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1. Promo Video Of How To Overcome Imposter Syndrome Fast?: Welcome. My name is Regina Dubai, and this is the promo video
of my imposter course, which is about how to
overcome impostor syndrome. Because you have to know in some certain part in our life, all of us can develop one or two kinds of
imposter in our mind, help us not to achieve our goal. So it's very important
that first recognized, what are those six
types of imposters? Which one can see it
in your mind from that six main
category of impostor. And of course, I will tell
you how to manage them from your mind to be able to
achieve your goal faster, more efficient, and how
to be more productive. This imposter syndrome is not
sitting alone in your mind. You can have saved up, you can have fears. Starting your business or
completing your study. You can have a feeling
that you are not good enough to achieve
anything in your life. Your skills are not sharp enough to start your
business or anything, but you would like to
achieve in your life. So it's very important to give that imposter inside your mind, because when we free up the place in your
mind and you are not afraid from anything and your self-confidence
going higher, you will be able
to start anything, what you wish to start. You were planning to start
in your life before, mainly maybe years, but
you didn't start it today because you feel that
you're missing something. And in reality, you are
not missing anything. You just feel that
you are doubting. You are in your staff and the staff dog getting
your achievement. You do, You didn't start
your business, for example, because you have saved
all about if you can be a successful CEO or you can build up a new
company from scared. It's succeed. And because of you are
doubting inside you so much, That's why you cannot start a new business
or your own business, or you're not able
to apply for a job, for your dream job because
you feel your skills are not, not, not sharp enough, you don't know, or of course
you have to accept that. No any of us nor 110 per
cent everything in our life, every human being
are different and I have specialists
gears about something, and I do not have do a
specialist about something else. So when you find something
that you have skills, goods gears about that, just go and apply for the
job or write your book or develop your plan from your business for
your new business. I figured out how you can make your life better because
our life is amazing. You know, if you don't
have any self-doubt, your confidence in
the good lover, and you have the
expertise which you can, you can, you can use for
reaching more money, more financial freedom,
or more happiness, and more success in your life. Don't let yourself pulling back. You'll feel yourself though. You are, you are
shaking inside that. Oh my god, I want to, I wish to start this, but I can, this imposter keeps you in 0, the starting point, and
never, ever start com. Please enroll in this course. See first which type of
impasto you have in your mind. And follow my instructions
how you can vanish it in order to achieve
more in your life, proceed to your dreams,
reach your goal. The more confident,
more satisfied, and we're happy person for
the rest of your life. Thank you so much for watching
this introduction video. See you now in my course
and bye bye for now.
2. What Is Imposter Syndrome?: Welcome. My name is Reagan to Dubai. And discourse that can be about what is imposter syndrome. And what we can do. The meshing this imposter
syndrome from our mind. Because you know,
if you have this, you got this in
elementary stage, it will hold you back from productivity and to be more
successful in your life. So it's very important that you study from me in
this course, please. How you can deal with this
imposter syndrome if you recognize that you have in some level and how
you can overcome. And after that, how you
can study that threw, threw it out from your mind
for the rest of your life. Because this imposter
syndrome is not going alone in our mental
state, in the mind. Going together, which fears? So it's very important that
you don't have this anymore. So let's see, what does this imposter syndrome for us does give us a
feeling inside, in our mind and our spirit, our soar that we are not
good enough on something. What we want to
achieve in our life, because we want to reach 110 per cent in
perfection from there, what are the roots of
this imposter syndrome? Impostor syndrome can come from the pushing of our family. Because if we have
some family members, they feel that The whatever we do for them, it's not enough. We need to be more successful. We need to study more and give more result from our
school or in the work. Our boss is completely
perfectionist and he needs and wants we work, our work and you'll
notice over 100%, this can give us a feeling that, oh my God, whatever I do, I am not good enough because
I freeze some missing inside me because of that from my boss or from my father
or from my mother. If I'm a student, for example, if
you are a student, I'm happy that you are
firmly push you by force. Studying more rich,
more reservoir, develop your project more
faster and more higher level. And these people give you
around you the feeling that you don't get
100% for them. They want to reach
more from you. They want, you will
work more for them. They want you study
higher level. You must be excellent
in your study. And there is no, any
option for you that if you perform some subjects
less than 100 per cent or over 100%, they are not satisfied
with your resume. So this imposter syndrome
is very dangerous in our life if we have this level of this and through the family, through the very high level of pushing study more,
Bring me more. Give me more marks. Give me good comment. Give me excellent comment. Why you are not the
first or second student even stuck on student
in all entire school. It may be not enough for your
parents or family members, for your family members. And that's why you feel a lot of sadness inside and
fears developing so high level that you
are not able to make your things even an acceptable level
because you are mine. Developing this imposter
syndrome is that you have a feeling
that you feel you afraid so much from not to be good enough in any
area of your life. So please jump in this course
now and see what we can do to vanish this bad feelings
from your mind, your life. Thank you so much for
watching this video. See you in the next one now. Bye-bye.
3. What Kind Of Imposter Syndrome Can You Develop In Your Mind?: Welcome, My name is Reagan
and the topic of this video, what kind of imposter syndrome can you develop
inside your mind? There are six kinds
of imposter syndrome. So what you can
develop inside of your mind because you feel
that you are not good enough. And let's see, what
are your six type? You can be
perfectionist, superman, or superwoman, nature
genius, soloist, or experts. These are six works, most common type of
imposter syndrome. So let's now see what
does it mean? Von Bible? The perfection is the
first type of imposter. They never ever satisfied. They are never ever happy
with that result because they feel inside that
this was not good enough. They could do
something more better. And it's very dangerous
because this, this kind of person set incredibly high level of
goals for themselves. And then they fall to reach that goal was,
or those words, they experience
visual self-doubt and they worry about if they
did measure up or not. And in the evaluation
in their mind, they fear that they
didn't measure up for the task or
for that project, or for that study,
or for anything. But they had done, they feel like also that if
they want to do something, right, they need to
do it by themselves. They never delegate
any any work. They never asked any
has disturbed us, never ever leave them. So they cannot
improve that work. The quality of their work
for the maximum level. Because they, they feel that something was
missing by proceed. Something in the work are in the study or in any
area of their life. They never, ever happy with themselves and the result,
what they had done. How you can know if you have this perfectionist of
imposter syndrome. Ask yourself a question. Do you have problems
with delegating? And if you were even
able to delegate audio, always frustrating
and disappointed with the results all the time. Well, you can reach insanely
high result on something. You actually use yourself. How you can fix this
feeling inside you. Learn to see your mistakes as a natural part
of the process. Push yourself to act, take action before
you feel ready. Force yourself to start
your project business. You plan to do for many years. There will not be any
perfect time to start. The perfect time
is here and now. Even if it's not perfect, start going on the
way to proceed. And by the time you started, you will see that many it's
possible solution will come up in the way if you face the challenges
or problems. So don't be afraid to start, start in any way. Even the huge fear inside you started this
is the first step. Reach better life. Accept yourself, even
if you know that you or your work is
not 100% perfect. And started as soon as possible. I started here in
this day today. And right now, then you
are going on that way. You will see that challenges
oil is coming and you will be able to solve all of these challenges in many ways. So don't be afraid to start. Just jump into the workflow
and do your things. And if n is challenges coming up face with and think
about possible solution. Thank you so much for
watching this video and see you in the next
one where I complete the missing five different types of imposter syndrome.
Bye bye for now.
4. Who Are The Superman/Superwomen Imposters??: Welcome, My name is Rena, and the topic of this video, the next type of imposter, which is the superman
super woman in post-war. This type of impasto
are things that he has. He or she has to work overtime. More than 100% harder
and harder to measure up to their colleagues or classmate or in
front of the family. What they have deep inside
they feel insecure and this overload of the work or study or anything but
they need to complete, leads to mental health
problems inside their mind. And of course, relationship
problems or so because they, they feel that they
are not good enough. And this makes problem as the altitude changes and they develop this
imposter syndrome. If you would like to know
that if you get this, this kind of super-massive
black woman Imposter syndrome, ask these questions
from yourself. Do you stay over time
in your workplace, office even if you finished
every task of that day. Do you get free cold when
you are not working because you feel that the free
time is waste. This thing. And you're supposed to
go and work more and more and give up your hobbies, give up your creation because
you will need to work much more to be better
than, for example, Mr. John or your classmates, or you feel that you
don't measure up for the requirement or the
audio or teachers. You feel that I need to do more. I need to, need
to be there more. I need to work more. I need to study more because I want to be better than
this or that person. And I want to achieve
more results than this. And that person in
the work are in the study on any
area in your life. Are you working extra hard to prove in front of anybody or everybody in your work and in your study that you do
better than anybody else. And of course inside
you feel insecure because you feel that
it's not good enough yet. I need to make more. I need to achieve more. I need to be better
than anybody else hear this kind of
imposters working milliohm time over
because they are addicted to the
validation of their work, not to the work itself. How to overcome on this, if you feel or if you find it, now that you have this
problem inside of your mind, train yourself, that you go away from
external validation. Learn to take construction. It is professionally, not personally nurture
your inner confidence. That states that you are competent and skilled
person in your work, in your study or anything
as what you need to do. Don't push yourself in 1 thousand per cent because this affects
your relationship. This affect your personal life. And the healthy
balance in our life that we have some hours for work and our business
and our study, and things might
need to do was do we have some free time
which we enjoy our life? And if you feel that you
didn't enjoy your life since long time because you are
overload or study overload, or you want to have your
second diploma or something. Slow down a little bit
and try to share in your time inherently level
between the work and the duty, and between the enjoyment that you can have with
your family, friends, or even give you a gift some time for
yourself to enjoy your life, even if you are alone. It can be, you can do this
better than only work, work, work, work 110% of your
time because inside you, you will burn out in the end. And also you will not be satisfied and happy
with the results. However, what you can achieve. Thank you so much for watching this video and come
to the next one. Bye bye.
5. Who Is The Natural Genius Imposter?: Welcome back. My name is retina and
the topic of this video, the next type of imposter, which is the natural genius. Who are those natural genius? These people believe that they are naturally over everybody. They judge their competence, whereas the ease and speed as
opposite to their efforts. If they take long time
to master something They shamed in front of themselves and disappointed in the incest. They said there but
incredibly high that most of the time they
cannot reach their goals. And that's the feeling is
developing inside them. More and more disappointed
in themselves. They judge themselves
if they don't reach their goal or they are not
able to study something 100%. For the first time. They don't give themselves a
chance to repeat the study, or they blame themselves so high that it breaks
their self-confidence. And they get depression
more and more because they feel that they were not able to measure up for the task, for this study, for that
worker, for anything, what they need to do, they don't don't load them
staff to make mistakes. They don't allow themselves to be perfect for the
first, second, or even third time
when we are in a practicing stage in
something new in our life. As these questions, if you
would like to know that if you have this nature genius
imposter inside you, do You do not like getting experts on something
to help or guide you through a special
process because you believe you can handle
everything on your own. You avoid or life
challenges situation in which you don't feel comfortable because
you are not great at. Did your family that you, that you work or you are
a perfect excellent. Died all the time. How to pass on this the
bus on this mine Valley's. See yourself as a work in progress to achieve
great things in worst, lifelong study and skill
set building for all of us. So if you think that in the
first time I must be perfect. I do this and I am the best. There is no any, anybody
then can be better than me. Reduce the bar inside in your mind about yourself and
allowed to make mistakes. And if you even discovered that you have done some mistakes for gift to your
staff and correct your mistakes and study
from your mistakes. In this way, you will have more acceptance for
yourself and you will not punish and self doubting
about yourself all the time. Yes, we are humans. We make mistakes. Yes. We study most of the time from our mistakes of there
we recognize that, Oh, I need something
and it's not okay. Think about possible a
solution of that part of that mistakes corrected
according what you'll find, how it can be better
and just keep going. Don't punish yourself,
don't hurt yourself, and don't doubt
always on yourself and don't move down this
yourself confidence because you need to study how to be more confident
and you will need to load your staff to accept yourself as beautiful
human being you are. Thank you so much for watching this video and see you
now in the next one. Bye bye.
6. Who Is The Soloist Imposter?: Welcome back. My
name is Maggie, not. The topic of the video is
the next type of imposter, which is the soloist. This type of people are
loving to be alone, the loving to be independent, and they refuse to
accept assistant. So they can prove to themselves that they are excellent alone. Why is that? Because if you don't ask cab or you don't don't
accept any assistance, you cannot develop yourself
by study from others. So if you, you think
or if you are not sure that if you have this
kind of impasto inside, you, ask these questions
from yourself. Now, we'll decide in what
situation in your life that you can accomplish things
alone on your own. You don't need any assistance. You don't need any
help, You don't need. Others will be around you, help you or level of
something together. You'll freak out when you
need to work with others. Do you say that you don't need anybody's help in anything? Recognize there is no shame in asking for help
when you need it. If you don't know how to do something or score
workers for example, or osteoarthritis or
ask family members and friends and recognize
that the people who are not there around
you for judging your platform as the people
are around you to help you. With those halves, you
can reach higher level. Your performance and
productivity can go higher. Because if we are
working as a team, we have super mind. Many people put their mind power together to accomplish
digger, wasp. So don't be afraid to share
your ideas with others. And if you stuck in
1 in your journey, anytime in any kind of journey, scared as professionals or
someone who you think may be, or maybe he or she can
give you good advice. How you can keep
going faster and more efficient in the
way how you started. It's very important. Don't refuse, or there's
synergize in the work or ask a better student in the
class if you don't know mats or if you don't know something or ask your
teachers or health, because with this little
poster from others, you can reach higher, define a result,
but you reach the, the help of others. Thank you so much for
watching this video. Please come to the next one. Bye Bye for now.
7. Who Is The Expert Imposter?: Welcome back. My name is oregano and
the topic of this video, the next imposter, what you can have in your
mind, the expert. This expert measures
up his competence about what and how much he
or she knows or can do. He or she believed that he
never, ever know enough. And the fear what
these people have, It's like the afraid about that somebody measure
them up and they can not measure up to be honest because they fear that
point that if they, if somebody S binding In experienced or on
knowledge able, if you think that maybe, or maybe you'll have this
imposter inside, you. Ask yourself the
following question to find out if you
have it or not. Are you always shy away from grid opportunities
because you think that your current integration is
not enough to get the job? Or are you always looking
for new certificates and new study so that you sharpen your skills much
more than others. And till you finish that study
and get your certificate, you will even not able to apply for the job or
opportunity because you feel that you are not good enough and not yet
good enough for that. Specialized things,
what you would like to do and you
would like to apply. Because if you have
this feeling inside you that your current
education is not enough, you will most likely going
to the next and the next and the next scores and finishing and getting more and
more certificates. Eventually much more
certificates you are collecting then that job or that
special thing needing. If you get some
positive feedback about your work or expertise, as someone say about yourself, it to you that congratulation, you really became an expert. What kind of feelings give
this positive feedback to you? Are you happy or are you shy? You feel that it's not true that all embarrassed
because this person said to me that I am an x-bar. Because if you feel this
feeling inside you, most likely it can
happen that you have this expert in
Boston, in your mind. How to vanish it, how to finish it, how to get rid of Rome, it start practicing
Just in Time Learning. It means that when
you have a workout or device you love and you are circumstances in the
work changes and you need and the boss or the company require from you to
get a new skill in that time go and study
according to the requirement. But if there is no
any new requirement, you don't need to add one more and more courses and collect more and
more certificates. Because you don't need that. You are already experts. Accept yourself as an expert and how you accept
yourself as an expert. Tried to mentor
someone who know less in that company or
in your business, what you are doing by
yourself, for example. And recognize that, Oh, I know much more than that person and he's
studying for me. And this is a great
feeling in this way. You are self-confident,
going to be higher. You will trust on yourself much more and the same time you are self-doubt will be vanishing because you will accept that. Yes, I read the expert level. I deserve to call an expert. I am that I am not
begging her anymore. I am not a student anymore. I don't need more certificate
to prove to my staff. And the word that I
need to study more and sharpen my
skills about here. I am already on
experts and be happy. And oxygen in your
mind as yes, you are. Thank you so much for watching this video and see you
now in the next one. Bye Bye for now.
8. What To Do If Imposter Syndrome Hits You While You Are Creating Your First Online Course?: Welcome back. My name is oregano and
the topic of this video, what to do if in any kind of
imposter syndrome heat you, then you will decide that you want to make your
first online course. As my own experience, I can recommend you that you are in the starting point
of that journey. Write the script. Because when you write
the script first time, then you finish that writing. Read it, read it loud in
front of your mirror, and see yourself also by reading as much as you can
that how you behave, how your face look like, how confident are you that
you are talking about the topic and that script
you have written before. If you feel that it's
not good enough, it's not sure that this is an impostor syndrome
because, you know, first time, second, third, and even ten time talking loudly about subject
which you have, for example, I never
have been talking about. It's a little bit
hard, can be hard. And then you are
practicing that script. You will recognize that you remember on the topic
from your mind. That's the age. Put down your paper
and start to talk about freely in front of
your webcam or telephone. And when you finish
the recording, seed, how it looks like how
you were talking, how many confidence you
show about the topic, but you have been
talking about this. You still feel it's not
okay, I'm not good enough. Delete it and record it again. You are practicing this point of producing your
first online course. You will be better and
better and better. In this way, you will
gain more confidence and yourself duct will be going
less and less time less. You will lose your
SAFT doctrine. You feel that, oh, I am able to talk
about this topic from my mind without any help
or without notes fluently. And that point,
you will fear most likely that you are ready
to produce that video. Furthermore, adjust
the light and maybe delete if you had
any background noisy. And after that you
will be very satisfied because your first video
going to be ready. But you know,
without practicing, if you think about
yourself and I will tell this for
the first time. And I am so super woman that I can talk fluently
about the topic. Most likely it's not coming. You know, even the
professional actors or actresses in any kind
of filled it in our life. And they producing film port
or anything, they practice, they make mistakes, they mix the sentence or
phrase is not okay. They got the heart of the film, the recording, and record it
again and again and again. They feel that it's okay. This is a tango in
front of the word. And in our case, while we are small, the Aggie nurse or so
this is the same? Yes. Because if I am not able to talk fluently and maybe I have some notes and watch my notes and suddenly I don't
know what to do, but to say how to behave, or I have to stop the video
because I don't have, for example, a fluent sentence is not coming out from my mouth. Anything. I need to practice more. And after that, I need to edit that video
that got out there, the wrong part and repeat
again editing the good parts. And in this way, my video
link there'll be ready. So think about and practice and don't judge yourself or punish yourself if it's
not coming well, the first few times. And you're going to be
better and better by the time you are
practicing more and more. Thank you so much for watching this video and see
you in the next one. Bye.
9. Class Project : Welcome, My name is regional and the topic of this
video, our class project. I want you to get the
paper and the pen. Please go back on the scores for the six videos where I was talking about that six
kind of imposters, what you can have
in your mind as those special questions which
belongs to that imposter in that video and figured out which embossed or you have write it
down on that paper please. And after that, apply
that technique, what I was talking about, how you can manage that in
Boston or from your mind. And please write
down on the paper your feelings and
your success story. How could you think indifferently after you
applied my technique? And how did you
feel differently? How did you vanish that
impulse to affirm your mind? And how do you feel now when you don't have that
in postwar anymore? What was the way that you
are thinking we're changing? After you apply that technique, please share your
feelings and everything. What you would
like to share with our community here
in Skillshare. Once you finish your
list on that paper, please upload it
if you would like, in our suits this year. Project gallery so
that others can see, how did you succeed? What was your, what was your, what you are thinking? Because they can study
through your experience, that they are not alone. They don't need to be shy, and they also can vanish that
imposters if they have one. Thank you so much for
watching this video. See you in the next time. Bye-bye.
10. Final Thoughts: Welcome back. My name is Anna, and the topic of this course. My final salts. Thank you so much
for coming so far. And watch all the videos
belongs to this course. I hope you find. Finally, if you have
any kind of imposter inside you and now you have the knowledge from
me how to vanish. Vanish it from your mind
to be more happier, to have more self-confident
and killing yourself, go inside you and fears belong or related to your
work or study or any, any area in your life. Because you know, if you
are fearless and you, your confidence in enough lever, you can start anything new. You can study, anything new, you can accomplish
more in your life. You can be more
productive in your life. You can write your book or
you can start your business. Or you can go to university
in more confident. Or you can do your exams
from languages or anything. But you, you wish to reach, you wish to achieve
in your life, because there's
imposter syndrome and the fair and
disturbed of killing. Our wish to get better life
to reach more high level, what success or more, more things which we wish. I wish I have nice company which is working very
well and I am a CEO, and this would make me
so happy and satisfied. But if I have said though, about how I can lead
this company or how I can build up and I
have no enough skills. And I doubt it myself always probably I will never
ever start at things. I will never ever
start my own business. So it's very
important to vanish, that you vanish distinct
out first from your mind and start to step on the
way of taking actions. Even an octet, even if your action is imperfect
in the first time, complete as much as you can. And if you see you
need help, us. Help without shame
because there's gonna be people which
have been on that way. They know how to solve this
or that which you which gives you the feeling
that you stuck and you cannot go further. Yes, you can go Fernet always, you can go further if you are strong enough inside you and you'll feel enough confidence
to complete the next task, the next step, which
you need to be completed in order
to reach your goal, your dream, you or anything, but you reach, reach and
accomplish in your life. In order to help you more, I would like to inform you
that here in Skillshare, I have done many courses about in self help, self
development niche. And if you would
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and develop your knowledge, transform your
butt, your mind in order to reach
better life later, starting from as
soon as possible. Thank you so much to
accept me as a teacher. Thank you so much for being here and watching this course. And hopefully we need, and I see you in my next
course is here in Skillshare. Thank you so much for
watching this video. I wish you the best. Bye-bye for now. See you in my next course.