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1. Class Outline: Declutter Your Wardrobe Like a Pro: Welcome to this
de-cluttering masterclass. We're going to learn how to declutter your
wardrobe like a pro. So here's what we're going
to cover in this class. My promise to you by
the end of this class, you'll know why
clutter is bad news. We're gonna talk about some of the science that's
floating around. There's not a lot of it as to why we should
pay attention to the effect that
clutter is having on our well-being and what
we should do better. So I'm going to give you some of the interesting
things that I found. Some of the things
that we just know instinctually from
living with Flutter, it affects us, really
does affect us. I have nine plus I've got loads of different
tips to help you find your personal
style to talk about your lifestyle and what kind
of clothes do you need. So that when you go to
declutter your wardrobe, you actually feel like you know, what need, what you should keep, what doesn't serve you anymore. And you'll have
clarity on that and that'll really help with
your decision-making. Also going to
inspire you and give you the oomph to start
decluttering your wardrobe. If it's something you've
been putting off, you're gonna have
that little boom. Yeah, if I can do this. And that is always want to, I want to impart to you. And as you watch these classes, you're going to be able to keep your things organized
with minimal effort. We want to maintain things. You want to give things
at home and have them be easy to find, easy to launder, and to keep nice so
that you don't have to keep replacing things that you do feel like you have
something to wear. And that it will
serve you for very, very long time and
you'll get the most out of your clothes. So let's go.
2. Before and After: Wardrobe Inspiration: So here's a little bit of inspiration to help
you on your journey. So maybe in the past
you've taken everything out of your wardrobe
and put it on the bed and went, okay. Today is the day I deal with the wardrobe and it just
feels overwhelming. And by the end of the day, you're just left
with the huge heap and you can't sleep there
and it's impractical. So what we're gonna do is
we're gonna take it in chunks. Maybe that's as small
as one piece a day. And you just slowly work through your wardrobe
so that you can sleep, you can feel organized. By the end of it, you have clothes that you love
and where they're organized by color or
by season OR function, and that they will
really work for you. Have a nice neat shoes
and space for more. I'm not just cramming things in. What if you have crazy drawers
and you just can't seem to find things or your daughter things are
mixed in with your things. And you've got beauty products on things don't seem
to have a home. We can find a way to peel back and figure
out what we need. Potentially to fold thing in a way that makes
sense to us here. These clothes have been
common Maori folded so we can see exactly what is on offer and we got rid of all of the different things that didn't fit the daughter anymore. You can see that everything
is matching and actually fits her and everything
can be easily found. And that's what we want
to get to at the end of the decluttering
of the wardrobe. And it's something that
you can keep up because it looks so beautiful and you
want to keep it that way. Maybe you've just
got a pile of stuff. You're going with
what was handy. When you have a pile of
shoes like this or anything, it's really hard to see. Do we even have all of
the matching pairs? Are all of these usable? Does anyone have holes or soul problems or do they
fit all that kind of stuff? When we declutter
what we don't need, you can get to a point where that solution actually does
work pretty well for you. That can push underneath the bed and be an
easily accessed. And you can see clearly the options you
have of clothes and shoes that really fit but really work for you
and make you happy. I'm also just seeing
them all lined up like that is delightful. It's very, it's encouraging. It makes you feel like you're
in control of your life. This is just your wardrobe. So it has that ripple effect.
3. Motivation: Why Declutter Your Wardrobe pt 1: Clutter really that bad. It's fine or getting by. Are you are you coping? But here I'm here to
say that there is some actual deep
things going on. There's the science to prove that it is causing you stress. And it's something that we
should pay attention to. Here is just a small bit of how cluttered
is affecting you. When it comes to
clothing in particular, say this is you. You might feel like
you've nothing to where do you ever just
open it up and go? I have so many things, but I have nothing
suitable to wear. A season changes. Your season of life changes. I'm suddenly nothing
seems to match. Nothing fits,
nothing feels good, but you can't prize things
apart in your wardrobe. It just feels overwhelming. So I just want to say
that sometimes when you fill the last
clothing and things go together and things
are thoughtful, you won't have that closet full of clothes,
nothing to wear. A feeling that seeing that on daily basis can be quite
demoralizing and uncomfortable. We don't want you
to feel like you've nothing to where I
want you to feel empowered and that you close represent you and
support your life. And the way that this can impact this is when
things feel cluttered, when you can't find what
you need when there are closed building up in
different parts of your home. This was a study done in LA
and they found that people had higher levels of
stress hormones if they perceived their
home as cluttered. So they took swabs and they measured cortisol levels
throughout the day. If you felt like your
place was cluttered, you had more stress. That was measurable. It actually is affecting
you if you feel yuck. There is stuff going on in
the background and we know that stress hormones can
make it hard to sleep. They can affect your appetite. They can give you stomach
pains and headaches. So this stuff has a real
impact on you and we should pay attention to it
can also impair your focus. So they did a study
where they got people to try and
complete a task. And they put lots of
different symbols on the screen or they had less
symbols on for other people. And they found that
the more things your brain has to process, the more time and the
harder it was for you to do tasks you're trying
to work from home. There were clothes
all over the place. You're trying to pick
out something to where it's going to take up mental energy
to look through all those things onto
side and to figure them out just because they're
there in your visual field. So they will make it
harder for you to focus on things to get done,
what you need to get done. You may find that the
laundry it is never ends. You're constantly wearing things and tossing them into laundry. But the more close
you have to wash, the more you have to
remember to take out of the machine and to hang
up and fold and iron. It just, it just keeps going. And the more you have, the less likely you are to
sift through it and move it. Also, because you
aren't going to run out either laundry
will continue to build up. Whereas if you have a smaller
selection of clothes, you're going to prioritize
doing that laundry. It won't be overwhelming. And you will get
through it faster because it seems
more achievable. And there is science to say
that when we believe we can complete and fulfill a task, we're more likely
to engage with it. If you feel like it's
endless laundry, having fewer channels just
makes that process simpler. It makes it more streamlined because it doesn't build
up in the same way.
4. Motivation: Why Declutter Your Wardrobe pt 2: And the great minimalist
at foo meiosis psyche, who's the author of goodbye
things talks about how things don't just take up physical space but mental space. It's not even just that they're
a million things to do. And you can see in front of you or they're taking up mental
space just by seeing them, you know, it's like
the unseen to-do list. Oh, I should repair that and
bring that back to the shop. More than that in a while
or Oh, look at this, I forgot about this or
I'll let you bring that upstairs or I should
fold that and it's just this constant
loop in your heads. So it's not just in the chair and you can't
sit on the chair. It's like taking up
space in your brain. It's taking up willpower, energy and all of
these things that are depleted in a
busy lifestyle. We need to cherish that and take back our mental space for
other things and maybe make clothing
something that just is not occupying so much of
our minds and our time. The other thing is you
might be putting off plans. Hear me out. If you have loads and loads of extra clothes in the spare room, maybe your kid can't
move in there and have that as their bedroom because
there's no wardrobe space. You can't have someone
at stay there. You can't move house
because there were so many closed deal with
before you do that. Maybe you just don't feel
like you have anything to wear so you put off
plans with people. You can't redecorate because there's just mountains of
clothes around the place. It is actually having a
physical impact on you progressing with your
life and enjoying things. Because you can't take on those projects because
you first have to overcome the obstacle of
all the clothes in your way. Lastly, survey done by at national cleaning and
association in the States. The National think the
American Cleaning Institute, they found in a survey of many, many thousands people, 69% of people avoided
cleaning areas. They felt that they should. If there are things in the way, hiring a cleaner is only
going to do so much. It's going to waste time. It's going to make you
feel embarrassed and it's stressful because there are
things to move to clean. You put off cleaning. It affects your health
and there's dust, maybe there's moles
and things that build up because
there are things in the way and cleaning
is a hard thing to do. Here are just some
of the ways that clutter can get in the way of you living
a healthy, happy life. There's plenty more. But let's think about
doing something about it. Let's think about
tackling the clothes and building a wardrobe that
works for your lifestyle, your real one, not your fantasy. What makes you feel good? Removes all of these obstacles, gives you more space, helps you focus better. It gives you less
household tasks to do and makes those easier and lets
you move on with your life. Happy about what you're wearing and how organized your home. It's so let's talk
about that next.
5. Think About it: List Your Occasions: So let's first think, let's take a step back and think about what are you dressing for? How do we approach? Planning out a wardrobe? Some of these things you
figure out you need, you might already own and some
of you might need to buy. But let's think about it
from a top down perspective. What's happening in your life, and using that
information to make good decisions about your
wardrobe as your decluttering. The first thing I want you to do is to list out the occasions. What are you dressing
for in your life, and how many outfits
do you actually need? Sometimes you have
to experience that. Maybe track it for a period
of time and that's fine. And others you'll know
instinctually how many you need. And considering laundry in that, we can figure out exactly what would work for
your situation. What do you do? You live in your life? Let's think about that. Okay. So perhaps you are working. Are you working from home? I on your feet all day. Are you in an office or are you working one-on-one
with people? For example, I used to work
in an office and I had dresses and skirts and
nice bags and things. But now as a decluttering coach, I worked people in their
homes and I have to both look smart but also be very bendy. I have to get down under beds,
I have to get into Alex. I have to be able to
stretch and reach, be safe and be comfortable. So my clothes look
a lot different. I don't really have any. I have just a handful of skirts and dresses
for special occasions, but that's no longer
part of my work. Where how are you
working right now? And how can you support
that lifestyle? How do you relax? D snuggle up on the
couch with a hobby, hot drink and Netflix. You gardening or you skiing? Are you a part of
a football team? So think about how you relax
and what are you doing, not what you would
like to be doing, but like what are
you actually doing? An investigation, those things, not aspirationally
buying things, ski equipment, and
you won't even skiing once in your
life ten years ago. Let's think about how we're
actually relaxing and honor that I'm give
ourselves nice clothes, relax and not just our
cast off and our old Yorkie pajamas that we don't
want anyone else to see. Cleaning. Are you heavy in the bleach painting walls
doing really heavy duty work. I need special
cleaning clothes or is it just kind of dusting
and the dishes the odd time and maybe
you don't need such a specialized
cleaning clothes. For example, you could just
keep 11 simple outfit. I have a pair of leggings and a shirt that I wear whenever I'm painting and those
are my painting clothes and I need one set of them. So think about, do you
actually need loads of extra things for in the garden or to get
just keep it simple. You just have that
one messy coat and you can wear your
normal clothes underneath. So let's think a little bit more critically about
what are you doing. Other things you might be
doing socializing that cozy at home or if that I'd fancy
for dinners or Mike clubs. Don't know about you. I'm not unlike clip person. Are you walking dogs? Are you hi kings and think
about how are you socializing? How often are special
occasions happening? So you might have a
beautiful Wardrobe full of dresses and sparky
bags and things, but actually, you've
won wedding a year. Maybe a smaller
special occasion. Capsule border would work
really well for you. Do you have Hollywood ambitions of wearing really sparkly beautiful things
at Christmas time, but all of your family
where just cozy clothes, you know, and you
feel out of place. Maybe you don't need fancy, fancy Christmas where
you compare that down to just one or two
really special pieces. Exercising. How are
you exercising? Do you have a lot
of equipment for sports and things that
you don't really do. And mostly you just
do yoga or you go to the gym or you just
like to go on walks and you don't really
need anything special or do certain kinds of
ligands like write-up or move around and you
actually prefer other ones. So make a list of all the different
activities you're doing. What's working and
what's not working. Pen and paper can do wonders.
6. Think About It: Frequency of Occasions: Then I want you to think
about your schedule. How often are those
things happening? And this can be a
bit interesting to think about because you might assume that I'm
home the odd time, but I'm always doing stuff. But when you actually map it out or see what did I do
in the last month? You've been at home.
Maybe you should honor that at home time with some nicer fold spend
then you realized. So say you work five days
a week, that's fine. That's similar kind of
stuff that's ground. So that'll take up a chunk of, of your life and then the kinds of clothes
you're gonna wear. Maybe you do a deep
clean twice a week. So you want something
comfortable for that and you go to exercise
classes three times a week. Woohoo, look at you exercising. How often are you doing laundry? Do you need four sets of exercise clothes and
that's just enough. Maybe you don't need 20 different tanktops
it take to the gym. You're relaxing. Most evenings. Perhaps. You're happy to stay in your
workflows or you want to get into comfy clothes
and you want to invest a little
bit more on those. And you maybe have one special occasion
a week or a month or two every half a year to figure out what
that looks like for you. Then you're socializing maybe twice a week and that
was that on Zoom. Do you need to get
fancy and or are your workflows or your cozy clothes just
as fine for that. So some of these occasions may combine and be the
same kind of close. Then I want you to think about how many outfits you
need during the weekend. You can easily just
tell you block sort of percentage of the
outfits you're wearing. This doesn't have
to be hard science, but how often do you at home? When I did this for
myself, I was shocked by how much time I
actually spend at home. I've learned to be
more comfortable and to not just where cast-off, some things that I can't leave the house and that
actually if I wear clothes for at home
that I feel good in, I'm much more likely to go on a Zoom call to pop up to
the shops to run errands. An honor, both the need to be presentable and comfortable. If you map it out like this, is reflective of the clothes that you have in your wardrobe? Or do you just
have 80% workflows and you're really only
have one socializing top. Maybe you need to invest a little bit more on some
of these categories. Similarly, as I said, if you've a lot of cocktail
dresses and you're only going on the
occasional special outing. Maybe you just need
a very simple, fancy capsule of clothing. A few pieces that all
go together that are in more versatile colors. You can dress up and dress down, then tons of different dresses. So think about how your life is lived and what are you doing. That will indicate what kind of clothing we need to keep or BI to build that wardrobe
so it suits you.
7. Think About It: What Do You Like?: Now I want you to think
about your style. Have you ever thought
about your personal style? And that can sometimes be
something fashionable. Could be, I'm into a very kind of academic look with
shirts and things. Or like a classic style or
I'm a bit Rock and Roll, or it can just be you. It can be the things that you're drawn to and I
fully support them. Sometimes it's not always
obvious what our style is. As we get older, we transition into
different phases of life. We can be caught in those moments where
we don't really know, what do I like anymore? Or I'm always just wearing comfy things
and I don't really feel like good or I
don't feel like myself. Is there a way to put
a twist on that and figure out what is u? Here are some ways
you can tease that. I've worked on this for
many, many years myself. It may not be something
that jumps out immediately. What do you like? They'd like to wear? One exercise you can
do is think about taking pictures of your
outfits for two weeks. Get someone else to do
it, do it in the mirror. Take a picture of it
laying on the bed or just jot down what you're
wearing on a notebook, piece of paper and
then reviewing it and seeing what do I
actually wear, what colors, what shapes on my
wedding dresses I'm wearing certain things. Am I wearing? The shoes that I always thought that I would
wear loads of? It can be very revealing to actually document
what you're wearing. And think about why
you chose them. Is it because of the weather? Is it because I wouldn't
wear that one because itches or it's not the right
color or it doesn't match. So looking at all
those little details can really help you
figure this out. I must give credit to a new Sharif who wrote
the curated closet. This is a method that is
in her book and it is an excellent book
if you would like to dig into that a
little bit more. Also, think about
who do you notice you're on the bus and you're
like, I love her dress. I love his jacket. They've great shoes
or great hairstyle. A cutie with Meyer. He liked my AMT is so stylish or that celebrity who
is standing out to you? Who are you complementing? Who are you taken screenshots of our saving or following
on Instagram or whatever. Think about who you notice. Because that will tell
you a little bit about maybe who you aspire
to dress like. And perhaps you can
bring a little bit of that into your style. You don't have to be them, but you can figure out why. Why is it that they
stand out to you? One example from, uh, from what I like is
I love when people wear things that
are more daring, that's a bright color or
something a bit more unusual. Because I think expressing
yourself and standing it and being different
is really inspiring. And it's something I aspire to. So when I look at that, I go, how can I be just a
smidge more daring? Maybe that's wearing multiple
rings on your fingers or eyeliner or a bright
color once in awhile. And realizing that's
something that you want to dig into a bit
more and then pursue. That's different for everybody. Also, think about starting
a Pinterest board. You might already be someone who is knee
deep in Pinterest. But when you start
to pin things, I'm looking for what do these, these, these pictures
have in common? Is it colors, is it styles, textures isn't the mood. I like the dark and moody
and mysterious are like bright and fun and
friendly and approachable. Start to look at the trends. What are the things that are
coming up again and again. Then realizing that's
what you're drawn to. And if you have things in your wardrobe that aren't just what you feel
you should wear, but what you want to wear. You're much more likely to
get youth side of them and to have fewer things
that do more for you. And we can avoid that clutter.
8. Think About it: Look for Style Patterns: So let's pick out
some of those trends. This can be shapes and styles. Do you like a high waist of
trouser or a wide leg or a skinny leg or elastic aided or a certain fabric or a color. You may have noticed I
quite like a turtleneck. They make me feel safe. They made me feel
comfortable and smart. Oh, something looking smart and polished is
something I really like. I also like being covered. I like being warm. That can be a jumper
or an undershirt. So for me I noticed, I thought that this was a timeless and interesting look that I was going to adopt. Okay, So is there
a certain kind of fabric or style or piece of
clothing that you read it up. Maybe it's a hat,
a kind of shoe. Think about that. It's the Recolor that's
coming to the forefront. This is when we start to build a color palette
for our wardrobes, it can be very, very useful to figure out what works for us. Is it the color blue as
it pink? Is it black? And you're just like
just the most chic color iin into that. Why are you drawn to that color? It doesn't look good on you. Does it remind you of something? Does it feel comforting to you? Is it, you know, muted enough that it feels
sensible and professional? Does it feel fun? So maybe it's a color that you're drawn to that
becomes a unifying factor. Out. Your clothes make you feel, do you want to? Do you always feel cold? Is it important for
you to be warm and to be happy and comfortable? Perhaps you're like me
and you need to have layers that you get hot and cold easily and you want
to be able to add layers. So I want to add a
scarf and a jacket and a coat and be able
to take those off rather than having
one sheepskin jacket that's extremely warm, but when you take it off, you just would t-shirt underneath. So think about the fit. Elastic waist bands,
non itchy fabrics, a bit of stretch. Genes that don't
pinch it the waste. What are the qualities of
those clothes that you read like maybe
it's that they wash really easily and they
don't need ironing. Maybe that's something
that you really, really like gonna
be as clothing. So these are some of the trends you should start to
pick out circling things and make yourself a
bit of a mood board or a list or a lead on paper,
and figure it out. Okay, here are some of the
things that come up again and again if I put
them all together, what does that say? All of this blue turtlenecks
that are layered, It's like, Oh, cozy, smart and
professional looking close. Think about what
your trends come together to signify
about your style.
9. Plan it: Pick Your Colours: At that point, we
want to think about, okay, can we build
a color palette? Because this is something
that's extremely helpful. You're not moving from
seventies beau ** browns, too. Futuristic, silver sparkles
to frilly dresses that you can run in a field. Or maybe you do and you'd like, your style is clashing those things together and
having fun with that. But whatever it is, if
you can narrow it down, it's going to make things
match so much easier. So maybe you are, if you'd like cool colors, blacks and grays, and I'm blues. And those are great
base colors for you, but you're not going
to invest in khaki, green and cream and brown. Maybe those aren't your bet your colors because
those are going to clash with the signature
colors that you choose. I do love a pink. I have some red, purple, blue, some even teal. Those are colors that I really
enjoy and look good on me. I'm gonna avoid
yellows and greens. They're just not my thing, but if you had low two
yellows and greens, they may come
together beautifully. Once you start picking
those neutrals, It's amazing how things
start to match together. For example, I bought a beige coat and I have kind
of a camel colored hat. I've just gotten
a beige backpack. It's amazing how
Sheikh they look when they all go together. I don't have clashing different things that
individually are nice, but they just don't
work together. And I've decided that the
color is going for either black or beige for
essential pieces like that. Because then no matter what, they pair together
and it makes even traveling much more
easy because then everything matches and it looks good and you
look sheikh and professional and that is something I'm
definitely going for. If you're someone who loves all the colors in
the rainbow and you want to go for and flash
them all together. You do you. But I want you to look at the pictures that
you've chosen in the previous video
and think, okay, how do I want to feel
come professional, smart, quirky like water, those words and how can I build a color palette that
makes it easier for me to put outfits together
and embody that feeling. All right, So picking
a color palette, I wish you well on this quest.
10. Plan it: Find Your Colour Season: You might consider finding what your color type is and there
are different systems. But the classic one
is the four seasons. If you've ever done,
color me beautiful. I personally am a summer. I should avoid oranges and, and warm browns and things and even colors that
are far too dark like, I do love wearing black, but black is not going
to make me look my best. It's not going to smooth my
skin and make my eyes pop. I'm make you look at me
rather than the clothing. Whereas a light pink, green, purple literally
make my eyes shine. If you don't want to go and
do that service yourself. One thing you can
do is go around your house and find colors. It can be cushions, it can
be pieces of clothing. You have already
pieces of paper, even hold them up to your face. Doesn't make your skin
look really clear. What does it show up? The bags under your
eyes and your veins and your imperfections doesn't
make your eyes sparkled. And especially if
you do that without makeup on, it's amazing. How quickly you can
kind of be like, Oh, that does look really good. And 0 in on the end, if you look up some of the
guides online, eye color, hair color, and obviously
if you like me, have changed your hair color, that can affect it too. And the depth of your skin, whether you've warm
or cool undertones, spend some time
and dig into that. And it can be something
that can be a real asset. But at the end of
the day, if you love the color orange and
orange isn't your color. You can wear it if you want
to. There are no rules. But if you really
want it to compliment your skin tone and make you
look really fresh and alive. Maybe keep that orange to a bag or a pair of socks
or something that's not by your face and by
your face you have a lovely green scarf that
brings out your eyes. Have some fun with it. Use it as a jumping
off point and find your color season that
makes you look like you.
11. Plan it: A Capsule Wardrobe Example: At the end of the day,
what do we want to get to? We want to build a
cohesive capsule. Now this is an extremely
minimal capsule by Ms. Minimalist at one of the first bloggers that I ever got into minimalism
through an amazing woman. And she lived with just
this one pair of shoes bag. And she found that across work, travel, socializing,
this was enough for her. Personally, I don't think I could live with
this few clothing them unless it was just for like a long weekend
or something. If you get to the point
where you can have just 5000 pieces of clothing that all go
together in here. How she has a base
color, that's black, she's a bit of then she's got some jewel tones in
there that's suit her. She's quite dark hair. He or she would
have been a winter. All of the clothes go with
all of the other clothes. They all have a
similar smart styles and that there's no frills on one and then a sleek
simple style on the other. Like everything is cohesive. If you can get to
the point where you can literally grab a jumper and grabbed a pair of trousers
and they go without looking. I have not got to
this point myself. That pretty much all of your tops go with almost
all of your bottoms. You're gonna have a much
more functional wardrobe. Then if you have
one of everything, you'll learn to start
to buy things that go with what you have and
commit to that style. Even if you love loads
of other things, you can still enjoy
them out there, but maybe they don't
need to live in your wardrobe and
be worn by you. Consider building
a capsule wardrobe that's cohesive color,
palette and style, where everything goes
together and can be easily paired and make just getting
dressed so much easier. At the end of the day. If you want to wear
something a bit funky and have a bit of fun, and that's a priority for you. Go for it. A fun example, I bought
this rap top when I Boris, I kind of felt a
bit like a Jedi. And my husband
said, You literally looked like Obi-Wan Kenobi. So what do we do? I took a picture of myself,
put it on Instagram. I had a bit of fun and I, whenever I wear it, I do
feel a bit like a Jedi, but I'm at home in that I enjoy wearing things and feeling
a bit playful with them. I want you to choose
things that you enjoy. If you want to dress
as a sci-fi character. If you want to dress somebody
who lives in 1950s in a cottage or black with all studies and piercings
and that's who you are. I want you to embrace that
at the end of the day, there is no formula. Nobody can tell you
how you should dress. If you want to
dress like a Jedi. You should dress like a Jedi and just be playful and
enjoy your clothes. If that feeling leaves you
and you go, You know what? I always feel a bit
silly when I wear this and I want to be smarter. That's also fine. Dress to make yourself
feel alive and feel supported and don't follow the rules the arbitrarily
somebody has said, you must own these 12
essential pieces of clothing. If you don't end up
wearing a black blazer, maybe that's not essential. So your clothes are as unique as you and you should wear.
It makes you happy.
12. Reminder: Wear What You Want: And at the end of the day, if you want to wear
something a bit funky and have a bit of fun, and that's a priority for you. Go for it. Here's a fun example. I bought this ROP
top when I Boris, I kinda felt a bit like a Jedi. And my husband
said You literally looked like Obi-Wan Kenobi. So what do we do? I took a picture of myself,
put it on Instagram. I had a bit of fun and I, whenever I wear it, I do
feel a bit like a Jedi, but I'm at home in that I enjoy wearing things and feeling
a bit playful with them. I want you to choose
things that you enjoy. If you want to dress
as a sci-fi character, if you want to dress a
somebody who lives in 1950s in a cottage or black with old studies and piercings
and that's who you are. I want you to embrace that
at the end of the day, there is no formula. Nobody can tell you
how you should dress. And if you want to
dress like a Jedi, you should dress like a Jedi. And just be playful and
enjoy your clothes. If that feeling leaves you
when you go, You know what? I always feel a bit
silly when I wear this and I want to be smarter. That's also fine. Dress to make yourself
feel alive and feel supported and don't follow the rules the arbitrarily
somebody has said, you must own these 12
essential pieces of clothing. You don't end up
wearing a black blazer, maybe that's not essential. Your clothes are as unique as you and you should wear.
It makes you happy.
13. Crash Course: Declutter Your Wardrobe pt 1: Let's talk about how
I like to disclosure. I take an approach where I want people
to feel comfortable. I want them to feel empowered
and not overwhelmed. So here is how I would approach decluttering
your clothes. I basically use this
method with all of my clients for lots of
different use cases. But here's how I would approach it for closed specifically. Alright, so here's your gentle de-cluttering
crash course. The first thing is
you don't want to just launch in unprepared. I suggest you gather
your supplies. You're going to need bags. They can be big black sex, they can be shopping
bags that you reuse, or they can be compostable
bags or any boxes that you have lying around
just so that you can gather things that
you can donate them, dispose of them correctly. Basically anything
that can be labeled, it's going to be
very useful for you creating piles and helping you remember where
different things are meant to go at the
end of your session. I always also recommend that
you keep a notebook and pen handy or some kind of piece of paper or even
just your phone. Because as you go through, you're going to realize
that there are to-dos, there are tasks to do that
aren't just de-cluttering. You. Find some odd socks, you go. Okay. I've got to maybe
make a note for myself, maybe put a post-it up
beside the laundry to say, okay, pair without
socks or a PEG, where you can click
them up somewhere. Maybe you need to
tailor something. You need to put that
on the list and each tailored this or you've something that
belongs to someone, or someone has something that belongs to you and you remember, put that on the list as well. So anything that you noticed
that you have to do, I need another time to
talk or I need needle and thread that goes on that list so you don't have
to hold it in your mind. Then I always say have some
cleaning supplies handy. I've just simple spray
and a dusting cloths. Because when you
pull things out, even in a ward or
with closed doors, you'll be amazed how
much dust gets in there. And, or other GUI things. Who knows? As you're taking things out, give yourself a clean slate, fresh and it all up
with a cleaning. Have that on hand. And your phone can be used for
a lot of different things. It can be for setting timers, for texting people, for
reminding yourself. Googling things. What do I do with a certain thing that I
found in my wardrobe? Usually great to have on hand as long as it doesn't distract you with social media
and that kind of thing. Also taking before and after pictures can be very motivating. Your phone is a pretty
essential piece of kit. What I often say to
people is if you feel overwhelmed, you
know, set a timer. I said, I'm going to decode
art for ten minutes and then take a break,
walkaway, breathe. Or rather than taking every piece of clothing
you have out onto the bed, select just a drawer,
just one category. Say I'm just gonna do my evening where I'm just
gonna do my socks. Don't do it all and complete
one thing from start to finish and feel a
sense of accomplishment. Also, I would say, take it out of where you are, usually seeing your clothes. So instead of just browsing
through what you've got, hung up and pulling it things
you don't want anymore. Give yourself a
fresh perspective. This is something that Marie Kondo does that
I think is great, is taking that cash green, maybe not all your clothes, don't put them all on the bed
and then get overwhelmed. Go have a break and then come back and you can't
sleep in your bed, but dumped the socks out
on a table on your bed, on a clean floor and work on them there because
it'll kind of shake you out of the norm
and also gives you an opportunity to clean out
where they were being stored.
14. Crash Course: Declutter Your Wardrobe pt 2: Okay, once you have
your category, your selection of clothing
and wardrobe items that you want to declare. We're going to divide
them into piles. This can be done in
a number of ways. Either you go item by
item and you decide, okay, I'm gonna keep this too. I love it. Does it belong in another room? Actually, this isn't mine. It belongs to my sister or belongs to my daughter and
it should be somewhere else. Do I been to donations? I do. I want to give it to somebody. Does it belong to somebody else? It needs to go back. Or is this rubbish recycle
as many piles as you need? If you find that that's
a bit overwhelming. One thing I do recommend
to a lot of people is if there's a large amount of
socks or dresses or something, first put them in
their categories. For socks as an example, this could be okay, I'm going to gather
up all the odd socks. I'm going to gather
up all the sport socks, the ankle socks, the big fluffy ones, the colored ones
are the black ones. So that you can see how many
you have in each category. And it might be
that you have way, way more black socks
that you bought for work or something more formal
than you actually need. Seeing them in those
categories can help you make a more
global decision about a whole group of things
rather than one at a time. And then take this step C, you get older black
socks and you go, okay, which of
these will I keep? Which will I recycle? Which which belonged
to someone else or which are odd and even. Take it a step further
in making the task smaller and go pile by
Pilate by category. Then what you'll have is, hopefully if you've chosen
a small amount of things to disclosure and you've got all
these things in their bags, their boxes labeled, then you have to
deal with the piles. Now, if you want to
keep decluttering, you can just add
things to these piles. But what I recommend is you do only as much details
as you can completely finish with the energy
and time that you have. What I want you to do is to
tie up that rubbish bag, take the things and
put them in recycling. Whether that's going right, that has to go out to a
textile recycling band. There are there are options available all over depending on where you're from in Ireland, we have a great company
called clothes pod. I'll put a picture up here. There they are. They're all over Ireland and they are fantastic
for recycling, but also selling
on giving clothes. Second Life, if there to
donate to charity shops, sometimes if I have
a big black sack, I will tie a knot in it. I'll write men's clothes, ladies clothes,
children's shoes, whatever it is just
to help the person. And another top tip for donating is if you
bring things down in your own bags rather
than handing over the bag, say actually I'd like
to keep this bag. They can empty that usually
into a big pile in the back. Then they can give you
back the bag to reuse, which is very helpful because I have certain ones that are really heavy duty and I
love and are easy for me to walk down to my
local charity shop. You don't actually have
to give the way the bag, you can reuse them. But the principle is
deal with those glows. If you have clothes that are needing to be repaired,
that's a pile. Maybe you need to put something
in your calendar to say, okay, I'm gonna do
that oriented Google, whereas my local tailor or I need to buy
needle and thread, add that to your to-do list. And then the things
you're gonna keep, put them back on hangers, put them in drawers, and maybe you want to wait
till the rest of it's done to start organizing and
deciding where things live. But what I want at the end of this is that you
have a blank slate, you're back to normal. The piles are dealt
with whether they are by the door and
the utility room. They are on their way, maybe putting them in the
boot of your car. That could be really,
really helpful. But that you leave the space usable and ready for more details during and
also just for life. Because we don't want
to associate pleasure. Decluttering with more stress. Take a chunk, detailed flourish, organize it into where
things are going, label them really well. That can be with a sticky note, a marker, or a sticky label. And off you go, deal
with them and make it your priority to
get those things out of the house as
soon as possible?
15. Pro Tips: Wardrobe Decluttering Questions pt 1: Alright, so you say, great. While I am going to
disclose her my wardrobe, I'm gonna take it bit
by bit and whatever. But I find the
decision-making process of what to keep and
what to give away. Really hard. Clothing can be
emotional clothing is an expression of who we are. And if it's something
that you feel like, you don't quite feel at home in your clothes or you don't quite know what
you want to wear. It can be quite
overwhelming to say, okay, I'm gonna keep
this and not keep this, but I spent a lot of money on it and it can become a
big thing I want, I want to do now is give you
questions and frameworks and things that will
help nudge you a little bit more in the direction of decluttering and making
decisions easier and wiser. And these are the
kinds of things that I tell my clients all the time to help take
the pressure off them, to help them think a
little bit different. And this is where the role of a professional organizer and professionals each
other or comes in. Because we take you that extra step in the right direction. Here are some good
questions to ask. Things you should ask yourself as you're looking
through something. Now obviously, if you hold up something and you
love it or you hate, an extreme reaction
is something that's a lot easier for you to deal with. However, if it's something
that you're not sure you're on the fence about your nervous
about getting rid of. Here's some questions
you can ask. Here's something that
I often challenge myself with when I'm
buying something. Because often when
you're out shopping, if you'd like shopping, you're having a great day,
you're feeling amazing. You might feel good
about your body. You might feel energetic. When you're buying
clothes in a good mood. You might be thinking of scenarios when
you're at your best. But what about those bad days? Is this the kind of clothing
that is a very avant-garde, bold color and I do
have a purple jumper. You'll see from other
classes that I've given. Would I wear that on a bad day? Is it comfortable? Does it match a lot of things? Do I feel like myself in it? Or is it something that's only once in a blue moon when I'm brave enough to
where fish or is it, HE isn't uncomfortable and I'd really be suffering for
the sake of fashion. Think for me on a rainy Tuesday morning
commuting to work, would I wear this? Would IT support me
doing what I want to do? So think about what
do you wear it on a particularly bad day. So along those lines, does it does it pinch, doesn't move around on you. Do you find that you're wearing shoes and they make
your ankles bleed? They rub, they pinch your toes. They make a loud noise. I have a pair of sandals with the straps
come loose really, really easily and
they flop about, you know, it might
be that, okay, fine. I'll wear it. It is what it is. But if it bothers you, if if you're adjusting
your clothes all day long, you're not going to
feel it your best. On a bad day, as I said, you're going to look in your
wardrobe and you're gonna pick something else over this. I would say raise your standards and make your clothes
work for you. And if you need
supportive flows, if you have digestive issues, if you have been struggling over the pandemic and your
weight is going up and down. Pick the clothes that
make you feel your best, make you feel like you
could do anything. On your Taylor Joy is the
actress in the Queen's gambit. She was asked one time at
which dress would you pick? And she said, Well, usually
I would ask myself, can I climb a tree in my outfit? I felt that was
really interesting. So if you're someone
who likes gardening, who walks a lot in this city, whose cycles, who's more active? Perhaps your choice
of handbags of clothing needs to
be more practical. However, if you're in a big
city and you are getting everywhere on public transport and you don't have to walk
as much or you have a car, you can wear high heels
and fancy handbags. But yeah, just consider
your lifestyle and what you're willing to
tolerate from your clothes. Often, my clients will hold up a piece of
clothing and go, Oh, this would be great for
a wedding at christening. This would be great
for work when we go back to the office and
it's a bit theoretical. Even you might not
have even tried it on. But you just have an
image in your head. Oh, yeah, that'd be
perfect for that. But isn't really the way that
you can find out is saying, okay, well, if there was a
wedding happening next week, there was a wedding
happening tomorrow, would you bearish something about bringing it
into the present? Bringing it into the immediate, makes it seem more real. You have much more of a
visceral reaction to it. You go, Oh, well, I
don't really have shoes that would
match or do I have a cardigan or it's a bit
stiff and it's not very comfortable and it's not
great for the weather. It makes it seem more real. I would say think Would
you wear it tomorrow? And that goes for
buying clothes as well. And this feeds into something called the
planning fallacy, where the future looks
very rosy and we go, of course all, yeah, I'd love to wear it in the
future. That'd be great. But we forget our current
concerns that were tired and we don't
want to wear something that you have to
suck in for all day. That we up to where
uncomfortable shoes for because it's too
long, that kind of thing. So think would I
wear it next week?
16. Pro Tips: Wardrobe Decluttering Questions pt 2: Do I need all three? As you can see, I
have a modelling. The example here. Do I need all three gray
turtlenecks that I have? Is there one that's a
little bit thicker, a little bit better quality. But if I was to pick
the best of the bunch, I would pick that one. Or is this my signature look? And actually I do need three
or 12 of a certain item. This is a great, There's a great principle of bringing
everything together. My cousin actually said she got all of her
tank tops together. And she saw, I have
like 30 tank tops. I don't need this money by actually gathering
them from her car, from different rooms and
from different drawers. She was able to see the
collection G hat and pick the best ones that
didn't have holes that were colors that suit
it hurt and all them. If you have a large
collection of something, think do I need all of these? Or is there a subset of the best of the best
that I can keep? And then you kinda get
the best of both worlds. There's this really
strange phenomenon. When you declare, say you were looking through
different things and you go, I'll use a pair of shorts, haven't worn them
in a few years. Ld child her those. Then a few weeks later it's summertime and you go
What's really warm? I have a pair of shorts. If you go to your
drawer and you're like, oh, I got rid of those. Now the thing is if you
hadn't been decluttering, you wouldn't have known that
you even had those shorts. And so it's kind of
a weird catch-22. But what I want to say
to you is to be brave. What would you wear if you
didn't have those shorts? Oh, well, I have another
pair of shorts I could where I have some addresses. I have skirts, I
have loose trousers. I can buy a better pair of shorts and a color
I would actually, where I could
borrow some shorts. I could buy some secondhand, like we have the ability
to solve our own problems. We're quite resourceful. If you were on holidays, you can source a pair of
shorts if you needed them. Unless it's a very specialized
piece of clothing. You're going to be okay. And it's not gonna be the end of the world unless it's
something that is one of a kind or is extremely expensive, it's
going to be okay. Brainstorm and think, well, what would I do if I
didn't have this and be brave and take a chance, most of the time. You won't even remember and you won't be bothered that
you got rid of something. And it's actually
quite a sort of freeing experience to get
rid of something and go, Oh, I got rid of that. And then realizing it's
not the end of the world. So be brave.
17. Pro Tips: Wardrobe Repair pt 1: I also want to talk about another kind of
category of things. So you want to eat decided
you want to get rid of something or you're kind
of on the fence about it. What are some things
that we can do to decide where the destination of
this thing should be. Because often we hold ourselves
to a very high standard. I must wear all of this. All I have to, even here the
example is to tailor or two, so a poles, but we have
to be discerning about how much time we
actually have if something is important to you. If you have, like I used to have a jacket that was kind of
my job interview jacket. Over time, maybe
the lining out a bit pulled and stretched. It just needed to be refreshed. Something like that,
sewing up the holes, maybe putting a
patch on the elbows. Or if I happen to lose a lot of weight and it
was too big for me, getting something taken in
our nipped in can be amazing. I have a fantastic kind of stretchy fabric Navy
dress with a v initial. I actually wear it
to every wedding because I got the
shoulders taken up on it. It's not revealing it
fits me really well. And I almost, it's like
getting a new piece of clothing from an old one for
the price of some tailoring. But I'm saying is sometimes tailoring everything
can be very expensive. It can be a hassle. So be discerning about
where things should go. But a good first step is to
give something new life. You might decide that you have something that's really nice, like Mecca designer handbag or just some really
nice clothing. One of the things that's
actually much more eco-friendly is to sell
something rather than donate it, because then you're
guaranteed that someone wants it and
they're going to use it rather than
having the potential for it to just be sent to
landfill if it doesn't sell. This is De pop, eBay and all wherever you are in the worlds that are different ways that
you can sell things. And in Ireland here
we have adverts. They thought there's
tons of them. There are also things
called consignment shops. If you don't know
what that means, you can go in and say, Hey, I've got this
expensive thing, whether it's a nice handbag, they will sell it
and you get a cut of the profits of which
can be amazing. There are lots of fantastic
digital independent places that we'll do that in Ireland
and all around the world. Maybe you're having a tough time parsing with something
special to you. Oh, you had address
that you used to wear, but you still feel a great
nostalgia for things. I used to bring them
on holidays a lot. What if you gave that piece of clothing one more where
it's last hurrah. You had a picnic in the park or a nice sunny day out and you wore that dress one more time. Then you remember? Yeah, actually it is a
little bit stiff for them. It's a bit worn or lose some sweat stains
on it or whatever, whatever it is about the dress. That means that you
don't always wear it. But just giving
it one last time, take a picture and and
keep that picture. And then letting the dress go.
18. Pro Tips: Wardrobe Repair pt 2: Another thing that's
quite important is knowing when it's something
good enough to donate. I often ask my clients, well, would you this in the
stages in a pair of shoes, are they a bit warm? Would you actually pay
for money for those? Other stains are the things because if M there's
holes or stains, there could be a
quick fix or it might just be better being chopped
up into cleaning rags, pajamas, old towels, things like that can make wonderful
cleaning rags. And often you don't even
have to end off the ends, just chop them up,
use them a few times, especially for cleaning a bike, are doing really dirty jobs. Then when they're
done and finished, they've had a second life and then you can throw them away rather than donating them and them not being
good enough to sell, and they'll just get
put in landfill. So you can give them
that second life. Now, if you have a lot
of lot of lateral close, there is a limit
to the number of cleaning rags that you
can keep because you'd be overwhelmed with them
and you have to wash them and unfold
them and all that. So be discerning, but it is
a nice way to give something another use before it's
finished its life cycle. As I said, clothes pot is one in Ireland that's
very, very useful. And big orange
containers where I live, there's like ten
of them in a row, so there is always space
and they take most kinds of clothing and will either recycle them or resell them for charity. They have a map on their
website where you can see all the places
around Ireland. Where, wherever you
are in the world, Look at your local
recycling centers and see what the rules are. Or see if there's any
places that will take in rags or clothing by the pound and maybe by waste and give you
some money back for them. But see if there's a way that
you can donate, recycle, reuse clothing rather
than going straight into the bin because then that's
its final destination.
19. Pro Tips: Magic Missing Pieces?: So another thing
that's interesting is considering if you have items in your wardrobe
that you love, that you want to keep
but you don't wear. Sometimes this is
because there is just something missing
from your wardrobe. It's almost like there
can be pieces of clothing that unlock other ones. This can be shoes, this can be jewelry. I often find a good card again
or something like I might not wear a dress or a small
little Kamei or something. If I'm afraid I'm
going to be cold if I don't have the right
thing to go over it. Or maybe something is to
addressee or into casual. But if you added a
bit of jewelry to it, suddenly it becomes useful. Or you have a beautiful
dress or skirt or something. But the kinds of shoes you
have are just not right. Like they're uncomfortable
or they're not smart enough or they
don't match this style. It's, these are the kinds
of clothing you go. What did I do before I own this? You're so grateful for them. So often these pieces can be, maybe it's a neutral tone. So like a simple pair of black beige kind of shoes can unlock a lot
of different colors. And this is where knowing your color palette really helps. Then also something like a card. Again, for me, it's very
important that it's not itchy, that it's not too chunky. You, Granny is true whenever. B, when you go and you
say, I love that piece, but dig a little deeper
into the why you're saying, but I'm not going to wear it. It might, it might be that
you just need to unlock it with a complimentary
piece of clothing, jewelry, shoes, the right bag, and give it a go. If something's too cold, maybe it needs some tights, then you'd be amazed by how
much you actually wear it. Once you have what you need.
20. Pro Tips: Layering Up and Down: Layering. I loved layering both for
comfort and for utility. If you can manage it, find some magic
pieces of clothing. Whether that's shirts, dresses, trousers that you
can wear fancy, or you can wear really casual. But you can wear in
cold weather and in warm weather by adding and subtracting things in colors that look good
on you all year round. So say this dress. You could layer nice
turtleneck, feel like me. I'm under it, put
some warm boots on, some tights and a card again. And you've got a very smart
looking wintery outfit. But maybe that same dress
because it's in a cotton, it's not in a heavy wool
or a real shiny fabric. It'll be light enough
to wear in the summer. Flip-flops and a
hat and off you go. And it's a magic dress that can be worn in
multiple occasions. Perhaps you have a
special occasion coming up quite a few high heels with it do your hair and ice
and put on some jewelry. It's suddenly becomes
something you can wear fancy. If you want to get a really, really crazy with it. You can layer a jumper over and make it look like
you're wearing a skirt. Or if it's a very sheer
fabric, very, very light. You could put trousers over it or even a skirt over it and turn the top part of the
address into just a top. Find those magic pieces
that mean that you can own one dress that can do many, many different jobs in a
color that really suits you. Then off you go, you
don't need 17 dresses. Maybe you can have
a handful that are very, very versatile.
21. Pro Tips: Create a Fancy Capsule: One of the things I really
love is capsule wardrobe. So this is a whole set of
clothing that goes together. Everything matches. And it's like the whole thing
we talked about before. And all of the clothing
can be unlocked and warn that you're not struggling to find
a cohesive outfit because you've planned
it in advance. One thing that can be very
helpful unless you are on a weekly basis wearing bowl gums and have a whole
team to address you. You might want what's I'm
gonna call a fancy capsule. This is items of clothing in
your color, in your style. And that can be kind of
dressed up in different ways. For me, I have an a few kind of darker winter friendly addresses and some summer brighter colors. So I've got the Christmas party, but also the summer
wedding covered. This doesn't even have
to end if you're, if you're a man,
it's even easier. Just stick on a suit
and wear a tie or don't blazer or
something like that. A jumpsuit, fancy skirt. But as you can see, all of these Alphas similar
color palette, There's purples and neutrals. Then what you need to do is gather selection of accessories. Now this is picking
a color palette. This can either be different
brightly colored scarves and shawls and simple jewelry bags, winter and summer shoes. So I have a pair
of sparkly heels for summer occasions
and I have a vector of these actually exact
black high heel, warmer, but also easy to
wear at winter fancy shoes. And they do mean they're perfect with tights
and things like that. But what we have here is a lot of different
combinations that we can wear. By having a simple
base and outfit. You can decide to wear different jewelry way
your hair different. Have a bag that is
purposefully neutral color, that's big enough to hold
maybe a flat pair of shoes and a few snacks
for at a wedding, a bottle of water or something like that, but looks fancy, but goes with every single
one of these outfits. What you'll find is that even if something pops up
at the last minute, collector know what
awards ceremony or an engagement party
or anything like that. You have a whole array of
things to choose from, but it's actually only a amount. So you don't have
a lot to store. But you know that everything
goes and you're covered. If you wanted to have
a bit of fun and add some new pair of earrings
or something like that. No big deal. You're not gonna be struggling. You're not gonna be spending
hundreds of euros or dollars trying to
find something to wear because you've
already got it covered. And re-wiring is super sexy. Don't let anyone say
you have to wear the same outfit for
every occasion. Try a fancy capsule and see that you don't need to
store as many clothes. And you can just take
really good care of a small, well-curated selection.
22. Pep Talk: Pick a Drawer!: So my best best advice,
just go for it. Choose a drawer and
get decluttering. Don't put it off. Don't try and be
perfect about it. Get your underwear drawer, get all of your belts, get all of your hats, and declared her them, put them into piles and just get started and finish something. Really. We can put things
off for as long as we want, but we have to take
that first step. So just keep it simple. Choose something and
just get started. If you end up getting
rid of nothing but organizing it nicely, at least you started
a new tried and you practiced your new
skill of de-cluttering. Next time you can be
a little bit braver. You're never going to waste
your time decluttering. If you find that you get
emotional, you get stressed out. Observe yourself and say, what is it about this that so triggering, what
is it about this? It's a scary. Does it remind me of
a parent that said, Oh, no, you can't
get rid of that. That's so irresponsible or water fight need this next week suddenly when an event comes up, think about what are those
things that are coming up? And is there
something you can do to alleviate that stress? As we talked about
writing down, well, what's the worst-case scenario and how can I prepare for them? How can I adapt to
that situation? And also giving yourself
permission to fail, giving yourself permission
to rebuy things. It won't be the
end of the world, but just pick a drawer, pick a shelf, grab a selection
of hangers, declutter. I'll give yourself
a pat on the back because I'm cheering for you and I promise it will
make such a difference.
23. Wardrobe Organisation: Fold or Hang?: I want to talk about organizing your wardrobe to make it last. It's very, very important
that we care for our clothes. Because if we have a
smaller selection of them, they're gonna be warned
more. They need care. They need to be kept in
the right condition and in the right way so
that you can find them. You can enjoy them. And we do our best. We are loyal and careful with our
resources on our clothes, and we can just enjoy them more. So let's talk about
organizing your wardrobe. Should I hang or
should I follow up, dude, I won't be I won't
be dorky about it. Have you ever been like, oh, it's like, do I even like, is there even space in my
wardrobe or what should I do, or what should be folded. As you can see here, I'm a fan of the kahn Murray
method of folding where you can see everything but not everything is appropriate
to fold like this. Some things are chunky
and they just won't fit. Or sometimes if
you have a lot of black t-shirts and some of them have long sleeves
and some of short sleeves. It's hard to say. Which one is this, but
completely unfolding everything. Here's what I suggest. Once you to hang things
that needs to hold a shape that maybe you
would need to iron. So dresses, so they
don't crumble. Shirts with a stiffer fabric and some nice
blazers and jackets, things that need
to be kept smart. Good idea to hang them. You can imagine
they're not going to do very well folded up. You've probably tried
bringing them on holidays and then you have a nice crumpled shirt
that you want to wear. Fun fact, I am generally iron all my clothing as soon
as I get into my hotel room, I find it one of
my little rituals that settles me into
my new environment. And then I'm ready to go, but not everybody wants to
be ironing on holidays. What should you fold? Well, there are a few
different things. It's a good idea to life
flat unfold things that are made of stretchy fabrics
or heavy that have wool. Because what will happen
is they will stretch, they will pull and
they won't be as nice and kept in shapes. So keep them tenderly. Depending on how chunky there, you might just need
to fold them in half and stuck them
on top of each other. But if you can, I do enjoy
having things folded. The QALMRI method. Then also think
about things that might be difficult
for you to hang. So short. Sportswear, things like that. You can have clip hangers. But what is going to
encourage you to grab that and to put it
away the easiest. As you can see in
the picture here, I have some drawer dividers. These ones are from ikea. They were about €8. I really like them
putting things by category and putting them in a way that you can easily see them and easily grab them. Or if you just find
you hate hanging things like I actually filled
a lot more than I hang. Take that option as
long as it won't compromise the fabric and cause any wrinkles
and things like that. The other thing I suggest is, as I said before, if
you've got things that are short
sleeved, long-sleeved, maybe have a box that is for
long-sleeved only and short sleeved only or even tank
tops and have them separated. Sometimes folding is too much. So I used to fold my
underwear and now I just have one big
box about this size. On one side I keep light ones and then dataset
to keep dark ones. And that's perfect for me. I have a small one that I
keep my sport socks and ankle socks and then
another one for big chunky socks that
I can see what I need, that I can put them away easy. Because if you have
a barrier to putting things in, where do they land? They land on the chair,
they land on the floor. They go places that are not
your dedicated Cloud Storage. I hope that helps. Do what makes sense to you and take care of your clothes
so they will last longer. Lastly, on that note, as I said, there are some wonderful drawer
dividers and divide it by category or by function
available All, in all sorts of places. You can see over the
opposite way to you. Over on the left there, we have a tie is belt, socks, indifferent drawers, and
things stacked vertically. You don't want things
on top of each other because then you
can't see what you have at a glance and also don't overfill because then you can't add anymore and
that defeats the purpose. Then over on the right
you can see we've got our nice little
sunglasses lined up. We've got belts and things. Divided by category. Let's say you wanted
to do sportswear. You could decide either to put your sport socks
with your socks, or you could decide
that you want to keep all of your sports
things together. So you have all your sports
t-shirts, leggings, things. It's up to you. Whatever reduces the barrier to you getting
dressed is what you should do. Go forth, unfold and hang.
24. Wardrobe Organisation: 3 Ways to Arrange Clothes: How should we organize
things in our wardrobe? This could be something
that comes to you very intuitively
and you know exactly how you want
things organized or it might be something you want to think about
it a bit more. As I said before, if it helps you get dressed, that is the best system. But here are a few options if you want to think about
it in a different way. Firstly, maybe you want to organize things
by clothing type. Maybe you have drawers, shelves, whatever it
is that you're using. And you put all of your trousers together regardless of function. You put your t-shirts together, you put your dresses together. And so you can
browse them by type. And you always know if
you're looking for a top, that's where a top will be. It might be that
you'd like to color coordinate and to
organize things by color. Well, that's just
perfectly fine. So here we've got all
our gray are blue and red together and maybe you
can have them in graduation, whatever, or maybe you put
all the tops to one side of the color category and the shoes by the trousers to the other. Doing it by color
can be good as well. So if that's something that
we'll draw your eye and go, Yeah, I want to wear
my purple jumper. You know exactly where
to look because you can see the purple popping
out in front of you. Or as I said before, maybe you want to
arrange by occasion. Maybe you want to
keep your formal wear over to the right. You're more summary
things at your sport, He things somewhere else. Because when you're
getting dressed for work, you're looking at
work stuff and when you're getting dressed
for other occasions, up at other things and
that's perfectly fine. It might be that you have a very versatile wardrobe
as we talked about before. You want to have
clothing that can be worn casually as
well as at work, as well as out to dinner
and things like that. So it might be that because
they're so hybrid in nature, you don't want them by
occasion really is up to you in deciding if it's a site of a wardrobe or if it's all
of the things are folded our first certain purpose
and all of the things that are hung up or for
a different purpose. That's absolutely fine as well. But here are just three ways that you can organize things. And my best advice to you is to experiment, try something out. And if you find, you're just
like can't find things. It's frustrating
after a few weeks. Try something different. Because sometimes we have
the best intentions, but our inner selves
as we're going about our day will tell us what's working and what isn't working. But if in doubt, give it a go, try it out and you might find that you really
enjoy getting dressed because you've arranged your clothes in a different way.
25. Wardrobe Organisation: Eliminate the Chair: Now here is my advanced
scary bravest tip yet is to eliminate the chair. Do you have a chair? Do you have somewhere in
your in your bedroom, your spare room scene? The chair in bathrooms, even in living rooms. The things that are not quite
dirty but not quite clean. So they aren't
ready for laundry. You don't want to hang them up. I want you to think about how
the chair makes you feel. Because a few things
are happening here. One, this is visual
clutter and we know that things in our visual
field causes stress. They make it harder
for us to do things. It's the mental to-do list. Seeing things out might be
causing you to have a visit. A physical reaction of stress. Cluster also attracts
more clutter. So if you see things, you're more likely to put
things down and they will accumulate the purpose of them being there so
you can grab them. When there are so many
things on the chair, you don't even know what's
there and you won't wear them in the way that
you think you will. So my suggestion if you're
feeling like being brave, is to eliminate the chair, is to take off pieces of clothing instead of
do a sniff test, have a look for stains,
whatever it is, spot clean, fresh in them up and put them back
in the wardrobe. Or say that they are
ready for laundry, caught out the middleman. If you want, you could hang
them up and put them in a separate section
of your wardrobe. But if they are out of sight, you don't have the
chair that room, that space is going to be so much calmer for
you to deal with. I promise. So be brave and
eliminate virtue.
26. Wardrobe Organisation: Divided Laundry Bags: One of my favorite favorite
systems that we have implemented in my home
is divided laundry bags. We keep it as simple as this
and we do light and dark. The good news is that when
one of these is full, it's about the same size
as our washing machine. The drum is this size, so we know that if it's full, we can put on a load and
then there is no sorting. There was no accidental
red sock in with the whites because we have done this on a
case-by-case basis. When we get undressed, things go directly
into the right one. Now unless we are
throwing them across the room and they accidentally
go in the wrong one. It's a pretty good
system for cutting out a step in the
laundry process. If you find sourcing a pain and stressful on your running
around looking for whites. This will help. So if you want, you can stick with the two or you can add a
delicate basket. You could add whites up to you. But systems like this, we've got one from ikea and it actually comes with bags that can go on and off the frame. You can get fancy ones. You can even just get
to laundry baskets. It doesn't have to be
divided like this. But what I'll say is
eliminating that step. As you take the clothes off, you sort them, it makes
a huge difference. And it makes it so that
laundry is just a grab and go. Pop it in the thing and you
don't have to sort them. So try this and I
promise you it will have a huge impact
on your laundry. Building up in a way that is stressful for you
and hard to make.
27. Wardrobe Organisation: Shave Your Jumpers!: Lastly, I want to
talk a little bit about ways that you can save money and save the environment
with your jumpers. So sometimes you have your favourite jumper
and overtime it gets a bit bully or what
is called pilling. Now, I am not a particular
fan of itchy jumpers. Some minor synthetic and
they are more prone to it. And often it's under the armpit, it's places that are
getting rubbed more. What you can do is you
can shave your clothing. I have a deep pillar. I don't have the best It's
not the best thing ever. It gets a bit tired. But if you sit down, stick on your
favorite TV show and some headphones
and you just spend a bit of time shaving and
detailing your clothes. For the price of 20 minutes of work on
a few year jumpers, you get a whole brand
new looking jumper. You don't have to go and read bias because sometimes
I find them like, Oh, I have to go get
another base jumper. I would encourage you to
do what you can't soak up the whole patch detail. Just even use eraser. And you'd be amazed
by how fresh or clothes look and you
can give them new life.
28. Class Project: Declutter One Drawer Today!: See your assignment for this class is to go
and find one drawer, one section of hung clothing
and declutter them. Just one small chunk. So take a selection of
clothes bringing to the bed, sort them into piles. Or maybe take the
contents of one drawer, sort them into piles, keep keep throwaway, and
then deal with those piles. At the end of the day, I wanted
to see a nice clear bed. Some things that
are going out to be donated and given away. Best of luck.