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1. Introduction to the Course: The current course
in which we are going to be learning about public speaking skills that
make a great public speaker, not an adverse public speaker, but a great public speaker
in the current times, public speaking is a core
essential skill which depicts or shows your
potential level of success. Being able to stand
in front of a crowd, to pass on a message, talk about a concept, a product, a project are respectively
whether you are a student, whether you are a professional, whether you are a C executive, whether you are an entrepreneur, someone who wants to
convey a specific message. Simply put a bunch of people
in a specific context. In order to deliver
a specific outcome. We're going to learn about the essential skills that
make it public speaker grade. And how can you develop
your own skills in order to transition from having
no skills whatsoever, to becoming a great
public speaker, to becoming a memorable
public speaking. Well, let's get
to the objectives of the current course
in which we're going to map the trajectory of the course from
point a to point Z. What are you going to expect? What are the things that
we're going to be covering? What are the key
pointers that you need to keep in mind as you go along encountering
the various lectures that we have prepared for
you in the current course. Now, the course objectives
are as follows. First of all, we're going to
understand the importance of public speaking skills
and today's world, why is it a must-have skill? Why you need to acquire or possess such skills
in order to heal, succeed in today's world, maybe in previous times, that, that wasn't
something necessary. But in the current times, being a great public
speaker, well, you don't have to be great, at least an average
public speaker. You need to possess those skills in order to help
the transition and grow. Whether at a
professional contexts, whether a school with a
university or respectively, you need to have those skills
in order to help you take that step further and
your own development. Then we're going to learn why public speaking is considered
the number one fear. For many individuals. You wouldn't be surprised. Some people have, let's say, they're more afraid of public speaking compared to
being afraid of heights, or afraid of snakes
or spiders or sharks, or let's say,
terrible situations. They tend to correlate
or they have that level of fear which is similar
to those situations. And that has been present
over many, many years. There are multiple
researchers on this multiple articles where
people lived down there, phobias, or the most dreadful
situations that they have. And you'll always find public
speaking to be one of them. Now we're going to
be learning why, why public speaking is
such a fearful task. People that tend to avoid
that task and they compared, or let's say, attributed
to harmful situations. Harmful creatures are harmful circumstances
of life simply because of the fact of standing in front of an audience and conveying your message. So we're going to learn or dig deeper to that part as well. Then we're going to analyze the skills that make a
great public speaker. We're going to, let's
say, paint the picture. We're going to list down some key important points that every single public speaker has. Should have these
pointers at skills. They will help guide
you from one point to the other in order to help
paint that picture for you. And how can you fit yourself
as part of that picture? What are the skills that
you need to be working on? What are the skills
that you don't have a need to acquire, but
what are the skills? You're actually grayed
out and you need to supplement yourself
with additional skills. Then we're going to learn
about the key concepts and best practices to
master public speaking. So I'm going to walk you through from point a where let's assume, let's say you have no idea whatsoever about
public speaking. You possess no
skills whatsoever. You're not comfortable
speaking to an audience. We're going to assume, let's say the
worst-case scenario. I'm going to walk you through it from one point to the other. Paving the way for you, helping you paint
that picture and transition from one
scale to the other. With the hopes that towards
the end of the course, you're becoming or
you're going to transform into
someone who has the potential and the skills
needed to step in front of an audience and just simply talk and speak and
pass on a message. Make sure that you join the current course
and prepare yourself. Have an old path,
have a notebook in order to take as much
notes as you can, and let's get the
journey started.
2. Your Project: Your project for the current
course is quite simple, but yet not that
simple because it will involve accumulating
all of these skills, tips, practices,
and pointers into one single public speaking
event of your choosing. Feel free to pick up a topic. You're going to select five to ten individuals that you're going to
be presenting to. Feel free to do whatever place that you feel comfortable with, whether the garden
and a workshop at a cafe or respectively. You're going just simply
pick up the topic. You're going together,
510 people that you're quite comfortable with in
terms of communicating, then you're going to develop a systematic presentation and convey the message to them by the end of
the presentation. This is a very crucial part. By the end of the event, you are going to speak to every single one
of those individuals. Then ask them for
their feedback. Ask them for the positives and the negatives of
the current event that you have invited them to. I shouldn't be anything fancy. You're not going
to have a webinar, I'm not going to have a workshop and just simply dive right in. We're going to go with,
let's say baby steps. We're going to have a
small group of people. You're going to present the specific subject
of your choosing. I would prefer that you go for something that you're
comfortable with, something that you have
a lot of knowledge on. In order to help you get
to that comfort level, we are able to share your knowledge and you avoid
any circumstances with them, the presentation or the
public speaking event, where you are simply caught off guard and you have no
idea how to respond to specific question which could be the terminal to the
efforts that you're putting in order to grow and develop those skills
at the current level. So the whole point of
your project is to put yourself out there for
zones to the masses. Well, sort of 0.5 to ten individuals and get
their feedback. And use that feedback
to help you become better rather than stop
you from becoming better. So that would be your projects
for the current course. Now let's get to the
material on the content of the course that will
surely help you transform to a great
public speaker.
3. What is Public Speaking: Now we're going to start
off by, first of all, defining and introducing
what is public speaking. What does the term
public speaking that we come across almost everywhere. A webinar or a workshop
at presentation on TV, on the radio when
we hear a person, XYZ is basically a
great public speaker. Or they're going to have a
public speaking event to pass on a message
about a product, etc. Now, there are multiple
definitions for public speaking. But all of them, they agree or focus on
the current point, which is a form of
communication wherein the visual conveys a message and multiple individuals in an
open and direct context. So one person is
going to communicate to many individuals with the
intent of passing a message, passing an idea, passing a
product, passing a concept. And they're going to
ensure that they're going to do so in the
best way possible. So you have one person, he has a specific angle. Let's say you have a new product
that you want to launch. You have key
important points that you would like to talk
about the product. You have your own idea
about the product. And you want to pass on the
message to a group of people, to an audience, help them understand that product
the same way that you do. So in order to do so, you do have a person, you have masses, a
group of people. It could be a stage, it couldn't be a webinar, or it could be an online
event or offline event. You are going to provide and
communicate using tools. Tone, verbal, physical,
and intellectual. Presentational skills. Carry yourself in a certain
way in order to deliver the message in the same way that you have
planned to deliver. So you do have your own
expectations of what wouldn't be the idea or the current concept that should be delivered
to the audience. And you're going to try to communicate in the
best way possible in order to pass on that
message to those people in front of you with the hopes
that at the end of the event, the understood, the true nature that you want them to understand
that in the first place. Nothing is worse than
talking about a car. And then your audience understands or assumes you're
talking about a plane. You have your own idea, you have your own
concept of mine. But due to the failure
and communication, your audience has no idea
what you're talking about. That could be one case. Or you are delivering the ideas about a
specific project or a specific context
to your audience. However, physically,
intellectually, emotionally, you are passing on
messages through audience that you have no idea
what you're talking about. People pick up on cues. As we're going to see during
the duration of the course. There's more to public speaking than just simply
opening the mouth. I'm talking. Everything couldn't be a
part of your communication. Every single attribute,
your physical movement, your tone, the words
that you choose, the visual presentation,
An aids that you use. So all of these work together coherently in order
to pass on a message. Think about it as a vessel. You have your own
message inside of a box. And this box is basically
made up of all of these skills in
order to help you move it from one point to another in the
best way possible. Now, being one-dimensional
and your presentations or your public speaking demeanor is going to be the
terminal to your efforts. And it could be
counterproductive because you're not going to be able to deliver the message to the same way you
have it in mind. So that's why public
speaking could be quite elusive too many
involves multiple facets, multiple aspects that many
people lose focus on. And we're going to try to cover all of these
sort of point and this current course
such that you become a well-rounded public speaker. So we have clearly defined
at this current point, which is the starting point. What is public speaking, which is a form of
communication where individual conveys a message to multiple individuals in an
open and direct context, you are going to talk to people, you are going to
talk to the masses. And the clear open
setting with the hopes that they understand
your message the same way you
want them to do.
4. Importance of Public Speaking: Now why public
speaking is considered such an important thing, we're such an important skill
that you should possess. I can just simply click the
pause or the exit button. Just simply end the
course and walk away with acquiring
those skills. Well, here are a couple
of reasons that will help you understand the
importance of public speaking. Why you should focus on
developing those skills? First of all, it will help you convey a message to the masses. Instead of talking to
one person at a time. In order to deliver a message, you are going to have a group
of people in front of you. And you're just simply going to project the message
to all of them. Make sure that all of them, every single one of
them gets the message. The way that you intended to. This will save you time. This
will save you the effort, will surely help you reach
your end goals faster. Whether you're trying
to sell a product, whether you're trying to
present your research paper, whether you're trying to apply for a job or whatever it is. If you communicate to more than one individual
at the same time, you're going to cut
distances quite short. Instead of going from
point a to point Z. And 1,000 years, you're
going to go from point a to point Z and just
simply a matter of days. Because you are communicating
to a mass of individuals, multiple individuals
add the same. It's increasing the
opportunities of someone getting the message
the way you intended to. The second coupon
would be to implement change at various scales
within an organization. Let's say you are a C executive. You do have a company, you do have an organization. And you would like to pass
on a message to staff, your employees, or you are
a principal at a school, you are a Dean at
the University. And you just simply,
you want to pass on a specific message to your
entity or the organization. Instead of just
simply walking around one person at a time, telling them what
you have in mind. You're going to gather all of these individuals,
a certain place, a certain arena,
a certain event, a workshop, a webinar, right? Online, offline. And then you are going
to communicate to them and pass on your message. So it will help you go from a miniscule scale
at a micro level to a macro scale at a large
level where you can pass on your intended message
to a bunch of people. And if you think
about it, it's quite related to the first point. It's going to kill
you and save you a lot of time along the way, instead of just simply trying to communicate to every single
person at the same time. Now, the third key point, which is very important,
often overlooked, but it's very, very important. It would reflect a sense of
authority and confidence. Now, when someone has
a public speaker, What's the first thing
that pops to mind? If someone stepping on a stage in front of 1,000 individuals, they're going up
a microphone and just simply talking to them as if they're talking to their
best friend face-to-face, just simply communicating
and talking and passing on the information as clearly
and concisely as possible. What would that look
like? Obviously, it will project a sense of authority that this person knows what
they're talking about. That this person is qualified
to actually communicate on such a subject because they're speaking openly
and confidently. At the same time,
it will project that level of confidence
your audience needs in order to accept the message that you're
trying to send to them. But let me give an
example. Let's say you are the CEO of a company and you
have a major breakthrough, you are going to
launch a new product. This product is going
to shatter the market. There's going to be
a disruptive product first on one-of-a-kind. And it has a great benefits
for its consumers. Now, you create a webinar or you just simply
create an event. You ask the press to jump in to help you communicate and
pass on your message. And then you step on the stage. But you have confidence and the product that you're
trying to communicate about, even though it's
a great product. But you have no
skills whatsoever. The entitle you to step in
front of the masses on top. Even though your
message could be true, the product could be great. But because of you, the way that you're
carrying yourself, the way that you're talking,
presenting, communicating. You could be stressed out, mumbling, stuttering
and all that stuff. And you lose focus,
you'd get distracted. You're afraid, you're anxious
during the presentation. You're sweating. You're just
simply losing your thoughts. In front of all
of these masters. How do you think it
would look like? How would that reflect on your product or the service
that you're providing? Obviously, it could be the
best product and history, but because of the
way that you have presented their
products, obviously, you are not going to pass on the message the same way
that you had in mind. And then your
product is going to fail not because of the product, but because of the way
that you have presented. So that's why the third
point is very important, because authority
and confidence, especially when you work
on your public speaker, is crucial to establish that. Medium between you
and your audience. When you talk to them, when
you communicate to them, you are going to be as
authentic as possible. And by being authentic, you are going to communicate to them in a confident
way where you are going to be presented as the go-to person on that
specific subject. You are going to
be the authority on that specific subject. You are going to be the expert
on that specific subject. As we are going to see
during the course, one of the key
important aspects of becoming a public
speaker is becoming the most knowledgeable person on that specific subject
compared to your audience. You have to be the go-to person. So this third point
is very important. Now, the fourth and
the final point are going to highlight
really related to the importance of public
speaking would be the indicator of success
and career growth. Think about people
that jump the, go through the ladder,
at a corporate ladder quite quickly that
get promotions. They tried to listen
to get projects. They're able to pass on
their business ideas. Products are research papers, projects to the management in a very comprehensible manner. They tend to succeed more. They tend to grow more
at a company level. If you do have a
great engineer, e.g. and they are
technically the best. However, the fail at the
communication level, then you ask them to present a specific product to
the company as a whole. But because they're
not prepared for it, they have no skills, no presentation of
public speaking skills. They're not able to pass on
their technical knowledge and the best way possible
in order to help them acquire the
opportunity which would be beneficial for them to
go to the new level, get that job, get
that promotion, grow, climbed the
corporate ladder, e.g. and similarly, if you're an
entrepreneur or someone who has her own company or you planning on launching
your project. If you're not able to
communicate to the masses, you're not able to stand
in front of the people. Just simply talk
about your project, your company, your idea. What services do you offer, why your project or your product is basically
better than others? In a clear, concise manner and an authentic form and a competent
matter where you are reflected as someone who's quite an expert in
that specific field, then by all means, you're not going to grow and
you're not going to succeed. Because the first thing that you're on is going to pick up on the way that you're
communicating about your product, your company, or your service. Hence, public speaking is a great indicator for
success and career growth. Most often or most commonly, and often the people that
transition quite quickly within a corporate structure are
the best presenters and public speakers because they are able to communicate their goals, their products or services,
their achievements. And a great way. It's highlighted, adopt a great level within
the organization. And if an opportunity
pop pops up, they are the go-to person for that specific opportunity
to convert to someone. Oh, could be the smartest
person in the entire company. They possess a great wealth of knowledge about their
poor communication. The opportunity could be
right in front of them, but they will not be fitted with that opportunity
because they're not able to communicate properly, whether at a personal level and organizational level and
a public speaking level. So that's the terminal to
their success and growth. Now, at this current point, a, you should develop
that awareness that public speaking is
really important. And you should possess
those skills that will help you develop and grow
and reach new goals.
5. What makes a Great Public Speaker: So what makes a great
public speaker? Now, in order to become one of those memorable
public speaking, you should be able to
communicate at multiple levels. So what does that mean? Let's take a look at the summary that we have in front of us. Now we're going with
them, we're going to elaborate the key points. Now, what makes a great
public speaker is basically the ability to communicate
to an audience, ensuring proper delivery of the acquired
message, well-being, and sink physically,
intellectually and emotionally. Now, this is basically
the, let's say, the summative definition that I created and I came up with. Because if you take a look at multiple definitions
or multiple insights, they provided bits
and pieces and hence, but this current summary, and it can just simply
feel free to code. It provides her with the complete picture of
a great public speaker. Now, a great public
speaker is someone who's communicating
physically, mentally, emotionally, intellectually, passing on a specific direct message to the
people in front of them. When you communicate,
every single aspect of the way you
are presenting yourself. It's considered to be
part of the presentation. Your physical movements, your facial expressions,
your voice tone, the slides or the visuals
that you are going to be using as part of the presentation and
your direct audience, the way you are
engaging with them. All of these are
considered to be crucial elements that should
be combined in one person, a great public speaker. So when you want to become
a great public speaker, you cannot just simply be someone who's
quite intellectual and possesses a great set of knowledge with the failure to
communicate that knowledge. Or someone who could
communicate verbally. But physically, you just simply stagnant and they have no idea
how to present themselves, how to stand, how to
move, how to walk around. Or you could be both. You could make great
presented verbally. You could be a great presented
physically in terms of the way you carry yourself
during your presentation. But yet your slides, the visuals and the stuff
that you're using as part of the presentation there
quite distracting. They're quite aligned with the overall goal of
the presentation. So you understand that
this current point, that a great public
speaker as someone who has multiple facets that work
together systematically. And they should be
in sync in order to pass on a message
and wonky final point, what makes a great
public speaker, other than being physically, verbally,
intellectually in sync. They should be, or
he or she should be emotionally and say, So,
what does that mean? If someone is able to carry themselves during
your presentation, they're able to communicate their end goal, their message. They have the great visual
aids, great presentations. Everything is quite on
point, but they're afraid. They're anxious, they're
sweating, their stuttering. They are not passing on
the message clearly. All of these, the impact, the other facets of
being a public speaker, salt literally the perfect
word for great public speaker. Or someone who's completely
in sync with their message. Someone who's trying
to communicate to a group of people,
to the masses. And they are in sync
in every single way. They are physically,
intellectually, emotionally, mentally with, along with the supporting
tools aligned with the aim of passing on
that specific message.
6. The Fear of Public Speaking: This part or segment
of a course, it's kinda surprising to many. But if you just
simply take some time and try to do some
research on your own, you would find out that
public speaking is considered to be one
of the most feared, that it's up to the point
where it gets phobia. You have an idea what phobia is. A phobia as basically
a next level of fear where someone
just simply freaking out from a specific
aspect of circumstance, a creature and entity
wherever it is. Not just simply being afraid. But I guess to a
phobia then gets classified
psychologically as being one of those phobias that
people began to associate with. One of them is public speaking. Public speaking is
considered to be one of the, not one of the,
actually the top. The most common fears
that people have. Now that shouldn't be surprised. But if you think about
it as creatures, we tend to avoid being
under the spotlight, being under the spotlight, especially from other
fellow creatures, other fellow humans tends
to provoke a sense of fear, anxiousness, worry,
and turbulence. Well, and how can
you overcome it? This is basically which, which is a challenge for many. How can you overcome the
fear of public speaking? Well, the simple
answer to that is just simply speak publicly. Literally even
psychologically, when you are trying to overcome
a specific fear. One of the greatest
techniques actually is to confront that fear and train yourself to
become immune to that fear. There's no course
that you can take. There's no medicine
that you can take. There is no a certain
procedure that you can do or a certain diet that
you can follow in order to eliminate the fear
of public speaking. The only way, the only path to eliminate public speaking is actually by becoming
a public speaker. By failing over
and over again up to the point where you are okay, standing in front of
an audience and just simply talking and
passing on the message to the audience in whatever way you think is necessary in
order to convey the message. And you accept the
criticism as is, and you just simply move on to your next public speaking event. Simple as that. Not we could ask ourselves why people are afraid
of public speaking, even though it could be quite simplistic to wrap your
head around as an idea. A person standing in front of a group of people and
is simply talking. Well, mainly for two reasons. One of them is
fear of rejection. Now as individuals, as humans, as creatures, if you
think about lions, if you think about
tigers, bears, and all those kinds of
creatures in nature. All of them, they would like
to belong to their pack. And being rejected
at that level is considered to be quite
determined to their mental, physical health, and similarly applies to us, humans as well. Fear of being rejected
as you pass on the message that you have or
as you pass on your idea, your project, your concept
to a bunch of people. And once you get rejected, puts you at a place
of being vulnerable. And it's projected as a point
of weakness where you are not able to confront all of those people
at the same time. This is just simply a psychological trick that
your brain plays on you. Is it true? Not really. That scary? Well, not really as well as public speaking
considered to be such a fearful situation or such a fearful event
in your life that you should do all of
your best to avoid it. On the contrary, it is fun. It is exciting. It is considered to
be as a potential for growth because you're stepping
out of your comfort zone. At the same time, it will help you
build that level of confidence and
build that level of authority and build
that skill set that you need to have
to grow in life. So even if you're afraid, stepping up in front of a
public and just simply talking, that's a great milestone
because let me break us. Do 95% of the people
would not do that. They are too afraid to actually step in front
of an audience and just simply pick up a
microphone or just simply talk the same way I'm
talking to you right now. I got a microphone on and
passing on the message. We do have a recording, we do have delighting. We do have all of these
things set in order for me to be able to pass
on my message to you. Simple as that, that
could be quite fearful. Too many, they are not
going to be doing it. Many individuals were not stand in front of an
audience and just simply present because of the
fear of rejection. What if they reject it? What if no one liked their idea? What if people do not applaud? What if people booed them, e.g. what if they got a
negative comment, whatever they got a
negative feedback? Well, all of these
things are possible. But it's also possible that
people like your idea. People like your presentation. They like your product,
they are with you. You're going to applaud there. You're going to have
a standing ovation. They're going to salute you
and they're going to help you grow and get from one point
to the other launcher or the, your project, your
presentation and succeed. Both of them, they
are equally feasible. Both of them, they
are equally probable. Ones. Like imagine again,
this is a mental trick that your brain plays
on you in order to protect you from an
uncomfortable situation or a situation that
could potentially be harmful based on
the way you see it. Basically, this is the
main reason, number one. The second reason
why people fear public speaking is the
fear of criticism. Being criticized
that your concept or your idea is not good enough. The point that you're talking
about is not good enough. The project that you
have is not good enough. Or you, as a person, you're not good enough to talk about such a specific subject. And all of these things
that follow the same path. Criticism. Well, let
me break it to you. Not everyone is going to
be on board with you. Even if you are the
best presenter, you are the best public speaker. You are the go-to option go-to person on a
specific subject. You are an expert,
your professional, you are just simply spot on every single way as a great
public speakers profile. Yet, you're going to find that
there are always, always, always a part of the audience, part of the crowd who are
not aligned with you. You don't like the way you talk. You don't you don't
they don't like the way you carry yourself. They don't like the
way you present. They don't like the idea. They don't like the concept. All of these things are
completely opposite. What are you trying to achieve? And let's consider
it to be criticism. There are two ways to deal
with such a circumstance. Number one, tried to
listen objectively and tried to get the message
from such a criticism. Is there something that
you need to do better? That's it. Do it better next time. Simple as that. Just simply gone through your upcoming public speaking event, Your Own Webinar, your
workshop are respectively. The other thing would be, everything is perfectly fine. You are doing your best. The comments or the feedback
that you're getting, their criticism that you're getting actually has no basis. And you're going to do
the same thing as well. You're going to go onto your upcoming public
speaking event and just simply move on to your upcoming events
one after the other. And grow and grow and grow
and become better over time. That's simply because at the end of the day you
will be criticized. No matter how good you are, no matter how great you are, no matter how, let's say a
great public speaker you are. You could be the most
experienced public speaker with a years worth
of experience. And then you'll find someone in the crowd who has no idea
what you're talking about, they're going to criticize you. It is possible because they are trying to get your
attention in order to, let's say, show you that actually they know
what they're talking about. Which is some sort
of a situation that many people were then
an event tried to do. Well, I've seen multiple events pursue multiple workshops. And then you find out, out of the blue that
someone's going to pop a question and
ask a question and they have no idea what is the answer
in the first place. Or they have no idea what they're talking
about the first place. But the Ask a Question for the
sake of asking, that's it. In order to let say, diminish your efforts, the great efforts that
you're putting as part of their presentation. Now, why is that the case? Well, no one really cares. This is the thing you
need to keep in mind. No one really cares. At the end of the day, it's your own project, your own work, your own set of skills that your fine tuning. You cannot please everyone, especially when you're trying to become a great public speaker. That's why we said
at the beginning, becoming great public speaker is someone who is physically, mentally, emotionally,
intellectually in sync with their message. Now, regardless of the
feedback that you're getting, if you're able to grow
from it, so be it. If not, you're just
simply move on to the next presentation and make sure that you're going
to do your best. That's it. That's why from all the things that we have talked
about right now, public speaking is considered
such a tedious task. Too many. People are afraid
of public speaking mainly for these two reasons. Being rejected in front of a crowd or being criticized
in front of the crowd. Which projects a sense of
fear and sense of weakness, which they would try to avoid. But if you face those
challenges head on, that could be a source of strength for you to become
a great public speaker.
7. Subject Research: Now we're going to get to the
juicy part of the course, the core, the meat
of the course, which is, how do you become
a great public speaker? We've covered the importance
of public speaking. Why people are afraid
of public speaking. How public speaking is
going to help you develop and grow as part of your
career professionally, personally, it's up to you, use those skills the way
that you see suited. The first thing
that you should do. In order to build those stepping stones to become a great public speaker will
be the subject research. If you are going conduct a specific presentation or public speaking event
on a specific topic, the first step that
you need to do would be to research the topic. Your goals would be your goal to get that level of knowledge such that you are the
go-to person on a subject. You know the subject
inside and out. You have superior knowledge
compared to the audience. This is very crucial. You don't want to be
someone presenting on a specific product or a
topic to an audience. And every single one of them knows more about it than you. That would be quiet the
terminal because what? You think about it for a second, at any point in time, one of the individuals inside the audience
could raise their hand, ask you a question, and just simply sabotage your entire presentation if you have no idea how to
answer that question. And I've seen this a
multiple points in time. Multiple events were, let's say during my career
as a project manager, I had multiple sales reps would come and present
to me their products. Let's say they're selling
a pumping system, they're selling a bump there, selling filters,
are selling valves. Now, based on my
engineering background, on my experience and the construction oil and
gas and contracting fields. I'm quite familiar excessively with what you're talking about. Now. They would try to pass on a message trying to
sell me a product, let's say a pump. And they're going to highlight the qualities
of the product, the RPMs, the materials, construction, the capacity,
and all those stuff. Then I would ask him
a question and then they will have no idea how
to answer that question. As someone examining
such a product, the first thing is going
to happen is I'm going to lose trust in the
sales representative. Then I'm going to lose
trust in the product. Then I'm not going
to buy that product, Simple as that. Why? Because the person
in front of me has failed to equip themselves with the sufficient knowledge to talk about that specific product. And this applies to any topic. If you are having a webinar
related to fitness, e.g. if you are having a workshop
related to engineering, if you are related
to data science, programming, you're talking
about neuroscience, whatever it is, whatever it is. The first thing that
you need to do is do the sufficient research
on that specific subject, acquire knowledge in
depth knowledge Titles you to actually stand
up to a crowd and talk about that
specific subject. Because if you don't
have the knowledge, then there's no point
of view presenting in the first place because
people are going to attend a public speaking event in order to learn
something from you, not teach you something. So that's the first step that
actually many tend to fail, that many depend on their
communication skills. They're worried that the
way they carry themselves. But it takes one
specialized individual from your audience
to shatter all of this event or
public speaking event, two pieces based on
a single question. So you have to be foolproof and the work
to do so as doing, we searched on the current
subject and get some books. Online. Research asks experts, make sure that you cover the key crucial points that
your audience needs to know. Now, the minor details, you can just simply add them to help you supplement
your knowledge. But you better know the core concepts and details of the subject
that you're dealing with.
8. Subject Pointers: So we've conducted research on the subject of acquired
some knowledge. It is important to
have subject pointers. What our subject pointers, just simply a couple of
flashcards or a notepad. Write down what are the main areas that
you need to cover. Your current subject should be broken down to key highlights. As part of your presentation
or public speaking event. You're trying to cover these
points one after the other. The same way you're
building a building, you're going to transition
from one step to the other along the way in order to
deliver the complete picture. And this applies to any subject. Think about it this way. What would your audience
look forward to learn or acquire or know about from your current presentation
or from this current event. These should be your main
areas that should be covered. What is the most
important message that you're trying to
pass on to your audience, that should be the core of your presentation when they
walk out of this event, when they walk out of the public speaking event that
you're trying to present, what have they
acquired from you? When they walk out? What are they talking about? What they shouldn't
be talking about? How great the product was. Well, how about product is, how great the subject is? They have learned something
new, what they have learned. This target or goal should be
the focus of your research. You'll learn about this
subject as a whole. Then you're going to be
mapping it to your own goals. What are the key
things, the pointers, the main message that
you are trying to achieve or pass on
to your audience, then you're going to get
further resources to help supplement your efforts from having a main topic that
you are familiar with. Two main key ideas that you are trying to deliver, the
specific audience.
9. Visual Aids as a Tool: Now we've learned about the importance of
subject research. We've acquired some
knowledge with guards, some information,
some resources. Not what stump to map them, to present them in
a visual format. And this is where visual
aids come to play. Whenever you have
a specific event, presentation
workshop, a webinar, visuals, they help you
convey your message easily. I'm sure you've
heard the saying, a picture is worth 1,000 words. Literally, this applies
to anything in life. You could have a demo, you could have a model, you could have a prototype. You could have a presentation, a visual presented
during the course of your event to help you
accelerate the message delivery. Visual aids are very important
because first of all, as you can see, they help
you clarify your point. Sometimes your words
would fail you, but the slides that you have behind you or the video
that you're playing or the prototype in
front of you would give you that Bush on
supplement your key point. It will take attention of you. This is a very, very important point which
is often overlooked. It during a public
speaking event, sometimes you need a break
with them, the event. How does that look like or how, how is that possible? They may elaborate. When you are presenting for
couple of hours or an hour, let's say you're
talking, you're talking, you're talking, you are
going to get tired. You might lose some, you lose your train of thoughts. You might be distracted, or you might get, let's say, offbeat as you
go about your presentation. And you need some small
gaps in order to help you regroup and really pick up the pace and carry on
with the presentation. Or even just simply have a small bottle of water
to drink from to hydrate. Because if you are talking for quite a long period of time, you're going to get dehydrated. Your voice is going change. You might get thursday, need
to drink something order to help you carry on
with their presentation. And those mini gaps
are really helpful. And visual aids to
help you do that. They help you take
attention off you. Now, most probably you have seen presentations where you have a presenter just
simply tell you, we're going to show you a couple of images
from our projects, let's say, or we're
going to show a video with you on
our latest project. And then the presenter
as the video is being played or the slides
are being displayed, you're going to just
simply step to a minute or so to their computer
or to the desk, grab a bottle of water
or drink some water. They step back on
the stage and just simply communicate and carrying on with their presentation. This is clearly seen
with stand-up comedians. If you have attended a
stand-up comedy show, you find out that one
of the comedians, e.g. the professional just
simply trying to talk to an audience of
stand-up comedians are great public speakers, by the way, during the course of conveying the
material, their act. They do have a bottle of
water on a chair, e.g. and if they lose composure, they might take a break. They have a towel and just
simply wipe off their sweat, have a drink from
a bottle of water. This will help them
recollect and we align the trajectory of their current
acts on the presentation. And the same applies to you during your public
speaking event. By having solid visual aids, it will allow you an opportunity for minute breaks to help
you catch your breath, hydrate, recalibrate, and
go up by your presentation. And finally, the
third point would be engaging with the audience. Every single individual
within the audience would love gouache visuals,
great presentations, great videos, rather
than simply having a research paper
presented to them and asking them to
read every single. They'd like videos, they
like presentations, they like models, prototypes. That's why when
you take a look at the new releases of phones
or cars, what do they do? They roll in the car, they roll in the fall
and the display it to the people to help elliptic
you look up, look at it. And that's a great incentive for people to be engaged
in your presentation, what you're talking about. Because as humans in
general, we'd like visuals. Something that we
can take a look at. An object, a prototype, a model, a presentation at painting
and image, all those stuff. They help deliver your message
easily at the same time, keeping your audience engaged. So let's replay the
importance of visual aids. They will help to
clarify your point that help to take
attention off you. They will help engage
your audience. And the way that you see necessary to help you
pass on the message. No visual edge could
be your slides. When you are creating a slides, you're going to
have some images, some bulletin points, videos
during your presentation, you could have a small one to two minute video as an
introduction, an introduction, or midway through
your presentation or your public speaking event to
help you build up on your, one of the key points
during the research phase. Also engaging with the audience. When you have
something on display, you can pinpoint your finger to one of the audience members. Ask them onstage. Ask them, what do they think? What they are? What's
their feedback, What's their name, so on. So just simply engage with
the audience again the same way stand-up comedians do
most of what we have seen it. You have a stand-up comedian
just simply pickup person from the crowd and
they talk about them. This is a great way. This is a great
public speaking skill because it does two things. First of all, it
engages the audience. The audience is
part of the event, they're part of the message, the art part of the context. The event that's 12, which is the sublime or
the subliminal message, takes attention of the prisoner. The public speaker, once they
engage with the audience, did talk to the audience. All of a sudden, the entire
focus goes from the speaker, the member of the audience. This gives the speaker
a room to recalibrate, to engage with the audience, and set the pace of their upcoming pointers as
part of the presentation. So you see at this point, you should understand
at this point the importance of visual aids as tools that supplement your
public speaking efforts. Again, let's recap
the essentials for great public speaker. We said, as a person
or individual who is physically,
mentally, emotionally, intellectually in sync, along with the
tools that they are using to help
convey the message. And one of these tools is
basically visual aids. Now, make sure that you
are quite familiar with the current concept
as we are going to transition in the
upcoming lecture, two further important skills and best practices that make
a great public speaker.
10. The Audience is Key: Great public speaker
or prisoner, knows their audience quite well. They understand who they are. How old are they? What are their interests, life, what are
their professions? What are they looking
forward to learn or acquire from attending
their event? If you're planning on becoming
a great public speaker, one of the key
milestones that you need to accomplish is
understanding your audience. Before thinking of creating
a public speaking event, stepping on the stage,
talking to a crowd, you have to understand who your crowd is in
the first place. What are they trying
to learn from you? Are they going to be listening to you and the first place? Or are you going
to be presenting to them or providing to them or whatever you're going
to be providing to them. Does it have any value to
that specific audience? Because you don't want
to be presenting or talking in front of
an audience that is not aligned with your topic
that you are presenting. Let me give you a great example. Let's say you are an executive. You have your own company. You are building a
compound of buildings and housing for a certain
country or a certain district. And you're planning
on presenting your project to an audience. And all of a sudden, your audience is basically students in great
12 and 3.4 e.g. obviously, there's a
mismatch between your topic, your subject, while trying to
present, and the audience. Because that specific audience, you don't really care
about your project. They don't really care about we are going to be
presenting and we've talking about their interests
is quite different. Their goal is quite different. What would grab their attention
is completely different. On the other hand, if we
remove the audience and we add them a different audience which is made up of architects, project managers,
engineers, developers. Let's say mayors.
All of a sudden, your project makes
perfect sense to that specific audience because
it's aligned with them, with their expectations,
where their career path, what did he have in mind? What are they expecting, and what could be
beneficial to them at a personal level or
at a community level. So knowing your audience
is very crucial to the success of your
public speaking event. The first thing that you need to simply do as part
of your research. It's tried to develop a generic idea of your
potential audience. We're not going
to take a look at an in-depth details
analysis and no, no, it is a very basic
process to do your topic. Who are the best matches
for that specific topic? Just do a simple research, ask around, ask
some professionals who have done it before. Has him to elaborate on the audience and the quality of the audience, the age groups, the demographics of these
people who have attended such an event to have an
idea in the first place, how to create and tailor your presentation to be aligned
with those expectations, their values, and what
are they trying to achieve from being part of
your public speaking event? It's a very simple thing to do. There's no need to
make it complicated, but at the same time, it's a very important thing to do and keep in mind
because it will help you fine tune your
research process as you acquire knowledge, as you acquire information about the topic of your events, you public speaking
event, your presentation. Knowing at the
back of your mind, who are you talking to will help you pick the right words. Pick the right vocab, pick their watch slides, pick the right visuals, communicate in a specific way that will help you convey
the message clearly.
11. Your Style and Your Persona: So now you've learned
about your audience. You've done some research
about the topic. Now at this current
point in time, you need to visualize what is your style in
the presentation. Now, wherever you look, nor are we to talk
about these things. But in this course we
are talking about it. When you pick your
style for presentation, It's basically like
you're setting a vibe in the audience
and prepare them. Preparing them to acquire the message that you are trying
to project to work them. Now, there are
various tiles based on the complexity
of the subject, the seriousness of this
subject, your audience. Now, you could follow
a formal style where you are trying to
be as formal as possible, trying to pass on
your message in a professional manner
with minimal engagement, sarcasm and humor,
with the audience, maintaining such a
professional formal tone, the best way to
visualize this is at a corporate setting where
you have a crucial project, are crucial presentation for a very important client that
you're trying to present to. This would apply. A casual setting would be, let's say you're presenting
to an audience in a setting which is not that complicated and you
don't have sense of R, that level of responsibility
towards the audience. You're trying to pass on the message you are
communicating with the audience, engaging with the audience. You do have that a casual vibe with the audience where you can chip in with your idea, chip in with your
comments and feedback. And that cycle goes on in
a very uplifted manner. It's not as formal as
the formal setting. In a casual setting where let's say you're having
a presentation to an audience or coming to listen to you talk about your
latest discovery, about neuroscience, which
couldn't be formal, but you could make
it casual as well. We are just simply sharing
your own insights and finding because you are the
one delivering the message, you get to pick whether
you want to be formal, you want to be casual. But within a corporate setting, because you have that level of responsibility towards
the company and towards the client that you're
going to choose the formal style, more
preferably entertaining. This but best fits. Events which the whole focus as entertainment
rather than education, where you are trying to have the audience be involved
with your topic. Enjoy being part of the event. To really, I just simply having some sort
of value in the message. And that will be within, let's say, stand up comedy, e.g. if you do have
stand-up comedians, they follow the style, which is the
entertaining style in which there are publicly
speaking to an audience. But the whole goal
is entertainment. Rather than being
formal or casual. Trying to pass on a message
I bought a product, an idea, a concept, a project. The whole point
is entertainment. And finally, you have educating whether you are a lecture, you are a teacher. Your main focus as to deliver a series of
objectives to your, to your audience and order their knowledge level from
one point to the other. Now when you are educating, you could combine
all of the above. Now, the educating
style is where you try to be formal
at one point in time. Let's say you are a
professor at the university, then you transition to be casual where you engage
with the students. Then you transition to being
entertaining where you have, let's say you have someone
at crack a joke in the lecture hall or the class. And then you switch
back to formal and too casual based on the pace. Now, this level, the
educating level. Personally speaking,
I think this is more complicated compared
to the previous ones. When you set a formal style is simply following
the same style. Casual, just simply casual, entertaining, just
entertaining, but educating. You need to calibrate
because if you are simply being too formal within
the education setting, you're going to lose the
engagement of the audience. But at the same time,
you need to maintain a certain level of
formality to pass on the knowledge and the information that
you would like to pass. Being casual hope
will help you acquire the attention of the
students that you're having, the people that are
trying to lecture two, preparing them to absorb the knowledge the way
you want them to. And entertaining is basically when you find out
that they have lost engagement 100% and you
want to pull them back into the event or the electrostatic
trying to convey to them. So educating requires a bit of experience in terms
of public speaking. How can you maneuver
with all of them? You can start off with
formal casual entertaining. And as you become
better and better and better when
you are educating, you can just simply
switch between all of these styles in terms off your presentation or
your public speaking. But these are the main force
tiles for public speaking. You can be too formal about it. Someone presenting
to their boss or their manager or to
a client in front of a whole company where you want
to pass on the message and the best way possible and the professional manner
because of the end goal, there are things
to be delivered, risks to be taken, money to be gained,
money to be lost. So no one is going
to be wasting time being entertained or casually being involved with
the presentation or the public speaking event. On the contrary, you
want to walk in, make sure everything is
perfectly fine on walkout. So that's the formal case. Casual is basically where you're engaging
with an audience. You're passing on
your own findings, information, your product, your presentation, your own
input to that audience. Entertaining the main goal, just simply entertainment,
rather than educating. You want to have the
audience have fun, enjoy their time as
being part of the event. And finally, you have the
education where you are trying to make people
learn something, acquire certain
specific knowledge. And you want to make
sure that they're engaged as much as
possible along the way. Because frankly speaking,
when you are trying to teach someone something in a
very monotonic manner, you're going to lose
their attention and this will affect the way
they are learning. So it can transition
between formal, casual and entertaining
to help them stay engaged all the time
during the their presentation. Now, which style
should you go for? Well, that's
completely up to you. Depends on your personality, what kind of person you are, and the way you feel comfortable presenting to an audience and pick the style that
works best for you. And as you become more experienced in terms
of public speaking, you mastered those skills, try experimenting
with various styles. And finally, you'll be able to combine all of them within one. Public speaking about.
12. The Hidden Art : Now I remember at
one point in time, I was actually presenting
to a large audience. And all of a sudden
the lights went out, the microphone went off, and then found out that there was one of the audience members had a pet with them
during the presentation, which was a small bull. I have no idea how they
managed to put them or allow them during
their presentation hall. And all of a sudden
that people went loose inside the presentation. All people were scared of
surplus are running around. And all of a sudden
that pupil jumped on stage and I was
facing that pit bull. It was dark and I had no
idea but all of the growling like those surrounding
me on that point in time was horrific. So I just simply
jumped off the stage and I started walking
towards the exit. But all of a sudden, I've heard that the
ground laying off the football is getting
stronger and then the pit bull was actually getting closer and
store it to chase me. Well, what happened or what
is happening right now, as I'm telling you a
story which did not happen at one sort
of form or manner. But yet, you are still listening
to me up to this point, which tells you the
importance of storytelling. When you are a public speaker, one of the greatest skills
that you should possess, which is the art
of storytelling. Like right now, I've
been telling you something which literally
did not happen. But for the sake of
explanatory purposes. Because I wanted to pass on
to you the importance of storytelling and how it
affects truly the audience. The best way to do so as simply by telling
you a story myself, and you see the impact
on you as an audience. Look at the key
points that we're going to be
highlighting right now. Stories, they do grab attention when we
are telling a story, especially if it's
a personal story, all of a sudden the audience is going to have their attention 100% on you trying to learn what happened
during that story. The same way you have
a child or a kid. You're going to tell them
a story once upon a time, and their imagination
is going to wonder for the
events of the story. Stories, the ignite brain cells. And this has been scientifically proven when you tell
someone a story, some parts of their
brains they ignite, making them more
susceptible to the image or the message that you're
trying to pass on to them. You've got their attention, they are focused with you. They are engaged
with you under are trying to learn and know what happened during that sequence of events and stories, they
established connections. Obviously, you need
your story to be true. Authentic, meaningful,
has value. You're not going to lie, you're not going
to make up stories like I've done right
now, obviously. But again, explanatory purposes to help you understand
and get the idea. You're not going to
make up stories. You're not going to
lie to your audience, so you're not going
to come up with stories for the sake of
delivering new concept. On the contrary, all of these mechanisms fail
and they fail horribly. You need to become
authentic storyteller. You're going to share
your experience. You're going to share a story, whether a personal story or a story of someone that
you're working with. You heard the one point
in time, it's up to you. But it has to be authentic, it has to be meaningful, it should possess and present
value to your audience. That way they are going to be engaged and connected to you. And they're going
to be listening, they're going to
be participating, they're going to be part
of your events fully. You are simply
going to present to them and they are
listening to you, focusing with you and
they are right there with you as part of your
public speaking efforts. So you should master the
art of storytelling. And how do you do so? Just simply tell a story of something that
happened to you which is related to the event
that you're dealing with. Or you can just simply share a story that you heard or
something that you came across, or a movie that you have seen, or an event or situation that you came across real
life or a book that you have read on an
article that you found online or a video that
you found I found online. As long as it's coming
from you, the presenter, where you're sharing something
that you have done or sharing something that you
came across to your audience. That's storytelling aren't
going to reciprocate. They're going to
engage with you. They're going to be part
of the event with you because you are being
true and authentic. That's the entire point. By being a true and
authentic public speaker. There's no way for the audience
not to connect with you. On the contrary, if
you're going to make up a story and make up an event, and just simply create those stories for
the sake of passing on the knowledge or passing
on the information? Well, it couldn't work. It could not work. But personally
speaking, I would have preferred to just simply focused on providing the authentic story that has some value in it, which will help you provide more value to your
target audience. So, start off by telling a story at the beginning of the
presentation or halfway through. Or you could just simply during the course of
that presentation, change the pace
and you can share a story with your
audience which is related to the entire subject. And sometimes it would
be quite helpful to share a story which is
completely off track, has no relation whatsoever
to the subject. And that will help grab their attention and
pull them back into your presentation of
public speaking event and carrying on with
your own trajectory. Now, feel free to replay this current lecture because it has a lot of value. Take some notes, try to
implement what we have learned, and replay the first
part of this lecture, as you are able to see for yourself the impact
of storytelling and tried to implement
that on a small group of people or your friends. Have a small story. Tell them a story of something that you would like
to share with them. In the form of storytelling. Not, not a chit-chat
or conversation, bought a story where you are trying to present something
in an entertaining manner. That way you're, for sure, you're going to have an audience that is working on your site, which is great and crucial for a successful
public speaking of that.
13. Body Language Essentials: When you're trying
to communicate, there are multiple
things that convey an expression and make an impression other than
whatever they are saying. Now, like right now,
when I'm talking to you, I'm using hand gestures, facial expressions,
facial expressions to help deliver a certain point. And this is what we call
as body language when you are trying to communicate
humans in general, we tend to pick up cues
from the physical demeanor, the movement, and the behavior
of a person physically, without even saying
a single word. Think about it this way. Whenever you're walking in a supermarket or you walk
into a meeting hall, you find the person e.g. sitting with their
hands crossed. What kind of impression
does that person give you? Well, they're being defensive, they are quite uncomfortable. Or the ulna easy to approach an initiator
discussion with. Now, those are cues
that we tend to pick up on an order to become
a great public speaker, you should develop the habit
of being quite attentive to whatever you're saying
and how physically are you moving in line with
what you were saying? If you are trying to convey
a message mixture that you're using hand
gestures appropriately. Not just simply keep
pointing your fingers at the audience that will make
them feel uncomfortable. But you can use hand
gestures. Responsibly. Move around, point that
something on the slides. Or you're simply,
if you're asking a question to the
audience as them to raise their hand and literally raise your hand as well to help them reciprocate the movement when
you are talking to them. If it's a serious
point mixture that your facial expressions conveyed the seriousness of the subject. And if it's something quite
lighthearted, humorous, try to smile or just simply a reflect that the current subject
is not that serious. So you get the point which is
basically making sure that your body is aligned with
your verbal expressions. Your body language
should reflect us. So what are the key elements
of the body language? Let's take a look at them. Now. First of all, we do
have the facial expressions. You need to make
sure that you do have some sort of
expression on your face. And there's just simply having
some sort of a blank face. And there's nothing showing
to your audience where they cannot reciprocate or they have no idea what kind of
a state you're at. Where you just simply
talking, talking, talking, talking with nothing showing on your face to help them get engaged with the current topic or provide some sort of attention to the
topic that you have. Nothing is worse than having a monotonic event or
a monotonic speech. I'm sure you've seen these time. We're just simply watch someone talk for a long period of time. Now, have you noticed what
I've learned while here? I extended my hand
just simply to elaborate the length
of the period than the duration of time that will amplify the message
for your audience. The same thing keeping in mind is just simply take some notes. They will surely help you out in order to develop those skills. Now when you are
trying to pass on this message to your audience, you're trying to make sure that your hand gestures
are in line with your own words and vocab
and the expression or the image that you would like
to paint to your audience. Responsible way such that your audience has their
attention with you all the time. They're focused on you and
they're keeping up with you. Because as humans, we tend
to pick up cues verbally, physically, and in terms
of the movement as well, how someone occupies a space. So you do have the
facial expressions, you do have your posture when you're standing in
front of the audience. Always go for the power stance. And the power stance
is quite simple, where you stand upright and simply you have your feet
exactly at shoulder width. You're standing upright and
talking to your audience. This provides the impression of confidence and actually it changes your brain chemistry
to reflect as such, it has been proven
whenever you are in a discussion or you
are in a presentation, try to do it by yourself. You'll see the results.
It's just simply applied the power stance and
spread your feet, shoulder width, and talk. This will raise
some hormones and your brain that will be
reflected in the form of a sense of ease and confidence and that will show
as well on your audience. Then you have to keep in
mind how you use the space. If you are presenting, you are moving around the, let's say the event, you are engaging
with the audience. The best example it
would be if someone is a TV hosts, a TV show host, most probably you've
noticed there'll be talking on stage at
one point in time, then they will go
between the crowd, pass on the microphone,
talk to the audience, point their fingers
at them to help them get under the spotlight and answer a specific question. Take the microphone from them, they walk back up to stage. This is basically
an example of how to occupy a space physically. You have to keep in mind
your body language. So let's, let's go through the key main points that
you should keep in mind. Always, always, always whenever you're presenting to a crowd, have the power stance. We're standing upright
and your feet are just simply shoulder
width apart. This will initially or provide the queue that you're
confident and you're coming from a place of
authority which will help easily deliver the
message to your audience. The second thing would be, how are you conveying
your message with facial expressions
and hand gestures. And the best way
to go about this, because everyone is quite
unique and special. Use a mirror. Be your own, judge. Pick a topic, try to talk about a topic in
front of a mirror and see what kind of cues are you
picking up an altered them. This is a great practice, a great example that
you can keep in mind in order to
harness those skills. When you are trying to judge
your official expressions, you can ask someone to
do so as you present, present to them, your friend, your colleague, or respectively. Or you can do it in
front of a mirror. And just simply carry on with your presentation and see
how your hands are moving, how your facial
expressions are aligned, how is your body language on your stance when it comes
to conveying the message. So all of these things, they tend to send cues to the audience with relation to the entire
subject as a whole. Now, at this current
section of the course, feel free to replay it again from 0.0 and watch
it over and over again where you are going to notice that I've deliberately use all of the key
points I've been telling you about to
deliver the message. Facial expressions,
hand gestures, movement in order to
help you get the message in the way that I'm intending to deliver to you in
the first place. So this segment from the
course is a great, Let's say, practical example that you can replay over and
over again to help you get the idea and apply those concepts and those
skills to your own practice.
14. Voice Tone and the Impact it Makes: Following body language,
we're going to talk about the tone of your voice. How do you speak? How do you calibrate? What are you going to say to your audience based on
importance and significance, and adjust your tone
of voice accordingly. If you've listened to
any bought podcast at any point in time, without seeing the
person talking, without visually being present at the venue where the
event is taking place. Simply by the Odeo, by listening to what
are they saying, you are able to understand the importance of a
specific message. You are able to visualize
what are they talking about based on the tone that
there are projecting. So when you are
talking to an audience as part of developing your
public speaking skills, you need to first of
all, control your pace. Whenever you are talking about something which is
very important, you need to slow down the pace the same
way I'm doing right now in order to emphasize the
importance of the subject. If you have something really
important that you want to audience to comprehend
or understand, slow down the pace, make sure that you give them sufficient time to understand what you're talking about and to comprehend what
you're talking about. If things are quite
trivial, trivial, just simply pick up the pace and move on to the next point. Now, you need to lower and hired the tones depending on the
point you want to make. If you want to be sarcastic
or you're going to be, let's say, happy
about something, or you want to be
negative about something. You need to pick up the tone in order to
make sure that you pass on the message in
the best way possible. Now, this segment from
this current course, feel free to replay it again. I just simply
picked up the tone, drop-down the tone
in order to help you understand the importance of the message without
losing attention. Avoid monotonic communication. When you are talking to someone. The best way for you to lose, for them to lose interests and whatever that you're
talking about is just simply keeps saying the same thing at the same pace. Let me give you an example. If you walk into
university and you sit or attend one of those
lecture halls where you have a professor who is
quite too old and he wants to just explain the
lesson for you. They have a certain pace
where they keep saying the same thing over
and over again without any change
to their noise, tone, or behavior or demeanor. And after a point in time, you are going to be losing interests and the
entire subject. The tone is quite too
monotonic that you really have no idea how to engage any better with the
current lecture. That's another example. When you are talking to someone, make sure that your tone fluctuates based on the
importance of the subject and based on the context that you have an order to keep
your audience engaged, setting a specific tone, your brain automatically
becomes quite familiar with the level of the voice or the volume
that you're having. It adapts and loses interest and disconnect and focuses
on something else. Your eyes are going to
be looking all over the place for any distractions. A bottle of water that
folds the lighting is off, where you are just simply not
focused on the presenter. And obviously you don't want to be one of those public speakers where your audience loses interests and whatever
you are saying. On the contrary,
you need to grab their attention from
point a to point Z until you fully deliver
your message as planned. You have to alter your volume
and your pitch in order to convey positivity or negativity
as you see necessary. If it's something quite joyful, something quiet, happy, which
is part of your own event. And you want to reciprocate
that happiness, that joy to your
audience by all means, pick up your tone, pick up your voice, and your audience is going to understand that you're
conveying happiness. However, if something
is quite to negative, which is quite frustrating, you are going to really
slow down the pace. You are going to drop
down to tone to show how negative the contexts that
you're highlighting is. When you understand
the importance of your tonality in accordance
with your body language, it's a very powerful tool. It's literally
powerful where you are able to
communicate verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally and intellectually
with your audience. You are a powerhouse to be reckoned with
as a public speaker, because every single part of you, mentally,
intellectually, emotionally,
physically is in sync to provide the message are
planning on delivering, which is the main
definition that we have highlighted at the
beginning of the course. What makes a public
speaker someone who is physically,
mentally, emotionally, intellectually, along
with their tools, they're quite in sync
with the true message.
15. Breathing Exercise to Calm the Nerves: One of the greatest pitfalls for even great public speakers is losing their
breath as they talk. At the same time, when you are trying
to grasp for breath during a presentation or
public speaking event, you wouldn't want to, we're going to want your
audience to pick up on that, that you're losing your breath. And you're just simply
trying to grasp for air in order to
carry on forward. That's where breathing
exercises come into play. You need to breathe in order to help you carry on
with the pace that you want. At the same time, it breathing affects
your tone and composure. Imagine we were
talking quite too fast and you lose your breath
and you run out of breath. All of a sudden,
your tone drops and your composure changes because
you're trying to move, you're out of breath. And you're just simply
quite off balance. And you're trying
to just simply get some oxygen and
recollect yourself. It's quite too hasty to
take a look at because it seems like something is wrong and your audience has
no idea what's wrong. And the only thing which is wrong as you are
running out of time. Now in order to do so, you need to calibrate
your breath. Well, this is an advanced stage, but you'll get
there one point in time because oxygen
will just simply flood your brain and keep you focused and
keep you on track. And most importantly,
would use the butterflies. And being worried and anxious. Physiologically when
you run out of oxygen, think about it this way.
You're suffocating. The same way that
you're drowning. Your brain will
fire up adrenaline and the form of fight
or flight response. And thus why many
people, when they are, when they step on the stage
and they are quite worried, they lose the sense
of proper breathing. They run out of oxygen, and all of a sudden
they're panicking. I simply want to get
off the stage because of the lack of oxygen
going to the brain. And the first thing that
you should have them do is simply sit down and breathe. Because once they do so, oxygen is going to
flood the brain and reduce that anxiousness and
the sense of being worried. This is a physiological
response. It has nothing to do with being afraid or not afraid
of public speaking. This is how your body behaves
when you run out of oxygen. So in order to do so, you should learn how to breathe properly. Most often people do
breathe in the wrong way. In order to breathe properly, let me walk you through
a very simple exercise that you can apply right now. You can replay it
over and over again, or just simply pause
and applied by herself and carry on with
this current lecture. We are going to go for the
concept of four and threes, where we are going to inhale
through our nose for 4 s. Then this is the important part. When you're trying to exhale. You are not just simply going to exhale through your chest, but through your stomach, you are going to press outwards
as if you are, let's say, pushing the air out of your
mouth and simply dropping down your lungs
through your stomach. And when you are inhaling, you are not going to
pick up your chest. On the contrary,
you are going to maintain that same
position of your chest, but you will inflate
your stomach. So when you have air going
through your nostrils, it will go all the
way to your stomach, Let's say inflate your stomach, pushing your stomach outwards. This in turn will help you relax the diaphragm which
is under your lungs. Helping your lungs absorbed
more air into the, Hence enhancing the effect. So let's go through it
one step at a time. So we're going forward
the counter for, through the nose and
a count of three. So when we go through
the nodes 12 For we are going to inflate our
stomach outwards, hold it. Then we are going to
breathe out words for 3 s in the same way,
dropping our chest. So let's go through
it together. Ready? 321. So you'll notice once you're doing this, all of a sudden, calmer, you more focused. You had to run than the
level, just simply go down. Your brain is
flooded with oxygen. You're more focused and you're able to easily pick up with your own presentation
smoothly and perfectly. So let's recap the steps. When you're trying to breathe, simply inhale for 4 s is simply for the
counter for nothing. Not to make it
complicated through 1234 through the nose,
keeping the mouth closed. And then you are going to
inflate your tummy outwards. You're going to inflate
your stomach upwards as if the air is
coming into the lungs, through the mouth, into the
lungs but enter the stomach. So we're not going to have
the chest pop upwards. A sign-off. Were worried or afraid. And this is your body, where your body is going to translate this movement by producing
extra adrenaline. You don't want to do that,
which is counter productive. Well, you need to do
is when you inhale, maintain the same level if
your chest and shoulders and direct the air from the nostrils all the
way to your stomach, inflate your stomach, push
your stomach outwards. This will help relax
your diaphragm, which is the barrier
under your lungs, giving you more space to occupy
oxygen and absorb oxygen. That will be for the
count of 41234. You hold. Then you release the air that you have inhaled
through your mouth, forcefully, outwards
and dropping down your chest and repeat the process again
and again and again. Now, this is my own
personal practice that I tend to use form of the
breathing exercise. Now, obviously, if you look around and you do a
bit more research, you're going to find
a lot of options. Different mechanisms,
3 s for inhaling, 3 s for exhaling. And different approaches for how you do so physiologically, this is my own preference. Feel free to explore yours if you're not comfortable
with this one, and if it works for you, that's great applied and use it to help you become a
great public speaker.
16. How to Engage with the Audience: The subject, or this part of
the course is a no-brainer. Yet many public speakers, they fail to do so. When you are publicly speaking, it's often quite
easy for you to lose focus and lose the
attention of the audience. You're too focused
on your own self and your own subject on how are you presented
to the audience. And you'll lose
sight that they are the key element in
your old presentation. You should understand
them, engage with them, communicate with
them in order for your message to pass on
smoothly from you to them. In order to engage
with the audience, you need to interact
with them in the form of questions asked
for participation of possible and just
simply highlight key questions and pointers
to specific person as them. What did they think? That will help you? First of all, deviate that tension from
you to the audience, giving you some time to breathe and keep your audience
engaged with you. Because obviously, no one wants to be picked up
from the audience. Being put under the spotlight. And all of a sudden they have
no idea what you're talking about that will be quite uncomfortable to
them more than you. When you are trying
to present a subject, combine everything that
you have learned so far. The focus on communicating with the audience and
engaging with the audience. Participate with the
audience. Ask questions. Ask for input, ask for feedback. Ask if one of the audience has experienced wherever you're
talking about before. And you could use that
as a stepping stone for to initiate your own discussion. When it comes to engaging with the audience, sky's the limit. You can just have something pop out of the blue on
your slides or video. You can bring a model, you can bring a prototype. You can bring a sample of the product or the project
that you're talking about. And you pass it on
to your audience, helping them see
it up from getting more engaged with your subject. I'll leave that for you
to get creative with. But the main focus should be simply engage with the audience. You don't want to lose
your attention no matter how great of a public
speaker you are. You have a great
communication skills, great intellectual knowledge,
perfect body language, perfect facial expressions,
perfect slides. And you are just
simply occupying the space perfectly
during the event. Yet, your audience does not see the importance of your
communication and they're not able to reciprocate
that communication or feel a sense of connection between
you and the audience. And all of a sudden
your audience loses interests and whatever
that you're talking about. You want to avoid that
point by simply knowing your audience quite
properly and try to help them be part of your project or your presentation
as the event goes on.
17. The Powerful loop of Feedback and Rehearsal: Now let's say you've applied everything that we
have talked about. You've added all these tools
to your public speaking kit. Now, once you initiate a
public speaking event, you'd go through it, you
conducted and you finalize it. This is a great
opportunity for you to get some feedback to help you fine tune and master your craft. This is where you
ask your audience. You just simply
conclude the event. Walk around, engage with
them, talk with them, have a chat with them, and ask them for feedback, how they felt during the event, what are the key pointers
that they have understood? What are the key things
they were looking for to achieve from your event, but they haven't done so
and try to absorb and collect that knowledge
without feeling criticized. You are looking for feedback. You are not looking
for criticism, whether positive or negative, constructive or destructive. That's not the whole focus. The focus is getting
some feedback in order to become
better next time. Now, you can simply get
the feedback from point a at the preparation stage where you are just
simply doing so, I'm practicing in
front of a mirror. Your April by yourself
to get your feedback, analyze and assess how are you applying all of the stuff
that we've talked about. Or you can just
simply do in front of a crowd where you
have a small group, five to ten individuals, whether your colleagues
at work or your friends, and pick a topic which is basically the focus of
your project, let's say. And you are going
to present to them your topic and ask them
for their feedback. How did you do what
they picked up on? What was the best part
of the presentation, what was the best part of
the public speaking event? And you recommendations
that they would like to provide to you in order to
help you become better. Now you're going
to collect all of these sources of information, write them down, list them down, just simply think about them
and pick the things that are true and authentic and use them to become
a better next time. I want E is a great way to rehearse for public
speaking event, is literally record yourself presenting the same
way right now, when we are recording
this current course, take a look at your recordings. Once you are done,
take a look at your own public speaking skills. Let's say how are you
communicating, your tone, your body language, the
content that you're providing, the information that
you're sharing. Are they delivering as per your plan and as per the
audience requirements? If both points are checked, it means you have provided the perfect bridge
between your own message, your own source of
information, and the audience. And your communication
skills are spot on mentally, physically, emotionally
occupying the space. The tools they're
using have actually served you to
accomplish the task.
18. Final Note: Our journey comes to an end. Temporarily. We're going to wrap up the current course at this
current point in time, we truly hope that you
found some sort of benefit. And this current
course, at least 1%. If 1% has been beneficial to you, that's
an accomplishment. As long as you're growing, as long as you're
becoming better, That's the entire goal of the current courses
that we're providing. Now feel free to
share your feedback. Feel free to share
your insights and your experience from
the current course. Because like we
have established, feedback will help things
become better in the future. And don't forget to follow my
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