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Double Your Confidence & Discover Your Life's Purpose

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    • 1.

      1) Double Your Confidence Introduction Video 2020


    • 2.

      2) Welcome To Our Course


    • 3.

      3) Step 1 The Comparison Paradigm and the Joneses


    • 4.

      4) Discover THIS and Instantly Gain Confidence and Self Esteem


    • 5.

      5) Getting Your License


    • 6.

      6) This Simple Habit is Empowering


    • 7.

      7) Persistence


    • 8.

      8) An Extra Little Bit of Confidence


    • 9.

      9) Class Project


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Want Discover Your Life Purpose & Double Your Confidence?

Have you always wanted to discover your life purpose and double your confidence, but you just don't know where to start? 

Are you ready to take control over your life and become the best version of yourself? 

Then our ‘Discover Your Life Purpose & Double Your Confidence In Just 30 Minutes’ Complete Course is for You!


Here is what you will learn in our complete course:

In our course, you will Discover Your Life Purpose & Double Your Confidence! You will also learn in 5 easy steps how to become the best version of yourself, live your dream life, and have clarity on what it is you truly desire most. This course is a one stop shop with practical ideas, projects, and lessons. We start off with learning about the comparison paradigm and keeping up with the "Joneses". After that we go into how to find your life's purpose, taking massive action, and live your dreams. 

Now, if you ever have any questions, all you have to do is post in our course discussion to receive help! Not only will you learn with more than 30 minutes of HD video, but you will also learn by doing and creating your very own content!  

By the time you are finished with our complete course, you will understand how to discover your life purpose & double your confidence. You will be able to take control of YOUR life and see how to gain that admirable boost in CONFIDENCE

But that’s not all... 

The benefits to our course Discover Your Life Purpose & Double Your Confidence is absolutely unlimited! 

You will learn useful skills such as:

  • Develop More Confidence
  • Build Your Self Esteem
  • Find Your Life's Purpose
  • Start Living Your Best Life
  • How to Take Control of your Life Today! 


With the right mindset, understanding, and application, you will instantly begin learning how to build confidence and find your life's purpose. 

When I learn something new I add it to the course -at no additional cost to you! This is a course that will continue to add more and more to every aspect of your life.


What I can't do in this Course..

I can't guarantee your success – this course does take work on your part. But it can be done!

I am also not responsible for your actions. You are responsible for 100% of the decisions and actions you make while using this course.


See you in the course!


Joe Parys

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1. 1) Double Your Confidence Introduction Video 2020: are you sick and tired of not having and taking control over your life? Do you feel like you're on this hamster wheel going from 9 to 5 and just really trying to live it up on the weekends? I'm going to share with you in this class how to dome or confidence and self esteem to take control over your life today. Here are a few pictures of me a few years ago. As you can see, I really lacks confidence and self esteem. But now I've been able to develop the confidence and self esteem skills that I'm going to teach you in this class. If you would like to learn more about how to manifest everything that you could ever want in your life if you want to get out of the 9 to 5 if you want to learn more about yourself , I'm going to teach you five simple steps in this mini class. Guys and I will see you in our course. 2. 2) Welcome To Our Course: Congratulations. Welcome to our class, guys. My name is Joe Paris. I'm going to be your instructor. And I'm so excited to begin teaching you five simple steps, guys, how to build your confidence and self esteem and how this affects literally everything in your life. So I'm going to be sharing with you in this video are intro video what the rest of the class looks like so that you're not confused and you kind of know exactly where we're going . So in the next five videos, guys, I'm going to be sharing with you tips, tricks, strategies to actually develop more confidence and self esteem and to show you what to do right and know how to do it. We're in an information age, so just by watching these videos, you're gonna learn some things. But if you don't take the action, which is our project at the end of this class, you're really probably not going to achieve the desired results. So it's really important that we take action, which for our class project, that's what we're going to do. So let's not waste any more time. I'll see you in our next video we talk about Jones is 3. 3) Step 1 The Comparison Paradigm and the Joneses: All right, guys, What's going on? As I said in our last video, we're gonna talk about Jones's and Paris and Paradigm. Now, I actually was just able to watch a entrepreneur speaker, somebody who I really think is an amazing mentor. His name is Gary Vander Chuck and Gary V. He was here in Chicago not too long ago, and he really said a couple of things that I wanted to share back with you. And he has this Jones is thing that he talks about a lot on his channel. So I wanted to explain this to you, but also explained to you that in Paris and paradigm and where all of this starts and why this is so important that we're starting with this step number one building our confidence and self esteem. So you might be thinking to yourself how conjoined help me here. What are some of the things that he can teach me here to get me over the hurdles of not getting the things that I want? So if you feel unworthy of getting the things that you want or you see other people having things that you want and you just think Oh, man, if it was just more money, right? If I got more money or maybe if you're a male maybe if I just got the girlfriend over your female maybe I just got the boyfriend and I was able to, you know, that would complete me, right? More money finances. It may be hard. It's got the really good job that I wanted. Then everything would be good. But what's happening there is your in something called the comparison paradigm. Basically, if you think I need somebody, something, money, whatever it might be to complete me to make me feel better about myself, it's really an insecurity, and you're comparing yourself to everyone else. Now, when you're in this comparison paradigm, I call it a paradigm because it's a way of thinking. You care about what other people think about you, right? You literally care about what your parents think about you. What your school teachers think about you. What? Your business associates, your friends, your family. You really, really care about what they think about you. Why? Because you're comparing yourself to them toe other people, your peers toe just social, media, social, everything right? You're comparing yourself And if you go, if I'm only making $50,000 a year and somebody else is making $100,000 a year, they're better than me, right? Or if If Suzie has a girlfriend or a boyfriend and Johnny has a girlfriend or a boyfriend and I don't have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, well, that makes me less of value to society, right? So you're comparing yourself constantly and with social media and all of these other things going on in our lives. We're constantly being told by society what these kind of norms are. And if you don't have certain things that's going to really drain our confidence and self esteem, right? I know for myself that I have gotten caught in this paradigm before, and I'm gonna share with you how to get out of it. So when you're comparing yourself, this is the classic Gary V. Jones's analogy. You're trying to keep up with the Joneses now. Who are the Joneses? The Joneses? In theory, right? There's no actual Jones is. I don't think so. They're like your neighbors next door, right? Theme? Neighbors get a new car. You got to get a new car, they get a new big screen TV. You got to keep up with them and get a new big screen TV. The whole idea is that, like your just keeping up with the people next to you so that you feel better about what you're doing because you're comparing yourself to the people next door. So how do we actually stop doing that? While you get out of the comparison paradigm, you realize that you can't win in this paradigm. Let me give you an example. If you're making $50,000 a year, right, you just out of college, you're making 50 grand your thinking on pretty good. I got a job $50,000. But when you see your other classmate making $100,000 right, so you might be thinking to yourself, I gotta get to the $100,000 job. How do I do that? Right. And then let's say a couple of years go by and you get a raise and you actually now have that $100,000 job. But you read online that you know making six figures is the norm now from some random article and that making $500,000. That's where you need to be. So then you think OK, how do I get to the $500,000 a year job? So then you finally get that job. Let's say three or four years later, you're making half a $1,000,000. Amazing, right. But then it's like, Oh, well, if you are only making half a 1,000,000 you should really be making a 1,000,000. So you can see how in this paradigm cannot win. Eventually, you're gonna get to a 1,000,000 in two million in 10 million and then 100 1,000,000,000. Okay, then, like the billionaires are playing this silly game of like, how many yachts can we buy? How Maney. Nice fancy clothes, things can we actually buy and use. And it's really, really silly guys. So I want you to understand that. And now I'm going to share with you in our next video how to get out of this paradigm. What are some strategical things that you can do today so that you're not comparing yourself so that you're not, you know, trying to keep up with the Joneses, and I'll see you guys in our next video to share with you how to do this 4. 4) Discover THIS and Instantly Gain Confidence and Self Esteem: All right, guys, What's up? In our last video, we talked about comparison paradigm and the Joneses. Right now I gotta teach you how to actually get out of that. And it's really quite simple when you think about it. Also, it's very difficult at the same time, the way that you actually get out of this comparison paradigm and stopped really caring about what other people think about you or chasing the next best thing and really be. You know, keeping up with the Joneses is to have your own life's purpose. Okay, you have to define your own life's purpose Now. Another thing that's really important is that you focus on yourself, right? This is the hardest thing to do, especially in today's society, right? We're always being bombarded with. What did my family members do? What did my friends do? What did my coworkers do, right? Like, what is everybody doing this weekend? Like, what is the thing right? What's the norm? And when you focus on yourself and you ask yourself the tough questions like, what am I trying to get out of life? Why don't I want to do these things in life? What's the whole purpose here. What's the bigger picture? What is my life's purpose? So I'm going to give you an example from my own personal life here to help you through this . To share with you exactly what I did to answer this question to the best of my ability When I get out of college, I knew I wanted to be a teacher. I went to school for education. I actually have a degree in history, psychology and American government. So I have a license degree to teach that. And I started in the classroom at the high school level. I coach girls basketball. I love doing that. However, I didn't have the freedom. I was living bell to bell. I had agreed papers. I had to prepare for the next class. The next day I had to coach. You had to prepare for coaching. You had no life, and for me, I just wanted more. I wanted to travel. I wanted to, you know, live a life by design. And that's exactly what I'm doing today. In fact, just to share with you. I was in Krakoff, Poland, speaking last year I was in Toronto, Canada, hanging off the side of one of the largest buildings in the world, which is incredible. And in this year, gonna be going to Germany and I went to Las Vegas and yeah, there's a lot of things happening. So how do you get there? How do you find your life's purpose? Here is what I did after college. I took a book, but I was really passionate about. It was called Think and grow rich. I took it to my guidance counselor and I sent her. This is what I want. I want to teach this. I want to share the principles and the things in this book with people because this has changed my life. And so she said, Well, you should probably be a life coach and I thought to myself, That's a great idea. Why don't I get a license toe to be a life coach? And I started to go down that path. In fact, I have a life coaching certificate. So, um, I did a little bit of life coaching before I started teaching online, and then I found a few other websites, and once I found these websites, I went, Wow, if I just teach on these websites, people will get to know me. I'll be able to build some authority and credibility there, and it's going to take this life coaching thing and just go crazy. Now. Today, I really don't do much life coaching, but I like to look at these classes that I'm creating, and I feel like this is kind of a life coaching. Just we're not doing it one on one over a Skype call or something like that. So that's how I found my life's purpose. And it didn't just automatically come right. Like I kind of knew I wanted to teach. And then I wanted to be a life coach, and now I just teach video classes online. But it's all has to do with me sharing my gifts and knowledge and experience with you guys . That's the whole point of doing this. And I hope that through these videos you watch these and you go all right. This guy Joe is your average Joe. He's not, you know, doing anything crazy here. But yet he lives. This extraordinary life became the travel. He teaches hundreds of thousands of people. It turns a nice income from himself. How is he doing? This is kind of cool, and it all comes back to your confidence and self esteem. And so it's really that simple, but also to it's really that difficult. So I want you to take some time here and we're gonna get to this at the end of the class. So keep watching the videos. But think about your life purpose. What do you want to do? What do you would you love doing? What do you love doing in the sense of like if you didn't get paid for it, would you still do it? If I think it paid for this, it's still be making videos. I'd still be sharing with you guys because I just love doing it. In fact, the amount of money that I make from these videos this kind of comical It's not very much. So. My point to you is that when you're passionate about something, when you're just all in about doing something because you love to do it, that's when you're on the cusp of finding your life purpose. Alright, guys, I'll see you in our next video. So I'm really excited to begin sharing with you a nice little analogy getting your license because there's a little bit more to this and I'll see you very soon 5. 5) Getting Your License : all right. What's up, guys? Welcome back. In our last couple videos, we talked about keeping up with the Joneses. We then talked about finding our life purpose so that we don't really care about what other people are talking about. We're on our path, right? We know what we want because we love doing it in this video. I'm gonna share with you the getting your license analogy. So if you're above 16 or older, depending upon where you're at in the world, in the United States, here, when you're 16 you get your license to drive a car. It's a big milestone. It's kind of crazy to think about that. I was 16 and driving a car. Anyways, what is this getting your license analogy? So let's think about how you learned to drive a car. Now, the first time you got into the car, it's probably very foreign to you, right? You got a bunch of different pedals. Get the gas, get the break up clutch. You got the drive, Got the reverse. But now, probably since you've been driving years later and you have that experience, you're able to drive the car. No problem. Now think about where you're at now compared to where you were on day one. There's quite a gap there, right? So if you're not aware of your life's purpose, maybe you just haven't defined it. And now you're actually starting to do that. If you weren't aware that you were actually caught in the Paris and Paradigm and you're always comparing and competing and trying to figure out how to actually get to the next level and you're thinking about other people and that you're on day one of driving the car right, so it's going to feel a little bit foreign to you. You're going to be thinking and getting caught in this paradigm still, but comparison one and the Joneses, you might think yourself. Oh, no, I shouldn't do that right not to throw that away. Throw that away and you might be thinking to yourself, I don't know what my life's purpose is. Maybe this isn't working. Maybe it's Desmond. You're kind of going back and forth with it, right? It's going to feel that way because just like on day one of the car, that's a lot of new information and new things that you got a tinker with. So how did you get through it With the car? Well, there's no other options. You either learn how to drive the car or you don't learn it. You don't get your license, and that's really not an option. So I think it's really, really critical that you understand that if you don't learn how to build your confidence and self esteem and really learn about yourself, the results that you're going to get are going to be whatever the environment gives you. You have no control virtually over your life if you don't take proactive control over this . Okay, so this isn't gonna happen overnight. You're not gonna, like, learn how to drive the car perfectly overnight is gonna take you some time to do right. You have to put in the work the hours that it takes to actually learn the skills, and we're gonna talk about a few more things here in this class. We got two more videos After this, we're gonna break down some of these skills that you're going to actually learn and know what to do so that you feel comfortable. So you feel entitled. I think it's really important to feel entitled, not in an arrogant way, but in a way that's congrats with you. So if I were to go out to, let's say, a bar or a nightclub or some sort of Nur hotel and you know I would like toa order a drink , I don't really drink. But let's say I wanted to order a drink. Well, I wouldn't just sit there and wait for the bartender to come over to me. I would feel entitled to go up to the bar, get that person's attention, pay them and get my drink, right, Because to me, I want to be the hammer hitting the nail, not being the nail getting hit by the hammer. Right? So in this process, you have to understand that there's two different dynamics going on here and teach you more about this in the long run here in the next couple of video. So you're getting your license. All right, you're you're just starting here, most of you. All right? You're learning how to drive the car. So as you're learning how to drive the car, it's all going to fall into place for you and the results on the outside the more money. The girlfriend's everything else. You're going to start to attract that and accumulate that without even trying. It's really magical. And, ah, I'll see you in our next videos to teach you more about how this happens. 6. 6) This Simple Habit is Empowering: Hey, guys, what's going on? Welcome back. Video number four talked about getting your license in our last video. We talked about our life purpose. We've talked about that. Jones is how do we put everything together? All right, let me give you an example of what I'm gonna share with you in this video, which is called keeping track. Okay, You got to keep track of what you're doing now. This is a self discipline thing, all right? So confidence and self esteem comes through self discipline. And I know this firsthand because I run my own business. I'm not disciplined. My employees aren't disciplined. And then if they're not disciplined, nothing gets done. If nothing gets done, the business doesn't run. I don't make an income. You get the point. You have to be disciplined and you have to keep track. Now, here's why. You should want to do this. It's really cool to see the results. I have to look yourself in the mirror and go. All right. I'm not getting the results that I want. I don't feel good about myself. I don't. This whatever it might be why, right? You have to confront yourself and look yourself in the mirror and go. Enough's enough. You know, I want to be able to get into the nice nightclubs and eat the fancy dinners and traveled the world and make the money and have the whatever the thing it is that you want, right, enough's enough. And today I hope to share that. So let me give you an analogy in an example of this to a T in the Olympics. Okay, when they're running track or doing any of the sports, it's a fraction of a millimeter of a second from 1st 2nd 3rd All of that. In fact, two. When they played golf right to the Masters, how many times is first and second place come this close to each other there one or two strokes away from actually beating the other person? So in life, there's this razor's edge of how you. Actually, either you get the results you don't, so you have to keep track of what you're doing. If on the weekend you go to the same place over and over and over again, because it's the only place that you feel comfortable and you're not getting the results you want, maybe you should try going somewhere else, right? You have to say to yourself, Okay, this result that I'm getting hotter. Why then, actually get a different result? You have to do different things and keep track of that. Another really amazing example of this is if you were to go to a casino, the casinos keep track off every bet, every bet, $5.10 dollars. $10 million. They're keeping track of everything. Why? Because they know that they keep track of everything that eventually they can see all right there on the paper where the money is coming in and not coming in and where to focus their attention. All right, so you want to do is focus your attention on you. If, let's say, for example, your £50 overweight while then maybe to start building your confidence and self esteem, you need to focus on getting to the gym at least three times a week. So take a journal out and journal that you're gonna go Monday, Wednesday, and Friday to the gym for 30 minutes and then track every single thing that you do in the gym for 30 minutes. I have spreadsheets of spreadsheets all spreadsheets, guys, it's ridiculous, Okay, but that's part of being an entrepreneur and a business owner. You got to keep track of everything. Everything that I spend for my business, it's on a spreadsheet, okay? And yes, there's a lot more responsibility that comes with that. That being said, right, if you want to reach higher and higher levels of your life, have more and more confidence and get to the higher paradigms you have to put in the work. OK, so you have to keep track, all right? And it's hard, especially. It's hard when we're not wired this way. OK, so when I was in school, everything was done for me. I'm loving parents. They were fantastic. They did everything for me. You know, They you know, if I needed help with my homework, they'd sit down and they help me with my homework, right? They wouldn't necessarily do it for me, but they help me through it. And so I always had that safety net to fall back on. It was a blessing and a curse all at the same time. And one last thing here I want to share with you the story and it was really powerful. So when I moved into my first apartment here is a beautiful luxury, high rise apartment. And, uh, you know, I have this little office area here in my apartment and takes up a good chunk, actually. But before I moved in, I had to show it amount of income. While I was earning the at the time, I couldn't show it with the job that I had. I wasn't earning that much money. So I'm like, Well, how am I supposed to show these people that I could afford this? Like, I know I could afford it, but do they know? And so I remember going to my parents because I kept doing that. I'm like, uh Well, help me, you know what I mean? Like, you've helped me before and my dad said he's, like, pretend like we're not here. Just pretend like we're not here for a second, figure it out, and so I'm like, Okay, I gotta figure it out and well, I figured it out, and it was amazing how it happened, but it just happened, and I've lived here for three years now, So if you have, like, this mentality of like I need help. I need somebody else to show me how to do it. No one's going to be able to show you how to do it. Okay, Like you could watch these videos all you want. You can say, Joe, you're great. But what'll I do. How do I do it? You're missing The point, I guess, is my point. It's like you want to. You have to figure it out on your own. You you know you right, Like, I don't know, each and every one of you watching this video. I love to get to know every single one of you that watches the video, but from a time standpoint, it's probably not practical. So you have to know what you want. If you think that you need Ah, you know, you got the fitness area covered and you look great. And your good cool. What do you need to focus on that? Maybe it's more resource is and finances maybe like toe get a better job. Okay, focus on that. How many interviews that you're going to do a week? How maney. Uh, what kind of job do you want, right or whatever it might be. Maybe you got the job and that taken care of. But the love life isn't where you want it to be. Okay, How many times a week you're going to go out there? You're gonna create an online dating profile. How many dates you're gonna go on from that profile? So there's so many things that you can do, guys. Alright. But for me to tell you what to Dio isn't going to help view, right. And it's actually going to like my dad said, Figure it out. Okay, Figure it out more. You seek out things, you're gonna figure it out for yourself. And that's going to be way more satisfying than me telling you to hit the gym three times a week. You know what I mean? So our last little video here is gonna wrap everything up here. I hope this has really helped you. And then we have our project at the very end. So we're coming to a close. I'll see you guys in our next video. Stay tuned 7. 7) Persistence: All right, guys. Step number five. The last video of this class besides, our class projects will make sure after this video you go to a class project that we have last. Okay, so what we talk about in this video we talked about persistence were to tie everything together. Step one in our video class here, we talked about the Joneses to comparison paradigm. Then we talked about our life's purpose. Then after that, we got into getting your license, right? And then in our last video, we talked about keeping track. So when you start to put all these things together, here's what's going to happen. You probably think that you're a good person. And you know what? You are a good person. I truly believe that every single person out there in the world is trying their best to do well, I really, truly believe that at their core now, do bad things happen And are there some bad people out there? Of course. Okay, so in your inherent nature, you want to do good, Okay? But life doesn't always work out that way. In fact, I've had some unfortunate things happen to me, right when it came to, uh, you know, playing sports. I got hurt a couple of times and there was an unfortunate injury, right? You know, financially, I tried to make some business decisions. Partners didn't work out. I had to fire some people that didn't go the way that I planned it to do. We moved on from that. I've made some business decisions that didn't go the right way, right. We make mistakes. Things don't always go as planned. But if you're able to be persistent and stick at it until you actually get the result that you want, that's when the magic happens. You have to stick with it, though. Guys, if you don't stick with it, you can't manifest the thing that you want, and that's the message of all of us. So if you want to feel better about yourself, if you want more in life, if you want more confidence, self esteem, money, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever it is you want, you want to eat the nice restaurants and explore everything that life has offered travel more. We all want that right, don't we? I think we all want the same things. So then it's about how do you get there. You get there by doing the things that I shared with you in this class and then also just being persistent with it until you actually get the result that you want. Most people stop three feet from gold. Now the three feet from Gold Story comes from the book Thinking Grill Rich. If you've read that book, you'll know exactly I'm talking about here. If you haven't check out that book guys that books Amazing. So think. Grow rich Napoleon Hill. The first couple of chapters he talks about desire and stopping three feet from gold. The story goes that there was a minor and he struck gold out in California. The gold rush, right? He thought, This is it. I'm going to be rich. I found the vein of gold this amazing. He went home. He got a bunch of his people, his friends and family to invest them cause he needed machinery to done get all the gold and he started digging Well, things were going great until the vein disappeared and he couldn't find it. And he was in debts and he quit and he stopped and he went well. The gold is not here. I made a mistake. I'm going back home, and that's that. But he sold all of his equipment to somebody who knew the fault lines and that this person who was digging for this gold had the right idea. There was actually a lot more gold in that little area, but they had just missed it because they weren't aware of how the fault lines and the veins worked. So this person bought everything, learned that and then got millions and millions of dollars from this experience. So the point and the three feet from gold is this. If you stop short right before the gold and you don't explore everything, you don't persist past the little failures. You can't get what you ultimately desire and want in life. So that's where we're gonna end this class. Guys, I really hope this helps you. And remember, I can't do it for you. No one can do it for you. You have to figure it out right? But also to if you take the things that I taught you in this class and you understand them and re watch some of these videos, guys and ask yourself the hard questions. What do I want out of life? What is my life's purpose? Why don't I keep comparing myself to other people, you know? And when you get to that and you answer those questions, you're gonna be in a really good place. Alright, guys, bonus video coming up next and I'll see you very, very soon. 8. 8) An Extra Little Bit of Confidence: Hey, guys, what's up? Quick little bonus video. So you might be thinking of yourself. Great class. Joe really enjoyed this. If you have, I really appreciate your feedback, guys. I'm sure there's a way for you to actually leave some sort of review on the class. If you could spend a little bit of time to do that, I really appreciate your feedback. That way I can make the class better learn myself and everything else but a little bonus video here for you. So I know a lot of people still are kind of like, What do I do? What are the steps, the action, things to do? How do I stop caring about what other people think about me? How do I really feel that way? Here's how you do it. All right. You do it by being in step number two. So on your path and journey and focusing on what you purely want, not what your parents want, not what your friends want, what your neighbors want for you. What you want out of life. If you focus on that, you'll see that you don't care about what other people think about. You don't care Why? Because you're so focused on you and what you are trying to do that might sound selfish to some people. But if you don't know who you are and what you want, how are you ever going to be able to help other people? I think that's really, really powerful. So in order to stop getting out of these paradigms and start compared and stop comparing yourself and just like feeling anxious about where you are in your life and all this stuff , figure out what it is you truly want. And then from there, other people will help you if you let them into your life. You know there's there's no reason to let to not let something help you. When you're on your path, you could take their advice. But ultimately it's your choice. It's your life. Go out there and take control. Alright, guys, we'll see you in our last video for a class project. You're not gonna want to miss this. Drop on down. Take the class project guys. I'll see you there very soon. 9. 9) Class Project: All right, guys, What's up? Here we are at the end of the class class project. So it's now time to take the five things that I shared with you. That the Paris and Paradigm in the Joneses. Right? We talked about finding our life purpose, how to actually get in the driver's seat and get out there and take some action, keep track of everything and last but not least really just go out and be persistent, right? So now that we have everything that we need time to take massive action, you have to apply what you've learned in this class. I want you to share down below in our class project. You could make a video on this if you want to saying I went out and I did X, y and Z, or you could just type it out and write it out. Whatever's easiest for you, I like making video. So this is a class project that I went through and I had a transformation. I make a video on it and share it with other people. Please go ahead and take the time. This is for you, right? And when you reflect and you do this project, you'll learn and you'll go. Wow. Okay. I really persistent past these things. I really don't care about what other people think about me. Now. I feel great about my life. I'm focused on what I want to do. I really feel good. And that's the ultimate goal here. Okay, The end of it all is You wake up every day like it's Christmas morning. You know, you feel alive, you feel like you can't wait to conquer the day. You're excited about life. You really, really want to share and help other people. And you just feel good, man. You feel good. Life is too short not to feel good. You experience a spectrum of this. Why? Because of teaching you to appreciate the good and to learn from the bad so that you can find that piece in between. So I hope that this has really helped you. If it has, guys go ahead. At the end of this should be a place for you to review the class. I really appreciate your support. And also I really appreciate your feedback on. All right, guys, Thanks for taking this class. I can't wait to see these projects come to life. I can't wait to hear the stories about how you've transformed your confidence and self esteem and how you feel absolutely incredible every day.