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1. Introduction: Hello. My name is
Scott Pickering from Achieve Success
today Executive Coaching. Welcome to Overcome
Limiting Beliefs. Beder and I, we've both been coaches now for over ten years, and we both had very
successful corporate careers. With our courses, we aim
to give back as much of the knowledge and experience that we gained
during those times. For this course,
all are welcome. No price skills are required, just a desire to succeed. So let's move forward with a short explainer video giving you the highlights
of the course ahead. Are you tired of
self doubt, fear, and negative thinking keeping you from reaching your goals? Imagine breaking
through those barriers and unlocking the success, confidence, and personal growth
you've always dreamed of. Our overcome limiting
beliefs course is designed to help you
identify and challenge the thoughts that hold you
back and replace them with empowering positive beliefs that boost your confidence
and self esteem. By the end of this course, you'll have the tools to
overcome any challenge, take action towards your goals, and achieve lasting success. Welcome back. Hope you
enjoyed the explaining video. This course will give
you all the tools to successfully overcome
limiting beliefs. Running alongside this course, we have the course project, which is a workbook full
of practical exercises and key points that reinforce what is inside the
course itself. Reader and I really excited and hope that you'll join us in
the course moving forward, and we start with
Lesson one roadmap and resources as soon
as you're ready.
2. Roadmap and Resources: Hello, great to
have you with me. Welcome to overcome
limiting beliefs. We're going to start with your course roadmap
and resources. So what do we have
coming up here? Firstly, going to look at the course overview and the benefits for you
as a participant. Then going to look
at the course goals. Follow that with
the course project, which for breeder
and I is a workbook, which is a real effective and important partner
to the lessons. Going to tackle this right now. Why do we use
presentation software? The reason is very simple. It's prior feedback from
previous participants. They feel that the
experience of the class of the course is much better with Breeder and I tucked
away in the corner, allowing the participant
to see the full screen, take screenshots
whenever they want. And the feeling was, this is a much better
learning experience. So that's why we use presentation software,
simple as that. The lessons themselves
that follow this short roadmap and resources are where do
limiting beliefs come from, followed by the impact and
identifying limiting beliefs. And then the closing
lesson is challenging, releasing and replacing
limiting beliefs. And then right at the very end, going to do a very quick
summary and review. Okay, so let's look
at limiting beliefs, identifying and overcoming
mental barriers. What's in this for you? Well, this course is designed
to help you recognize and dismantle the
limiting beliefs that hold you back from achieving
your full potential. We're going to explore
the psychology behind these mental barriers, how they manifest in your
life, and most importantly, provide you with practical
techniques to overcome them. By the end of the course, you'll develop new
empowering beliefs that support your
growth and success in both your personal
and professional life going to help you understand the nature of limiting beliefs, discover how limiting beliefs impact decision
making and behavior, and also learn
proven strategies to challenge and replace
limiting beliefs. And finally, how to foster a mindset shift for
longer term success. So what are the course goals? Firstly, want to help you
identify your limiting beliefs. Understand how to recognize the subconscious patterns
that hold you back. Challenge and reframe
your negative thoughts, learn practical methods
to question and replace those limiting
beliefs with empowering ones. Want to help you build
confidence in new beliefs. So develop the
tools to strengthen positive beliefs that support
your goals and ambitions. And then finally,
want to help you implement mindset
changes in daily life. Apply what you've
learned to create lasting changes that
promote growth and success. Now, I talked about
the course project, which is a workbook. And this workbook
really does follow the course section by
section, slide by slide. So Breeder and I would
normally say to you, have the workbook open as you go through the
course and follow along with my voice
and what's on the screen and make
notes as you go. Now, some feedback is
that that's too much, and people prefer to go
through the course listening to me or breeder and watching
what's on the screen, and then right at the
end of each lesson, go back and run
through the lesson again with more focus
on the workbook. Whichever is the best method for yourself is what
I would say to you. There's no right or wrong here. So if you feel more
comfortable doing all three things at
once, Fine. No problem. But if you prefer to go back over with the
workbook separately, that's also very good, as well. It's whatever's best for you. At the end of the
day, this course is about you getting
the most out of it. So just bear that in mind. So looking at the course
project, the workbook itself, the workbook offers
practical exercises and reflection prompts to reinforce the key ideas from the course, helping you to internalize
new empowering beliefs. It's also a bridge between
knowledge and action. Moving from awareness
to change is essential in most
aspects of life. And this workbook guides
you to apply the strategies learned in the course
promoting real, lasting transformation. The workbook is also
focused on personal growth. With targeted exercises,
you'll track your progress, uncover areas for improvement, and set clear
actionable goals that align with overcoming
limiting beliefs. And finally, the workbook
is there to help you identify and break
through blockages. Quickly identify mental barriers that hold you back and follow clear practical steps
to overcome them and continue progressing
towards your goals. So that's it. That concludes your roadmap and resources to
overcome limiting beliefs. Join me in well, join me when you're ready
for the next lesson.
3. Where Do Limiting Beliefs Come From: Hello, and welcome back to
Overcome limiting beliefs. This lesson is called Where do limiting Beliefs come from? So let's get right on with it. So let's start
with a definition. It's always a great
place to start. So let's have a definition
of limiting beliefs. A limiting belief is a thought
or state of mind that you believe is the absolute truth and stops you from
doing certain things. These beliefs don't always have to be about
yourself, either. They could be about
how the world works, ideas, and how you
interact with people. Okay, so what are
limiting beliefs? Well, they're negative defeatist
ideas that we have about ourselves that stop
us from living our best and most
authentic lives. They're barriers to success. They're automatic
and ingrained doubts that can pop up at any time. And they pop up, especially
when we put ourselves out there and truly going for
what we deeply desire. So let's run through a
few limiting beliefs. See if any of these
resonate with you. And these are male and
female limiting beliefs. I'll just run through
got about a dozen here, I think, and see, as I say, see if any of these are things you're I suppose
you could say guilty of. I can't quit my job because I just won't
find anything else. I suck at relationships. And there isn't anyone
out there for me. I'm not talented enough to
follow and pursue my passions. I always screw up any great opportunity
that comes my way. I would be more beautiful
and desirable and liked a lot more
if I were thinner. Everyone thinks that I'm
awkward, clumsy and strange. And frankly, I don't blame them. I could never open
my own business. I should never, ever
question authority. Nobody wants to date me
'cause I'm divorced. It's too late to adopt
a healthier lifestyle. All romantic relationships
end in heartbreak. Okay, do any of those
resonate with you? There's an example of about a dozen limiting beliefs on what they can sound like. So where do they come from? Well, limiting beliefs can
often be formed in childhood. Yeah, everything can go back to your childhood and back to
your early days in school. It's really amazing
when you look at your conscious and
subconscious mind. When you're a child, you
must have heard the phrase, My goodness, that child, it's like a sponge takes
on so much information. And if you go back
to your early years, particularly when
you're at school, your propensity to take absorb information
and learn was huge. But at the same time as you're learning about facts and
figures, history, geography, mathematics, whatever,
at the same time, your conscious and
subconscious mind is working away together. And then as you get older, social influence
also plays its part. Social media
judgments by others, we're all guilty
of this at times, and it does help create we're limiting beliefs
that we carry with us, does help create
where they come from. Our desire to fit in, you know, it's the culture. It's what we're like. We
like to be in a herd. Nobody wants to be
outside the herd. We all like to be in the line of least resistance in
most things that we do. But this is where limiting
beliefs come from. And to be normal, to be part of everyday culture in the
80 20 rule, if you like, to be in that 80 20 rule
to be one of the 80% means you take on
things that may be you if you thought
about it a bit more, you wouldn't actually be happy doing or
saying or believing, but we do it to fit in. And then past failures, if you decide for once, many would say, for once, I went outside of the herd and I did this and it
just didn't happen. That's it. I'm not
doing it anymore. Past failures
affect us mentally, quite a lot in life. So why do we hold onto
our limiting beliefs? Well, ignorance is
the first thing. Unless we actively seek out and identify our
limiting beliefs. Many of us will go
through life not realizing that our limiting
beliefs are untrue. As a result, we
hold onto them and enable our limiting beliefs
without even realizing it. That's a huge thing. And
it's a defense mechanism. Our subconscious uses limiting beliefs as a defense mechanism. If I don't believe
it, I'll achieve it. And when I fail,
I won't be upset. Probably all had those
thoughts from time to time. And that's why we hold
on to limiting beliefs. We don't like to break free. We don't like to go out
of our comfort zones. We believe it's the
wrong thing to do. A lot of this goes,
as I said before, goes right back to
childhood, early school. Parental influence is
a huge one, as well. We take a lot on board
when we're younger, and we carry it
through automatically, a lot of us through life. So that concludes the lesson. Where do limiting
beliefs come from. So let's go a bit further
in the next lesson and take a deeper look
into limiting beliefs. Join me when you're ready.
4. Impact and Identifying Limiting Beliefs: Hello there, and welcome back to overcome limiting beliefs. In the last lesson,
we looked at, Where do limiting
beliefs come from? In this lesson, we're going
to move forward and look at the impact and identifying
limiting beliefs. So let's start with the impact. Limiting beliefs they
hinder personal growth. They affect self
esteem and confidence. And they limit opportunities. All of these three,
hindering personal growth, affecting self confidence
and self esteem, limiting opportunities,
all of these make us less likely to take on new challenges and
pursue opportunities. What I want to do now is
give you a practical lesson, something for you to do
over the next few days. Now, I'm a great
believer in journaling. When you write things down and you refer
back to them, you can, over time, if you're journaling
on a specific matter, start to notice
patterns, trends. And that's what I
want to try and create here with
limiting beliefs. So carry round a notebook. Or make a note on
your cell phone. You've got note
sections in iPhones. You've got the same in
Android devices as well. Every time you notice yourself thinking a limiting
belief, write it down. Make a note of where you are, make a note of what
you're doing in that precise moment in time. Don't judge, document
them and move on. And the idea here is to note
what your limiting beliefs are for repetition and when they rise,
what triggers them? Then we'll get the
patterns, the trend. So from the first lesson, don't forget limiting
beliefs often start with the words or
phrases I suck at. I can't. I'll never. I always. I should, I shouldn't. I'm incapable of
I'm terrible at. Okay, they tend to start with those sorts of phrases or words. So when you hear yourself
thinking that, Oh, if you say that, start writing
them down, journal them. Let's see if we can
create a trend. Let's see if there's a pattern. Let's see what the triggers are. Now, Breda and I often asked, What are the top five
limiting beliefs that you get from your
coaching sessions? Well, in no particular order, we decided these
were the top five. So we'll run through them here, or rather, I will run
through them here right now. So I'm not good enough. This often comes up. It's rooted in self doubt, and this belief
makes people feel inadequate and
unworthy of success. So many times in
coaching lessons, I hear clients saying, Oh, I'm just not good
enough for this, or it's just I just can't It's not me.
I'm not good enough. Now the impact of
this is it prevents you from pursuing
opportunities or taking risks. And the solution to get round
this is to just step back, practice a little bit of
self compassion and focus on the achievements in
the past to help you. The positive achievements
maybe around a subject you're thinking
I'm not good at. Look at the achievements you've had that have
been successful, and from those, this will
help you build confidence. I don't have enough time. I don't have enough money. I don't have the resources. I mean, this is an
excuse that really, it's a limiting belief that
creates a scarcity mindset. Now, mindset is big for me. It's what I focus on as a coach. So whenever I hear this
as a limiting belief, all I'm thinking is,
this is something. It's an excuse to give
you a scarcity mindset. So it leads to
procrastination or generally, just an avoidance
of any challenges. What you have to do here
is it's like an egg timer, turn it upside down the other way and look at it from
another viewpoint. You shift yourself from a scarcity mindset to
an abundant mindset. Focus on your resourcefulness and creative problem solving. Don't be thinking, Oh, I don't. I can't. I don't
have enough time. I don't have enough money. Break everything down. I use the phrase all the
time in these courses, break everything down
into bite size chunks. You can't go from
A to Z in one go. You have to take
steps along the way. Maybe baby steps along the way, but you have to go from A to B, B to C, C to D to E to
F, and so on and so on. You don't go A to Z in one step. Um, bite size chunks. If you move and look at things
from a different angle, break it down into bite size chunks,
you're not overwhelmed. And you'll find out, Well, maybe I do have enough time. Maybe I do have the resources to fulfill what
I'm trying to do. Just take a different viewpoint. The third one, what if I fail? Now, fear of failure is massive
in personal development. It stops everyone
from taking action. And in personal development, no one knocks on
your door and says, Hey, I've got the
solution for you. This is what I'm
going to help you do. I'm going to make you do
this now, and it's EasyPs. No one's gonna knock
on your door, okay? Let's get that absolutely
crystal clear. You have to make the decision. You have to make the changes. You have to make
the moves yourself. And failure and fear
of failure is probably the biggest aspect in life that holds you back
from doing things, fresh challenges,
taking on projects, taking on tasks that are maybe away from
your comfort zone. So Fear encourages you to stay in your comfort zone and you miss out on
growth opportunities. You've really got
to look at this. Again, it's the egg time
eternity the other way up. Reframe failure
as an opportunity and focus on
incremental progress. You know, the bite sized chunks, A to B to C to D, blah, blah, blah, through to Z. Okay? I'm too old, too young to do this. Now, this really annoys
me as you get older, these sort of things
do annoy you, and this really annoys me 'cause age related stereotypes often lead to this belief,
creating unnecessary limits. It prevents dreams
or people entering new fields because they either believe they're too old
or they're too young. You've got the solution for this is to look across the area that you're being held back on or you believe
you can't move into. Look for stories
of individuals who have achieved success
regardless of age. So, sport is a
good one for this. Two sports are very uppermost
in my mind at the moment, where there are
people participating right at the age limits, the full spectrum of ages. And the two examples I want
to give is Formula one, where you've got Fernando Alonso and Lewis Hamilton at
one end of the spectrum, and down at the other
end of the spectrum, you've got rookies coming into the sport like Franco Colapinto, you've got Oliver Burman, Kimmy Antonelli at
the younger end. I mean, Kimmy Antonelli, I don't think was boom
when Fernando Alonso started racing in Formula one. You know, but the sport
will embrace all ages. And it's a limiting
belief to believe, Well, I'm too old to do this or
I'm too young to do this. I wouldn't like to be the
person standing in front of Fernando Alonso
or Lewis Hamilton, for that matter, telling
them they're too old, okay? Number five, I don't
deserve success. Now, this is rooted in
guilt or low self esteem, and this belief
sabotages efforts. And it causes a reluctance
to claim achievement. And you've got to challenge
the monkey chatter. You've got to embrace
yourself worth through affirmations
and therapy if needed. Go to come on to
affirmations later on. End of the day, therapy,
if you need it. There's so far you can go
with personal development. And there is a time where
maybe you have to go beyond personal development for medical help from
medical specialists. Now, if you are depressed, through, I don't
deserve success. If you really are in the
deep area of depression, yes, you may need therapy. But a lot of self talk that's
negative can be overcome, but you've got to work at it. Let's look at money
and limiting beliefs. Let's just take three examples. Money is the root of all evil, what my parents often said that, I can remember them as if they were there in the room
with me right now. And I remember my mother often saying the money is
the root of all evil. But this belief can create guilt or discomfort around
earning or desiring wealth, leading to self sabotage
in financial matters. We like to put ourselves down. It's kind of like
the way we're wired. We like to, you know, keep ourselves down in
the herd all the time. And there are certain
things that we do that just epitomize that. Money is the root of all
evil is often rooted in cultural or religious teachings,
and it's misinterpreted. It's like the fish that go away. It might have meant
point A, 100 years ago, but now it's just gone beyond what it was
originally meant to be. The solution is to reframe. Got to reframe money
as a neutral tool. It can be used for good. It can help others,
and it can help create a secure future
for you and your family. So it's not necessarily
the root of all evil. I'm not good with money. Now, this creates a
mental block against learning financial skills or taking control of your fancies. Finances resulting in
poor money management. It often stems
from past mistakes or lack of a
financial education. The solution here is to start
small, bite size chunks, learn some basic
financial skills, count your wins, like creating a budget or
saving consistently. If you're creating a budget and working within your budgets, and it all comes
out fine and dandy, or you're saving and or
saving consistently, you can't say you're not
good with money, can you? I don't think you
can. A third one, there's never enough money. Now, this promotes a scarcity
mindset and can lead to stress or financial
decisions and the inability to recognize
or attract opportunities. This again, can go right back to childhood experiences or cultural messages
about scarcity. The solution here is
to turn it around, be grateful, practice gratitude for what
you currently have. Focus on abundance by
identifying ways to increase income or reduce
unnecessary expenses. So you know what
your incomings are, you know what your
outgoings are. If your outgoings are more than your incomings, what
do you have to do? Challenge your outgoings, okay? So it's all there
in front of you. You've just got to just
sort of step back, look at the overview, and break everything down. Now, moving forward,
as you become more comfortable and noticing
the limiting beliefs that you have and you're
documenting them, Start looking and observe others and write down your
judgment of other people. And if you find yourself judging another person, note it down. And next to the
judgment that you make, also note your
emotions at that time. Why would I ask you to do this? Well, often, 99.999%
of occasions, your judgment of
other people will reveal your own
limiting beliefs. Ask your closest
friends, maybe family. Do you see me holding
back from things? Do you ever notice
me doubting myself? Find out about what
and get an example. And without judgment, listen. Are the common themes and
responses that you receive? Did you have an
emotional response to the feedback that
you were given? And finally, why do you think it is that you have that
emotional response? So what I'm doing
here is asking you to take your journaling
to the next level. Add more journaling in. You're really going to
build up a picture here, find out what it is that impacts you to have
your limiting beliefs. Try and see if there's a trend. Look to see if there
is a pattern evolving. Okay, so that's where
I want to stop with impact and identifying
limiting beliefs. Join me again for the next
lesson when you're ready.
5. Challenging Releasing and Replacing Limiting Beliefs: Hello there, and welcome back. So let's move forward
into challenging, releasing and replacing
limiting beliefs. So let's start off
with challenging. Once you've identified
our limiting beliefs, we need to challenge them. We need to question and
research their validity. We need to commit to taking decisive action towards
releasing our limiting beliefs. We have to refrain negative
thoughts into positive ones. And please note at this stage, limiting beliefs can't
be eliminated by wishful thinking or
by self deception. Your mind just
won't accept that. It requires work and commitment to release
your limiting beliefs. And in addition, we need to seek evidence that contradicts
the beliefs that we have. So bear that in mind. So what are the benefits from challenging your
limiting beliefs? Well, there's a lot
of benefits for you. They unlock your potential
because they remove the mental barriers and help you discover new opportunities. They boost your confidence, build belief in your abilities, and approach challenges
with certainty. They improve decision making, making clearer goal line choices
that are free from fear. They help you with
increased resilience, help you overcome
setbacks and view obstacles as just
temporary things. They help you
achieve fulfillment, the pursuant of
goals one thought unattainable for greater
life satisfaction. They help you foster growth. They help you embracing
learning to step outside your comfort zone
for personal development. They strengthen relationships,
which cultivate healthier, more open connections
with others. And challenging your
limiting beliefs will help you reduce stress. Replace your negative
thoughts with empowerment for mental peace. And finally, they help
you take control, shape your own narrative to
take control of your future. So let's look at
some examples of replacement statements for
releasing limiting beliefs. I'm not good enough to
complete this work. Replace it with, I embrace
challenges at work, and I'm 100% capable of doing
whatever I put my mind to. I'm too young to be a manager. Well, think of it as an example. Replace it with I may not
have as much experience, but I have a commitment
to excellence. I don't have enough time
to invest in myself. Well, replace that maybe I have the same amount of time as
everyone else on the planet. I just need to stop
focusing on the menial and focus on the stuff
that creates impact. So you're turning a
negative into a positive. I don't have enough experience
for this career move. Replace this with
this career move is gonna give me so
much experience. I'm gonna crush it,
something like that. I talked about affirmations
in the previous lesson. So what are affirmations? Well, let's start
with the definition. Affirmations are
positive statements or declarations used to challenge or overcome negative thoughts, self doubt, or limiting beliefs. Repeated consistently, they help reinforce
a positive mindset, build confidence,
and align thoughts with goals or desired outcomes. So affirmations are things
a lot of people believe in. I've used affirmations
in the past, and I've used them first thing every morning when if I'm standing in
front of the mirror, before I was growing the
beard, I would have a shave, and I would say things
over and over again, such as and here's an example
of a few affirmations. I'm capable of achieving
anything I set my mind to. Say it over and over again. It changes your mindset
from one of, Well, maybe I'm not at my best to one where your
confidence is higher. Your overall worth feels higher. How about I release all doubts and embrace
my unlimited potential. If you're thinking, I can't
move forward with this, this is too big for me. I need to just step back and
let someone else do this. This is a way outside
my comfort zone. Start using I really sold out and embrace my
unlimited potential. Say it over and over again. I am worthy of success,
happiness, and growth. These affirmations,
they can have power. A lot of people believe in this, and they believe it can
help frame you up from a negative mindset to
a positive mindset. The mind is huge. Anything you can do
to keep yourself in a positive growth
mindset is worth doing. And these work different levels, different powers for
different people. But if you've never
used affirmations, they can be very powerful. And I'm just giving you
five examples here. I choose to see opportunities
instead of obstacles. This is one where there's
a fear of failure. So instead of actually looking what is in front of you as an
opportunity to grow, you're stepping back and saying, I don't want to do that because I'm probably going to fail, or I don't want to do that because I have a
fear of failing. So start saying I choose to see opportunities
instead of obstacles. Now, you can have
your affirmations into several lines
and have them written down on a card that you keep maybe in your
purse or in your wallet. And every now and then,
you just sit there and you repeat it over
and over and over again. They can be very
powerful for people. The mind is a wonderful thing, and affirmations can really
work with your mind. The final example
I've got here is every step I take brings
me closer to my dreams. You just say it over
and over again. You might just say
it in the morning, you might say it two
or three times a day. You might choose the
same one to repeat. And I would say, use the same one to repeat
over and over again. So it kind of becomes
second nature. So affirmations are very
powerful can be very powerful for certain people in releasing limiting beliefs. Now, let's look at
your friendships and the people who you spend
most of your time with. Do your friends allow their limitations
to hold them back? Do your friends agree with
your limiting beliefs? Do they empathize with them? Do they understand or
feel simle about them? You can have these
conversations. Surround yourself with
people who are positive, chase hopes and dreams. So we're really
looking at turning the glass half empty into
the glass half full. If you surround yourself
with people who are more positive with
their viewpoints, they're not going to have
as many negative thoughts. And if you're surrounding
yourself with people who have a lot
of negative thoughts, you're going to embrace
their negative thoughts, and you're going to carry
those negative thoughts, as well as the ones that they're teaching you to carry, as well. And you're going to be
in a vicious circle like a hamster on
a ring in a cage. If you surround yourself with positive people who
have positive thoughts, and if you use
affirmations as well to help you release and
overcome limiting beliefs, you will find that you will make yourself a more confident, outgoing person raising and building your confidence and
building your self esteem. So replacing limiting beliefs, I would say there comes a
time when you've got to forgive yourself because guilt, shame, and self criticism
are destructive. Forgiveness is a
very powerful tool. If you can forgive
yourself and say, Well, I was really crazy for believing
I couldn't do this job, really crazy for believing
I couldn't do this project. It's a very powerful thing to forgive yourself
and move forward. Even if you find it
unfamiliar and uncomfortable, practice your positive
beliefs frequently, so you can use your
affirmations here. Repeat them over and over again. Visualization. So affirmations
and visualization, they really do work
well together. If you visualize your success by repeating your
affirmations until they basically annoy you, and then some more, after time, you start to believe them. So it changes you from
glass maybe glass half empty to a glass
half full person. It replaces the monkey chatter that's always going
around in your head. Get to that out, and you
start to be more positive, more constructive with
what you're doing. And finally, write down your affirmations maybe on post it notes at
home or at work, put them on your fridge, put them on the mirrors
in the morning, shout them out every morning. Don't just revise them, write them down, as well. Writing down really
does layer them in. Taking action is a big thing. A few slides ago, I had taking action in bold. It's all very well
talking about change. It's all very well saying, Well, I do this because of that, and I want to change. I do this because of it's
always been done this way, but I do want to change. It's all very well
having those thoughts, but at the end of the day, if you can identify
what the problems are and identify where you're
letting yourself down, you've got to take
action to move forward. So taking action is down to you, and you have to take action with replacing limiting beliefs. It's critical to success. Set goals, but make
them realistic. Take small steps, use
your bite size chunks. Count your wins along the
way and have little rewards for yourself as you're hitting
goalposts or mileposts, whatever you want to
call them along the way. Set yourself little targets, goals towards a big goal. So break your goal down
into bite size chunks, and maybe there's five aspects to achieve before you
hit your final goal. For every level you achieve,
give yourself a reward. And celebrating achievements
helps build more confidence, and it reinforces the
positive beliefs that you need to replace
your limiting beliefs. All of this comes
under taking action. Also, at the same time, you need to build a
support system around you. So when I say you need to, surrounding yourself
with positive influences is essential in overcoming
limiting beliefs. So take more notice of the people around you who are more positive
in their outlook. Surrounding yourself
with positive influences really does help you overcome
your limiting beliefs. Seek a mentorship
relationship with a coach or whatever to help
you keep on track, to help you with your goals
and objectives that you have. Join support groups.
Here, you know, you can share your
experiences and gain encouragement from
other people's stories. We all feed off each
other as a race, and we want to feed on the positive things,
not the negative. So a support group
tends to have, particularly in
this type of area, more positive people or people looking for a
more positive outlook, you've got to start somewhere. So surround yourself with people who are looking
to achieve what you're looking to
achieve or maybe have already achieved what
you're looking to achieve. So that concludes the
lesson, challenging, releasing and replacing
limiting beliefs, and that includes
the course itself. So the next lesson
is an overview. It's a summary to look
at what we've talked about in the course and to
set you up moving forward. So hopefully, I'll
see you when you're ready for the
summary and review.
6. Review and Closing Overcome Limiting Beliefs: Hello, and welcome back to
Overcome limiting beliefs. We're now in the summary, the review, the closing lesson. So what do we have coming up
here? Well, it is a summary. It is a review. We're going to overview the course,
overview the course goals. Take a look back at the course
summary and the workbook. Then some tips on moving forward with confidence
and then look at the key takeaways
for you and the next steps for you moving
forward on your journey. So let's start with
the course overview. So throughout this course, I've explored how limiting
beliefs can hinder your progress and how to dismantle them to
unlock your potential. You've learned to identify
the mental barriers, change negative
thought patterns, and replace them with
empowering beliefs. Helped you recognize the nature of limiting beliefs
and their impact on your life and to challenge negative thoughts and refrain them into empowering beliefs. So let's remember
and review what the course goals were right
from the very beginning. Firstly, the first goal was to identify your
limiting beliefs, help you understand how to recognize the subconscious
patterns that hold you back. Hopefully, if you're journaling, like I was suggesting, you've now seen a trend, got patterns that will help you identify the limiting
beliefs that you hold. Then we wanted to
challenge and reframe the negative thoughts that bring about these
limiting beliefs. Went through practical
methods to question and replace limiting beliefs
with empowering ones. So, for example, you can use the affirmations
that I talked about, or you can go into the
specific top five examples of what limiting beliefs were, how they were framed up, and how to look at a positive
solution to get rid of the monkey chatter and turn what was basically negative
thoughts into positive ones. Mindset plays a huge part there. Want to help you develop
the tools to strengthen positive beliefs that support
your goals and ambitions. This is something
you've got to work at. Nothing in life is just, you know, on day
one, it all happens. It is bite size chunks. I refer to bite size chunks, quite a lot in courses. Everything you move in to rectify a negative to
give you a positive, you have to go from
A to B to C to D. You can't go from
A to Z in one leap. And want to help you One of the goals was to
help you apply what you've learned to create
lasting changes that promote growth and success, and they're going to
come back to that again in a few slides time. So let's look at the course
summary and the workbook. So as we conclude this course, it's important to reflect, I think, on how the workbook
has been instrumental. If you've used the workbook, you'll find it
quite invaluable as a partner to the
audio visual course that you've been through. There are lots of hands on activities and reflective exercises
throughout the workbook, and this should have helped you. First of all, open up your mind to engage
with concepts in a practical way allowing for deeper insights and
personal revelations. Additionally, the workbook
should have helped you reinforce your learning
by solidifying your understanding of how
limiting beliefs impact your life and the steps you need to take to overcome them. The workbook should also
help you facilitate growth, empower you to take actionable
steps towards adopting a growth oriented mindset and embracing new possibilities. Remember, the journey
doesn't end here. The workbook is
something you should continue utilize
moving forward as a resource to explore your thoughts and progress you towards the
goals that you have. So moving forward
with confidence, you're now armed with some
practical strategies, and you're now equipped
to take meaningful action towards your personal and
professional growth targets. You should be building
confidence now in your ability to change
and to move forward, integrated, growth
orientated thinking to foster long lasting
transformation. So basically, everything
that's new that you're taking on port is to
get rid of the past, draw a line in the sand and
start moving forward so that the transformation
that you're making by moving
from, let's say, a glass half empty person to
a glass half full person, everything that you've learned, you need to integrate
to make it long lasting so that the
transformation is fixed. You're ready to apply these strategies that I've
gone through and that the workbook shows you in
your daily life to overcome the obstacles that you may have in front of you so that
you can achieve your goals. So what are the key takeaways
and the next steps? Well, basically, the
key takeaways are the limiting beliefs are
often subconscious thoughts, and they can be identified
through self reflection. You take on these subconscious
thoughts from early times, childhood, early school,
parental influences, peer pressures as you grow up. And oftentimes you
need to sit back, break them down from your
journals, from your notes. And decide how
you're going to move forward and shift
the emphasis away. Challenge the negative
thoughts is really crucial for fostering
empowering beliefs. So when you have
the monkey chatter, write it down, why do you
have that monkey chatter? See if there's a pattern. Then you've got to break it
down into bite size chunks to eliminate it and move forward with a more
positive mindset. Mindset is everything
with limiting beliefs. So what are the next steps? Well, using the workbook, continue to practice the
strategies learned in the course as well and apply
them in your daily life. Set specific goals to monitor your progress in overcoming
your limiting beliefs. So diarize forward with
what goals you have, and don't forget
count your wins. As you go along, any wins that you have
towards your goals, count them as a
positive move forward. So that concludes this course. Thanks again for
participating and joining me on overcome
limiting beliefs. I hope that I can see you again in another one of our courses. So it just leads me to say
Take care and good health.