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1. Introduction to the Course: Welcome to critical elements
of customer service course. Welcome to a world where
customer service is no longer a one size
fits all proposition. Our customers are
diverse and have many different needs
they expect us to fill, and people who provide
good customer service, regardless of the
nature of the business, earn psychological
benefits in addition to any rewards offered
by the company. If you are unhappy in your job, take an objective look at the kind of service
you are giving. In almost every case, your job satisfaction
mirrors the satisfaction people feel when
doing business with you. Giving poor service is a way of beating up
on yourself, right? So in this class, we
will look at how to recognize that service delivery is an individual response value. Understand how your own behavior impacts the behavior of others. Develop more confidence and
skill as a problem solver, communicate more assertively
and effectively. Learn some ways to make customer
service a team approach. Once again, welcome on board. I wish you a happy learning, and let's get started.
2. Identifying Your Customers: Welcome back. Today we will
look at a logical question. Who are our customers? For many of us, customers
are easy to identify. They buy something from us or
we serve them in some way. But some people will say, I don't work directly
with customers. Before you accept this idea, I suggest taking a closer look
at who our customers are. In most organizations
and agencies, customers take two forms
internal and external, internal customers
at those people, departments, or agencies
served by what we do. The only person who might have no internal customers is the individual who
works completely alone. For the rest of us, internal customers
are a fact of life. A word processing clerk or
copy center worker within an organization serves other workers' needs
for documents. As individuals, we all have at least one internal
customer, our boss. We may also have
internal customers in the form of
people we supervise. They rely on us to
meet their needs. External customers are those
people or departments or tenants who are the end users of our organization's
products or services. This is, of course,
the traditional use of term customer.
Do people want? Well, at the simplest level, our customers have
some basic needs. They want to be understood. They want to feel welcome. They want to feel important, and they want to
feel comfortable. Great organizations don't treat employees and customers
as though they were mini computers
whose every action can be calculated in advance. They have turned from
the hard view of human nature to the soft side, the part guided by emotions. Engaging both employees and customers is the approach
that can stir organizations, including government
departments, through their managers to great
customer service.
3. Creating Excellence : Creating excellence. Achieving superior
customer service means not just taking the appropriate steps
to solve problems, but going the extra
mile to see if such problems can be
prevented in the future. Superior Customer Service is
not an individual effort, but a team effort with everybody working
toward the same goal. We have to know what excellence
looks like for every job and every individual who
falls under our direction. If we have this information, we can bring individuals into the team with the natural
talent to succeed in the job. In the largest study
ever conducted by the Gallop organization on the attitudes and behaviors
of outstanding employees, they reached two
central conclusions. The first is that 12
conditions must be met in order for employees
to perform at a high level, and this performance can have a startingly large impact on every part of
the organization. The second is that
responsibility for meeting these
conditions and creating that successful
performance lies with each manager and with the employees within each
manager's workgroup. In the book Follow This path, Kurt Kofman and Gabriel Gonzalez
Malina have zeroed in on these 12 conditions
by identifying the questions top performers
ask, Here they are. Do I know what is
expected of me? Do I have the right materials
and equipment to do my job? Do I have the opportunity
to do what I do best? Do I receive recognition
and praise for good work? Does someone at
work care about me? Does someone at work care
about my development? Do my opinions count? Do I know the purpose of the department and
is my job important? Are my co workers and I
committed to quality? Do I have a best friend at work? Has someone talked to me about my progress along
my career path? Do I have opportunities
to learn and grow? Your role here is to make sure the answers to these
questions are positive ones. So think about your answers and type them in our
discussion board.
4. Suspending Frame of Reference: Suspending frame of reference. Now let's talk about skills that required for excellent
customer service. We will start with the skill of temporarily suspending
frame of reference. It is perhaps the most critical and important
of all skills, as our credibility
and effectiveness can rest solely on our
performance of this skill. Your frame of reference
is made up of your beliefs, assumptions,
values, feelings, judgments, emotions,
advice, moods, thoughts and stress levels
at any given moment. Because of our frame
of reference is so personal and so deeply
embedded in us, it is very difficult to practice suspending it
on a regular basis. We all seem to want to
interpret reality from our own vantage point and reacting in self
orienting manner. We can cope with
this distortion, providing we are aware of it and can make
corrections for it. We have to learn, however, to take into consideration
others' points of view and feelings
as well as our own. Self disclosure, appropriately sharing yourself with others. Self disclosure refers
to the ability to appropriately reveal
deeper and deeper levels of self to others. This skill is critical in
the development of trust and in developing your self concept and your relationships
with others. We earn trust as a trade off for depths of
self disclosure. Being visible but not risking too much information too soon promotes this
type of trust. Joe Loft and Harry Ingham developed the Joe
Harry Windows concept. This concept is a
way of looking at our self awareness and our ability to ask
feedback of others. Please have a look
at this slide, not known to oneself. This window
illustrates the point that there are certain things you know about yourself and certain things that
you don't know. Similarly, there are
certain things other know about you that you
may or may not know, and there are certain
things they don't know. They make the assumption
that it takes energy to hide information from
yourself and others, and that the more
information is known, the better and clearer
communication will be. The open or public arena
is the area where you are quite comfortable sharing
information about yourself. One partially open window, sometimes called the
facade or hidden arena, is that part of your life. You choose not to
reveal to other people. This may be how much
money you make, how you really feel
about your boss, or how much you eat
when nobody is looking. The other partially open window is often called
the blind window. This window includes
those things others think and feel about you, which they don't
usually share with you. These things may
be negative like the fact you have bad
breath or dandruff, but there may be also positives, such as the pleasant sound of your voice or how good
you are with people. Finally, you have an unknown
or unconscious window. Here are things you don't
know about yourself, nor do other people know them. They are deep in your
subconscious mind. Building a relationship
often involves working to expand your open free or known
to self and others window, while decreasing your
blind and hidden areas. As you become more
self disclosing, you reduce your hidden area and give other people more
information to react to. Thus, reducing your blind area. As you encourage others to be more self
disclosing with you, your blind area is
further reduced. As you reduce your blind area, you increase self awareness, and this helps you to be even more self
disclosing with others. Self image, taking
responsibility for how you see yourself
and how others see you. This skill refers to
your ability to be conscious of how you are
seeing your own self and monitoring the development
of any negative images which may undermine your effectiveness as a person or as a leader. This is a critical skill area
neglected by many managers. How can you be a role
model of others if you don't already have an exceptionally
realistic self image? This is a skill that is
activated by awareness and by carefully choosing and affirming
a positive self image. It is important to
live congruently with that image so that it can develop and be part of
the fabric of your life.
5. Giving Undivided Attention to Others: Giving undivided
attention to others. Welcome back. Now,
first and foremost, let's look at attending. This skill involves not only appearing to be
attentive to others, but of actually giving your undivided
attention to others. Attending behaviors that give
you the appearance of being interested in others include
facing the other person, open and relaxed posture,
squaring your shoulders, leaning into the relationship
instead of leaning back, appropriate eye contact,
appropriate distancing. Genuinely giving
attention to others is something which others can
sense as well as observe. Focused attention from the heart is what most people want. Attending forms the basis for observing another
person accurately, and it is prerequisite for observing without
distorting your perception. Observing, seeing another
person without distorting. Observing skills involve
your conscious receiving of information about another person from all visible sources, a person's physical
tension and energy levels, facial expressions,
skin flashes, body posture, manner of dress, expressive maneism,
hand movements, gestures, and other
body language. When you can simply see what another person is doing and keep those observations separate from any judgment you
might be having, then you are being more objective in your
understanding of others. Observing skills prevent the development of
assumptions and alert us to
judgmental tendencies we all seem to have at times. Observation is the
prerequisite skill for effectively and
temporarily suspending your own frame of reference, judgment, or value system. Here are eight suggestions to give customers your
full attention. Determine the customer's
emotional state. Whenever a customer calls, emails or visits a physical
place of business, he or she is in a
particular emotional state. The customers could be happy, frustrated, disappointed,
concerned, or elated. It is critically important
that associates not only listen to what the customer or potential customer is saying, but to the underlying
emotion as well. Active listening. After
an associate listens to a customer and can determine
the underlying emotion, reiterating that emotion
helps to build trust. When an associate says, I hear you are frustrated,
but I can help you. The customer knows he or she is communicating with another
person who is willing to help. That help can be an
answer to a question, resolve a problem, get
advice, et cetera. Active listening
is the first step to create a human connection. Uncover the story. Every
purchase has a story. No one walks into a
mall, picks up a phone, or emails a customer service
department in a vacuum. It's almost like a treasure
hunt with a price at the end. Is the customer going on a trip, seeking that perfect
Valentine's gift or a watch for their son who just graduated college with honors. Finding out why a
person is purchasing an item shows the
customer you care. Listen patiently. There are many famous quotes from equally famous people
about listening. Many a man would rather you heard his story than
grant his request. Quote by Philip Stanhope. One of the most sincere
forms of respect is actually listening to
what another has to say. Quote by Bryant H McGill. When you listen, it's
amazing what you can learn. When you act on what
you've learned, it's amazing what
you can change. Audrey McLuglin Focus on
the customer's needs. Every business syllabus in college or grad school contains a course
on sales education, instructing students to find out the customer's needs first. Long lists of services and
or products are not helpful. Every customer is a person with the personal
and unique needs. Discovering and
uncovering those needs is a critical step
in the sales cycle. We have moved from
the information age to the attention age. With the enormous value of information available
to anyone at any time, companies that educate
their associates about the values of
paying attention to what customers are saying
and understanding the underlying emotion
will reap great benefits. The options of where when and
how to shop are boundless. To keep your customers
coming back, paying attention is the
most valuable asset. Listen to customers and hear what they are
saying and feeling.
6. Asking Questions: Asking questions. In order to communicate efficiently
with your customers, you should develop
active listening skills. Active listening is actually a three stage
process, non verbal. These are the messages
of our bodies sense to others that tell
them we are listening, like leaning forward,
making eye contact, nodding our head, attending
to what they say, Cues. Those short phrases to
keep us connected and tell the other person we're still listening examples are saying, Okay, go on. All right. Or perhaps you are kidding, using paraphrasing, clarifying, and
summarizing questions. You ask questions to make sure you understand
what is said. When it comes to
asking questions, there are two kinds of
questions open and closed. Closed questions are those that can be answered by either yes or no or with a specific bit
of data such as your name, date of birth,
occupation, et cetera. These questions restrict
our responses and give us little opportunity
to develop our thoughts. As a result, they require little effort and can even
close down a conversation. Close question type
tends to get overused, particularly because
they require little effort on the
questioner's part as well. They are easy to phrase,
and we get quick answers. Unfortunately, such questions
also can lead us to assume, and assumptions can be big barriers to
good communication. Close questions begin
the closing process. The unintentional use of a
closed question can often be overcome by the simple expedient of following it with a
simple, open question. For example, do you feel that
was the right thing to do? Yes, I do. Can you help me understand why
you feel that way? Open questions, on
the other hand, encourage people to talk. These questions are phrased, so they cannot be answered
with a simple yes or no. Open questions often begin with a variation of the five Ws. Wh Wh Wh Why? We or where, why? Or can ask how? Open questions are used to get information, focus conversations, solicit
opinions, gain consensus. There are several
different types of open ended questions. The most useful at
probing questions, that search for more information and investigate in more detail. Your role in gathering
information from others to draw out information
from the individual, that is critical to
your understanding. Most of us are better at
presenting our own point of view than we are at drawing
out information from others. A good name for the
skill of gathering information from
others is probing. When you probe, you get others involved
and participating. Since probes are designed
to produce a response, it's likely the other
person will remain passive, get important information
on the table. People may not volunteer
information or the information they
present may not be clear. Your probes help people open up and present or clarify
the information. Force yourself to listen. Since probes are most
effective in sequence, you have to listen to
a person's response. Help improve communication
on both sides of the table. There are five different
ways to use probing. One of the most common ways of probing is to ask open
questions such as, can you describe
that more clearly? Would you give me a specific
example of what you mean? What do you think we should do? The difficulty here is that
if you ask too many of the, the other person begins to feel like they are under
interrogation. So there is also a
very effective way of probing is a pause. Stop talking. Let the
other person speak, let them feel the silence. A third way to ask a reflective
or mirroring question, for example, the
person has just said, What I really want is
more variety in my work, and you may respond by just reflecting back
to them, variety. The reflective question
usually provides you with an extended answer without you appearing to
ask more questions. Of course, it's the best
used in conjunction with a pause reflective
questions or statements, focus on clarifying and summarizing without interrupting the flow
of the conversation. They indicate your intent to understand the sender's
thoughts and feelings. A fourth method that is particularly useful to
make certain you are clear about what the
individual has said is paraphrasing what just has
been said. An example. So if I understand you clearly, you you can use the response
to show that you want to increase the accuracy of your understanding of
what just has been said. You may also want
to use it to ensure the senders hears what
he has just said. Finally, paraphrasing
reassures the sender that you are trying
to understand what he or she is saying. The last method
most often used in a conversation is the
summary question. For example, you have tried ignoring the scent of
your college's cologne. You have talked with him about how it affects your allergies, and you have tried shutting your door to keep the
scent from your workspace. None of these
attempts has worked. Now you are asking me to
intervene. Have I got it right? Remember, non verbal messages are equally important
when communicating. Our non verbal messages can
include the way we stand, what we do with our hands, the sound of our voice, the way we walk, and the
expressions on our face. Not that long ago,
studies told us we only had 4 minutes to
make a first impression. Today, research tells us
we only have 90 seconds. In this fast paced society, we don't have time to get more than a quick snapshot of how a person looks before we make up our mind
about him or her. They're making up their mind
about us at the same time. Far more important than how much our suit cost and whether our shoes are polished is whether or not we
look approachable. If we are to look approachable, we smile, make eye contact, shake hands with a good
but not overpowering grip, and show interest in
the other person.
7. Stereotypes: Stereotypes, a difficult
aspect in the treatment of hardened categories is
that categorizers are usually unaware that stereotypes are affecting their behavior. They ignore differences and
overvalue similarities. Assuming the rigid defined
world is just how things are. Of course, we all carry sets of categories around with us, but the mere occurrence of
conventionalized images to you does not necessarily make
you a chronic stereotyper. Joe may be quite aware that
his generalized image is just that and often with
little or no basis in fact. He says to himself, in effect, Sure you mentioned professor, and I think immediately of
the pedantic, absent minded, fuddy daddy carrying a rolled up umbrella
and wearing spots. But that's just the stereotype. Actually, very few
of the professors I have known even
approach this caricature. The problem of discrimination
arises when a person is unaware of or unwilling to
recognize stereotypes as such, when, in other words, the
categories become hardened. Thus, an approach to
dissolution of stereotypes to the softening of categories is to work toward the
awareness of them. Stereotyping starts
in our thoughts. When we see a customer, what we do, what do we think? Do we think a woman is poor, if she has messy hair? She could be a busy mum. Do we think a man is rich
if we see him in a suit? It could have been
donated to him. We all fall into it, but stereotypes don't help
us, serve people best. So when we see a customer,
what should we think? We should see them as
a human like we are. We should think about the honor it is to serve another person. We should feel thankful to have the skills and ability
to serve them. We should feel grateful
we needed to serve them. And all that should lead
us to listen to them, to make their needs the priority and to serve them
the best we can. And let's not forget about
the consequences when we continue to entertain
stereotypes about customers. Negative word of mouth is a natural consequence of poor service due to
our stereotypes. So remember, the best
customer service starts out thoughts
about our customers. Impression management
involves an awareness of the impact you
have on others and your ability to control
your behavior in order to make this impact
in a desired fashion. This skill includes learning to speak effectively
and articulately, learning to dress
appropriately for various social and
business occasions, expressing strong, effective, pleasant non verbal
messages to others, creating the impression you
wish others to have of you, avoiding being pigeonholed by others' limited perceptions of you, often called stereotyping.
8. Seven Steps to Customer Problem Solving: Seven steps to customer
problem solving. Today, let's look at the
specific steps we would take to resolve a customer's
problem when they occur. Here is the list.
Express respect. Listen to understand,
uncover the expectations. Repeat the specifics. Look for possible solutions. Take action and follow through. Double check for satisfaction. But what kind of customer
problems we are talking about? Let's look at few situations, so it's clear situation
one, happy burgers. Jane is working at a happy
burger alone one night. A customer comes in and
orders a super smiley meal. This customer then changes his mind and wants
a beamer special, he then changes his mind
again and on a smirky sundae, he becomes frustrated because Jane can't get his order right. Situation two, your cash bank. Sam walks into the bank one day to take money
out of his account. The teller informs him
that the account has been closed due to suspicion
of criminal activity. Sam becomes very upset
and demands to speak to the supervisor who is
not in situation three. Acme Widgets Incorporated.
On her way to work, Erin stops at ABC stationary to pick up
her company's order. She is told that
her order hasn't been received and will
need to be placed again. This is the fourth time that
this has happened this year, and Erin is not happy. Situation four. Fresh veggies. Tom is planning a big
birthday dinner and goes to fresh veggies to get
everything he needs. He's particularly excited about the fresh wonglebrries that
the store's flyer promised. However, when he
arrives at the store, there are none to be found. A cashier tells him
they are out of stock. Situation five leaky pipes. Jacob calls in a plumber
to fix his leaky bath tub. He goes downstairs to let
the plumber do his work. He returns to the bathroom
to find his plumber asleep in the bathtub on
the work uncompleted. Situation six, we fix it. Joanne calls technician Support one evening to fix a recurring
problem with her computer. She's told that the computer
is supposed to do this, and there's nothing they can do. Naturally, she's not
very happy about this. Once a customer
problem is identified, the service recovery
process should begin. Not all of the six
steps described in this lesson are needed
for all customers. Use what you know about your products and
services and what you can discover about the
customer's problems to customize your actions to
the specific situation. Remember, one size doesn't fit all you should always take immediate steps
to solve problems. The sense of urgency you bring to the problem solving tells your customers that recovery is important to you and
to your organization. Apologize. It doesn't
matter who is at fault. Customers want someone
to acknowledge that a problem occurred
and show concern. Listen and emphasize. Treat your customers in
a way that shows you care about them as well
as about their problem. People have feelings
and emotions. They want the personal side of the transaction acknowledged. Fix the problem
quickly and fairly. A fair fix is one that's delivered with a sense
of professional concern. At the bottom line,
customers want what they expected to receive
in the first place. The sooner, the better. Offer atonement. It's not uncommon for
dissatisfied customers to feel injured or put out
by a service breakdown. Often they will look to you
to provide some value at a gesture that says in a manner appropriate
to the problem, I want to make it up to you. Keep your promises.
Service recovery is needed because a customer believes a service
promise has been broken. During the recovery process, you will often
make new promises. When you do, be
realistic about what you can and can't
deliver. Follow up. You can add a pleasant extra to the recovery sequence by
following up a few hours, days or weeks later to make sure things really were resolved to your customer's satisfaction. Don't assume you fix the person or the problem,
check to be sure.
9. Eliminating Customer Service Problems: Eliminating customer service
problems tools to use. Wouldn't it be great if
all our customers were happy and we didn't have
to deal with the issues? Well, there always be
areas of improvement. There are some
tools we can use to address and eliminate
customer service issues. Here they are, let's start
with critical evolution. You need to learn evaluate
situations critically, big pictures, and then break
into smaller components. Question each using how, what, where, when, why, and who
in the present tense. Also ask what could be done differently to develop options. Then question the options for advantages and
disadvantages using the same five Ws and H
format. Formal surveys. Ask your customers
what they want, ask them how you are doing. This can be scored in a
report card fashion to compare periods of
time. Focus groups. Create focus groups. This usually have five,
eight participants, prescreened for subject
matter experience with structured specific questions to ensure maximum flexibility. During it, a moderator discusses specific issues
with participants. It is a very moderated
and structured session. After group discussion,
the moderator produces the results in
the reported format. Don't try this if you haven't
participated in one or do sufficient research into
focus group structure, questioning and analysis. NGT, nominal group technique. This is similar to focus groups, but larger questions are
structured and everyone must respond before
the facilitator moves to the next participant. Once the questions
has been depleted, the facilitator and the group then prioritize the responses. The top three to
five are usually set as immediate with the
rest used after that. Fish bone cause an
effect or root cause. Each major bone of the fish
has a heading, equipment, system, processes, people,
and environmental, with the heads
being the symptom. This method allows
participants to discuss the symptom and categorize possible reasons
under the headings. Each heading is then
examined to determine if it is causing the symptom until the root cause
is determined. Brainstorming Remember,
any idea is considered in brainstorming and there is no poor or stupid ideas,
no critical comments. Object is that although an individual idea
may not be feasible, someone else will use
this to build on, and the result will be a
fantastic idea. Benchmarking. See how others do what you
do or use if applicable. You can ask, and they will usually let you see
how they do things. They often think you are usually not as
advanced as they are if you are asking to view the systems,
processes, or methods.
10. Doing Your Part : Doing your part, although customer service
is a team effort, you must recognize that you are part of that team and that you have as much of a role in
that team as everyone else. Today, let's look at developing and maintaining
relationships. Relationships are the key to a functional and positive team. There are several parts
of the developing and maintaining relationships
with your team members. Here they are clear
expectations. Every partner in a
relationship has certain expectations
of other partners. Most expectations
remain unspoken until they have been violated. One way to develop and maintain effective relationships
is to make your expectations of
one another clear. Next is recognizing the reciprocal quality
of relationships. We can use the reciprocal
nature of our relationship with others to establish interpersonal
cooperation and trust. Remember, two cliches,
it's a two way straight, and you only get
back what you give. Then understanding different
communication styles. We can communicate more successfully with
others and establish more meaningful
relationships if we not only understand others style but can attune our styles to theirs. Now, let's look at phrases
for the world of work. Here are ten most
helpful phrases. I care. I'd like to
understand. Help me to understand how are
things with you. Let's define the problem. This is what I heard you say. Let me put this another
way. How can I help you? Can I do anything to help? What would you do? Thank you. Silence with concern. And these are ten
least helpful phrases. You shouldn't feel that way. Why did you do? Say that. It's not important. I know
exactly how you feel. I know what you're going to say. How can you are not as good as? Do you want to
know what I think? Here's what you should
do. I told you so. Any phrases that contains
the words, always, never, all the time,
everyone or permanently. Silence without
concern, indifference. Mamba, you should recognize
the power of your behavior. The secret to success is not
very hard to figure out. The better you are at
connecting with other people, the better quality of your life. Is there any natural talent for getting along with people, or is it something we can learn? Connecting with other people
brings infinite rewards. Connecting is what our
ancestors were doing thousands of years ago
when they gathered around the fire to eat
bully mama steaks. Keep in mind, ability works. Likeable people give
loud and clear signals of their willingness to
be social. What are they? No matter what you do
or where you live, the quality of your attitude determines the quality
of your relationships. Not to mention just about
everything else in your life. The good news is that
attitudes are yours to select. And if you are free to
choose anyone you please, why not choose a really
useful attitude? In face to face situations, your attitude precedes you. Is the central
force in your life. It controls the quality and appearance of everything you do. But how to feel powerful
in your position. What comes out of our
mouth can strengthen our relationships
with our customers or weaken our place
in their heart. Along with our
knowledge, skills, and abilities, and the willingness to provide
excellent customer service, the words we use with
our customers are so powerful that they can build
or destroy relationships. Here are power talk examples. That may be so, but
can be changed too. That may be so and
instead of I disagree, how about to say, I understand. Let's consider
another viewpoint. Change. I think I got that, too. Let's verify that.
Change. I'm so sorry. I'm afraid I've forgotten
your name, too. Hello, I am. Whether at work
or in your personal life, people who make things happen learn how to phrase the words, so they are encouraging
and decisive. We can project
positive expectations both in ourselves and in others by remembering some basics of good
communication.
11. Making That Great First Impression : Making that great
first impression, as we've mentioned before, years ago, we used
to hear that we only have about 5 minutes to
make a great impression. Well, in today's world, we seem to have shortened
that to about 90 seconds. So if you plan to make a good impression within
those 90 seconds, let's consider these points to make a positive impression, first and foremost,
confident posture. Then eye contact, and
minimal body movement. Obviously, clothes are clean, unrmpled and stain free. Shoes are clean and polished,
fingernails are clean. And finally,
pleasant expression. You can also control that
critical first impression by observing the
following guidelines based on the rule of 12, which suggests that
we first notice and remember three things
about people we meet. The first 12 " from
your shoulders up, the first 12 steps
a person takes, the first 12 words
a person speak. First rule of 12 tells
you that people notice everything about the shoulders
of your jacket, your tie, tie knot, how well pressed
or criss your color is, the length and
neatness of your hair, your complexion, your
eyes, and your smile. Remember to smile as this is a key factor in creating that
critical first impression. Second rule of 12 tells you to enter a room
with a confidence and to look as if you both have a reason to be there and
are happy to be there. Smile and extend your hand. Keep your shoulders back
and stand up straight. If you carry a
briefcase or purse, keep it in your
left hand so that the right hand is
ready to shake hands. The third rule concerns
your first 12 words, which should always include
a thank you of some kind. For instance, you could
thank the manager or client for taking
the time to see you, indicate that you are glad you could
finally get together, or mention that
you've been looking forward to meeting the
person for a long time. Your words should invite the other person to
respond in kind. For instance, by saying
you are welcome. This approach puts
everyone at ease and opens negotiations on
a friendly footing. Remember, first
impressions are lasting, so give those first 12 ", 12 steps, and 12 words
everything you've got.