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1. Class Introduction: Hi, my name is Michele Mitchell and I'm a
designer and illustrator, the host of the Freedom
Fridays podcast, and an author who
is passionate about all things communication,
design, and people. I am so excited that you decided to join me in
this Skillshare class, Pursue Your Next Career
Move with Confidence : Overcoming Imposter Syndrome. Over the last seven-plus years, I have experienced a lot, working for brands and individuals as a freelancer
and a corporate employee. I have personally
had to overcome impostor syndrome and my own
limiting beliefs in order to find my worth and my value in every space that I'm in and I want to share
that with you. This class is for anyone who is looking to begin their
professional career journey or for individuals who've
already started but are looking to take that next step, like going for a promotion, starting a business, or making a complete change of industry. By the end of this class, you'll be able to differentiate false statements and negative
self-talk from statements, thoughts, and phrases
that speak to your true value as a person. We'll move at a
pace that's easy to digest and you can take
your time with the lessons. You'll see this icon whenever
we start a new activity. These activities will help you complete your class project. For your class project, you'll be creating your own
pocket wallet-size card filled with truth statements you discover about yourself
along the way, and you'll be able to
hold onto those truths, long after you've finished this class and have made
that next career move. Ready to get started? Join me in the next lesson.
2. What is imposter syndrome?: [MUSIC] Imposter
syndrome. What is it? I remember when I
first started hearing the term imposter
syndrome and no matter how many times I heard
people try to define it, I couldn't get to a place where I fully understood its meaning. That's until I began to
experience it for myself. I get this new job, and I'm at work, and I'm doing my
work and suddenly, I have the thought they're going to figure out
that I'm not a good designer. They're going to think
I shouldn't be here. They're going to wonder,
what is she doing here? How did she even get this job? I looked it up again and
then I fully understood. I know sometimes it's
hard to find definitions with all the information
out on the inter-webs, so I did it for us. I found this definition that I feel is a pretty
succinct, complete, easy-to-understand definition from the
Harvard Business Review and I'm going to share with you. According to Gill Corkindale from the Harvard
Business Review, imposter syndrome can be
defined as a collection of feelings of inadequacy that persists despite
evident success. "Imposters" suffer from
chronic self-doubt and a sense of
intellectual fraudulence. They seem unable to internalize
their accomplishments. High achieving, highly
successful people often suffer. Imposter syndrome
doesn't equate with low self-esteem or a
lack of self-confidence. In fact, some researchers have linked it with
perfectionism, especially in women
and among academics. I know that's a lot. That's
like a good little chunk. I pulled out some of the
phrasings and the words that you saw on the
screen just so that you can focus on some of these key points in
this definition. It's really not always about
feeling low about yourself or not really feeling like
you're a successful person, but sometimes because
you've been accomplished, because you have successes, you hold yourself to
such high standards, and high standards are good, but to these
standards that almost seem unattainable to yourself, where you're at the
point where you're like, "I need to do better. I need to be the best. I need to be even better than the best." That perfectionism comes up. Some of the things when you
were younger may come up. I read that for children that had parents or guardians or lived in a society where
people were always like, "You need to be the best. You need to do better. You need to be 10 times, 20, 50 times better
than everyone else." Those children usually
grow up becoming adults who never feel as if
they're achieving, who never feel as if they're
doing work that's good enough to the point where they'll even question whether or not the
successes that they've obtained are really
great successes. Let's take it to career. You get to, like I said, this amazing job opportunity. You're the one. Out of all the interviews, out of all the candidates that they've seen, they chose you. For some reason, you're there like, "They 're going to ask me to
do something that I can't do and they're going
to realize that they shouldn't have hired me. Oh my gosh, I'm not fit for this job. I
shouldn't be here." All of that, that
thought process , that's imposter syndrome. This really has an effect on a lot of different
areas of your life. In the next lesson, we're
going to dig deeper on why this matters and why
they should matter to you. [MUSIC] Let's go.
3. Why does it matter?: We defined what
imposter syndrome is. Now let's talk about
why it matters. Why should it matter to you? Imposter syndrome can affect your personal goals,
your personal growth, your progress towards
things that you want to do, progress in your career pursuit, progress in your relationships. Imposter syndrome can really
be an unnecessary burden. I'm going to share
some questions that I found for you to think about. Just takes some time. Think about it as I ask, you, think about how
it applies to you. Do you agonize over even the smallest mistakes
or flaws in your work? Do you attribute your success
to luck or outside factors? Are you very sensitive to
even constructive criticism? That's a hard one to answer
because we never want to say that we're
sensitive to that. We want to always say that we can take feedback but
just think about it. It doesn't mean you
don't receive it, but what's happening
on the inside. Do you feel like
you'll inevitably be found out as a
phony or a fake? Do you downplay
your own expertise, even in areas where you are genuinely more
skilled than others? One, you have where
you're in the role, you're in the midst of that accomplishment or that
thing and you're like, they're going to
find out that I'm an imposter and I
shouldn't be here. Then you have the imposter that for fear of
being found out, I'm not even going to attempt
to apply for the job. I'm not going to
attempt to go to the mixer or that
networking event. I'm not even going to attempt to build that working
relationship with someone that I believe really wants
to help me as a mentor, as a colleague, or a partner. You could have
started the studio or this amazing brand deal or entrepreneurial
endeavor with someone, and because you didn't want to be found out as an impostor. You didn't even link up with
them, you didn't even try, and that could have been the
answer to everything that you've been hoping for that you've been dreaming
about this whole time. This is the effect that
imposter syndrome can have on us as individuals
and this is why it matters. It matters that we know
it so that when we see it or that when we feel
it or think those things, we can combat it and
we can make sure that we're attending
to it properly. [MUSIC] Sometimes the statements of things that we've received externally and even
that inner critic, those are the things
that cause us to really have this heightened
version of imposter syndrome. We'll go into that
more next lesson.
4. False Statements & Your Inner Critic: [MUSIC] I'm excited for this lesson. We are going to dive deep. As you've seen in the title, this lesson is all
about talking about the false statements that have
been fed to us by people, social media, society, just a plethora of areas are a part of the
statements that we receive, the messaging that we receive on a daily basis can really have an effect on how we see
ourselves and our inner critic. Let's just define this
inner critic real quick. Good Therapy says
the inner critic refers to an inner
voice that judges, criticizes, or demeans a person whether or not the self-criticism is
objectively justified. A highly active inner
critic can take a toll on one's emotional
well-being and self-esteem. In some cases, people
who struggle with frequent or debilitating
self-criticism will seek help from a therapist or a counselor to change
their thought patterns. The inner critic can weigh
heavily on us as individuals, emotionally, physically,
socially, psychologically, and if you're experiencing
inner criticism to the point where it's
debilitating and it's stifling, I definitely encourage
you to talk to someone. It could be a counselor,
it could be a therapist. There's no shame in that. I just want to call that
out because sometimes in our society we make things
like mental health taboo, but it's not, it's a part
of our overall health. We want to be healthy mentally, physically, socially,
emotionally, spiritually. Why not? If there's something that's
a little off or that's really causing you to struggle, seek help. That's my disclaimer. Back to the lesson. These false statements that
come to us on a daily basis really play a role in how we see ourselves and how we think
others are seeing us too. Also to the point why we would think that someone would
think that we're an impostor. We let in some of these
phrases, specifically, phrases that connect with not
being successful or being a failure and we hold onto those phrases so
much and so tightly, we hold onto those phrases
tighter than we do the positive statements
which we're going to go into in the next lesson. Our first activity
is going to be writing down some of
these false statements, these negative statements, these things that
do not encourage, motivate, or inspire at all. We're going to write
those things out. Instead of allowing
them to pop up in our mind situationally,
let's get them out, let's see them, let's understand what we're dealing
with from the beginning, and let's take control of it. [NOISE] Right now
as you can see, I'm writing in my book, so I'm going to do this
right along with you. You can take a
moment, you'll pause, and have time to yourself
to really think through these things and just
write them out and know that this may feel
a little bit heavy, but we're going to go from the heavy to the
light in the next lesson. We won't stay in
this heavy place, but sometimes we have
to deal with what's uncomfortable so that we can get to the comfortable place or
the better, higher place. I'm going to start writing in my book and some of the things that I've seen
or heard for myself, failure; I've been told that I am a failure and that I'm not going to
amount to anything. Maybe I can put no future or not going
to amount to anything. I've been called lazy. I've been called self-centered. You'll continue writing, continue to just get it out, think through, sit with it, write these things out and just keep writing when you feel like you got to that place where it's a
little bit uncomfortable, take a breather,
pause for a moment, take a few deep
breaths and continue writing because I don't want
this lingering in your mind, I want it out on paper. Then we're going to pause there. We're going to move on to the positive statements and the true statements
in the next lesson. Later on, we're going to look at both and start to realize
what makes these statements, these negative statements false. We're going to see
it for ourselves. It's going to be the
most beautiful awakening that you're going to
experience in this class, but it's going to take time. First, step let's write out
these negative statements. [MUSIC] Next step in the next lesson, we're going to go into
the positive ones and realize some of the truths. Next step after that we're
going to process everything. Let's go into the next lesson. [MUSIC]
5. Write Your Truth Statements: How are you feeling? I know that last lesson was a little bit
heavy and it's okay. Let's embrace it so that
we can move forward, because now we have an activity. This activity is
going to give us the opportunity to write out
those positive statements. Things that we've
heard from people, things that we've
learned about ourselves, because of the environments that we've been in or the
situations that we've been in. One thing that I found that was challenging
for me to do, it was actually challenging
for me to write out a good list of things that I felt were
positive about myself. It's so weird. It's the
easiest thing to spew out, they said this about me, I felt this, the inner
critic is so loud sometimes and we
can fill that page. But when it comes to the good, when it comes to being more
positive about yourself, maybe for others,
it's like I can talk about them all
day, but for yourself, maybe we've been taught
that we shouldn't be boastful or we need
to be more modest, or we don't want to
seem arrogant or cocky, and so we limit the amount of good things
we say about ourselves. But today I'm giving you
permission to boast, to just big up yourself, to just be, to promote yourself in all the great
things that you've done, and the great person and the awesome
individual that you are. I'm going to also start
asking questions while we're doing this
to help you out. Because sometimes, you
need that cheerleader or that coach to help you along the way and that's
what I'm here to do. For example, what's something that you
have been complimented for? Something that
someone said, wow, you're such a great hugger. You're so thoughtful. You're the best when it comes to helping me
decide on something. What are those things? Start to think about it. Think about it. Think about it. You can't get through this
activity writing nothing down. You're going to
realize that there's so much more than you even thought could be said about
yourself in a good way. For me, a lot of friends
would reach out to me when they're trying
to make decisions, and I didn't realize that I
was so helpful in helping people finalize things that come up with a decision or go in
one direction or another. I didn't realize that I
was that person until I started listening and
paying attention. I share my thoughts, they're like, yeah, that's
such a great decision. That's why I always
call you because you're able to help me decide. That kept happening for me. Because it kept happening, I realized something, I'm great at helping
people make decisions, [LAUGHTER] and that's
something that I'm going to write down
in my personal list. Continue to think about
these positive things. Are you the person that
makes people laugh a lot? Are you the person
that motivates people? Are you the encourager? Are you the one that
is just so neat? You're just so
neat and organized and you help people
fix their lives, fix their office spaces, maybe you're good
at interior design. Maybe you're good at just
giving people a woosah moment. You are coming to the spirit, to the soul of the person. You're just a calming presence. People like to be around you. Maybe you're good
at being assertive. If something needs to happen, to take place,
you're like listen, we have to do this, that, that and that, we need to get it together, and this is how we're
going to do it. You're the one that
structures everything. I'm just asking and talking to help you
as you're writing, keep writing those things out. You have the best model, you light up the
room. What is it? Whatever it is, write
those things down, fill those pages, front, back. If you have more paper left, start a new page. The cool thing is as
you grow as a person, as you grow as an individual, you will never exhaust the
amount of positive things that can be said about
you because you're going to add to that list. You're going to add to the
repertoire of who you are as an individual and how
you show up in this world. I'm excited to see those lists. Share them in our
project gallery, share them and encourage someone else because
all those things, whether you see it
as small or large, they have beauty in them, that they are skills
that jobs are looking for that are tucked into these
things that we're writing. We're going to talk
more about them as we process in
the next lesson. Keep writing those positive
things and then meet me over in the next lesson
when you're done with your list. Let's go.
6. Process Your Discoveries: We've written out these
negative statements that we receive from society,
from people, from social media, from all
these external factors, and then we've also talked through what the
inner critic does. There's so much more
we can dig deeper, but just to be aware of
the things that come from the inside and also the outside. Then we went into these
positives statements, we realize that the same
way that we receive messaging from the external
world in a negative sense, we also are always receiving messaging from the external
world in a positive sense. We need to be mindful that
is happening all the time as well and we need to hold on tightly to those things
the same way we, hopefully at the
end of this class, used to hold on to
those negative things. We wrote out our list
for the negative, we wrote our list for the
positive and I've been using negative and false versus positive and truth
interchangeably, and you'll see why
in this lesson where we process these discoveries. I had failure as
one of the things on my negative statements
or false statements lists. It was true to me
at first because it was said enough to me, being young and growing
up into adulthood that I started to believe
it to the point where I will still be
successful in life, but that was always
that nagging failure, you're going to be a failure. I found myself being this uber overachiever trying to make sure that that
wouldn't be the case. I'm sure that some
of you can relate to the story that I'm sharing
and I want to be vulnerable. I want to make sure that
you understand that I'm not coming from a place
of someone speaking at you, but we're doing this together
like I'm speaking with you. Although I may have overcome impostor syndrome in one area, maybe it'll come up
in another area, but I'm mindful enough
now to know and to recognize what those signs
are as they're happening, and I know how to
overcome and combat it in the same moment too, and that's what I want to
make sure we end up with. Let's continue processing. I had failure on
my negatives list, someone that's not going
to amount to anything, and then on my positives list, I had things like
action-oriented, passionate, driven,
proactive, outgoing. These are not the things
that sound like they exist in the same individual
as the failure, lazy, not going to amount
to anything individual. I had to look at them side-by-side and realize
that something is off here, how can I be driven and passionate
and action-oriented and proactive while also being lazy and a failure and not
going to amount to anything? That doesn't add up and if these are active things that I'm being called because people are seeing it acted
out in my life, then that must mean
that this is false, and that's where we get
to these statements being false statements
versus the truth. I decided I am
going to let go of those false statements
and embrace the truth. Embrace the fact that these active words that
people are saying about me, and these things are
coming from managers, they are coming from colleagues, people that I'll
meet at workshops and seminars and events. There's no way that this
can be happening and then the false statements be true at the
same time, no way, so I need to almost
destroy and tear down the power and the effects that those
negative things had over me, and embrace and hold tightly
to those truths statements, and I'm going to be repetitive because I had to do
it for myself too, so that we can all
understand and start to really embrace the truth about
who we are as individuals. Continue to process, look at those lists
side-by-side. Let's take our negatives list, and then let's take
our positives list, and then let's
bring them together side-by-side and start
to look at these things, and you'll notice, I am
so confident of this, you'll notice that these
positives are going to negate or cancel out the negatives and you're going to be
left with the truth. I'm so excited for us, so let us talk in
the discussion, let's see what's
coming up for you as you're processing what
was coming up for you? What did you find
out about yourself? What are you from this point
on deciding to not hold onto any longer because you've seen them side-by-side and
you've realized the truth? That's not all, we have an activity and I am
excited for this activity. This is a good one, this
activity is going to take a little bit
of physical effort, but not too much. For some, this may be a complete cathartic
experience, for others, maybe you've done
something like this before and you're
excited to do it again. I call this activity, destroying the negative, destroying the false statements,
let's just destroy it. This is all about
being destructive in the best way we
possibly can be. You're going to take
your list of negatives, and if you didn't
write it down on paper and you chose
a digital approach, that's okay, but if you want to, for those who did approach
their list digitally, maybe you want to take this
moment to write them out on paper so that we can all take
part in this destruction. Sounds so weird
saying it like that. Take the paper of negatives, the things that you
realize are false, and we're going to find whatever your preferred
method of destruction is, in a safe space, you can rip this up. If you have a shredder, you can put it through
your paper shredder. If you want to safely
burn the paper and watch it burn away and have the ashes
left, you can do that. If you want to
just take a pen or a marker and just strike through all those things
that you've realized we're not true and are not true, at least not now,
the present you, these things are not true and you would
just want to write, mark through, whatever you want to
do go ahead and do it. I'm giving you permission
to be destructive in this moment because
those things are false, so if they're false, why continue holding onto them? Let's get rid of them
today and then you can join me in the next lesson.
7. What is a healthy career journey?: What is a healthy
career journey? This is not a pre-existing term, and if it is, I just don't know. But it's something
that I've coined because we pursue these careers, and we go on this journey
to pursue these careers. But I took it a step
further and I'm like, but I want it to be healthy. I don't want it to
be overrun with stress and the feeling
of this weight, this burden of I must be
great and just agonizing over needing to be this
specific type of person or needing for it to look like this specific type of journey. Everyone's journey is different, and we understand that. What's really
important is that we approach our journeys
in a healthy manner. That's why I call it a
healthy career journey. A healthy career journey
is one where you are pursuing different
goals, dreams. It could be the
aspiration for a career, pursuing a certain skill set, a degree, a trade, a vocation, a talent. You're growing in a space
that you're already in, maybe pursuing promotional
opportunities, changing industries, whatever it is, you're
pursuing something, but you want to make sure
that your mindset and your overall well-being is very healthy when
you're pursuing this. I want to give you an example of one part of my
career journey where I went from something that
could've been not so healthy to something that
ended up being really healthy, and in that health, I found so much freedom. [LAUGHTER] As always, I'm going to be as vulnerable
and transparent as possible so that we can be
a part of this together. I was applying for many jobs. [LAUGHTER] I was looking
for the next thing. I was at my then job for about, at the time, it was
seven-plus years. While I was there, I
was also freelancing. I was working for
different companies. I was working with
different individuals. I was even working with freelancers
working for companies, [LAUGHTER] so I was
just doing so much. I was starting my own business. I was starting my
own initiatives, human rights initiatives that utilize my communication skills, my design skills,
and all that jazz. But something was missing
in my day to day. I had what you would
call a nine-to-five. Even though I didn't
work during those hours, I had a consistent
job that you'd go to about 4-6 days a week. As I'm working, I started
to realize, you know what, I'm not using the
majority of my time throughout the week doing
what I went to school for, doing what I desired
to do with my time. When you're not doing what you feel really
passionate about, where you feel cool to do, it can weigh heavily
on your chest. It can really start to
damper your mood, your days. You start to question a whole bunch of stuff.
What am I doing here? Should I even be
here in this place? Should I just quit everything? Should I just try
and start over? [LAUGHTER] What can I do to feel better about
myself in this experience? I loved my company, I loved my coworkers, but I still felt
like I wanted more, I wasn't being fulfilled. I had to do something about it. I decided getting another
job was the best thing. But this time, let me
look for something that was strictly,
strictly, strictly design. I started going on LinkedIn, shout out to LinkedIn, not sponsored, [LAUGHTER]
but shout out to LinkedIn. I started going on LinkedIn and just typing in my location, like how you can
filter my location, keywords like designer, illustrator, writer,
communication designer. I even typed in things like human rights
communication designer , human rights illustration, non-profit illustrator
or designer, just anything that I
thought would connect with what I really wanted to do in this
season of my life. I started finding things, and I read the job descriptions, and before, being mindful, if I didn't fit 100 percent
of the job description, I would not apply. This time, if I didn't fit 88, 90 percent, then it would
turn me off a little bit, but I still apply. [LAUGHTER] I really have grown in that aspect in the
past like 1-2 years. But going back to this process
on this career journey, I was just saving. On LinkedIn, you have
the ability to save, save, save, save, save,
save, save, save, save, I was just saving all
these applications or all these job opportunities, and then I would go back
and start applying. I'd open up my
list, click, apply. Sometimes you have
the ability to quick apply if you've already
submitted your resume. I'm applying, applying. That looks cool, apply. I may have to move
across the country. Apply, apply, apply. At first, I was doing that. Then one day, I don't know if it was a
message I heard from a motivational
speaker or if it was different conversations
I was having with people or a combination of
all of the above, I had this long list of companies to apply to and
I was applying to them. Then something clicked after all these messages
and the things that I was beginning to pay more
and more attention to, I realized that I wasn't
intentionally applying, I was just applying for
the sake of applying. That's not the healthiest way to go about the job
application process. So I said, let me just
take a step back, let me look at this list
from top to bottom, all the things that
I've been saving, and let me compare it
with what matters to me. What are my values? Where do I actually want to be? Do I want to be in this
big-time corporate tech world? Do I want to be in this smaller non-profit world,
larger non-profit world? What is it that I actually
want? What do I care about? Do I care about the team
more than anything? I started to apply
based on my desires, my goals, and my
passion points in life. I realized after
intentionally applying, they weren't great fits. Where I needed to go, where I needed to work, who I was working with, the type of work
that I was doing, the scope of the work, what was expected of me, all of that, they weren't
really aligned with me as an individual
and what would be the healthiest career
experience for me. I started crossing them
out or unsaving them, and I got down to
three to five places. Now for these three
to five places, I looked so close. I looked deeper into these three to five
places and really, really asked these
hard questions, and I got down to three places. These were the
final three places. I decided I'm going to
apply to these three places and I'm going to make sure I'm putting my best foot
forward with the cover letter, with the arrangement
of my resume and how the information shows up and what I'm including
versus not including. I'm making sure that
my portfolio and my website has
everything that is necessary to prove to
these people that I'm a good fit for this job. Guess what happened? I got
responses from these places. More than that, I got hired by one of my favorite places on
my very shortlist. I believe it was a
combination of things, but definitely being
intentional about who I am and what I want in
pursuing this career, but pursuing it in
a very healthy way, on my own healthy
career journey. We're going to define what your healthy career journey
is in the next lesson so that you can be very
intentional and mindful as you pursue your next
career move. Let's do it.
8. Define Your Healthy Career Journey: Now we're going to
dig deeper into defining your own
career journey. For this lesson, we
do have an activity, and this activity
is going to be all about the factors that play into defining your
healthy career journey. I'm going to start it
off for you, but again, you're going to just pause
and continue writing out these answers for yourself and anything else that
may come to mind, write it down as well. I strongly encourage
you to write it down. Some of the main areas
that factor into your healthy career
journey are your skills, your values, your interests, and the environment that
you want to work in. Begin writing down the answers to some of these questions. What skill set do you want
to use in this new career? What are some of your interests? What are you interested in? Like, what makes you tick? What makes you smile
when you think about it? What gets you excited? What's going on in your mind when someone mentions,
fill in the blank? What do you dream about? What do you wake
up thinking about? What do you go to
bed thinking about? What do you think about
throughout the middle of the day when someone
even mentions it, your mind goes into this
faraway place and you're like, I would love to be in
a position like that? What is that for you? Another big question is, what environment do
you want to be in? Where do you want to work? Do you want to travel the world? Do you want to work from home? Would you like to
work in a company that has a whole bunch of offices and cubicles,
window offices? Would you like to be in a
small boutique company, a company with 0-50
people or 100-500 people? Would you like to work on a small team within
a larger company, or would you just like the whole company to
just be five people, everyone knows each
other really well and everyone is really
supported, and that's it? What is that for you? Start answering these
questions for yourself. Start thinking about what are the values that
matter most to you. Do you value teamwork? Do you value open communication
and transparency? Do you value family time? Do you value holidays
and weekends and having extreme amounts
of work-life balance? Or do you value being
go, go, go, go, go with your job and you don't mind working the
majority of the week? Does your salary matter
more than anything else? Or does a full, well-rounded benefits
package matter most to you? Write these things down and really start to see
yourself on the page. That way, when
you're applying and when you're pursuing
your next career move, you know what's connecting with you and what's not
and whatever is not, you can just put
that to the side. I encourage you to
continue writing what's coming up for
you with your values, your interests, your skills, the environment you
want to work in, and anything else that
you'd come up with. Continue to write it down and define your healthy
career journey. [MUSIC] Then we'll meet back again in the
next lesson where we start to create our truth
cards. Let's do it.
9. Create Your Truth Card: Hello everyone. We've done so much. I commend you for all the
work that you've been doing. Now, let's get to the
part where we create. I'm so excited to create
something right now. I get a little extra excited, but I'm really excited for us to create these truths cards. That is a project that I've mentioned from the
beginning of this class. I'm going to switch places. I'm going to hop over
and work on my computer. You'll walk through the whole
creative process with me. I'll be working in
Adobe Illustrator, but I'm also going to encourage you to use
Canva if you don't have Adobe Illustrator or any
other design software or even just Tactile. Some of you are amazing artists, amazing hand lettering and you
are able to do all of this from cutting out
a piece of paper and writing by hand and coloring and using watercolors
and paints. I encourage you to do whatever your heart desires,
but whatever it is, let's make sure we
create these cards that will live on with
us in our daily lives. Let's switch places. First I have Illustrator open. I'm going to title
this file truth card. The width I already have it in. It says 3.5 inches wide by
the height of two inches. It's like the standard
business card size. The bleed is 1/8 of
an inch or 0.125. The color mode,
we have seen MYK, that's the best for printing. High-quality, 300 PPI,
and click Create. When you come in, you'll
see the view is large, but if you scroll down in
view and go to Actual Size, you'll see that
that's the real size of the business card. That's what we'll really see. Let's Command 0, make it big
again and let's continue. First things first, we're
going to create a shape. You can hit the rectangle
tool on the left or the letter M for the
rectangle tool shortcut, and we're going to
see the crosshairs. We're going to go up to
the top left and click and drag our rectangle tool to
the bottom right corner. Perfect. I already have this
layer titled background. That will be our background. Now, at the top, you see the selection tool, that if you click on any
object, you can move it around. Great. Next, I'm going to
show you the color area. You can see that white box or at the bottom
left of the toolbar, that's another area you
could change the color. I'm just going to
change the color, pick any color right now. Great. It's like
this reddish-orange. File, Place, allows me to place
something that I've already created in
the background. See this background I
have from the class. I'm going to choose Place and then I'll click
anywhere you see the 1/1, is just one image to place. Well, it's really big. I'm going to shrink
it by clicking Shift and then
dragging my cursor in. Command plus to make
it larger again. Let's see a different view. I have the left side
with that shape. My shape is a square. I'm just going to Shift
and click and stretch from one of those
outside anchor boxes, these little white
boxes you see. I can pull my cursor
and that's it. If you want to use
an image like this, I'll show you exactly
what to do to make sure the image is clipped
from the box. Let's look forward-facing. We have our layer panel, the rectangle, if
you click there, and then linked file,
if you click there. Linked file is the image, rectangle is the shape
that I drew earlier. Now we want to move the
rectangle in front of the image. See rectangle in front
of the linked file. Now we're going to select
both by Shift-click. Now, both of these
areas are selected. You could also click the background layer if
you want to select both. I'm going to click Off, click the background, and then it selects both. We're going to do a keyboard
shortcut of Command or Control if you have PC
and the number seven. Press Command 7. It looks so nice. Now if you click the
drop-down by clip group, you still see that these two objects still
exist separately. They're just grouped
together with a clipping mask and that's
what you see there. Now, we're going to
create a new layer. Lock the background
and let's title these words truth statements, and that's what
this is all about. I'm going to go to the type tool or
click the letter T. The background is locked, so I'm good to go. Now I'll click below,
click the cursor. Then you see Lorem ipsum in. Again, I will go up to the
selection tool or click the letter V and then drag
this over so you can see. The thing with this
is, this stretches. This is similar to how
you would think of an object or an image
when you just click. Now, another way that you
can get more texts in this phase is by going back to the text
tool or the type tool, click and then you drag, drag a little bit more. Then you'll see that this text box will be filled
with more dummy copy. You can left align, center align, right align, justify, whatever you want. Now, let's type into this text box here and
you'll see how it wraps. I am typing in this text box to show the lovely people
how this wraps. Click the selection
tool again, drag down. Now when I stretch left, pull back to the right, left, right, left, right,
it just wraps around. Totally different than
the one-click text box. That's something you
can choose to do whichever direction
you want to go in. When more thing I want to
show you, cool little tip. If you wanted to change
where this is placed, the image is placed, you can unclick the background, drop down, drop down
the clip group. Then you would
select the link file because that's the actual image, and you want to move
it towards the top, towards the bottom, but
keep it clicked. Let's see. We're going to click this area that's this blue x
within a blue rectangle. Select length of
the file, drag up. I can drag to the left,
drag to the right, drag up and round. You see the boundary
of that rectangle is still maintaining its shape. That's pretty. You want it to be more purple, less green with some
cream, you can do that. I'm just going to
leave it how I had it. Now, this is free
experimentation. Have fun. I'm just going
to draw some rectangles. Let's change the color. I use purple in this class
a lot, like lavender lilac. I think I'm going
to go back around. Yeah, that's a nice one. That's a nice color. Perfect. Now, to copy
instead of copy and paste, you can click Option, draw the shape
wherever you want, and then you'll see a copy. Do it again, Option, click and move the
shape wherever you want and then you'll
see more copies. You can see my book here. You have your truth statements out right next to you
while you're creating. You can also do this in Canva. You'll see the same thing. You can choose a shape. You can choose different shapes, change the color of the shape. I also have the template, so you can use that. You can really get funky, change around the type, the text, the typeface, the font, whichever
word you want to use. Font and typeface are pretty
much interchangeable. Now, you just see me going
through this really quickly, playing around with my truth statements and
my positive words, and just moving things around, seeing what fits here,
what fits there. It may not be in the exact order I wrote it down in my book, but it'll definitely make
it onto the truth card. [LAUGHTER] Still some
judging here and there. This is so much fun to look at. It's simple but also
geometric and fun. Play around with the font size. Let's keep rearranging until
you feel good about it. You can even change where
you put your shapes. This is looking good. Just a few more things. Both Canva and Illustrator give you help with those guides. Here are some finished cards
that I did while playing around if you tried out a
few different typefaces, different backgrounds, and text. How was that for you? Did you have fun while creating? Did you find it a little bit challenging because
you're wondering, where should I place this or where should I
place this word? Whatever it is, remember that this
is all about being intentional and reminding
yourself about the truth, who you are and how you
show up in this world. Whoever it is that you're
going to work for or work with will be so
happy to have you. You just need to remember
why they're happy to have you because you're great. This card is going to
remind you when you're taken off guard
and you have to do a quick elevator
pitch for someone. Peek at this card real
quick and then you're like, yeah, I am action-oriented, I am pretty organized, I am that person
that people come to for decision-making, I am really passionate. Whatever it is you'll
remember. I'm excited. There's so much more
to come for you in your life and
there's a little bit more to come in this class. We're getting closer
and closer to the end. But I'm so glad you stuck
it out and you're here. I look forward to seeing all your truth cards in
our project gallery. Like other people's projects and encourage one another
in the discussion.
10. Record Your Truth Card: [MUSIC] Bonus. We are going to record. This is not mandatory, is not something you have to do, of course but I strongly
encourage you to do this. I think hearing things is great the same way we
listen to songs over and over, and it gets in our system, or sometimes we hear things, and it's stuck in our mind and we don't even know why like where is this
song coming from? Oh, it's something
I heard while I was walking through the
mall one day or someone was whistling this
tune and then now it's stuck in my head. That happens. Let's do it on purpose. I want you to take your truth statement
or your truth card, open up a recorder. It could be your phone
and voice memos, it can be an app that's a voice recording
app, whatever it is. I know almost every smart
device now records audio. You're going to take
your truth card or your truth statements, and you're just going to
read it out to yourself. Passionate, loving. I'm not sure why I'm
looking down on my hand. Pretend there's a
phone here [LAUGHTER]. Pretend there's a phone here, and this is what
you're going to do. Passionate, loving, caring, thoughtful, considerate,
organized, detailed. Read out those things
that you listed. Read out that card so that
you have the physical card, but then you have the
audible card as well. If you want to get all snazzy, you can put music to it, instead of that
inner critic that we mentioned earlier
on in this class, that inner critic
will start to change. The voice of that inner critic will actually become
that inner encourager, that inner motivator, you know what I'm saying? That inner
inspirational speaker. Because you'll be
hearing yourself back saying these words, these amazing, beautiful
life reading words. Let us know in the discussion, how did you feel hearing yourself say these
positive truth statements? What was coming up for you? After you do it for a few days, come back and let us know what's changed if anything,
did anything change? Did you start realizing
that that voice started to combat and fight with the inner critic
that you had before? Let us know, write it down
and encourage someone else. You've done an amazing job, I look forward to seeing it all. [MUSIC]
11. Final Thoughts: I am so proud of all that you've accomplished
throughout this class. You've dug deep. You wrote out a whole bunch of statements that
didn't feel good, that came from external factors, and also your inner credit. You wrote out a whole bunch of positive statements about
yourself that also came from external factors and
you realize that inside there's way more to you
than you may have led on and on top of that, you were able to
jump over a hurdle and destroy the page filled with negative statements which
symbolizes you letting go of those things that
were not serving you, were not helping you move forward in your healthy
career journey. You've decided to be intentional and define that healthy career
journey for yourself. You wrote out your
interests, your values, the things that you
want and don't want in a career or in a company, or in your own
personal business. You have taken step after step to come to a place where your mind is falling in line
with your desire, and that is awesome. I couldn't have ask for a better group of people to
share this experience with. Then to round it up, you decided to put that down on paper and create your
own truth cards. You've done it all. You've been so intentional
and I want to commend you again for being legends. Then on top of that,
you decided to, I'm just going to
put this to audio. I'm going to record myself, and I'm going to hear
this repeatedly. If I don't believe it now, I'm going to listen to
it until I believe it, and I commend you
for that as well. Let me know what you
would like to see next as you pursue
your next career move. Remember to share your projects
in the project gallery, and encourage and
uplift and help someone else as they're going
through this class as well. I look forward to seeing
everything that you've created. Later. We did it. You did it. I am
so happy for us.