Growth Mindset Mastery: The Secret to Unlimited Success

1. Introduction: Welcome to Growth Mindset Mastery!: Hello and welcome to Growth Mindset Mastery, the powerful secret to unlimited success. I'm your teacher, Juliette Piper. I'll tell you a bit more about myself in the next couple of slides. But first and foremost, I am so excited that you are here and you are taking this course. This course is small and it is mighty. It contains the secret that all successful people know. And there's going to be something in this course that causes a massive ah ha moment. A big breakthrough, whether you are in arts or entrepreneurship like me, or there's any other field that you want to achieve and be successful in this course is for you. There is no gate keeping. There is no upselling. I'm putting everything into this course and I am so excited to share it with you. So here's what we're going to cover inside growth mindset mastery. Module one is about next level clarity and we're going to figure out what success means to you, okay? I imagine right now all of us watching this have this feeling in our hearts of I just want to be successful. I want to be successful. Who doesn't want that, right? It's a very noble and valid desire, but we need to figure out what that truly looks like for you on an individual level, not what it looks like for anybody around us, what we think it's supposed to look like. We're going to dive into next level, clarity. And once we do, the whole world is going to open up. Okay, in module two, we're going to figure out what is driving you and we're going to root into your Y. These first two modules are going to require you to do some big inner work and some big inner discovery. And you're going to find at the end of these two modules that you're going to have a foundation on which to build your success. You're going to have the motivation. You're going to have the gas that's driving your car forward, and you're going to have the GPS directing you where you want to go. Because right now it's possible that you might feel like you're turning your wheels in circles or you're sitting in a car idly on the side of the road. And I felt like that for a very, very long time in my life. And I feel like it is my heartfelt mission, amongst other topics, to help people move past feeling stuck. Okay, so we're going to get you there. In module three, we're going to talk about what is stopping you. Okay? We all have a belief in our hearts and in our minds of what is blocking us. And we're going to do some really intense limiting, belief crushing work. I had never heard of this until a few years ago. And the way that my life has transformed since discovering what a limiting belief is and how we can rise above it and alchemize it into an incredibly inspiring affirmation. I'm throwing some words that maybe you're not used to, okay? Or maybe you're like, I've heard these words 1 million times. I still invite you to lean in because I may present it in a way that you've not heard it before. And it's going to click in module four, we're going to transform a fixed mindset into a growth mindset, which is arguably the most important secret to success. I'm going to explain what that means and I'm going to teach you exactly how to do it. You're going to know you're going to be a pro. Okay. Then in module five, we're going to learn how to go from fear of failure to courage and resilience. How many of us know somebody, or maybe we're this person who is so afraid to move that we don't even try. We're so afraid to fail. We're so afraid to be judged. We're so afraid to be criticized. We're so afraid of like the embarrassment, which is very human and very normal. There's nothing wrong with feeling this way. But it's those people who are courageous and who are resilient and who go for it and who stand up again and again that land on the success that they're after. We're going to talk all about that and help you integrate that into your body. Even if you've never felt like a courageous person before, I'm going to show you how it's done. Then we're going to talk about creating a supportive environment. You can have all of these things set up perfectly, modules one through five, if the environment that surrounds you is not supportive. And I'll tell you exactly what I mean by supportive. You're going to find yourself taking a step forward and two steps back, over, and over, and over and over again. I cannot wait to dive into that topic with you and talk about exactly how you can make an environment support you so that you can thrive. Module seven, Vision Boards, Visualization and meditation. Okay, there are different ways to approach success. Some people say there's a masculine approach. Some people say there's a feminine approach. You can say the light, the dark, the inner world, the outer world. Whatever you want to call it. But module seven really leans into the inner world, and perhaps some might call it the feminine world. Where we get into our emotions and we get into our feelings and we work a little magic together. And I love this module. This module contains tools that completely transformed my life. Then module eight is more of that energetic work. Okay, because we're learning how to take big action. We're learning how to be brave. We're learning how to be courageous. We're figuring out what we want and who we want to be and all these amazing things. We're transforming a fixed mindset into a growth mindset. But how do we hold that energy long term? How do we embody that successful person? Years to come so that you don't just see this course. Take this course, feel good for a week and then you're back where you started, okay? I want you to have the understanding of how to embody this feeling and take it with you for life. So that even when there are disappointments where things don't go as planned, because that's life, and the path to success is not often a straight line. I want you to know that you can embody this successful feeling no matter what long term, how good does this all sound? I'm so excited. So I'm going to tell you a little bit about me. If you've never heard of me before, I have a very colorful past and I'm excited to talk about it. So again, my name is Juliet. I am a certified life coach and a teacher and mentor with experience working with hundreds of happy clients all around the world. So I'm recording this in 2023 and I've worked with over 800 students and clients. People who have experienced massive breakthroughs and have transformed their lives. And it's just such a joy and I love that I get to do this for you. Okay, Being in this course, it's going to feel very personal. It's going to feel like we're on a zoom call. And no matter at what point, what time, how many years down the road you watch this course, it is going to be relevant. The teachings and the tools in this course are timeless. And the love and the support and the genuine encouragement that you're going to feel for me is also timeless and infinite. I'm the author of the book, Courageously Creative. I'm so proud of this book. If you are an artist, an aspiring artist, or you are somebody who feels like your creativity gets pushed to the side. This book is for you. I've hosted empowering retreats in the US and even in Bali that was amazing. I've been the co host of a top charted podcast. I'm a musician, I'm a composer for a Sesame street. I've had my songs placed on HBO, MTV, PBS kids. There's more credits here. I'm a singer songwriter. I've got original music that's been on major radio. I've played mainstage at festivals. I have a really interesting broad life. I love teaching and I love creativity, and I love to hang out at the crossroads of like art and magic, or art and entrepreneurship, or art and success. So that's where I come from. Okay. I've got a really colorful home. My whole family's musical, entrepreneurial, and I just have such a love for what I do. I want to talk to you. We're here to talk about success, and we're here to talk about growth, okay? Three years ago I was living at home. I was earning below the poverty line. I was working, I was running around. This is probably more like five years ago. I was running around. I was a preschool teacher. Then I would drive and I would go be a nanny. Then the next day I would go back to teaching, Then I would drive somewhere else and go be an assistant. I was so tired, so exhausted, so burned out. I was a child who achieved really big in school. Maybe you can relate. Maybe you're somebody who was like a high achiever in school. And then you've got into the real world and you felt like it knocked you on your butt. That was my experience. That's why it means the world to me to be able to teach this. Okay. I am now a full time creative entrepreneur. I do what lights up my heart on a daily basis. I feel deeply fulfilled. I feel totally in my purpose and I am really successful. I'm really successful. I'm out living in my dream home with my fiance. I met the love of my life. We're getting married soon. Things are going great. I cannot keep this all to myself. If you're ready, let's dive in to module one. 2. Next Level Clarity: What Does Success Mean to You?: All right, let's dive into module one. Next level, clarity. What does success mean to you? It's a big question. Okay. The truth about success, what is success? It is different for every single person. It is completely subjective, okay? One person's success is another person's nightmare. Somebody's success might be living on a farm and somebody else is like whoa, right? We all value different things, lifestyles, experiences your success, and my success might look completely different. Ultimately, when we say success, we're saying we want to feel happy and fulfilled. That is how I feel. And I know that that is rare. And there are people out there that earn more than me or who are more popular or famous than me, right? But I am measuring success by do you wake up and feel happy and fulfilled every day? Are you in your purpose, are you feeling like you're achieving things? Does your life and your vision board look pretty similar? When we say I want to be successful, we are actually being incredibly vague. Okay. Raise your hand if you've been guilty of that, like I just want to be successful. I did it for yes, I did it for years. I didn't have a roadmap. I didn't have a plan. If that's where you are, you're in the right place. Okay. That is just perfect. That is just fine. Life, The universe, our subconscious mind does not know what to do with that, the word success, our brain, the world, However you like to view life and how it works. It doesn't know what to do with that. It's like a boss telling the employees, let's have the best year ever. But not laying out what those goals are, what that actually means, what milestones, what things we're trying to hit. Right? Wouldn't you be confused? You'd be so confused. You'd be like, I don't know what I'm supposed to do You just said like, let's be successful. If we keep talking about wanting to be successful without giving ourselves any clear direction, we may find ourselves living the same year over and over on repeat. I have been there, I have absolutely been there. Getting crystal clear. What we need is clarity and specificity on our deepest desires. And if you feel like you already know, this is an invitation to dig deeper and an invitation to tease it out even more and see if there's more truth to be uncovered. I want you to grab a journal. It is time to ask yourself the following questions. Okay, we're going to figure out what success actually means to you. So I'm going to read through the questions. Feel free to pause this video and jot down your answers. I cannot recommend journaling enough. You might want to skip over this. I'm begging you. Grab a journal, grab a notebook, and do this work. This is where your breakthroughs are going to happen. First question is, how do I want to feel on a daily basis? How do I want to feel? Your feelings are a part of your level of success and happiness. Where do I want to live? What type of city? What type of residence? How many bedrooms? How much land? My idea of success, I grew up in Los Angeles is having like a big backyard because that, to me, is such a rarity. If you live in the Midwest or you live in other parts of the world, you're like, we have 12 acres. That's not success, right? We all see success differently. Where do you want to live? What career would I like to thrive in? How much money would I like to earn each month or year? I want you to be very honest as you answer these questions. Be so honest with yourself. How do I want to spend my free time? What am I doing for fun and enjoyment? How am I taking care of my health? How am I nurturing my spiritual connection if that is important to you? If it is not skip right over that. What does my dream day look like in as much detail as possible? That's where you can have fun and really imagine. I open my eyes and then this happens and then I do this and I feel like this, and I meet up with this person and I wear this. What is your dream day? If a magic genius showed up and granted you unlimited wishes, what would you wish for specifically? Because if you say, I want money and success, they might give you three pennies and say, well, there's some money, right? We need to get crystal clear with ourselves and with life. This is where we begin to create a blueprint. The answer to these questions that you just answered will help you create a blueprint or a roadmap to your most authentically successful life. I do not want you chasing what you see in the media as successful, unless that is genuinely something you want. I've got to drive what is it called, the Rolls Royce? If that's success to you, own it and claim it. But if you're like, I actually want three horses. What is success to you? Let's create this blueprint. It is important that you answer these questions honestly. If everything was possible and no one could judge you, what would you desire? We are so afraid to speak our own desires into existence because we think we're going to sound foolish. Someone's going to roll their eyes and be like, that's not possible. We may feel like we don't deserve it. Right? All these things come up. But I want you to imagine that you're writing this letter to me saying these are the things that I unapologetically want. I will never judge a single one of your desires. Okay, I believe in you so much as you reflect on your journal prompts, start narrowing in on the things you can do now where you are with what you have to tap into those specific desires and feelings. People skip this. They're like, oh, I don't have X amount of income, so I'm not even going to treat myself to lighting the nice candle. It's just so funny. We're like, oh, luxury is over there. Pleasure is over there. Joy is over there. But there's so much in front of us. Okay. If you want to live in a big luxurious home, for instance, maybe you're not there yet, but can you take walks in those neighborhoods? Can you do some journaling at a coffee shop that is located in those neighborhoods? Can you make your home or your bedroom or the side of the room, your dorm bed, the room that you share with three siblings? Whatever your situation is, can you make your space feel as luxurious as possible? This is about getting in the energy because I've learned that our energy comes first and then life follows. Believing, then seeing. We believe we are successful, we believe we are abundant, we believe we are luxurious, and we start making little adjustments with what we have, where we can and life follows. This is a big step to success. Get really specific with your blueprint then as you reflect, how can I start bringing those things into my life? Now, if one of your things was, I want a personal trainer seven days a week, could you join a gym for $19 a month and just take yourself to the gym? Could you go take a walk? Like what can you do with what you have, where you're at? That has been transformational for me. If you're not sure what you want, I'm sure some of you are like Juliet. I don't know yet. I don't know yet. That's okay. I want you to express gratitude that your clarity is on the way to you right now. It's coming. It's coming. It's the clarity is on the way. It's undeniable. Sometimes knowing what you definitely don't want will help you determine what you do want. What we don't like is a great roadmap for what we do. Like for instance, I definitely don't want to work 50 plus hours a week. I have done that. I don't want to do that anymore. I definitely don't want to live far away from my family. That's a deal breaker for me personally. Right. We all have our things, we all have our deal breakers. Figure out what you don't want. Another tool you can use if you're like, I'm not quite sure what my desires are. Use jealousy. When you feel jealousy, it is actually the greatest gift. It is a neutral indicator of what you desire. It points exactly at what you want. Notice where jealousy comes up for you and ask yourself what messages it brings. I know exactly where it comes up for me. Okay? It's a very human, normal emotion. We have been taught to repress it and feel shame around it. It is okay to feel jealous. It is okay. I'll be like, oh, I'm noticing, I'm feeling jealous. What's the message here? I want to get back on the stage. Oh, I'm feeling jealous. What is it? Oh, I want to put myself out there more and then I go, oh, thank you. Thank you for the message. Right. Reframe your jealousy because we're humans. We're here, we're human. It happens, look to your childhood for clues. What did you love or fantasize about as a kid? Okay, for me, I would come home from school and I would set up the living room. And I would play school I wanted to teach, my dad would sit down and I would teach him everything I learned that day, and he was such a good sport. Sometimes I would assign him homework and he would do it. He's always been wildly supportive of everything I want to do. The other thing was, once school was done, I would have dinner, and then I would put on a big show. I wanted to sing, I wanted to dance. That's all I dreamt about. It's what I do now on a day to day basis, right? Look to your childhood. What did you love? What did you love? And remember that your success does not have to be tied to a career or a job title. Success for you might be working a job that's great, and when you clock out, you clock out. Then you go hiking four days a week. Or you go free diving or you go horseback riding, Like success gets to look different for all of us. I really want to empower you an affirmation. You can say aloud for clarity anytime you're feeling fuzzy is every day I get closer and closer to figuring out what I desire and what would make me feel most fulfilled. It is. We're going to talk briefly about the ego versus the higher self, okay? It's a lot of words that go around for essentially the same thing. The mind versus the observer. The ego versus the higher self. Little versus big. Logic versus intuition. Use your favorite. Doesn't matter to me. Let your higher self guide you as you map out and call in your success. Your higher self wants what will lead you to your greatest fulfillment and purpose. Possibilities, expansion, abundance, miracles. This is not like fluff. Okay, I felt an eye roll out there in the universe, somewhere in time. It's not fluffy. The thing that you desire is the thing you came here to do. There's a reason you're magnetized towards it, right? And then there's this other voice, this little voice that's going that would be too hard. That would take too long. That is not logical. The time will pass anyway. You can do hard things. I want you to choose success for you. The ego, like I just did, this little voice is restricted. It's full of limitations. It has excuses. And it wants to keep you exactly where you are as you go on your success journey. It's really important that you learn the difference between these two voices. And that you make a conscious decision on which voice you will ultimately listen to. Because our brains are going to do their thing, Our brain is going to tell us why something won't work and why it's a bad idea and everybody's going to hate it, and Denver checked does. This is what our brain does. It's about how we move forward that matters. As you did, your journal prompts a couple slides back. A lot of the information coming forward was from your highest self. When you started to feel constricted like something wasn't possible, that was your ego stepping in. We're going to revisit this throughout the course. It's just really important to just get like a little context of it right now. To summarize, get clear on what success specifically means to your unique life. I do not want a group of alumni coming out of this course with carbon copy lives. Success means something different to all of us. Pinpoint your unique desires fully and without holding back. This is not the place to dream small, brainstorm ways, you can creatively begin tapping into those dreams now, okay, there is a way where you are with what you have to do it. If you have a phone, a laptop, Wi Fi, there is some way, at minimum, that you can start tapping into it. If you're dreaming of living by the ocean, can you play ocean waves on your phone? Right. If you want to take a dance class, If you want to be a dancer, can you pull up dance videos on Youtube and start learning? Like there's something you can do now even if the beachfront home is not in the budget yet or the membership to the dance company is not in the budget yet yet. Okay, start getting in the energy trust that deeper clarity will come. And use jealousy and childhood dreams as clues and tune into the guidance of your higher self trust, your intuition. It is leading you in the right direction. I will see you in module two. 3. What's Driving You? Rooting into your "Why": Welcome back. It is time to dive right into module two. What's driving you, rooting into Y? This is only a couple of slides, but it's huge. Okay, buckle up. Here we go. Tapping into your deeper reason, rooting into why you desire success, provides a deeper reason to keep going, even when challenges arise. And I'm a very positive and optimistic and hopeful person, challenges will come up in our lives. They will. I don't know anybody whose life is free of challenges. But you need your deeper reason to be so abundantly clear so that you can stay grounded and motivated and feel encouraged to keep going. What is driving you? What can you always return to as your home base On days where things get really hard and things hit a snag, A deeper reason also holds us accountable, okay? Because if we're going to walk this path of success, and we're going to step into this growth mindset. We're not trying to do it, we're doing it. We're going there, it's happening. It's a decision. And we need to know what's driving us. Okay, here are some things. Your reason does not have to be profound. It is whatever feels aligned to you. There's no good or bad reason why do you want your desires? What will your unique blueprint of success bring you? What is the payoff to keep moving forward, even when it feels like it's not working? Because I'll tell you there are days when it feels like it's not working. But I have to believe that it is. I have to answer this, Fill in the blank. Okay? I want blank because blank, For the sake of this example, you might say, I want a successful six to seven figure a year business. Because it will provide me or my family with so much freedom and abundance. It will bring me or my family security and peace of mind. It will add new levels of excitement and fun to my life. It will allow me to feel deeply fulfilled and lit up in my purpose, doing what I know I came here to do. I want it because I want to be the first person in my family to do this. I want it because I want to inspire others, or I want to change the world. Or I want it because I want it. I want it because the desire is just that undeniably big. And I want to see that it's possible. See if any of those jump out to you if they don't go inward. And figure out why do you want the success that you listed out? Why do you want this ultimate dream? Why are you asking the genie, our metaphorical genie, for those wishes? This is going to be what keeps your feet planted in the Earth when you're simultaneously reaching for the stars and trying and falling, and getting back up, and being resilient and trying again, and succeeding and winning and tapping into your deeper reason. Meditate on your unique, deeper reasons. What do you have to gain? This is a big question. What do you have to gain by being the person who bravely goes for their desires and pursues their most successful life? What do you have to gain? What's on the other side of all of this? Alternatively, what will you never get to experience if things stay exactly as they are? If you don't have a roadmap, if you don't have a blueprint, if you don't have a direction and you also don't have a reason or a purpose, a year from now, two years from now, three years from now, It's all going to blur together. It's going to look the same every time you feel like giving up. Which we all get there sometimes. Okay? You're going to return to your deeper reason. You're going to remember why you began this journey at the start. This is the whole module. Okay, This is about you having a discovery. What is why? What is it? Take the time, do some journaling, do some meditating, figure out what is driving you, and I will see you in module three. 4. What's Stopping You? Limiting Belief Crusher: Welcome back. We are moving right along into Module three. What's stopping you? This is your limiting belief crusher. We all believe there is something that's stopping us, and we're going to get down to what that is. We're going to crush it. It's going to be great. This module will change your life. What's stopping you? I need you to grab that journal again, grab that notebook, and I want you to finish these sentences. I want to be successful, but I can't because blank. I can't be successful because blank. Think specifically to your version of success. I can't have this house or this career or this type of relationship or whatever it is. I can't have this, I can't experience success because this. I remember the first time I did this, It changed my life. I was convinced that I wasn't connected enough. I can't be successful in the music industry because I am not connected enough. I'm just simply not connected enough. I told myself that story for ten years. The truth was, I had a lot of great connections and I was not empowering myself to make new ones. Once I did the work that I'm going to share with you, Oh my gosh, I'm a composer for Sesame Street. I'm getting my songs on these big TV shows. I made the connections. I decided I was a connected person. I went out and I put myself out there and it just like the second the decision happened. The action followed. This is going to be great. Be honest with yourself. Answer these questions. I can't be successful because blank. We're going to talk about a fact versus a limiting belief. I talked about this phrase of I'm not connected enough. I believed that to be a fact. You couldn't change my mind. That was just true for me. That was the truth as true as anything else. When I first learned that I was holding myself back with limiting beliefs, it blew my mind, and I had a major breakthrough. Obviously, I'm thrilled that we're here doing this together. A fact is something that is true for everybody. I tried to come up with some facts that we couldn't argue. A blue whale lives in the ocean. That is a fact. The force of gravity makes the apple fall when I drop it. Christmas, at least where I live is on December 25. Facts are certain fixed information. I want you to notice how a fact feels when I share it. It's neutral, it's informative. We're not changing it. We're not seeing it disproven, and there's it's not up for debate. A blue whale lives in the ocean. We are not getting that thing into an aquarium. That would be so cruel. Let's agree, that is a fact. When we say a fact and we hear a fact and we feel in our body, it doesn't feel like anything. A limiting belief, however, is something that we feel and we believe so deep down in us is a fact, but it actually isn't. It usually answers the question, what is stopping me from being successful? These are going to feel like facts. We've our brain has tricked us into thinking these are facts, but they are not. They are not the ultimate truth. Things like. I'm too old to start. I'm too young to start. I don't have enough experience. Some people say, I'm over qualified. I'll never be successful. I'm not talented enough, I'll never be a great leader, I'll never be able to afford a blank. Whatever it is, it is not possible for me, somebody like me, somebody who grew up where I grew up, somebody with a family like mine, Be honest, how many times have you said something like this to yourself. I want you to know that as I teach this, I'm well aware of the abundance of privileges I've had in my life. Even with those privileges, I still believed a lot of limiting beliefs. What are the stories that you tell yourself that have maybe even been passed down that feel so true, but we're going to disprove them in just a second, okay? I'm too blank, I'm too shy, I'm too quiet. I'm too disorganized. I'll never be blank, I'll never be a good speaker or a good teacher, or I'll never be comfortable up on a stage, whatever it is. I'm not the person who. See how these things all feel like facts. Because we've said them to ourselves so many times. However, they are actually limiting beliefs. These beliefs keep us frozen in place. Think about it. If I'm telling myself the fact, I am too old, I am too old to be on a magazine. I am too old to keep pursuing my music. I'm 32 as I record this right now. What if I told myself, I'm too old, I'm too old, I too old? If I really believe that, even though it's not ultimately true, and there are people older than me starting music careers and doing big amazing things every day, why would I even bother trying? If I believe, I'll never earn six figures, I'll never earn seven figures. I might as well stay where I'm unhappy. Because if that's just a fact, why would I take a risk? Why would I even take a course like this? The fact that you're even here on this slide with me means that you know in your heart you're meant for more. If I'm not the person who can sing, why would I take lessons? So many skills, so many things that we can learn and improve on over time, we just talk ourselves out of. But here's the kicker. This is what's going to set you apart moving forward. Successful people know how to identify a limiting belief and realize it's not the ultimate truth. If I had a limiting belief that I did not work past, I would still be earning below the poverty line. I would still be living with my parents in a room, That was, I kid you not the least private room you could have ever imagined. There was a glass door leading into my sister's room, and I think I was 29. I lived in this room until I was 29. There was a glass door leading into the living room. There was a huge window into the backyard where there were always people walking around. There was a glass door into the back yard. I felt like I was in a fish bowl and I felt like I could never get out of it. I did also live in a safe loving happy home. I'm not trying to complain about it, but I knew I wanted more. I wanted something different, and I want you to own the fact that you want something more and you want something different and it is okay to feel that way. It's actually a beautiful thing to trust in your desires. Successful people know how to identify a limiting belief and realize it's not the ultimate truth. Something may feel true for you for years or even decades when it really isn't, objectively, it's not true. It's not the blue whale living in the ocean. Here's how to identify a limiting belief. The first indicator is any thought, I meant to write thought, that doesn't feel good. If when you say it, you feel restricted, you feel hopeless, you feel stuck in place, I can't be successful because blank. If that thought makes you go, makes you feel small and tight, it's a limiting belief. The second indicator is, ask yourself, is this ultimately true? Is it ultimately true that you'll never be a millionaire? Is it the law? Is it written in the sky? Is it as factual? I really love this whale example. I'm sorry. Is it as factual as the law of gravity? The third indicator is, ask yourself, has anybody done it before? Can you name one person? Maybe it's a celebrity. Can you name one person who has achieved it at the same age or with similar circumstances or beginnings or even more difficult circumstances? Has anyone done it? Has anybody become a millionaire? Has anybody launched their own business, and it succeeded? Has anybody made it in the art world? If the answer is no, if you're like, really, there's nobody who's done this? It could be because you're meant to be the first. I heard something recently that I loved. It said Stop looking for proof and create your own. I love that. I love that in some ways, I feel like I do that, in some ways, I feel like I can't find somebody who does exactly what I do, and what I envision. So go through those thoughts and say, I this a fact or is it a limiting belief? When a thought comes into your mind, you're going to now move through this. I do this on a daily basis. I will have a thought. Sometimes, again, we have human brains, sometimes a not too nice thought floats by or a restricting thought floats by, and we say, how does this feel? That didn't feel great. That didn't feel great. Is it ultimately true? Is it ultimately true that I'll never do this or I'll never have this or I'll never achieve this? No, I guess it isn't. Has anybody done it? Actually, yeah, I did read an article and then Poof. It's not a fact anymore. The three questions that I want you to ask yourself over and over and you'll be able to go through this process. You might have to start by journaling through it. But you get in this habit. You'll be able to go through it in your mind in 12 seconds and move on with your day and pursue the greatness that you wish to pursue. This is the table example. This is great. When I got certified in life coaching, this was the big exercise. I want to share it with you. It takes a minimum of three legs to hold up a table. I want you to imagine that your your limiting belief is at the top of that table. Here we have I can't be successful. Each leg represents a piece of evidence. You might want to draw this out if that helps you, right? Something like I'm too old, I'm too shy? I have bad luck. These are all beliefs that are holding up this big belief of, I can't have this? I can't be this. Our job is to hammer off these legs so that the table tips over. We're going to basically remove the evidence that you cannot be successful. I want you to look at each piece of this table. Is it ultimately true? Has anyone ever done it and can you disprove the evidence? How do these things feel, as you say them to yourself? Then I want you to build new belief tables with new empowering pieces of evidence? This is neuroplasticity in action. This is our brain bending and changing and learning, our whole lives. Our brains can learn and grow and change, which is amazing. This is like a topic for another day, but I love the idea and the system of neuroplasticity. Let's create a new belief. I can be successful. Success is my birthright, success is possible for me. What would those legs have to be? This is our table example. Another way to combat these limiting beliefs. It's one thing to knock them down with your little proverbial acts. But let's turn them into affirmations. Successful people nurture their mindset and are intentional about their thoughts, which does not mean controlling your thoughts. I'm going to say this a zillion times throughout this course. We are all human. We are all going to have off days. We are all going to have thoughts that don't feel great, it happens. But what successful people do differently is they notice when a limiting belief starts to dictate their lives. Oh, wow, I'm noticing that I'm not signing up for this course because I just believe that I'll fail no matter what. You know what I mean? What is the limiting belief that is dictating your life? Can you notice it? Can you consciously choose to tell a new story? You've identified a limiting belief. Great. What now? Let's say the belief is, I am too old to start a YouTube channel. I'm too old. I'm just too old. This is the fact I'm too old. It's not a fact. We're going to create a custom affirmation to support you. Your new affirmation that you're going to journal. You're going to tape up all around your house, you're going to say to yourself every day. This is important mindset work, and this is not to be skipped is. I am the perfect age to start a YouTube channel, and this is the perfect time to dive in. My age is my greatest asset and I'm really proud of it. Notice how much more powerful and on the nose that is than just a generic, I am brave. This is why I think most people try affirmations and they don't really work. They're just saying generalized things. I'm brave, I'm successful. I'm smart. Nothing wrong with that, I can't hurt. But we're not really getting to the root of where you feel like you're not coming up. What's the phrase? We're not getting to the root of the problem. If you're telling yourself every day, I'm told told too old, your affirmation needs to be custom tailored to that and flip it in the opposite direction. If this doesn't feel genuine, if you're saying this to yourself and you feel like, I can't get behind this. I want you to start off the phrase with. I am in the process of believing that. I'm the perfect age to start a YouTube channel. This is the perfect time and so on and so forth. I'm in the process of believing. We tell ourselves something enough times, and we feel into it as we say it and as we see it. Our brain begins to mold in new ways and new little things begin to light up. This is brain science. This is my loosely glosto brain science. This is true. This is how I transform my life. I said, I'm wildly connected. I'm absolutely qualified to teach on the things that I know well. Like all these things that have been stopping me, I can earn X amount of money. I can work for myself full time. Five years ago, I would have been absolutely not. But I rewired my brain and now I can't even think about it the other way. This mindset work is a huge piece. Take your limiting beliefs and flip them to create custom affirmations. Okay? I think I just said this, but I want you to make them your phone or your desktop wallpaper, I want you to tape them somewhere you can see them and recite them daily like your mirror or your desk, even where you'll see it out of the corner of your eye. Our subconscious mind is picking up on everything. I want you to practice saying them to yourself often because our brain craves repetition. That's how we rewire it. It will feel a little clunky or a little inauthentic at first, not because it's not true or possible, but because excuse me, you've told the old unhelpful story for so long. For so long. For some of us, this old story feels as true as the sun rises in the east. It feels that true and that factual because we've said it to ourselves for years, maybe even decades. Just move through the discomfort and give yourself grace because you're doing it exactly right. We all feel clunky when we start. I certainly did. Okay? And begin to act as if Remember, I touched on this a little bit in the last module or so, if there is actually it was in Module one. If your idea of success looks a certain way. How can you start embodying that where you are with what you have? How can you be resourceful? If you're in the process of believing I'm the perfect age to start a YouTube channel, what actions do you need to take? Do you need to buy a $20 ring light? Do you need to write down video ideas? You need to plan your first video release? What do you need to do? This is your assignment. I'm wondering if anybody's mind is blown. I'm sad I can't interact with you in this moment, but just know I'm feeling the light bulbs going off in the cosmicnss of it all. I will see you in the next module. 5. Transforming a Fixed into a Growth Mindset: Welcome back to Growth Mindset Mastery. The powerful secret, Two, unlimited success. Let's dive into module four, Transforming a fixed mindset into a growth mindset, Growth mindset mastery. This is what we came here to master. Let's go, What is a growth mindset? It is the thing that all successful people have in common. Researcher Carol Dweck says that a growth mindset means that you thrive on challenge and you don't see failure as a way to describe yourself, but as a springboard for growth and developing your abilities. Okay. Many times in life, maybe you have felt this way. I hear other people speaking like this. We describe ourselves, we say, I'm a failure. I'm a failure. Oh, I hate the way that sounds. Right. Failure is not who you are. It's not an adjective. It is an experience that we learn from if we're smart. It's an experience that we leverage and we alcemize into something great. And we alcemize into our next big step in your talents. And you believe that your talents and your intelligence can grow. This is a growth mindset. There's room to grow. You believe in your ability to become better through your efforts. You believe that it is worth it to try. You believe you can learn new information and take action. To do so, you engage in incremental steps to improve yourself. You focus on trying new things without fixating on the outcome you keep. Even when you have challenges, successful people don't avoid challenges and they're not immune to challenges. They just keep trying when they face them. There's that word again, neuroplasticity. The brain can change over time. When it is exposed to new things, neurons create new connections. And this is all possible through new experiences. When we move through this module and this course as a whole, you are going to master this growth mindset. This is going to be your new way of moving through the world and your dreams and it's going to help you so much. Let's talk about a fixed mindset, okay? There are times in our lives where we fall into fixed mindsets. We've all experienced this, there's nothing wrong with that. It's human, it happens. It's about recognizing it and getting out of this pattern. So these are some fixed mindset clues. Okay? You might say something like, this is just who I am, this is me, this is who I am. No room for improvement, no room for growth, no room to try. It feels it's filled with limiting beliefs. The fixed mindset avoids challenges. Gives up easily, believes that the abilities that one has are fixed. I'm just bad at this. I'm just bad at Spanish, I'm just bad at tennis. I'm just bad. We've all heard people say this. As you move through this course. You're going to go out in the world. You're going to hear people talking at coffee shops and restaurants. You're going to hear them saying things like this and you'll go. That's a fixed mindset, something that our brain never picked up on before. All of a sudden you're going to hear it all around you and you'll be able to notice when you're doing it to yourself, the focus is placed on the outcome. It's not like how good you play the game, how good you try, how much fun you're having while you do it. The connections, the relationships, the lessons. No, it's did you win or did you lose? That is fixed. Growth is about the process. The magic is in the middle. The magic is in the mess. A fixed mindset personality is threatened by the success of others. It runs from error. It always wants to look right or smart. Okay? If you have a fixed mindset and you don't want to be wrong, you're not going to push yourself. You're not going to go be the least skilled person in any given room or space. There's nothing I love more than being in a room and knowing I'm the worst at whatever it is that there are people around me who are going to teach me so much. I love that. Okay, that's such a key to success. They ignore negative feedback even when it's useful. They don't want to hear it. They don't want to hear it. They have to be right and they have to be great. And they want their self esteem to be consistently reinforced. They'll stay at level one if they're always good at level one, okay? People in the growth mindset however, are moving up to level two, level three, level four, and they're tripping and they're slipping and they're getting back up and they're learning. And they're trying it another way and they're making their way because they're willing to try. They're willing to be bad. They're willing to write a bad song or fall over when they're trying to ice skate for the first time or try a new trick, right? The growth mindset is like your recipe for success because if you have a belief in your mind about yourself. That you can figure out anything. I can figure out anything I say that and it's like ultimate truth. I really believe it. I believe that if I really wanted to be an aesthetician or somebody who like repaired cars or whatever the thing is, if I really set my mind to it and I really wanted to do it, I could figure it out. I might be bad at it for a while, I might not know what I'm doing. But I believe I can figure out anything. Say it to yourself, I can figure out anything. I have this example where the fixed mindset is the older gentleman, the grandpa, who the family buys him a computer. The grandkids want to send E mails, they want to face time and he's like, I'm not going near the computer. Nope, I'm just bad at technology, I'm bad at computers. I'm not doing, it's these opportunities for connection that are lost. Then I think, like three doors down, there's another gentleman the same age or older who says, oh, I can figure out anything. I'm going to go to the Apple store, I'm going to sit on the little bench with my notebook. And I'm going to learn how to do this because I want to talk to my grandkids. It's this freeing thing of you look at any challenge you think. I could figure that out, I could figure that out. Then you go for it and you try, Okay, we find inspiration in others. Success, we persevere in the face of failures. We believe that our talents and abilities can be developed. I'm learning to play piano. I'm going to the gym three times a week. What I mean, it's about allowing yourself to be in the process, be a work in progress. Let it grow, let it develop the fixed mindset. Hates not being the best so they don't even try. We find inspiration in other people's successes. We lean into our errors. With the desire to correct, improve, We accept feedback as a way to learn. We embrace novelty with the desire to master new skills. We like seeing new things and doing new things and trying new things. Thought that we'll be bad at it, it's like whatever, okay? Start doing this with low stakes things in your life. Maybe you want to skateboard, maybe you want to bake. What's something that you can do in your front yard, or your backyard, or your street, or in your kitchen? Give yourself permission to try something new because the growth mindset enjoys the challenge of growing. That is nature. That really is what's natural for us to do. We grow physically in our bodies from the time that we're a baby, all the way till we, if we're lucky to live so long. I don't want to say old, but become old, okay. Nature is always growing and evolving. And think about a little seed becoming a big oak tree. All these things, I guess an acorn becomes an oak tree. I digress. It is natural for us to like to be challenged to grow and it is the key to our success. Now that you have some context and some understanding, and maybe you're reflecting on ways that you're holding yourself back in a fixed mindset. I want you to have the tools and the inner dialogue where you can shift to a growth mindset. Sometimes we're all going to have bad days or hard times, life is hard. Sometimes certain areas of life trigger each of us individually into a fixed mindset, okay? I speak to a lot of people who have problems with romance. It's very common to me. I don't have a fixed mindset around that at all. I feel like that's the easiest part of my life. But then I've had troubles around money, which I overcame. I had a big belief around fitness. Oh, I'm just not fit. I'm just not athletic. I'm just not strong that I really intentionally shifted to this growth mindset and made a big transformation in my life. Okay, you can probably see as you look around, money, fitness, career, romance, friendships. There's probably an area where you have some fixed beliefs and I'm going to help you find some new words and some new angles. Instead of telling yourself I'm not good at it, choose to say I can do better. Instead of telling yourself I can't do it, say I can, I am going to figure it out. Instead of I do not have the ability to learn, choose to say I want to try and not give up. It's better to stick to what I know becomes I want to explore new ideas. I give up, It's beyond me. This one's beautiful. I believe in myself, I believe I'll find a way. I believe I'll figure it out. I have fixed potential. It is possible. If I try, this is frustrating. It's okay to fail. It's okay to fail. I could wallpaper this whole house in all of my failures. It's okay. It's wonderful. It's actually fun. I would argue. It's fun to fail. I am who I am because I can learn from my mistakes. This is, I just don't know the way yet. I just don't know it yet. These are the phrases that as you hear yourself in this left column, saying it out loud. Saying it in conversation, saying it to yourself. Notice it be kind to yourself. We're all evolving, we're all imperfect. And choose to say I can do better. It's okay. I just don't know it yet. I can learn from my mistakes. I believe in myself, that is a growth mindset. That is the secret. That's the secret. Because when we say I'm not good at it, period. End of story. I give up, I'm done. The next way you would have tried. It might have worked and you might have gotten your dream. But if you decide I can't do it, boom, done, That's it. I mean, how is success going to come right? Set learning goals instead of performance goals. This is one that has been a real illuminating thing for me because I'm somebody who went through school like high achieve, high achieve, high achieve, valedictorian. Like I push and it was about performance. Then you try to start your own business and then you try to stand out as an artist in the entertainment industry. If you want longevity and you want to feel happy and fulfilled, it can't be about performance goals or you will just crack in half. Focus on learning every day and growing over time. Instead of proving that you're proving you're worth, proving that you're worthy. Instead of setting the goal to be a professional runner, commit to running every day. How much more freeing does that feel? And then you're going to do it. You're not going to say, well, I won't be a runner. My legs aren't that long and I don't have training, No. Commit to running every day instead of setting the goal to be a famous singer. Commit to singing live for people once a week. Instead of setting the goal to be fluent in Italian. Commit to learning ten new words each week, okay? These are baby steps, this is action, this is growth, okay? And you can still have this umbrella goal, this vision in module one I had. You dream really big. Don't ever lose that. That's huge, okay? But if that's the only goal, and we're not breaking it down into growth and learn and how we can show up every single day. We're not going to feel good and we're not going to experience success if we do. We're not going to feel happy when we're there. Okay, I've been in music for 17 years. I've had a lot of amazing things happen, more days than not, not much happened. It's like if I had only made the goal, I want to be a big famous singer, I probably would have quit after six months. But here I am in year 17, 18 or whatever year it is. Because I'm focused on the learning goals, I'm focused on the experience, I'm focused on my process. Successful people with a growth mindset, focus on the process. It's really important. I want you to take the time to write out some performance goals. Reflect back on what you really wanted and what you really desired from module one. Go back to that journal and say, okay, if my goal is to blank what are some learning goals and some growth goals I can set that are in my control. Because if all of your goals require somebody else to make something happen, okay, we're not going to, there's no longevity in that. There just isn't. This is huge. This is huge. Okay. You get to find joy in the journey and enjoy the process. If you take one thing out of this module, I want it to be that I want you to look back on your journey and say, you know what, I had the time of my life, I had the time of my life building that business. I had the time of my life learning that instrument. I had challenges, and I was tested, but oh my God, those were my happiest years. No one can take that away from you no matter what the outcome, right? It's amazing. This is a huge way to develop confidence and keep moving toward your goals. To set the learning goals. This is huge. Please please take the time, set these learning goals. What can you do? Like I always say, what can you do with what you have, where you're at? How can you get the ball rolling? It's about momentum. Then of course, there's the magic word yet. Okay, I want you to finish your sentences with the word yet. I'm not a six figure earner yet. I don't have 5,000 subscribers yet. I don't have my dream house yet. I haven't met the love of my life yet. I don't have my dream car yet. Yet opens up a world of possibilities, yet lets you know that there is potential for you to figure it out. Just the word alone carries this energy of it's going to happen. I believe in it, and I'm going to find a way. Okay, If you can do one thing today, add the word. Yet successful people use this word and are open to growth. With that said, make sure you do the journaling. Add the word yet to the end of your phrases, your reflections of the day. And make sure you go back in and mark down some learning goals. What can you do on a daily or weekly basis? How can you enjoy the journey? I'll see you in the next module. 6. From Fear of Failure to Courage and Resilience: We are back with module number five. Let me scroll over to it and we will get started. Here we go from fear of failure to courage and resilience. This one is so important, okay? Or biggest fear, failure, right? It seems so scary until you start to do it. Often you realize that we hype up failure so much in our mind. We process the emotions of things. Not going to plan. This is what actually happens. We process the emotions, then we get back up with the new lessons learned. That's all failure is. We feel it, we acknowledge it, and we get back up. If there's one thing I'm really good at, it's being resilient. I had a big disappointment yesterday in my artistic career. It was like a really big high, like I thought I got something and then a really low low. I thought, you know what good for me for going for this. I had to move through the disappointment. I had to move through the failure of it. But then you keep going. Okay. School and society teaches us to be afraid of failure. I loved school and I was terrified of failing. Failing is the best thing I've ever done in my career, over and over, and over again. I've never learned more than the times that I've failed. It is the best thing we can do. Successful people fail and fail often. I'm going to read you some quotes about failure that I love. Just like take some deep breaths and let them wash over you. Thomas Edison said, I have not failed. I have just found 10,000 ways that won't work. Okay. Talk about a growth mindset. A fixed mindset would have tried one or two ways and said it doesn't work and then moved on. Okay, Henry Ford said failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently, Winston Churchill. Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. I love that one. It totally ties into my belief that we get to move through life, having the time of our lives doing what we love the most, being in our purpose, and figuring it out, and stumbling and standing up again, and stumbling and standing up again with no loss of enthusiasm. Jk. Rawlings says, it is impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all. In which case you have failed by default, that one was like that one hits. I want us to reframe failure because this is a key secret to success. This is the growth mindset thing. This is what successful people are doing every minute of the day instead of running from failure. I want you to be so proud of them because the successful people that you look up to have failed countless times, It is not as scary and bad as we think it is going to be. Again, maybe I'm a weirdo, I think it's fun to say I threw all that spaghetti at the wall, and most of it fell. But that one piece stuck. Every time I threw a piece of spaghetti, I learned something new. Successful people know that their failures don't define them. Successful people who fail have invaluable wisdom and lessons that others don't. They know. It's just a detour. It's not the final destination they know. And like please put your hand to your heart with me as I say this, the worst fate is never trying. That will hurt way more at the end of your life than looking back at all the things that you tried. The road to success is often filled with detours, roadblocks, and things not going to plan. It is how you keep moving that counts, Okay, remember the road to success is literally never a straight line up. I don't know a single person who just has whoop that story. And there's no challenges or struggles or questioning themselves or things didn't work or we have to try a different way or something was misunderstood. No success goes like this and you get to define what that looks like for you, okay? Maybe it doesn't have to be so up and down, up and down. You know, I like to think of my success as kind of like who, Like I'm on a winding road, but I'm getting there. It's how you keep moving that counts. It's not whether or not you fail, because if you're trying to achieve success and you're trying to achieve the big dreams that you laid out in module one. You are going to bump up against a failure at one point or another. And I want us to just desensitize ourselves from that word. Let's call it like a. You're going to fail sometimes, okay? How do you keep moving? How do you get back up? How do you keep moving on that road? How do you keep having fun? How do you keep focusing on the learning goals rather than the performance goals? Right? This is where resilience comes in. This is something that we build, we consciously build and create like a muscle at the gym. Successful people are resilient. This doesn't happen overnight. You become resilient by, even when you're uncomfortable and you're like, I just want to crawl under a rock. I've had many moments like that. You become resilient by purposefully choosing to stand back up when everything crumbles. It is the ability to dust yourself off and get back up again. It is another muscle, like I said, that builds over time. This is a skill. Resilience and confidence are both skills that you earn and you work toward and you strengthen. Successful people feel what they need to feel, okay. Things can be disappointing. I don't want you to ever bypass your emotions. There's nothing in this course is going to tell you that a successful person never feel disappointed. A successful person never has a meltdown, or cries, or calls their mom and says, I don't know what I'm doing. My poor mom has to hear that once in a blue mood. And she's like, You're fine. She's right, I am fine. I'm just in a moment of re routing when I call her. Being successful and resilient is not about being numb or stoic. Cry your eyes out when you need to and then give it another go root back into your Y from module two. Why does this matter to you so much? Why do you want this? How is this going to transform your life? Okay, How can we get back to having fun and having it feel good? I don't want you to like hustle. Hustle, struggle, struggle. Hustle, hustle, What's the point? Okay, how can we stand back up and get back to feeling good? I've lost count of my failures, and that's why they're less of a big deal over time. Okay. The first one is hard, the second one is a little less hard, the third one is a little less hard as time goes on. Sometimes I don't even notice, like I'll send a pitch E mail to somebody and I'll just forget I sent it. And somebody will say, oh, did you hear back from so and so, and I'll say, oh, I forgot I even sent it. No, I didn't hear back. And they'll say, oh, that must be disappointing. And I'm not really, I've sent probably hundreds and hundreds of pitch e mails, you know what I mean? Builds over time. Rejection auditions, flopped, launches, these things don't define me, and these things don't define you. I ask myself, and I invite you to ask yourself, what can I learn from this? And how can I keep going with new wisdom? I know in school we were taught the worst thing you could do is fail. But in Juliet's school here, okay, I want you to fail sometimes. I don't think it's required. I would love for you to have a success story where it all goes, right? Every single time of your whole life, okay? But I've never heard that happen. Maybe you'll be the first. I want you to experience failure and stand back up again. I want you to be resilient. I want you to have courage. Successful people display great courage. Courage is moving in the face of fear, it's not waiting for the fear to disappear. Courage is moving, even when we feel doubt, not waiting for the doubt to vanish. Courage is moving. Courage is moving and momentum, because successful people move the move forward. They do things, they experiment, they get back up like it's about movement. This is where I need to talk about taking inspired action. Okay, just really quickly. Before I do, I just want to repeat. Courage is moving in the face of fear and doubt. Not waiting for the fear or the doubt to disappear. The fear and the doubt can come along for the ride. Successful people are not fearless. Successful people simply move even though they are a little bit afraid sometimes or a lot a bit afraid sometimes. I've been terrified at different points in my career, and I've been a little nervous. And I've had stage, I've had all of different fears come up, or feelings of imposture syndrome, or what am I doing? And everyone's going to know I'm a fraud even though I'm not a fraud. I'm sure you can relate to that feeling. We've all felt it, okay. It's about moving forward, it's about taking inspired action. Inspired action is a really unique feeling and action really okay, because it's not just doing things that we think we should be doing or that that person over there is doing to get where they want to be or even what I'm doing. It's about really tuning into your intuition and noticing what comes up and doing what action feels right to you. Okay? These thoughts might come in that say, I wonder what would happen if such and such. Or wouldn't it be cool if those are your inspired action cues? Okay, if you have thoughts coming in, I wonder what would happen if I created a course. I wonder what would happen if I wrote a book. I wonder what would happen. Or wouldn't it be fun if I planned this amazing event. That is your inspired action. That is the bright Neon sign you're waiting for. You don't have to have things in perfect alignment before you move. I'm going to ask you honestly, are you procrastinating or are you making excuses, which is very common? Are you waiting for things to be just a lined up all your little ducks in a row? Or are you taking bold steps on a daily or weekly basis toward your desires and goals? Are you being semi consistent? Are you taking regular ish action? I'm being really generous with that. Okay. Because a lot of people can build great things and they don't need to spend 8 hours a day on it. You can spend like 5 hours a week spread out harbor. You want? You can spend 20 minutes a week spread out harbor you want. But are you moving? Are moving, even though it's not perfect. Are you moving? Gosh, I wish this background was pink and glittery and more in alignment with my brand. What am I going to wait to redo the whole No, I'm going to record. Okay, what are you waiting for? This module, it's really important that you sit down and create an action plan. Because learning about the growth mindset and the secrets to success, it's all really important. But it doesn't change your life or lead to the outcomes you desire. If you're not taking leaps and risks, like if you just move through this and you're like, wow, that was all really interesting. I feel enlightened and you continue to not do anything. You might as well have read a children's book, right? It's about taking leaps and risks and action and moving forward. How do you want your life to look one year from now? What do you want it to be? We can work backwards. Okay. What do you have to do each month to reach that goal? What goals can you set that are within your power to do like the learning goals rather than what's it called, performance goals? Write yourself a 12 month plan and commit to taking action. You can adjust your plan at any time. I make plans for myself and sometimes they shuffle or I'll add something in or I'll take something out that doesn't excite me anymore. Right? It's, it's your life. But this exercise, for some people, it's going to be extremely helpful because you'll say, you know what, In one year I want to have X amount of customers or I want to have released X amount of songs. What do I need to be doing in January and February and March? What are my goals? Okay, This is what successful people do. We commit, and I believe you can commit. There's also this concept called the ladder of believability. Okay? So if right now you're living in, I don't know, like a room and you share it with five people, okay, And you are like a year from now, I'm going to be in an eight story mansion. It's possible. I will never tell you that's not possible, but you have to believe it. You have to get your energy behind it. It might be easier and this is purely example. If you can get your energy behind that, please do, okay. But if it's more believable for you to say, you know what, I share a room with five people, I want my own apartment within one year. What is a stretch for you? But it does feel possible somehow, right? Like feel the edges of what you believe is possible and just push on them a little bit. What can you get your belief behind? What can you get your energy behind this compounds? Over time, things that I'm doing right now in my life did not possible or believable to me like five years ago. We all grow and quantum leap, if you will, at our own pace, okay? We all are able to believe different things. Just know that you get to keep pushing yourself in a way that feels like, oh, I can actually accomplish that. It's a stretch. It would be a jump from where I am now, but I can get my energy there. I really feel like I can do that. Okay. When you're making your action plan, I want you to consider the ladder of believability. And like I always say, I want you to dream gigantically big. But just know you can get there in steps. And in fact, it's more sustainable sometimes to get somewhere in steps. Think about the people who like people who become major athletes and they come into lots and lots of money and then it's all gone within a year or two, or people who win the lottery. And then it's all gone within a year or two. They went into a realm that they didn't feel energetically ready for, they didn't know how to handle it. Ladder, believability can be a good thing if you don't like that. If you want to just dream gigantically big dreams and say I'm going to get there in one year. I have full faith you can do it. It's an option. I like doing it this way. You can do it however you want. I want you as you create this action plan to come back into this day and this moment, okay? Because we're thinking a lot about the future successful people do. We're always like thinking about next quarter, next year, next season, like it's very normal. We're always thinking ahead. There's nothing wrong with that. It's a beautiful gift to know how to do that and plan for it. But our point of power is here and now. Okay. One step at a time. The time will pass anyway. I think this to myself, when I'm walking on the treadmill at the gym, I think, gosh, it doesn't feel like it in this moment. But every literal step I'm taking over time is adding up to this healthy lifestyle that I'm working toward. Every post on Instagram, it may not feel like it at the time like oh wow, that's one only got nine or ten likes right? Over time. These things compound the time is going to pass anyway. Allow yourself to take each step. Be in the moment, be in the present, be in your point of power. Enjoy the process along every step of the way. That's success. To me, that's how you get there. Because you won't burn out. Because you'll be enjoying yourself on the way, okay? I want to teach you success and growth from a place of you don't learn from me, and then you go burn yourself out. I want to hear back from you in one year, two years, five years. I want you to say, I am still following those tools. I am still following those techniques. I cannot believe where my life has led me. I've been having the best time again, what can you do where you are with what you have? Be creative and open minded. Ask for help and support. So many of us are afraid. We don't want to ask anybody for any help, any support, right? I can do it by myself. It's like a 23 year old. I will do it by myself. I used to teach preschool. I was a lot of that. Do you want me to help you with that? I can do it by myself. We don't have to do everything alone. Okay. How can you ask for help, support, advice? Notice your excuses. Is this excuse your ego trying to protect you? Is there a second gain from staying right where you are? This is common. I can't do this because I don't have a new enough phone, like my phone takes video, but it's not great video, so I can't start posting to Youtube. You could, why don't you do what you can with what you have and start building something. Are you perhaps telling yourself this because you are protecting yourself from putting yourself out there? Something to consider? That could be a second game. Okay, so here are some confident affirmations regarding failure because remember we're re framing failure here in this course. It is safe for me to fail. It is safe for me to get it wrong. It is safe for me to be rejected. It is safe for me to start all over. It is safe for me to be seen trying. I want to say that one again. It is safe for me to be seen trying. Everybody wants to be seen winning, right? It is safe for me to be seen trying. I am proud of my failures. I am proud of my attempts. I am proud of the actions I take. I am proud of my resilience. I am proud of my bravery. I am proud of my determination. I am proud of my authenticity. I am proud of my vulnerability, and I can rise up and overcome anything. Feel free to screenshot, write them in your own handwriting. These are massively important, and I will see you in module six. 7. Creating a Supportive Environment: Welcome back. We are about to jump right into Module number six, which is creating a supportive environment. This is crucial and sometimes this isn't talked about, so I'm very excited to talk about it with you here. Okay, So I have a question. Who surrounds you? Sometimes our success can be hindered by our environment. It happens a lot. We have the power to make certain changes and be intentional about this though, okay? This is something we can really pay attention to. And change though. We cannot change other people, okay? We can control the amount of time we spend with certain people or what we choose to discuss with them. That is a hard lesson sometimes because we love certain people. We're so close with them, whether it's family or friends, but our ideas are just too wild, or our dreams are just too big. Or they come in with 1 million counterpoints to why it would never work out. It's really important that as a big dreamer and as somebody on a path to success, you can create some boundaries. And you create an environment for yourself, where you are nurtured and where you can thrive. Are your closest friends equally ambitious or do they laugh at your dreams? Is your partner on board with your side Hustle? Or do they tell you it's an unrealistic waste of time. Is your family influencing you to stay on a path you know isn't meant for you? I've heard a lot of stories of people whose families really want them to be the Dr. or the lawyer. And it's just not in their heart. They know they want to do something else, right? We don't want to disappoint anybody. We don't want to let anybody down. But we have to do what's right for us. Our vision of success gets to be our own. Who do I feel lit up around? I want you to ask yourself that. Who can I dream big around? Where do I find myself shrinking? Okay. There are people that we're going to feel expansive around, and there are people that are going to make us shrink. And it's not that they make us shrink. To protect ourselves, we pull our energy in. Okay? We have to remember that we do have the power to redesign relationships in our life that are really not nurturing us. What boundaries can you set? Okay? Can you change the subject? Can you spend less time with certain people? I know it's not always this simple, but sometimes it is this simple. How can you prioritize more time with people who encourage you? You, the people who are talking in your ear all day. I have the most supportive friends and family in the world and the most supportive partner in the world. I could say right now to any of them. Like, you know what, I'm going to go into the hat business, I'm going to open a Haberdashery. And they'd say, okay, that was a surprise, but you can do it. Nobody would come up with a reason why I shouldn't, and I'm very lucky for that. Very fortunate. And it was also intentional, like there were certain people that had a lot to say and I just pulled back from those people because I'm a big dreamer, That's who I am. Okay, and I know you are too. Who surrounds you? Another question concerning your environment and its impact on your success is what are you consuming? What we consume matters. Our subconscious mind is drinking up every bit of everything we see with a straw. Now, I don't want you to get too paranoid about this. I watch plenty of reality TV to unwind. Okay, we're allowed to do that. But who are your role models? Who are you always following on social media? Whose life views and perspectives are you being influenced by? Are they people who complain or are they people who innovate? I want you to create like an inspiration library. I want you to read and collect books that empower and inspire you. I want you to listen to podcasts and follow digital creators who make you feel inspired, who invite you to take action, to move. And I want you to bookmark this course and revisit it time and time again. You can play my favorite way to utilize courses like this that I've taken is I'll log back in. I will play it in the background when I do my makeup or I do my skin care routine, or I have breakfast. Like it's such a fun way for me to start the day and get re centered with a teacher that really lights me up. What are you consuming? And how is it making you feel? We tend to be the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Okay. And this can include like the imaginary characters in our life. Who are we reading about? Who are we watching like constantly? Whose Tiktok are we spending hours looking at? So I want you to make some empowered choices. You are all, I don't even like to call them guilty pleasures. I don't have any guilt that I like, my early 2000 reality TV. Okay, it makes me happy, I'm allowed to enjoy that. But I wouldn't say I spend the most time of my day watching that because it doesn't motivate me. So just keep an eye out. What are you consuming? What is your space like? Okay. Maybe you're not presently in a big house beside the ocean. That is a dream of mine. I know I'll have it some day in some form or something like it or something better. And that's okay. Remember that the feelings and the embodiment come first. Remember we talked about that? We bring it into our reality. Now that's what we do first, whether you share a room or you live with your parents or roommates, or you have your own place, treat your space like it's sacred. Even if you have a little corner in a room that you share with somebody, just treat your space like it is sacred. Keep it clean and tidy and organized. Remove and release clutter, and fill your personal space with things that make you feel successful. Okay? Maybe there's a luxurious smelling candle that you bought for $5 that smells like coastal flowers and it makes you feel, I'm like, by the beach I'm living my dream life. Maybe you put some motivational quotes on the walls. Maybe you have your vision board hung up where you can see it. We'll get to that soon. Maybe you have a silky pillow case. Maybe you listen to the sound of ocean waves while you get ready for the day. How can you take your space and elevate it? How can you set yourself up and your space up for success? This module is really about environment. It's who are you talking to, what are you consuming, what is your space like? I'm not a firm believer in like a strict daily routine. Some people really thrive and love waking up and I journal for 30 minutes and then I sip my coffee and I say my affirmations. I follow my intuition and I do different things each day. I mean, I have some non negotiables. I make the bed, I get dressed like. We all have our own format. But see if you can tune into these three things. Your space, the company you keep, and the content you consume. If you want to create a morning routine, a night routine, I don't believe that that is going to lead one to more success than somebody who just has a growth mindset. Somebody who's resilient, somebody who's courageous, somebody who takes action, and somebody who keeps trying, and somebody who just finds joy in what they do. I think that's way more impactful than I wake up in journal. But if you left a journal, do that. You see my point. Okay? I just want you to know that there's some really key things you need to look into for success and growth. And there's other things that might be helpful. But only do them if you want to. Only do them if it gets you in the vibe. For me, I don't like doing the same day over and over and over. I like mixing it up. Oh my God. I did not even remember. I put this slide next. This just let in so perfectly okay. Do I need a morning routine? Do I need to wake up at 05:00 A.M. Do I need to work out 10 hours a week? Do we need to follow a specific regimen? Do I need to never eat a dessert like does all my food have to be perfectly organic and high vibe or whatever, right? This is all up to you. Okay? These are like little sprinkles you can put on top of like a really juicy ice cream cake filled with strawberries and chocolate chips and everything. I'm giving you the cake, you can sprinkle on top of it whatever you want. You can decorate it however you want. Some people thrive on routine, others don't. I'm a night owl, I stay up late. I am up until about 02:00 A.M. Most nights I've tried to switch it, and I mean not to be fixed about it, but this is how I like to live. I like to go to bed at two and wake up at 11. That's my day, okay? And I'm successful. Some people say you have to get up at 05:00 A.M. Maybe that's not for you, it's not for me. Success is about a growth mindset and a determination to keep going. It is not about what time you wake up, because if you wake up at 05:00 A.M. but you are still stuck in a fixed mindset now. You're just up at 05:00 A.M. okay? But if it makes you feel successful, if it gets you in the energy, if you're like, I'm awake before everybody, I'm going to get started. If you love that, if you thrive on that, please do it. Decorate your cake. Put those sprinkles on however you want. I will see you in module seven. We're going to talk about vision boards, visualization, and meditation. It's going to be very fun. 8. Vision Boards, Visualization, Meditation: Welcome back. We are moving into module seven, which is one of my favorites. We're going to share some tools, how to use vision boards effectively. The magic of visualization and of meditation on your success journey. I have some secrets to an effective vision board. Check, check. I have blown myself away with vision boards over the past few years and I want to teach you my tricks for vision boards that work. This is a wonderful tool. This is where you take what you journaled about in module one, your deepest desires. Maybe now you even have more clarity on them. Okay, Go to Pinterest or go to Google Images and find pictures of things that represent those desires. This is your visual road map. Okay. This is going to be your most successful life on one. Beautiful collage images are better than words. This vision board has some things I like and some things I don't like. See how it says like more sleep, more music, more tea. That doesn't make me feel anything. I just think, oh, that's nice, right, Even though it's a great sentiment. But the image of the person stretching right above it on the yoga mat, on the sand, I can feel that a picture says 1,000 words. Use more pictures on your vision board than words, emphasis on the feeling. If the picture you pick, you're like, oh, that's pretty but you're not going. Yes. Yes. That is what I want. That is so exciting. That is what I'm working towards. It's not the right picture, okay? You don't have to have gigantic fireworks in your heart, but you need to feel some emotional excitement when you see the pictures. Ideally, every photo will spark something in you. Then I want you to do this special secret trick where you're going to trick your subconscious mind in a wonderful way. And you're going to add two pictures into your vision board of things you have already accomplished that way. Your subconscious mind looks at this collage and thinks, oh, this is what we're doing, this is what's attainable. Maybe for instance, if you look in the middle, it's like, oh yeah, we went to Paris. That was a picture from our trip. And I'd like to call in more travel and more travel is possible because look, we went there or oh, we went to that beach. There we are, walking down the stairs and I want to call in more adventures. And obviously that's easy for me because I already do it. Put two pictures on your vision board of things you've already accomplished. I've done this every time. It's worked like magic. Here are some ways you can use your vision board right now. It is my phone wallpaper. This is not my specific vision board, but it was a good one. I thought I would put it because it had some notes I could give. You. Can put it as your phone wallpaper, your computer wallpaper. You can print it out. You can tape it up in your room. You can meditate with it. You can look at it while you drink your morning tea. Whatever you do, have it where you see it often. You don't need to spend like how many minutes a day? How many hours a day do I spend looking at this? It's not really about that. It's about glancing at it, getting excited, getting reignited, feeling the excitement, and moving forward and taking your big action and focusing on the progress. Okay, my instructions for you are to put it together to feel really good and whenever you see it, just feel really good. When you see it feel inspired. Remember your Y. Put in visuals on your vision board that represent your back from module two. Give it a bigger context. You can change it as your desires evolve. It is not a fixed vision. I change mine up like every six to 12 months. As I feel inspired, I think, oh, I already did this. I already did that. Oh my gosh, I made this happen. This thing over here I'm less excited about. Let's swap that out. It's your vision board, okay? You can do this once a month. It's whatever you want to do. If you don't hit every goal, that's okay. Imagine that. It's okay. Celebrate the ones you have accomplished. Our success happens at its own pace sometimes, right? Remember the magic word? Yet, so many people put off celebrations and they put off the joy and it leads to burn out. They think, well, I put nine things I accomplished five of them I didn't accomplish the other three, so I'm not going to celebrate myself. Please don't do that you accomplish, if you even take steps towards accomplishing that one thing, that one feeling, that one passion, Celebrate yourself. Big and small wins, whether you pop the champagne or bring home the balloons, or do a dance in your living room, or take a walk or get a coffee. Whatever celebrating means to you. Successful people, or I should say happy successful people. Both big and small wins. I am always running out and getting a balloon. Or a little cupcake, or I just I want to have fun on my journey. I want to celebrate every time something on my vision board becomes my reality. Realize the magic that a picture that was on a vision board is now your life. Okay? You've taken something from the two dimensional flat realm and made it into the three D, you transformed it. Isn't that amazing? How is it any less amazing that you did six things, but not nine things on the vision board? Okay? You can change it as often as you want. You're going to celebrate the goals that you're hitting and the progress you're making towards them. And you're going to have fun along the way. And you're going to look at this vision board and it's going to inspire you. And it's going to be your blueprint and your roadmap in a visual form, and it's going to make you feel good. I will say there are going to be times when you look at that vision board and you go, can I really have that? Can I really do that? The answer is yes. Return to your limiting belief crusher exercise and say, actually there's no reason why I can't, there's no real reason. Okay, all these modules, I know I have them in a specific order and I did this on purpose, but know that you're going to move through the work and the tools, and the techniques at different times throughout the month, the day, the hour even. And that's okay. I want to talk about visualization because some people might pass it off. It's like, oh, you're just daydreaming. Let's talk about why visualization is proven to be extremely important. Our brains cannot distinguish and this is a fact, whether we are physically experiencing something or simply imagining it. Reality and imagination are the same. This is why imagining is so important. I will emphasize again, taking the action, building momentum, showing up every day, or however you plan out your 12 month plan. That's huge too, But it is good to day dream. It is good to visualize. According to the International Coaching Academy's Neuroscience and Visualization Research paper, if you exercise an idea over and over in your mind, your brain will begin to respond as though the idea was a real object in the world. When we imagine we are lifting our left hand, for instance, Our brain does the same movements, the same little parts light up and things get center around as if we were actually picking up our left hand. I just picture it's, I can feel myself thinking of it. Okay. Stroke victims are able to keep parts of their brain alive through visualization. This one blew my mind. A study from the Cleveland Clinic Foundation in Ohio found out that people who worked out had a 30% muscle increase. People who just visualized it had a 13.5% muscle increase. They just lied down or they sat and they thought of themselves lifting the weight and they envisioned it, their muscles responded. What? Picturing yourself accomplishing your goal is crucial to actually getting it done. I want you to give yourself permission to fully, fully visualize, to put on some relaxing music or your favorite song. And close your eyes and see yourself there. And bring that feeling into the present moment because our brain doesn't know the difference. Mental practices can enhance motivation, increase confidence and self efficacy, improve motor performance, prime your brain for success, and increase states of flow, all relevant to achieving your best life, says psychology. Today I think about the athletes who visualize themselves playing the game before they go out and play the game. And how the coach says you need to visualize. It's not just like silly daydreaming, it's part of their practice. You can visualize with music like I said, or in silence. You might be asking, how often should I do this? Okay, regular visualization is key if you want to take 5 minutes a day and do it. If you want to take 5 minutes a week and do it okay, but just keep it consistent. Whatever works into your schedule and your life and whatever you like to do. Before I go to sleep, I put in some vibe music in my little headphones and I just visualize. And it's a lovely way to drift off to sleep too. I'll tell you what, Imagine the future. This is how you're going to do it. You have already achieved your goals and you feel successful. Everything on your vision board is your present reality. Everything you wrote down in module one is your life now. Oh, my heart just got warm. Hold a mental picture of it as if it were occurring to you right at that moment. Imagine the scene in as much detail as possible, the feelings of it. And I don't get too much into energy in this course, but what we Is like energetically so huge. What we feel is what we call in is what we attract. Okay? I need you to feel the feelings of it. Don't just picture it like you're watching a movie. Feel it as if it's happening to you as if it's yours. Train your brain that this is what's coming. Engage as many of the five senses as you can in your visualization. Who are you with? Which emotions are you feeling right now? What are you wearing? Is there a smell in the air? Do you smell like this salt of the ocean? What do you hear? What's in your environment? Notice any doubts if they come to you and just refocus back on your visualization. Our brain will love to get chatty and say, this isn't real and you say, thank you so much. Go back to where you came from. I am here in this moment and I'm holding my trophy and I'm holding my Grammy and I am signing the paper because I just bought the home of my dreams and I'm holding the baby because they're here, right? Get into that feeling. Meditation is another one that I cannot not mention a success secret. Meditation lowers stress and anxiety. It helps you focus. It lowers your resting heart rate. It increases your ability to visualize, and it improves mental clarity. Whenever I feel confused, I meditate. Some people meditate every day. I tend to do it when I'm feeling like I need some clarity. You can meditate with a clear mind or with a guided audio. I want you to listen to and take full advantage of the powerful guided success meditation that is included in this course. It's a fabulous time to practice visualization. There's beautiful music. I guide you through the whole thing. If you're somebody like me who doesn't like to just sit alone in silence, it can be amazing and there's a lot of benefits to it. But I like being guided. Gives my brain something to do. Okay, you're going to love the success meditation. You're going to listen to it over and over and over and over, and over and over and over again. I'm already so excited for you. Oh, I guess it's time to end this module. But yeah, the last thing I'll say about meditation is again, like visualization. How often do I do it? Am I doing it for long enough? You get to decide this for yourself, you really do. You might want to do 5 minutes a day. You might want to do 10 minutes a week. You might want to listen to the success meditation every Sunday night before you start your week. You get to decide it's about doing things consistently in a way that makes sense for you. Again, if you're meditating all the time or just like if you're getting up at 05:00 A.M. But you don't have this growth mindset and you're not taking action and you're not celebrating your progress and your learning goals. And you're not moving. And you're not being brave. You're not being courageous. The meditation is just something nice to do. But meditation is like more decoration on the cake. Meditations like the icing that goes all around it and looks really pretty and tastes really good. Don't sleep on meditation. Okay, I can't recommend it enough. I will see you in our next and final module. Can't wait. 9. Embodying the Successful Person: Welcome back to our eighth and final module. And something really special just happened in the last module. I said I don't get into energy too much in this course. And as I said it, I thought, you know, I really should like, how do I not like? Why wouldn't I mention that? Because this course came through me in this crazy download. It all came together really fast. I put these presentations together and then I've taken some time before I sat down to record it. We're going to talk about energy in module eight and I'm so excited. I'm like thanking past version Juliet for setting this up the way, how do we embody the successful person? How do we make it a part of our identity that I am successful even if my outside circumstances don't quite reflect my goals, dreams and desires and achievements that I want. Yet, how do we embody? I'm going to tell you so we need a little context, some energetic context. And this is where we talk a little bit about quantum physics, which I could talk about forever. I love it. Okay? You know that we have our cells, and inside of our cells we have atoms. And inside of the atoms there's protons, neutrons, and electrons. Right? And that's like, as far down as we know, as much as we can blow up in a microscope inside our atoms, the smallest little particle we know of in our bodies, in everything in this table, in this wall, everything is atoms. Everything is atoms. Okay? 99.999 9999, 9% of that space inside of our smallest particle is nothing, is energy. That means that if we pulled out all the energy and we just left the actual physical matter, the entire human race, 7 billion people or so, could fit inside a sugar cube. We're all energy. When I learned this, I said, that can't be. I don't think so. No, it is the truth. It is the truth. And I do believe that we're not taught it on like a big collective societal level. Because if we knew this, we would be blown away by how powerful we are and by how much we can truly control and manipulate and manifest. Right? Why do we underestimate how important energy is when it is literally every, if I think about it too much, my brain starts to spin. Okay? So think about it just enough to gain the context and the understanding that we're all made of energy, 99% right? So to embody this successful person, we've got to get in the energy. It's about our energy. We all know somebody who is larger than life as they enter a room or somebody who has that it factor. Somebody who radiates success even when you know nothing about them. They just walk by and you're like, that's a successful person, you just feel it. You feel it in their energy or they walk in the room and everybody's head turns. My favorite example of a person like this, it is probably Cleopatra. Because historically there's, there's a lot of different debates over whether or not she was actually the most beautiful woman in the world, right? Some people believe, many people believe that was a rumor that she spread. But it was her personality that was so magnetic and so big and just, oh, her energy was like, oh God, should I teach a Cleopatra course? Oh my gosh. Look her up. Okay. I fully believe that any of us can tap into that energy. The Cleopatra energy, the larger than life energy, that person is successful. I can just feel it, that energy at any time. I believe that it is possible for me and I believe it is possible for you. Okay. We get to decide what our energy feels like and how much space it takes up. I know I'm getting a little out there in this last section, but I promise there's like science and truth in all of this. You are not here to play small or live a half lived life. That's not why you came here. That's not why any of us came here. I just don't believe it. Play with the energy of bigness, okay? A lot of we all have like an energy field. Everything. This microphone, everything the phone has an energy field, okay? I love visualizing my energy field. Sometimes we keep it rather tight and close to us, especially if we're working around other people walking through crowds at the mall, at a theme park, whatever, it safe. And it makes sense to keep it close. Successful people know how to expand, okay? Play with the energy of bigness. Envision your energy filling your whole room. Imagine it reaching all four corners. And then imagine it stretching out to your whole neighborhood, your whole city, your whole town. You can try it as I talk you through it, your country, the world, the successful person spreads out their energy. And if you can even take it from here to three feet away, that you're going to notice a shift in your life, okay? If space is infinite, your bigness does not take away from anybody. You get to be as big as you want. And it doesn't take away anything from anybody because there's nothing but infinite space. And it's getting more big and more infinite every moment your success inspires others to succeed too. Before all of my accomplishments. Okay, this is a little spiritual, but I love this. Before all of my accomplishments happened, there was a moment where I wholeheartedly believed that it was done. In the invisible realm, it is done. Okay. So for instance, when I was in my relationship, before I got proposed to, in my heart, I knew it was done. I would get the ring on my finger. It would be this ring in this exact style. We would plan a wedding. It was it was done. I moved from that place. I do this in other areas of my life too. This is the difference between deciding and trying, trying to, okay. I decided I was going to make an extremely valuable and clear and amazing course to help people live their most successful lives. I'm imagining you're gathering that energy from me. I don't think I give off an energy of like, well, I'm going to try and see how it goes. Very different vibes. Decide that it is done, the things that you listed, the things on your vision board, decide that it is done and it is yours if it was already done. This is how we embody the successful person. How would I act? How would I feel? What steps would I take? How would I move through life knowing that it is already destined for me? How would I move through mistakes, failures, knowing that I would ultimately succeed and find a way? We've all seen the story of a celebrity who says, remember my name, you're going to know me then. We know them. They lead with that energy. They knew it was done, they knew it was done. There was like no doubt about it. And of course, they had difficult days and of course they had breakdowns, and of course they had failures. But they embody the person who had it, who did it, who achieved it. Okay. A common mistake is waiting for the accomplishment before you embody the success. I want you to remember that everything we do is energetic. I want you to embody that success and move through life like it's already yours and it's already done. If I was the person who has this type of business, or this type of career, or this type of relationship, what would I do today? What would I do now? How would I, what choices would I make? Where would I invest? Like, what risks would I take it if I knew I was going to have it? Okay? This isn't about being delusional. It's about deciding something for your life. And then moving with the joyful anticipation that it's coming and that you're doing your part on a daily basis. I have some inspiring quotes to live by another Henry Ford. Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right, decision, Albert Einstein. We cannot solve problems with the thinking we employed when we came up with them. This is where the mindset piece comes in. Tony Robbins says, setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible. Setting goals, deciding committing, taking action. Then Calvin Coolidge said, nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent or not. Nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius, unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not, the world is full of educated delicts. The slogan, press on has solved, and always will solve, the problems of human, of the human race. It's like I said, you can be totally brilliant. You can wake up at 05:00 A.M. You can meditate every day. You can do all the things. You can be smarter than anybody else on an IQ test. You can have more education than anybody. But if you don't have a growth mindset, if you don't believe that, it's possible. If you don't believe, you'll find a way. If you're not persistent and resilient, and courageous, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. So as you embody the successful person, remember what your values are, okay? Is it more important to you that you're the smartest person in the room? Or is it more important to you that you're the most unwilling to give up? And which person is going to go farther? Right, here are some final thoughts. Okay, I'm going to reiterate this again. Move through your day. And move through your life as if what you desire is already here. Trust that it will be yours. Your energy leads and life follows. Okay? This is just the way it works because everything is energy. We lead with our energy, with intention, and life follows. And be sure that you're taking inspired action every day, no matter how small. I want you to be the person who makes moves. I said this earlier. I want you to reach out to me in two months, three months, four years, however long, And say, oh my gosh, I took inspired action. I kept my mind in the right place and you would not believe where I am now. Okay, this is not a pipe dream. This is how it works. This is how successful people are doing it. They are determined, they are resilient, they are courageous. They are flexible, and they are brave. I want you to use the tools in this course to help you build up these muscles. Everything I just mentioned determined, resilient, courageous, flexible, brave. We build this up over time, okay? Do one rap at a time. And we build it up by being it. Even if we're scared, we show courage. Even if we feel fixed. We've been fixed for a long time. It's time to be flexible, okay? Even if we have doubt, it's time to be brave. Even if we fail, it's time to be resilient. Progress and journey is more important than the final destination. Because the progress and the journey is your life. I want you to enjoy this. Know that you are inherently worthy. I cannot wrap up this course and talk about the energy of a successful person and embodying that energy without mentioning this. Okay, you are inherently worthy. There is nothing more that you need to do to be more worthy of everything that you dream of achieving. You were born worthy. It was this piece of you that came in with you, and it'll be with you till you go. And nothing can touch it and nothing can make it smaller. We can have pain, we can have difficult experiences. But I truly believe that our inherent worth is untouchable. That's my personal belief. If anyone can do it, you can. I believe in you. There is no rule that says otherwise. Okay. Oh, I have a chill as I'm about to say this. Your success begins right this very second. I want you to give it everything you've got. You have done something that a lot of people aren't going to do. You not only invested in yourself and you got this amazing course, but you made it to the end. Do you know how many people watch 5 minutes and then they get busy and they decide it's not important or they get triggered and they're not ready to do the work yet. You made it to the end. Okay, You are determined you are capable, you are worthy everything that you want. I believe you can achieve all the tools in this course and all the mindset shifts and all the techniques and the tips. This is what it takes. I said it at the very beginning. This is timeless wisdom. This is the way people have been navigating success for hundreds of years. Even as technology changes and things change all around us, this stuff will remain relevant. You get to revisit this anytime you wish. It is My Honor, and my privilege that I got to work with you in this course. Please reach out to me. Find me on Instagram at Juliet dot Piper. You can go to my website, Juliet Pipermusic.com I want to stay in touch with you. I want to see your journey. I want to see you thrive. I wish you nothing but the best. I'm so proud of you. Congratulations. It is your time to shine. Go make it happen. 10. Success Guided Meditation Video: Welcome to your personalized success guided meditation. This was created for those of you with big, incredible dreams to support you on your journey. To remind you what is possible, and most importantly to reconnect to who you are. I want you to begin by taking some deep breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth, or breathe in whatever way feels most comfortable to you. And allow your body to fully relax, Whether you're sitting down or lying down, do what's right for you, just come home into this moment. During this time, you might have thoughts creep in. You might need to wiggle or scratch an itch. I want you to know that all of that is okay to do. You are meditating perfectly just by listening to my words. I will guide you through each step. Your job is to simply relax. During this meditation, I am going to share some important messages with your subconscious mind to help you rewire for the greatest possible success imaginable. Do your best to allow these messages to be true for you. If you feel resistance, take note that is a place where you can grow. Now I want you to imagine your most successful day playing out from start to finish. Imagine yourself waking up and walking through life as the version of you you wish to become. What are you wearing? What's on your calendar for the day? Who are you talking to on the phone? What does your bank account look like? What does your living situation look like? How do you genuinely feel? Allow yourself to fully lean into this vision and know that if this wasn't possible, you would not be able to see it as clearly as you do, tap into this energy and get ready to receive your new truths. You are the person who wins in life. You are the person where everything you touch turns to gold. Even if it fails, you learn a lesson worth more than gold. You cannot mess this up. You are the kind of person who rewrites their own story. You are the kind of person who motivates and inspires others without even trying. You are the kind of person who stands out, who rises up and who finds a way no matter what. You are the kind of person who knows that it's possible. If it can happen to anyone, it can happen to you. You are the kind of person who proves people's doubts and limitations wrong time and time again. It is simply who you are and what you do. You are the person that is the first, maybe in your family, maybe in your friend group, but you're a trailblazer. You are the person with staying power. You are the kind of person who understands the long term vision and you put in a little bit of valuable work every day. You are the kind of person who is committed and dedicated to your dreams. You are the kind of person who can always figure it out. And if not, you know you will find the right resource or person to help you. You are the kind of person where money and opportunities flow to you like magic. You are magnetic to the things you desire. You are the kind of person who is persistent, who has endurance, who doesn't give up when it's hard. And you are the kind of person who takes care of yourself beautifully throughout every step of the journey, no matter what else is going on. You are there for you. You are the person who can create your own kind of miracles. Whatever that means to you. Nothing is too out of reach. Nothing is too unrealistic. That word does not exist in your vocabulary. You are a successful person because you decide to be because you own that and you claim it fully and completely. Right now, you are meant for amazing things. You are meant to leave behind a legacy. You are meant to have the time of your life doing what you love most. You are successful. I believe in you infinitely. And so it is.