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1. Introduction: Hello and welcome. I'm Vicki and I'm
happy you're here. Writing can be one of the most powerful tools
for self reflection, personal growth, and
creative expression. But many of us struggle
with writer's blog, self doubt, or simply not
knowing where to begin. This class is
designed to help you break through these
barriers and develop a meaningful journaling
practice using guided prompts that encourage
deeper self awareness, gratitude, emotional exploration,
and creative thinking. By the end of this journey, you have a collection of
meaningful reflections, a clearer sense of direction, and a newfound appreciation for the power of your own
words. Let's get started.
2. Class Project - Gratitude Timeline: In this class project, you will create a gratitude
timeline to visually map out key moments in your life where you felt
deep appreciation. These could be major
life events, small, but meaningful
experiences, or even challenges that in
hindsight help you grow. First, you need to
draw your timeline. Create a horizontal
line on your paper, labeling key years or
phases of your life. For example, childhood, teenage
years, early adulthood. Next, you need to identify
five key moments. Think about times when
you felt truly grateful. This might include a
special relationship, an opportunity, a difficult time or a
personal achievement. Then you should describe
why each moment matters. Write a few sentences for each one explaining
what happened. Why did it make you feel grateful and how did it
impact your personal growth? Once you've completed
your gratitude timeline, I encourage you to share a photo of it in the section
under the class. Seeing each other's timelines can inspire new perspectives and remind us of the
many different ways gratitude shows up in our lives. Your story might
help someone else recognize something
they're grateful for too.
3. Journaling - Benefits: Journaling is more than
just keeping a diary. It's a powerful method
of self expression, a stress reliever,
and even a way to enhance creativity
and productivity. Whether you're
looking to process emotions, track personal growth, or simply write down
daily experiences, journaling can be a
life changing habit. And what exactly is journaling? Jinling is the practice of
writing down your thoughts, emotions, and experiences,
but on a regular basis. It can take many different forms and there's no right
or wrong way to do it. The beauty of journaling is that it can be whatever
you needed to be. It's personal, it's flexible and it's adaptable to
your own style and needs. Let's see why
journaling matters. First, writing things
down forces you to slow down and
process your thoughts. It helps you understand
yourself better, recognize patterns in your
emotions and behaviors, and develop a deep awareness of your own goals
and challenges. Think of your
journal as a mirror. It reflects your inner world allowing you to gain insights about yourself that might
otherwise go unnoticed. Second, we all
experience stress, anxiety, and overwhelming
emotions at times. Journaling provides a safe space to release those
thoughts and emotions. When you put your
worries on paper, they often feel more manageable. Third, journaling helps
organize your thoughts, making it easier
to find solutions. When you write things down, you can see them
more objectively. It becomes easier to
evaluate situations, weigh your options, and make
more informed decisions. Many great writers, artists, and innovators have
kept journals, not just to record
the experiences, but to spark new ideas. The active writing stimulates
creative thinking, helping you generate fresh
insights and perspectives. Journaling can also improve productivity by helping
you set and track goals, prioritize tasks,
and stay motivated. The more you write,
the better you become at articulating
your thoughts. Journaling encourages
self expression, which can enhance your
ability to communicate clearly in everyday
life in relationships, work, or social situations. By writing regularly, you also become more in tune
with your emotions, making it easier to express your feelings openly
and honestly. Imagine looking back on your
journal years from now. You'll see how
much you've grown, how challenges have shaped you, and how past experiences have
influenced your present. Journals offer a
way to reflect on where you've been and
how far you've come. Journaling is a powerful tool that can transform
your mental clarity, emotional well being,
and personal growth. It's a space for self discovery,
healing, and creativity. No matter if you journal
daily or just occasionally, what matters most
is that you do it in a way that feels
authentic to you.
4. Overcome Self-Judgment Prompts: Many people struggle
with the fear of writing often due to the
pressure of perfectionism, fear of meeting difficult
emotions or concern that their thoughts are not
good enough to put on paper. Self judgment can make
journaling feel intimidating, but overcoming these barriers can unlock deep self awareness, emotional healing, and
creative expression. If you've ever hesitated to journal because
you were afraid of what might come out or because you felt your
writing wasn't right, the next tips I'm going to share with you will help
you break free from these fears and make journaling a positive
judgment free experience. Let's get started. One of
the biggest barriers to journaling is the
expectation that our writing should be
polished, deep, or meaningful. The truth is your journal is
not a novel or public piece. It's a private space meant for self reflection, not perfection. You can try the following. Give yourself permission
to write poorly, write a messy unstructured
entry on purpose. Set the rule, no
editing or erasing. Even if your thoughts feel
scattered, keep going. And remind yourself, it's okay if this
doesn't make sense. The active writing
is what matters. Next, censoring yourself defeats the purpose of journaling. If you filter your emotions
or thoughts too much, you miss out on discovering what's really going on inside. In this case, you can try
the five minute brand damp, set a timer for 5 minutes
and write whatever comes to mind without stopping or
worrying about coherence. Let it be raw and unfiltered. You can also practice stream
of consciousness writing. Keep your pen moving or fingers
typing, no matter what. Even if all you write is, I don't know what
to say, keep going. The more you practice, the easier it becomes to write freely without fear of judgment. The third tip that I have for you is just to let
go of judgment, let go of inner critic. That little voice
that says this sounds stupid or I'm not a good writer, just your inner critic
trying to hold you back. Instead of letting
it control you, acknowledge it, but
don't let it stop you. Here, you can do the following. Write a letter to
your inner critic. Thank it for trying
to protect you, but let you know that
it's not needed here. Next, you can treat your journal
as a judgment free zone. There are no good
or bad interests, only honest self expression. Tip number four,
refrain bad writing. A big fear around
journaling is that our writing won't be
good or insightful. But even entries that seem
boring or repetitive can reveal patterns in your thinking
and emotions over time. Here you can practice
the following. Look back at old journal entries and notice what stands out. Often what felt insignificant at the time becomes
meaningful in hindsight. Instead of aiming for profound thoughts,
focus on honesty. Even I have nothing to write
today can be valuable. If you're afraid of someone
reading your journal, that fear can block you
from writing freely. Therefore, my advice is create a sense of security around
your journaling practice. You can achieve that as you use a password protected
document or journaling app or just the Old
School diary with a key. You also can write
on loose paper and throw it away if it makes
you feel more comfortable. And here is tip number six. Se journaling as a gift, not a task instead of thinking of journaling as
something you have to do, see it as something
you get to do. It's a tool for self care,
clarity, and growth. Just do the following, write a gratitude entry about the ability to
express yourself. For example, you can write down. I'm grateful for the chance to process my thoughts on paper. And of course, it would be good to remind yourself that
journaling is for you, not for anyone else's approval. At the end of the day,
the best way to overcome fear and self judgment
is simply to start. There's no perfect way to journal and that's
the beauty of it. The more you write, the more
comfortable you become. Grab your notebook, take
a deep breath and begin. No pressure, no judgment, you and your thoughts
exactly as they are. In
5. Personal Reflection Prompts: Personal reflection
through journaling is a powerful way to understand
yourself on a deeper level. It allows you to
process experiences, identify patterns in your
thoughts and behaviors, and gain clarity about
your emotions and goals. However, staring at a blank
page can feel overwhelming, which is why using
prompts can guide your thinking and make
reflection more meaningful. In this video, we will explore a few key reflection
prompts and discuss how each one can help you
gain valuable insights. Let's get started. The first prompt is, how have I changed in
the past three months? This prompt encourages you to look at your personal
growth over time. Think about your mindset, habits, relationships,
and goals. Have you become more confident, more patient, have your
priorities shifted? This question helps you
recognize progress you might otherwise overlook and identify areas where you
still want to grow. A little tip. Compare your
answers to this question over time to see how your
personal evaluation unfolds. Prompt number two,
what is one challenge I have overcome and what
did I learn from it? Reflecting on past struggles can be incredibly empowering. This prompt helps you
acknowledge your resilience and recognize the lessons hidden within
difficult experiences. Whether it was a
personal hardship, a work related struggle
or a tough decision, writing about how you
navigated it gives you confidence in your ability
to handle future challenges. And my little tip here
is be specific about the emotions you felt during the challenge and how
you moved through them. This can help you develop problem solving skills
for the future. Prompt number three,
when was the last time I felt truly happy and what
contributed to that feeling? Happiness often comes
in fleeting moments, and we don't always
take the time to analyze what brings us joy. This prompt encourages you to reflect on a specific
time when you felt happy and explore what factors contributed
to that feeling. Was it a certain
activity or a person, a sense of accomplishment, identifying the sources of
your happiness can help you incorporate more of
them into your daily life. The little tip here is
consider how you can intentionally create more of these joyful moments rather than waiting for them to happen. Prompt number four, what is one limiting belief I have about myself and how can
I challenge it? We all carry self doubt or negative beliefs
that hold us back, such as I'm not good enough, I always fail or
I'm not creative. This prompt helps you identify those limiting beliefs and
question their validity. Are they based on facts or are they fears rooted in
past experiences? Once you recognize
these patterns, you can work on reframing them into more
empowering beliefs. And my thep here after
identifying a limiting belief, write down evidence
that contradicts it. For example, if you
think I'm not creative, list times when you came up with great ideas or solve
problems in unique ways. Prompt number five. What is one thing I
need to let go of? Sometimes we hold onto things
that no longer serve us, whether it's a past mistake, a toxic relationship, or an unrealistic
expectations of ourselves. This prompt encourages
you to acknowledge what you might be carrying
that's weighing you down. Letting go isn't always easy, but writing about it can be the first step toward
emotional freedom. The tip here is after identifying what
you need to let go of, write down one action you can
take to start releasing it, whether it's setting
a boundary for giving yourself or
shifting your perspective. Personal reflection is a tool for self awareness,
growth, and healing. The prompts we explore
here are designed to help you examine
different aspects of your thoughts,
emotions, and experiences. The key to meaningful
journaling is honesty, write freely without judgment, and allow yourself to
explore your true feelings.
6. Gratitude - Prompts: Gratitude is a powerful practice that can shift your mindset, improve your mood, and
enhance overall well being. When we intentionally focus
on what we appreciate, we train our brains to notice the positive aspects of our lives even during
difficult times. Journaling about
gratitude deepens this practice by making it
more personal and reflective. Now we are about to explore a few key gratitude
focused prompts and discuss how each one
can help you develop a more appreciative and
positive outlook on life. Let's get started. The first prompt is what is one small thing I'm
grateful for today. Gratitude doesn't
have to be about big achievements or
life changing moments. Often, the most
meaningful joys come from small everyday experiences, a warm cup of coffee, a smile from a stranger or the feeling of
sunlight on your skin. This prompt encourages
you to recognize and appreciate the simple things
that often go unnoticed. The more you focus on small
moments of gratitude, the easier it becomes to
find joy in everyday life. Prompt number two,
who is one person, I appreciate and why? Gratitude extends
beyond material things. It also includes the people
who enrich our lives. This prompt helps you reflect on someone who has made a
positive impact on you, whether it's a friend, family member, teacher,
or even a kind stranger. Writing about the
influence threatens your appreciation for them and deepens your
sense of connection. Take this practice a step
further by expressing your gratitude directly to
the person through a message, letter, or face to
face conversation. Prompt number three, what is a past challenge that
I'm now grateful for? Difficult experiences often
teach us valuable lessons, even if we don't recognize
them right away. This prompt encourages
you to look back on a struggle and identify
what you gained from it. Was it resilience, wisdom, or a new perspective? Shifting your mindset
to see challenges as growth opportunities
can be transformative. In case a challenge
still feels unresolved, about what you hope to learn
from it in the future. Prompt number four, Watch is something about
myself that I'm grateful for. Self appreciation is an important but often
overlooked aspect of gratitude. This prompt invites
you to acknowledge your own strengths,
qualities or efforts. Maybe you're grateful
for your determination, your ability to comfort others, or the way you've handled
a tough situation. Recognizing your own word can boost self confidence
and self compassion. If this feels difficult, think about what a loved one would say they
appreciate about you. Prompt number five, what is one thing in my daily routine
that I'm thankful for. Our routines can sometimes
feel monotonous and boring, but they also provide
stability and comfort. This prompt encourages
you to find gratitude in the small
predictable moments of your day, a morning walk, journaling, or a quiet moment before bed. Recognizing the value in
your routine can help you appreciate the structure
and rhythm of your life. If a routine feels dull, look for ways to make
it more meaningful, such as adding a
mindfulness element or sharing it with a loved one. Gratitude focused journaling is a simple but really
powerful tool for shifting your perspective
and cultivating happiness. By regularly reflecting
on what you appreciate, you train your mind to focus on abundance rather than lack. The key is to be consistent. Over time, this
practice can create lasting positive changes
in how you see the world.
Viktoria Nedelcheva, Feel Good Manager
