very much. 7. Session 6: Success Costs More Than You Think: Success is often seen as the ultimate achievement, bringing with it wealth, fame, and admiration. But beneath the surface lies a lesser known truth, the hidden costs that many successful individuals must pay. Consider the high profile figures, we often idolize the CEOs, celebrities, and leaders. While their lives may seem clamorous, they're often bound by the demands of their success. These demands dictate their attire, their social engagements, and even their words. They may find themselves wearing suits and attending events they have little interest in all in the name of maintaining their image and status. Moreover, the pressure to succeed can force individuals to suppress their true thoughts and feelings. The fear of damaging their reputation or jeopardizing their opportunities leads them to censor themselves, sacrificing their authenticity in the process. Yet perhaps the most significant tool of success is its potential to rode one's moral compass. The pursuit of success can lead individuals to compromise their values. Engaging in actions they may otherwise find unethical or wrong. The desire to maintain their position at the top can blur the lines between right and wrong, leading to choices that tarnish their integrity. In essence, success can become a double edged sword, a symbol of achievement on one hand, but a source of confinement and compromise on the other. Before embarking on the journey to success, it is essential to consider the true cost. Is it worth sacrificing one's freedom, authenticity and integrity? Are there alternative paths to fulfillment that do not come with such steep costs? Success may hold a ure, but it is essential to approach it with a clear understanding of its implications. Only then can individuals make informed decisions about their aspirations and the sacrifices they are willing to make in pursuit of their goals.