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1. Introduction: Hi, it can be a real
challenge to behave properly when interacting with others in a remote
work environment. The shift towards remote work has redefined some
of the rules we followed when we relied primarily on face-to-face
interactions. But there have been few
attempts to establish a framework for proper
remote work etiquette. This course takes
on that challenge and it aims to provide you with
the foundational knowledge you need to communicate
more effectively and to build strong relationships
with your colleagues. After completing this course, you'll have a good
understanding of how the basic principles of
business etiquette apply to remote workers and of how
to apply the key rules associated with different communication methods
such as teleconferencing, e-mail, instant messaging,
and voice calls. I'm Dragos, and I'll guide you through
this interesting and, at times, surprising
learning journey. I'm a trainer and an
instructional designer. I had been working remotely for eight years at the time when I started developing this course, so I've had a lot of hands-on experience
with the concepts I'm about to share with you. In 2014, when I first started working remotely for
a technology company, there was a consensus
among my colleagues, all of whom were
working from home, that we should not disclose our remote working
condition to customers. I remember being on a call with a colleague who
pretended to get up from his desk and walk over to his supervisor, while another colleague
dismissed his cat's meowing as an
unfortunate side effect of his having to work from home for the day, due to construction work being
done at the office. It's amazing how much this
mentality has shifted. Back in 2014, there was
a real concern that a fully remote company won't
be taken seriously. Today, that same company I mentioned before became a market leader in its segment and is proud
of its fully remote legacy. The COVID-19
pandemic accelerated a trend that was already
growing steadily. Remote work was initially for those who could do their
jobs from anywhere, but it eventually became
a requirement for those with no place to go
outside their own home. Inevitably, this resulted in thousands of articles, studies, books and videos on how to
remain productive while working from home and on the benefits and
drawbacks of remote work. This course doesn't
intend to add to the myriad of
productivity tips or to the list of benefits
of working remotely. Its goal is to direct
your attention to the polite rules of behavior
in a remote work context, a topic that has
been surprisingly overlooked in the two years
of remote work prominence. I personally feel that there isn't enough information
around this topic, and a lot of people
struggle to observe even the most basic
rules and guidelines for working from home
or from anywhere. At no time was this more
apparent than when I interviewed a candidate for the team I was
managing at the time, and he showed up for his
interview in a black tank top. As you can probably guess, I would have much rather prefer
to see him in his shirt. So I decided to do something to help fill
this knowledge gap. Hopefully, it will
benefit the candidate who fail to make a first good impression during his interview, as well as many others
seeking to build an advance their careers
while working remotely. My suggested approach
is that we all take a step back to
see the big picture and not get lost among
the thousands of how-to guides by
productivity gurus. We just need to understand some often neglected, common sense rules, that
should be guiding our behavior while
working remotely, and then expand on them to cover the most common
issues and scenarios. Let's get to it.
2. Defining Etiquette: I feel that we can't really
kick off this course without having a clear
definition of what etiquette is. Merriam Webster's Dictionary
defines etiquette as "the rules indicating the proper
and polite way to behave". Etiquette comprises of a set
of rules and guidelines that dictate how an individual should behave in certain groups. Of course, we
wouldn't be talking about remote work at all, were it not for the Internet. The unprecedented
multitude of means of interaction that the internet
has provided for its users determined the development of a specific culture
for this environment. Internet developed its
own norms, values, and rules, and adopted
English as its main language. Remote working functions within the boundaries of this culture. Remote work etiquette
is, at least partially, a subdivision
of business etiquette, which in turn is part of a
much broader social etiquette. Social etiquette can differ from one culture or
country to another, while business
etiquette tends to be multicultural in nature. The 19th edition of Emily
Post's Etiquette: Manners For a New World, a reference for proper behavior since
the 19th century, specifies that etiquette
has four main features. First, it is fluid and not constricted to a
strict set of rules. Tima and space influence
how people behave and etiquette is adapted
to these two dimensions. Secondly, etiquette
is for everybody, not just for elites. That's because good
manners cost nothing. Thirdly, it is current. The guidelines of etiquette are not based on
history or tradition; even though the
principles are timeless, guidelines adapt constantly
as society changes. Lastly, it is unpretentious. Polite people don't
patronize others. The key element of etiquette is that it regulates human actions so that they are considerate towards other
members of society. Etiquette was developed in the spirit of being
mindful to how other persons in a group understand things and
relate to one another. Since the Internet
developed its own culture, it also had to develop
its own etiquette. Thus, a new term was coined: Netiquette. Netiquette is defined as the rules of etiquette
that apply when communicating over
computer networks, especially the Internet. The guidelines of netiquette
are directed towards the specific realities of communicating over the internet, such as the eye-straining
backlight of computer screens, the excess of information, or the speed with which
written communication unfolds. We can therefore conclude that
remote work etiquette lies between business
etiquette and Netiquette. A quick Google search
on this topic we'll return quite a few
articles and videos, mostly in the form of
unstructured quick tips. One of the ambitions
of this course is to provide a framework for
remote work etiquette, one that's structured around four different
communication methods and their specific uses
and requirements. We'll explore these in
greater detail in the subsequent sections
of the course. But, at the end of the day, why should you care about
remote work etiquette? Why are polite rules of behavior
important to your work? Is it just to make
you look good? Or is there a deeper
meaning to all of this? The simple answer is that, when we act with respect for others, we increase the chances
of leveraging the power of groups and teams to
achieve our end results. More specifically, you should care about
remote work etiquette because some of the old rules just don't work in a
remote environment. And there are new rules and
guidelines to consider. If you want to be an
effective communicator, get people to like you and ultimately become more
effective in everything you do.
3. The Current State of Remote Work: Before we can talk about
remote work etiquette, we need to better
understand what qualifies as remote work. The context creates
the rules and etiquette is all about
rules and guidelines. Here's a simple definition. Remote work, which is also called telecommuting
or telework, is an agreement
between a company and its employees,
that allows for work to be done from anywhere outside the company's offices. The official definition
available from the US Office for personnel management
states that remote work is a "work flexibility arrangement under which an
employee performs the duties and
responsibilities of such employee's position, and other authorized activities,
from an approved work site other than the
location from which the employee would
otherwise work. Remote working is a viable
option for companies across many industries and for a
wide variety of job roles. It does, however,
require that work can be done online or on
a local device. Let's look at some
facts about remote work, so we can better
grasp the concept. According to Global
Workplace Analytics, remote work grew 216%
between 2005 and 2019. However, it was still
marred by controversy, most notably in 2013 when Yahoo! announced that they were dismantling their
remote work program. A few years later in 2017, they were followed by IBM, one of the pioneers
of telecommuting. The COVID-19 pandemic
brought about the most significant
advancement of remote work. According to Statista.com, before the COVID-19 pandemic, 17% of US employees
worked from home five days or more per week. That share surged to 45% during the pandemic. Remote working went mainstream, as millions of people
who had previously never been exposed to this
way of working hard to figure out how to get their jobs done from their living rooms, bedrooms, kitchens, or garages. In early 2022, as the
pandemic started to subside, a lot of people
returned to the office, but the outlook for remote
work looks positive. It seems that a lot more
companies will offer this working arrangement than they did before the pandemic. Now, there's an
interesting distinction between working remotely
and working from home. While the two terms have often
been used interchangeably, we should acknowledge
that remote working is not restricted to
working from one home. Let's not forget about beaches, hotels, cafes, or
co-working spaces. Not long ago, the idea
of remote work was still largely associated
with the image of a creative professional
typing away on their laptop from a tropical beach, by choice, more than it was with that of working from your living
room with your toddler, banging pots against
the furniture in the background, for lack
of better options. While the pandemic forced
a lot of people into becoming involuntary
remote workers, the future of remote work seems geared towards positioning this working arrangement
as a benefit, rather than as an unwanted
temporary situation. Remote workers shape their own work
environments, so they can establish their space in a way that works best
for their needs. Well, at least within
available possibilities. Why is this important in understanding remote
work etiquette? Well, simply put, there are different etiquette
guidelines for people who choose to work from home, or another
remote location, than for those who
work from home because they have no choice. The etiquette rules
we'll discuss in subsequent sections
of this course assume that most people who work remotely do so by choice. The old rules of business
etiquette still apply, but there's a nuance to them, and some new rules are born from these assumptions about
the future of remote work.
4. Work Time vs. Personal Space: Remote works rise to
prominence has caused an unprecedented overlap between our personal and
professional lives. In the on-premises world, you spend your time working
in a dedicated work space. These two dimensions of work
were perfectly aligned. Typical day starts
with you leaving home or your personal space, jumping into a commute, then reaching your
place of work, which is usually designed
to keep you focused on doing your job while
avoiding personal distractions. The old rules of
business etiquette are rooted in the on-premises
world paradigm, so they make no clear
distinction between work time and work space. Remote work etiquette
needs to factor in the added complexity of work taking place in a
personal space. This causes a shift
in how we set our physical and
psychological boundaries. Some remote work companies encouraged their
employees to simply tune out all their
personal matters while they're on the clock. That may seem like a
reasonable request, considering you're getting
paid for the time you spend working regardless
of your location. But the human mind simply
doesn't work like that. We are apparently
primed to behave in certain ways, in
specific environments. Or in other words, our
office habits will always be different from
the habits we form at home. Two studies published
in the Journal of Experimental Psychology
in 2012 reveal that habits are influenced by location much more than
they are by current goals. So even if you must meet a tight deadline for putting
together a complex report, you may still turn on the TV to watch an episode of
your favorite show, so long as it's right
in front of you. Granted, this is an
extreme example and most people working
from home are usually more
disciplined than that. But avoiding such distractions still comes with
considerable effort. There's plenty of research to
support the theory that we assign habits to a
particular location. If you're primarily getting remote work done
from your kitchen, you will likely gain
a few pounds by having the fridge
at arm's length. This was probably the most
common bad habit people noticed while working from
home during the pandemic, with many emerging in
need of a new word, rope. If you're in the habit of
keeping your house tidy, you may be distracted
by those clothes that were carelessly thrown on one
of the living room chairs. And stop working for a few
minutes to make things right. It's beyond the scope of this course to discuss
the principles behind designing your environment
to change bad habits, or to enforce good ones. I'm also not going to
go into the debate over how productive we can be
while working from home. Given these considerations, there are multiple
resources out there. If you want to do a
deeper dive into this, and they're just a
Google search away. The reason I'm bringing
this up in the context of remote work etiquette is to
highlight an important fact. When you interact with
someone working from home, you are to some extent
entering their personal space. This is true even if the interaction takes place
during working hours. We're never 100% detached
from our surroundings. And just like people have
different habits when they work from home as opposed to from when they worked
from an office. They also have different
expectations of people who enter
their personal space, albeit virtually and
during working hours.
5. Communication Methods: Etiquette is ultimately about communication, and remote
work etiquette boils down to four primary communication
methods, which occur with the support of multiple technology-based
communication tools. First, we have teleconferencing, an umbrella term
used to describe any electronically
mediated audio or audio visual connection. It's usually used between more than two geographically
dispersed participants. Teleconferencing
can be split up into conference calls, which are voice only
interactions over phone systems or
teleconferencing software; then we have video
conferences, where participants also
share their webcams; and finally, there's web-based
conferences, that are primarily focused on imparting information through
screen-sharing. E-mail, in full
electronic mail, refers to messages sent through a network between different
digital devices, such as computers
or smartphones. It is currently, and has
been for quite a while, one of the most widely used
communication methods. It is a form of
written communication, though it can
incorporate graphics, sounds, and even videos, either as in-body messages
or as attachments. Next, we have instant messaging, which refers to any
type of communication over the Internet that
occurs in real time. We're going to extend the
classic definition of instant messaging to
include online chat, including chat rooms with multiple participants
and text messaging, since today's options for multiple device
support for SMS makes the overall experience
very similar to that of using an
instant messaging client. And of course, we
can't leave out voice calling, or
the act of speaking to another individual
through a telephone or a device that's connected
to the Internet. There are technically
two different categories of voice calls. We have phone calls
which happened over land lines or
over mobile networks, and voice over IP calls which use the Internet to
send and receive voice data. As far as etiquette goes, there's very little
difference between the two. Before we go any further, we need to make the
distinction between communication methods
and communication tools. As we have just seen, communication methods
have evolved with the rise and popularization
of the Internet, to the point where you can now take your entire
communication online. There are multiple software
tools that facilitate communication through each of these communication methods. For example, software
such as Zoom, Webex or GoToMeeting are specifically designed for all
forms of teleconferencing, but they also support
instant messaging, and you can use them for
voice calls as well. On the other hand, you can hold a conference call on
Slack or Microsoft Teams, which are primarily used
for chat or voice calling. There are even
tools that help you aggregate all of your
written communication, so your emails and instant messages will
all show in one place. So when we talk about etiquette, it's not about the
communication tools, but more about the communication
method you choose. And as you're about to see, there are different rules
that apply for when you want to use Slack
for a voice call, teleconference, or sending
an instant message. To better understand when
and how we can use each of the four main
communication methods, w'll categorize them on two axis. The first is their
primary focus, which is to either
address issues as soon as possible or to build
relationships. And the second is their
expected response time. Ultimately, the purpose of consolidating relationships
is that of addressing more complex issues that
can only be tackled through the synergy of
multiple teams or individuals. For items that address issues, the main consideration is how easily they can be
referenced later. It takes five seconds to find the keyword in a message
thread or in your inbox, but nobody is going
to sit through a two hour recording of a conference call when
they need to act quickly. The assumption behind
this classification is that, in a remote environment, people mostly work on their
tasks individually and use meetings to validate their work and to
outline next steps. There are, of course, many
exceptions to this rule, and you could have a team
of developers that needs to jump on a conference call to collectively complete a task. But even in those cases, the relationship
consolidation aspect is still very much present. More people working
remotely means a wider geographical
distribution. Having your team members
halfway around the world is now a common occurrence,
a fact that has brought the term asynchronous
work to the mainstream. Asynchronous work describes a working arrangement
that doesn't require all members of a team
or all people working on a project to be
available at the same time. It's been around for a while, mostly used by big corporations, but it wasn't as common as it became during and after
the COVID-19 pandemic. Asynchronous work
relies heavily on the communication
methods we listed in the "Address Issues" category. When you're based in Europe, you can work with someone
based in Australia, though it's less likely you'll
make work friends there.
6. Form vs. Content: How do you decide what's
the right channel for your remote
work communication? That's probably the first
question you should ask yourself when thinking
about etiquette rules. For example, it might
not be a great idea to send out confidential
information via email, which is notoriously unsecure, or to send bad news through
an instant message. We should look at remote work etiquette through the lens of the age-old distinction
between form and content. Put simply, content is what's communicated and form is
how information is shared. The content of communication determines the appropriate
communication method. Let's look at some
common examples. If you need to share bad news
or sensitive information, this should be done through
a voice or a video call. Pre-pandemic business
etiquette advised us to share such
information face-to-face. But in the absence
of that option, this is the next best
thing for having a direct and private interaction
with another person. As for confidential information that is best conveyed
over a voice call, particularly if
you don't want to have a written record of it. The absence of a
physical workspace doesn't exclude the
possibility of having personal conversations
mostly unrelated to work with coworkers
during break time. These are great to help
people get to know each other better and can
be good for morale. The water cooler
talk has moved to instant messaging,
especially since, as we'll see, this
method lends itself to informal communication more
readily than any other. If your message doesn't
require a reply or any type of action
from its recipients. Such as when you want to share a status update for
a task or a project, email is the way to go. But remote work communication isn't all about
imparting information. Sometimes you need to reach a decision that
requires collaboration. So you need to jump on a voice call or a
video conference. Other times you need to work with others
through an issue. If that's the case,
you should select your communication channel based on urgency and complexity. Instant messaging and
voice calls are both good options for resolving
quick and urgent issues. While conference calls are
the way to go if you need to address complex issues that
involve multiple people. Finally, if you're just
looking to build or improve relationships
with other team members, such as through
team-building activities, which are not completely
gone in the remote world, or by having regular
check-in calls. That's something you can only achieve through
teleconferencing, or more specifically, through videoconferencing or
web-based conferencing. This covers the
basics of content. The main takeaway
here is that you need to think about what
you want to communicate, then select the proper
channel for it. On the flip side, we have form with three different
levels of formality, which are typically associated
with the English language, but that can be extended to nonverbal communication as well. The formal
communication style is characterized by longer and
more complex sentences. The use of less common words and the complete absence of idioms, deck speak and contractions. It's used for official reports, contracts, or academic articles. The only communication
method that lends itself to formal communication in
the remote world is email. Receiving a formal message via instant messaging would
seem downright silly. You might think that
teleconferencing can also provide a channel for formal communication in some
exceptional circumstances, but remote working sort of took away that privilege from this particular
communication method. You'll find out
more about this in our section dedicated
to teleconferencing. For now, let's move on and discuss the next
level of formality, which is semiformal idioms, phrasal verbs and
contractions are okay but not tech
speak or slang. It's the type of
language you use for your day-to-day
interactions with colleagues. And it was widely
adopted by organizations way before remote work
became so significant. In the world of remote working, semi-formal communication
reigns supreme. It even expanded
into areas that were formerly held by
formal communications such as making official
request within organizations or
vertical communication between managers
and their teams. Finally, in formal
communication isn't really something to talk about in the context of
business etiquette. Proper grammar is not
of great concern. Slang and phrasal verbs are used frequently as our
reductions when speaking. It's used exclusively for
interacting with friends. These levels of formality
extend from written and spoken language into
physical appearance. Video calls and video
conferences are the only ways to interact visually with
others in the remote world, although you can only see
them from the waist up. This brought about
a unique formal tap in formal bottom dress code. If you're absolutely
sure you're not going to have to stand up
during a video call, then you can take a chance
and where your shorts and fluffy slippers to that
monthly management meeting. But I wouldn't
really recommend it.
7. Rules for Teleconferencing: You might remember BBC that, which is how Professor Robert
Kelly became known after his live interview was brutally interrupted
by his two children. In an unprecedented
public display of the perils of working
from home is interview occurred in 2017
when working from home wasn't aware as common as it became a few years later. The video went viral and an
interesting thing happened. Millions of people found it
amusing, not embarrassing. The image is travel
the world and the professor and his family
became famous overnight. What's more, they
brought to awareness the distinction between personal
space and office space. In my opinion, this event marked a turning point in
work-from-home etiquette. Domestic disruptions, though not desirable,
became acceptable. They can even be used to add some humor and unwind meetings. Today, some people
bring their kids to video conferences on purpose. The key to understanding
teleconferencing etiquette in remote work context
is to acknowledge that it aims to replace
face-to-face communication. Zoom, one of the leading
teleconferencing platforms. So an increase of 500% in user traffic when the COVID-19
pandemic hitting 2020. Even in a hybrid environment, most meetings are being held via teleconferencing
software. Most calendars now allow you
to check the availability of coworkers so you
can send meeting invitations when you know
people will be available. When you are invited to
a meeting, always RSVP, so that the other
participants can schedule the topics
around your availability. For conference calls, which are voice only interactions over a phone or a
conferencing system. The rules are pretty
simple and they also apply to the other two
forms of teleconferencing, namely videoconferencing
and web-based conferencing. A conference call requires focused attention in
a remote environment. That means it always needs
to be scheduled in advance. Hello participants to manage
their work environment and avoid any potential
noise or interruptions. Telling people they need
to jump on a call in five-minutes is just
asking for trouble. The distractions
associated with working from a personal space
are very real and needs to be considered when
small or large groups of people get together to discuss
business-related issues. On the flip side, if you are afforded enough time to prepare, you should use it to minimize distractions and the
risk of interruptions. Maybe you'd like to work on your tasks from the
yard or the balcony. That's not an appropriate
environment for taking a conference call given that you have no control over noise. Or maybe you have your kids with you in your living
room while you work, in which case you should consider moving to
a different room, provided of course, that your kids still have
proper supervision. Just like with
in-person meetings, conference calls should
always have a clear agenda. This will allow everyone who is invited to the call to determine what topics are of interest and whether or not they
need to attend. Time is also an
important consideration. As opposed to an
in-person meeting. There is no physical
location you need to get to. So being late to
a conference call isn't acceptable from an
etiquette standpoint, the same logic dictates
that you need to stick to the initially
scheduled time and not cause conference
calls to run over. This can only be done as an exception when
you need to reach a critical decision or work
through an important issue. And you must always get the confirmation of
all participants that they can
extend your stay on the call for a clearly
defined period. If there are any persons on the coal whom you
haven't officially met, you should introduce herself at the very beginning. What's more? You should always say
her name before speaking as other participants may
not recognize your voice. In fact, I've attended multiple
conference calls where the wrong person was a managed for something.
They never said. You can never control your
environment completely. So noise can become a distraction during
a conference call. Whether it's your children
testing their new drum set, your cat, knocking over a vase, or your neighbors
remodeling initiative. The only thing you can do to prevent them
from interrupting your call is to place yourself on mute when
you're not talking. This will undoubtedly
lead you to forgetting to unmute yourself at some
point during the call. But it's a much easier
issue to deal with than any of the disruptions
that we just mentioned. Okay, let's now
build on this set of rules for conference calls by including the visual element. Video conferences are
the closest thing to a face-to-face interaction
between remote workers. And they add the all important nonverbal component
to communication. However, a lot of studies
showed that it does come with added
stress and fatigue. A Stanford University
study identified four primary reasons why
video calls cause fatigue. Firstly, there's an extended
and unnatural amount of indirect eye contact. When talking to participants
on a video conference, your advice to look
into the camera, which creates the
sensation of eye contact. But in a face-to-face setting, the people direct
their attention to whomever is speaking. On a video conference. Everyone is looking
at everyone else. Even if you're not a speaker, you get the same amount
of attention and implicitly the same
level of stress. Furthermore, most video
conference participants share close-ups of their faces that
are unnatural and invasive. Creating the type of
discomfort associated with someone entering
your personal space. Secondly, seeing
yourself constantly in real time is energy draining? When we see our
reflection in the mirror, we tend to be more
critical of ourselves. If you're video conferencing system comes with an option to disable your own camera
view. You should use it. Next, video conference calls
reduce our ability to move. We're constrained by the
limits of the video frame, so we can get up and walk around things that are quite normal during a face-to-face meeting. Finally, the non-verbal
aspect causes higher cognitive load when
we're on a video call. Processing nonverbal
communication happens unconsciously in a
face-to-face setting, but it requires intentional
cognitive effort if you're on a video call. Now, all of this considered, the clear takeaway is that not every interaction has
to be a video conference. Since video conferences are taxing and even a bit invasive, the polite thing to
do is to only use these communication method when there's a real added benefit. Such as when you
need to leverage the power of a team or a
group to solve a problem. Or when you need to
discuss a sensitive topic. Some companies and managers, mainly those new to remote work, will feel like they
must check in to see if their teams are actually
working at their desks. So they use video conferences as a way to check in on
their team members. Based on everything
we know about videoconferencing and
how it causes fatigue. We can say that such a
practice is counterproductive. There's dedicated
software for monitoring your Team's activity
if you need to use it. On the other end
of the spectrum, we have meetings
that are hijacked by people's need for live
human interaction, where time is wasted on small, dark and idle gossip without any consideration for
the meeting agenda. This type of interaction
is important in a remote environment
as it replaces the fame that much mist,
water cooler talk. However, it should not eat
into your productive time. It's best to set time aside specifically for
socialization goals. If there's the key
takeaway from all of this, is that when it comes to video
conferences, less is more. When you do have to jump
on a video conference, these are the things
to look out for. First, your general
appearance sends an important nonverbal message when you're speaking to
someone for the first time. It also sets the stage
for the first impression, which is more important
than you may think as it influences people's
attitudes towards you. Make sure you are well-groomed
and your face looks just as it would when you're
having an in-person meeting. In other words, put your
best face on display. Also, dress like you
would for the office. It's your call if you want
to take the chance and where your gym shorts with
your shirt or blazer. But it's risky. You
may need to get up from your desk and
then your picture. It could become yet another
work-from-home mean. But what good is it to put on your best face and
dress for the office? If nobody can see that, makes sure your face
is properly lit, either sitting opposite window or by using artificial lighting. Should do that. Do your best to raise
your webcam at eye level so you look directly into the
camera and not downwards. Taking a video
conference call from your mobile phone is
almost always a bad idea. Another good way of helping
people focus on your face is not giving them anything to focus on in the background. The best way you
can do that is by ensuring there isn't any
movement back there. So your fish tank,
your hamster cage, or a kitchen where other members of your household make their way every five-minutes are
not the best options. Even static elements such
as an open bedroom door and unmade bed or your child's pile of stuffed
animals can be distracting. Keep it as simple and
clean as possible. Remember, you want other
corporate disciplines to focus on you. Some people go
above and beyond in getting their background
to look interesting. Showcasing elaborate
interior design decisions or unimpressive library. In fact, I remember reading that book sales reached new peaks during the COVID-19 pandemic. And what's most interesting is that people were
picking up books based on the color of their covers or jackets rather than
by their content. The fact is that your background
doesn't make you seem smarter or more interesting
during a conference call. It's what you say and how
you say that matters. If you can't accommodate
any of these suggestions, then and only then you can use the built-in
background blurring or replacement option. Many conferencing
systems now come with having an unnatural
background can be distracting, as CAN having happier phase disappear while you're speaking. Because this technology isn't quite at the point where you can get away with replacing your background and pretending
to be somewhere else. Last but not least, make sure you sound good so that other people can make out what you're saying
without any effort. Many studies point to
audio quality being more important than the
image in the video. The average duration of a video call is
around 45 minutes. If you know you're going to be spending much of
your time talking, consider using a
dedicated headset, purpose-built for
conference calls. Your laptop's
built-in microphone will almost never live up to the task as it will pick
up echo and background noise, both of which interfere with
getting your message across. Also, ear buds and over your headphones that come with a microphone aren't
usually a good option. A lot of people turn to
them for convenience. But the microphone's
on these things were designed for
quick phone calls, not for 30 minute presentations. The main problem is
that they also pick up a lot of background
noise and your voice doesn't come across
as clearly as it would if you were using
a dedicated headset. Remember, etiquette
is about being polite and you can
safely assume it's impolite to replay the
clouds attentional capacity by making it difficult
for them to hear you. After covering the
basic rules for conference calls and
video conferences, we should address the
web-based conferences or those that revolve
around screen-sharing. Ideally, you'd be running on a dual monitor setup when you know you have to
share your screen often. That way you can keep one
of your screen is clean and free from any sort
of digital clutter. The wallpaper choice
is also important. Big something neutral
and non-distracting. A photo of your
family is lovely, but it's inappropriate to share in a business environment. The same goes for references
to your favorite movies, sports team or what have you. None of these belong on
a screen that will be shared with colleagues
or customers. If you're in the
habit of keeping confidential information
on your desktop, such as passwords on a
digital post-it note. You should reconsider
that choice for a lot of different reasons. But especially if
you are at risk of exposing confidential
information during a web-based conference. Also disabled any
pop-up notifications for email or instant messaging when you're sharing your screen. You never know who might
message you and what about. Finally, make sure that
your zoom level allows other participants to
the web-based conference to properly see the
content you're sharing. Don't assume that
everyone is watching the call on a 32
inch for K monitor. This covers everything
you need to know about teleconferencing
etiquette. As a parting thought,
I want to add a small but significant item
to take into consideration. Don't mention where
you're working from unless you are
asked, of course, while some people working
remotely are free of any responsibilities
and can login to conference calls
from exotic beaches. Others must work
through the sound of their furniture being destroyed
by overactive children, while laundry and
dishes pile up to the sky is not polite to brag about what benefits
you get out of working remotely because they're
not the same for everyone. Just something to keep in mind.
8. Rules for Email: Despite being over 50 years old, email is still most
prominent form of business communication. A lot of people predicted emails demise caused by
the rise of social media. But all the facts suggests
that e-mail is here to stay. Here are some recent numbers. There are 7.9 billion email accounts and more than
4.2 billion users, and almost all of them
check their e-mail daily. Over 3 million
emails are sent each second and that number is projected to grow
in the near future. Email probably
survive the Thames by social media to
overthrow it as the most used form of written communication by
becoming mobile friendly. The latest stats available
at the time this course was published place
mobile open rates at 42% of all the emails. In other words, nearly
half of e-mails are now read on a mobile device such
as a smartphone or a tablet. These numbers include
private messages, but email has always been one of the most significant
communication methods in the business environment. The shift towards
remote work has helped the male gain
even more ground. You may be familiar
with the saying, this meeting should
have been an e-mail. As we've just learned in the previous section
of the course, remote meetings are held exclusively through
teleconferencing. And when it comes to
teleconferencing, less is more. So email to cover
topics such as shearing complex information
to a group of people if no action is required. Remote workers prefer email
because it promotes work from home collaboration by making it easier to talk to
colleagues and customers. Some are introverted, shy, or just aren't used to talking
to people on the phone. It's a known fact that
millennials prefer written communication
and Gen Z is and are now entering the
workforce in full swing. You have a very
large category of people who just
aren't used to well, talking to other people. I'm not judging this as
either a good or a bad thing, but it's a fact that we all need to take
into consideration. David Shipley and we'll
show the authors of sand, white people email so
badly and how to do it better identified six
main uses for email. The most frequent use
for email is for making requests which appear as a
result of needs or wishes. Email has made it a lot easier to ask for things as it likes the unpleasant tension implied by making requests,
face-to-face. Request made by e-mail usually get answered
through the same channel. Answers confirmed
that the message was received and lateral
resolution to the request. It's also used to provide
information that is or might be of interest
to the recipient. These messages usually
don't require an answer and are sometimes marked
by the FYI acronym, either in the subject line or at the beginning
of the message. The fact that the information
is written can turn emails into valuable sources that can be kept for
future reference. When working remotely. Email is also good
communication method for thanking people
and for apologizing. It can also be used for socializing through
messages that as people, just how they're feeling, sending jokes, funny pictures, or other such things. A very little
informational value, but that help consolidate
relationships. Now that we have a
better understanding of what remote workers
use email for, Let's talk about the actual
rules for using email. The subject is the
first contact, and it makes the
difference between the recipient reading or
discarding your email. It must be brief and clear with no more than 40 characters so that it doesn't
get truncated. A subject such as, it is our pleasure
to invite you to the fourth annual edition of the e-mail etiquette
conference will only get displayed as it is our
pleasure to invite you to the whoever received this e-mail
will have no idea what it's about and my dismiss
it as unimportant. Some people are in the habit of writing the entire message in the subject field whenever
they are in a hurry. Ironically, instead of
splitting things up, this practice only
manages to slow them down as it makes it
very difficult to read. At the other end
of the spectrum, we have messages
without any subject. These are always a surprise. The only clue as to
the possible content is the sender's name. So many such messages
remain unread. A subject also has to be clear
and specific as possible. Vague subjects such as question or announcement may be brief. What they are now clear
enough for the recipient to understand whether
about, for example, instead of using
just a question, you could write a question
regarding the last payment. This is still brief, but it is also specific. Specific subject lines also
make it easier to reference the information later
as they show up higher in your list
of search results. Although it is
fully aligned with the semi-formal
communication style, email has kept some elements from the structure of letters, including the salutations
and closings. The salutations are written
on a separate line at the beginning of the message
and are followed by a comma. The most used salutations of
semi-formal communication, or hello or hi, which are more common to face to face then to written
communication. This emphasizes emails, right, as you speak trait. It's also common to
just use the first name of the recipient and then
get straight to the point. The most common closing for an email is thanks or thank you. More formal closings such as
Best regards or sincerely, have recently fallen out of favor with the
business grout. In fact, some people
only use this type of closing to express
dissatisfaction. As far as font goes, most e-mail clients YOU
to get very creative. But that doesn't mean
you should do it. Simple. Black sans serif fonts
are always a safe option. If you need to highlight a
section of your message, do it with bolt. All caps are associated
with shouting while underline text is commonly
associated with hyperlinks. Italic text should be used to highlight words
from other languages, jargon, or when citing text. Today, we're all struggling
with information overload. Therefore, we don't really read our e-mails carefully
most of the time, we just skim through them. That's why it's a
bad idea to organize your email as a
single block of text. Paragraph spacing gives
readers an overview of the main ideas in the texts without them having
to read it all. It's also recommended to
keep the texts short enough so recipients can see all
of it without scrolling. Otherwise they might miss information you placed at
the end of your message. Finally, there's the signature. In the remote work world, the email signature block is the closest thing you
have to a business card. Its function is to provide
useful information about the sender and their
position within the company, as well as their
contact details. Signatures are usually six lines long and contain the
following information. The first and last name, function or position within
the company, phone number, email address, company address, and social media links if they're relevant
for your company. In terms of form, remote work e-mails are
almost always semiformal. That's as easy as ABC. The message has to be accurate to provide
sufficient details. It also has to be brief. And to the point written in short sentences that leave
out and useless information. And it has to be clear. Messages that don't need any additional clarification
are the most effective. So if you have a message that is accurate,
brief, and clear, you can rest assured that
the writing style is appropriate for
email communication. Keeping an e-mail brief doesn't, however, applied to attachments. The message in the body of
your email should be brief. But the only criteria and
attached file should meet is that of being relevant and
accessible to the recipient. Or in other words,
make sure that they can open the file format
you're attaching. Try to avoid jargon,
emoticons or emojis. They could interfere
with the C in your ABC. Not everyone is familiar with all the terms and
acronyms. You may know. This covers almost everything
you need to take into account when sending e-mails
while working remotely. But we can complete this section of the course
on remote work etiquette without talking about how and when you should
reply to emails. There are three ways to interact
with the received email, reply, reply all, and forward. The reply function is used for providing a response
to receive message. If you are not the only
recipient of the email, you should use the
reply all function as other people might also be
interested in your response. The most common
mistake people make is to use the reply
function when they should use Reply All leaving
some people out of the loop. You may forward an
e-mail when you need to inform a third
party that was not part of the initial conversation about what's being discussed, you should set a
response time of two hours for all e-mails
that require your reply. Even if you can't answer the
request in this timeframe, you should at least
respond by stating the estimated
duration for handling the request to wrap up even people working remotely
go on vacation, right. When you said you're out
of office auto reply. Consider including three items, the interval of absence, your availability
during that interval, and an alternative contact. You can live out your
vacation destination or how happy that
I'm off makes you.
9. Rules for Instant Messaging: Instant messaging is a term
used to describe any type of real-time communication
through text messages over a computer network. It is usually used
interchangeably with online chat. Though the term
dates from the 990s, you may be surprised
to learn that instant messaging
predates the internet. More specifically, it was
developed in the mid 1960s. Over the past couple of decades, instant messaging has become increasingly popular
with the business grout. As organizations
realize the benefits of decreasing unnecessary
back-and-forth phone calls and of offering we can clear
solutions to issues that would have otherwise remained
unnoticed in email inboxes. For people working remotely, they're instant
messaging app is likely the first thing they login to
when they start their day. Instant messaging is associated
with quick responses. Recent research from
Google shows that a text message response time exceeding 20 minutes
is perceived as rude. That expectation comes
from the fact that 95 per cent of
text messages will be read within three
minutes of being sent. And the average
response time for these messages is just
a minute-and-a-half. Although the study looked at short message service or SMS, the line between this
communication method and instant messaging has become blurred by the rise
to prominence of mobile first instant
messaging apps, as well as by the ability
to receive and reply to text messages on a computer by linking it to
your smartphone, regardless of which channel is used to send a text message, the user experience
is now very similar, since you can receive SMS and instant messages on either
a phone or a computer. If you know that
your colleagues can access their instant
messages on mobile, only use these communication
method during business hours as they may get notified and
feel compelled to respond, even outside of business hours. In the remote world, the end of the working
day is usually marked by moving from the living room or your
apartment or your kitchen. So it's impolite to add
to that confusion by blurring even further the lines between work and personal time. Most messages can wait
until the next day. And if they're really
urgent and time sensitive, then that should
be a phone call. If you want to communicate
something that's not urgent after the end
of the business day, do it via email. The rule for determining
if an instant message is the appropriate communication
method is to ask yourself if the
recipient can respond instantly or if they need to take time to think
about the response. If they need to think about it, you may want to send an
email or call them instead. Instant messaging is
for quick responses. Our expectation
for quick answers to instant messages makes it crucial for us to use and
respect status messages. Most systems have extended integration options to
the point where you can automatically update your status based on your calendar entries. It's best not to message someone if their status
shows during the meeting. But if you absolutely
have to do it, you obviously should not
expect a quick reply. However, make sure you
don't abuse this rule by limiting your availability
during business hours. Your calendar is
not a to-do list. But if you choose
to use it for that, don't mark your entire
day off as busy. Make sure you are
available to take calls, receive instant messages,
and attend meetings. Instant messaging is easy. In fact, it's so easy that
it's naturally associated with the informal
communication style by most people who use it for
Business Communication. Deck speak and slang
rear their ugly heads often when you're instant
messaging your colleagues. It can also become a channel for sharing inappropriate
personal information. However, remote
workers do need to message about
non-business topics to, as this is the best way to form bonds and
digital friendships. According to Harvard
Business Review, people are more effective and less likely to quit
when they work with people they like and have
friends in their workplace. Instant messaging is the communication
method of choice to address non-business related
topics and form these bonds, whether you use
instant messaging for business or personal
communication, the set of rules were
about to outline, qualifies as polite and
considerate behavior in almost all circumstances. In terms of communication style, although the formal option is
the most readily available, we should aim for semi-formal. For example, let's take
the use of emojis. Emojis are pictographs
of faces, symbols, and objects that
are often used to express emotion in
online communication. They're not to be confused with their predecessor
emoticons, which are a combination
of punctuation marks, letters, and numbers used
to create pictorial icons, but hardly anyone
uses them these days. The keyword in the definition
of emojis is emotion. How much emotion do you want to display in a business
conversation? Just like you wouldn't
want to be seen throwing a fit in the hallway
of an office building. You don't want to be that person filling the chat window
with Matt emojis. The same goes for hugs. When is it okay to use a hug emoji in the
business conversation? Well, you can use it in the
same contexts where you would actually hawk
someone if you were talking to them face-to-face
in a meeting room. So not at all too often. Some sensible advice regarding what types of images are safe to use in common in
business communication comes from Microsoft. The thumbs up or like button can be used to convey
understood, Okay, Or we'll do use emojis
that symbolize love, laugh, wow, cry, or mad
sentiments less often, depending on your team's norms. In other words, don't use emotion emojis when instant
messaging remotely, unless you visualize
yourself actually making that face or performing that
gesture in a live setting. As far as content goes, there are a few simple
guidelines that will keep your messages
clean and effective. Instant messaging
is on the border of informal and semi-formal. So it's not the best
method to meet new people. Don't message someone
you don't know or haven't previously
been introduced to, unless there's no
other alternative. An introduction is
better than via email. This communication method is supposed to be quick
and efficient. Start with a greeting, then
get right to the point, preferably in the same
line as the message. Don't break your message
up into too many lines and only address one
topic per exchange. Nothing throws the autofocus
more than waiting for someone to type their message
after the first being. In terms of the actual content, don't send anything,
you wouldn't be comfortable your
manager seeing. That goes for messages
as well as file-sharing.
10. Rules for Voice Calling: Mobile phones are no longer primarily used for
phone calls nowadays, most people prefer texting and instant messaging
to calling. Most recent studies
in both developed and developing countries
showed that people spend more time texting
than talking on the phone. Millennials and Gen Z are notoriously partial to texting
to the point where they find phone calls annoying with all the alternative
options to talk via voice over IP solutions. That term phone call is
a little inaccurate. You're probably talking to your colleagues more often over Slack Skype or Teams
than on an actual phone. That's why we'll group phone
calls and calls that occur over VOIP solutions into
a broader category, which we'll name voice calls. A voice call this a
voice only one-to-one interaction that
occurs in real-time. You've seen the benefits
and drawbacks of the other three
communication methods in a remote work environment. So you can probably infer
where voice calls fit in. Proponents of voice
calls claim that spoken conversation
accomplishes more in a shorter amount of time. If we look at that
statement closely, we may find it's
only partially true. Voice calls are great for explaining complex
concepts faster. You can check for
understanding during a phone call and clarify
items immediately. On the other hand, a voice
call is counterproductive when it lists multiple concepts that need to be
referenced later. For example, if
you're laying out the stages of a
six month project, that implies dozens of tasks to be performed by five
different people. That's a conversation you
should be having over e-mail. But if you're just clarifying
the expectation for one task associated with
that project of voice call, maybe the best way to go. In the world of remote work, voice calls are mainly
associated with urgency, maybe more so than in
an office environment. An unscheduled voice call is the equivalent of walking
to someone's desk and asking them to stop whatever they're doing and
listening to your message. This is perfectly
fine if you have an actual emergency
you need to discuss. But if that's not the case, you should always schedule your coal or at least
ask your colleagues about their availability by an instant message
before you call them. Each individual's
working environment is unique and has its own
specific challenges. Some people work in
places that are not permissive to voice
calling due to noise. Even if the kids are with
grandma in the living room, they can still be loud enough
to disrupt the phone call. If they're not making any noise, they're probably sleeping and taking a call would
wake them up. Or maybe the neighbors are added again with the remodeling. Or you're working
from a nice cafe or restaurant today to get away
from the noise at home, but the music is too loud
to have a voice call. The rising popularity of noise canceling
headphones should tell us something about the need to tune out background noise
in our daily lives. I think you get the point. In a remote environment, people sometimes need
time to prepare to take a voice call by
moving to a quieter space, and we should always allow
them that opportunity. Let's talk about the human
factor for a second. Voice calls are more personal
and they demonstrate more attention because they
make it harder to multi-task. If you have bad or
sensible news to share, a voice call is the
best way to do it. An important factor here is the contribution of
the tone of voice. Studies have shown
that the meaning of any message is derived from three aspects of communication. Body language, or what we do. Words are what we say
and the tone of voice, or how we say it. In face-to-face
communication, body language, which is also called
non-verbal communication, accounts to 55 per
cent of all meaning. Words for only seven per cent
and donor voice for 38%. A voice call doesn't
imply any visual contact. And body language cannot
be perceived directly. But body language is
absorbed into the tone of voice as most gestures affect the way sounds
come out of our mouths. For example, you can easily
tell when somebody's running or laying back
or smiling or frowning, because these actions affect
the person's posture, posture affects
the tone of voice. Therefore, in terms of how meaning is derived
over a voice call, the tone of voice accounts
for about 75 per cent. The words for the
remaining 25 per cent don't have voice
is made of inflection, pitch, bass, and volume. Inflection refers to the way we emphasize certain words or syllables in order to adjust
the meaning of a message. Pitch refers to the frequency of our voice ranging
from high to low. Generally speaking,
sounds become irritating when the pH is too high and barely perceivable when the pH is too low,
you get the point. Base is the number of words
spoken over a given period. And loudness is the quality
of sound which is measured in correlation with the
sound pressure level and can be measured in decibels. The bigger the
number of decibels, the louder the volume. As a general rule, avoid extremes at either end of the scale for all
of these elements. The fact that you can hear
someone's tone of voice makes voice calls more personal
than written communication. Give this in mind
when, for example, you need to provide negative
feedback to someone. If they just read it, it may seem harsh and they
may take it personally, even if you're only providing suggestions for improvement. In fact, the same
goes for good news or any type of information that's bound to generate
some sort of emotion. Your tone of voice can help
to maximize the impact of good news and minimize
that of bad news.
11. Final Thoughts: We've reached the
end of our course on remote work etiquette. Thanks for taking the
time to complete it. We started by
defining etiquette, which is a dynamic
set of rules and guidelines for proper
and polite behavior. We went on to describe the remote work environment and its specific challenges as opposed to working
from an office and the distinction between work
time and personal space. Remote work etiquette should acknowledge and be respectful of the personal space
component when formulating rules
of proper behavior. After that, we spoke about the four main communication
methods for remote work, namely instant messaging, email, teleconferencing,
and voice calls. And then we covered the
specific rules for each method. This concludes the training
or remote work etiquette. I hope you found it useful. Remember, etiquette
isn't rigid but constantly evolving to
accommodate new situations. If you have any thoughts
or suggestions that you think would make a good
addition to this course. And don't hesitate to message
me about it. Thank you.