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1. Introduction to the Course: We all know we have to exercise, but we don't all know. We have duty for 30
minutes everyday, but we still don't. We all know we should
spend time with our loved ones, but
we still don't. Sometimes we even put
off simple tasks like organizing a bed of closet
just to simply walk drop. So is it okay to say
that you are lazy? I would say it's not. This isn't laziness or
bad time management. This is procrastination. To make it simpler. Constellation is the
habit of avoiding urgent things despite
negative consequences. When people procrastinate, they often delay priorities
and instead focus on less important
and more enjoy with simple tasks that we all have procrastinated on some
or the other occasions. But doing it too often
comes with its cost. If you add a row in it, then you've probably
asked yourself this question at
some point of time. Why do I procrastinate so much? Or why do I keep
real fascinating, even though I know that it's
bad for me and my future. These are important questions. Understanding why you
procrastinate is crucial. If you want to go ahead and figured out how to stop doing. Hi, I'm sure exactly. I'm considering engineer
inequality x squared. But more than that, I'm a productivity nerd and
my passion is teaching. I'm a creator of ordinal 50-plus online
courses on various topics, but my favorite topics or
quality and productivity. And I love helping my students to get the best out of
your productive time. In this fast-paced course, we will not only tried to answer all your questions,
why you procrastinate, but we will also understand the mechanism behind
procrastination and see a comprehensive list
of reasons why people procrastinate based on decades
of research on the topic. Furthermore, you will learn how this information can help
you figure out why you procrastinate and how
you can use it in order to successfully work on this bad habit of
procrastination. And the best part is every lecture comes with
an individual exercise. So when you do that exercise, to get a better understanding of the concept that
you've just learned. And at the end of
the lecture series, you will have your own
action plan ready. Research shows that
procrastination is tied to being easily
distracted, impulsive, and having low self belief in our ability to follow through
on what you set out to do. But there are steps
that you can take based on science and
overcome procrastination. I get closer to live the life that you've
always wanted to live. In a big lift, your dream like, we shall learn all of them
much more in this course. I'm super excited to see
you inside the course. So let's get started.
2. Why Do We Procrastinate Part 1: So let us kick off
by first of all, understanding what
is procrastination? Procrastination is an act of dealing or putting off task
until the last minute, or sometimes even
pause dead deadlines. So in other words, it is a force that
prevents you from following through on
what you set out to do. Now the main
psychological mechanism behind procrastination
is as follows. When we need to get
something done, we rely primarily on our self-control in order to
bring ourselves to do it. Self-control often received
support from our motivation, which helps us to get things
done in a timely manner. Now in some cases, we experience certain
demotivating factors such as anxiety or
fear of failure, which have an opposite effect
than giving us motivation. And in addition to that, we sometimes even experienced certain hindering factors such as exhaustion or outcomes
that are far in the future. Now, this interferes with our self-control
and motivation when de-motivating and
hindering factors outweigh or self-control
and motivation. We end up procrastinating
either indefinitely until we reach a
point in time when the balance between them
shifts in our favor. Now when it comes to
specific reasons why people procrastinate in terms of de-motivating and
hindering factors. There are a lot of things and some of the things that lead to procrastination or negative
feelings such as boredom, anxiety, insecurity, frustration, resentment,
and self-doubt. This is especially true
when we have task aversion. Maybe it's too boring
or too complex, which stresses us out. So naturally we do everything in our power to avoid doing it. To make things worse. We are under distress. The rational part of the
brain completely shut down. And the part of the brain that moderates or fear response, the task as a genuine threat to our self-esteem or
mental satisfaction. Too many distractions. We give into too
many distractions for instant gratification. Now, this is what makes procrastination cycle
especially vicious. The fundamental concept in behaviorism is that when we
are rewarded for something, we tend to do it. Again. Putting off a task provides us relief in
the immediate present. As such, we keep delaying task until it turns out to
be a chronic habit, trying to control everything. Now, if you put things off, they can't go wrong. Am I right? Now unfortunately, you can't
put off things forever. My procrastination, you hold the most control over whatever
task you're working on. However, this also
means obviously that the particular
task isn't being done. While you may originally
feel like you have more power through
procrastination, this often dissolves into
a lack of control as your time constraints
begun restricting your ability to make
good decisions, failing to jump down a project. Now, imagine your boss
gives you a task of completing a two hour
presentation for a client. Now if you look at this
task as one big task, then you are bound
to feel overwhelmed. And that is a very high
chance that you will either try to avoid
this task altogether. You will say, okay, let me do it later. Now, instead of looking at
this task as one huge task, you could have broken it
down into smaller parts. Maybe something like researching on the topic of
the presentation, deciding how many slides you're going to incorporate
in your presentation. Do some slides right now. I'm do some later on. You can add the graphics
and pictures at the end. Also, what you can do is you can complete your
presentation in steps. And in the end, you can go ahead and proofread and polish it. Now, this is just
one example and this can apply to a
number of situations. By breaking things
down into parts, you will find that the
task is much more doable. And this will also produce less stress and
aversion to work. Obsession with perfectionism. Now sometimes being perfectionist
works in your favor. However, it can be tempting to put things off or
delete completing a task simply because you're worried about the outcome
being less than perfect. Now perfection doesn't
exist in first place. I would say it's a myth. Whatever you do today, you can always make
it better tomorrow. Now, simply put in
your best effort and realize that's
all you can do. This will help you stop asking, Why do I procrastinate? Remember, a completed Albert? Imperfect task is better
than an uncompleted task. The fear of failure. Now, people often
procrastinate because they are afraid of failing at a task that they
need to complete. Now, this fear of
failure can promote procrastination in various ways, such as by causing people
to avoid finishing a task, or by causing them
to our getting started on the task
in first place. For example, someone might be so worried that their
business idea will fail, that they end up
continuing to work on it indefinitely without ever making it available to the public. Lack of self-control. Not there are definitely
varying levels of self-control. Everyone is different. However, there is
a point in which your self-control can get in the way of your productivity. People sometimes procrastinate
because they feel incapable of controlling
the outcomes of the events in their life. For example, a
person might delay getting started on an
assignment at work. If you feel that your
boss will criticize them, regardless of the quality of
the work that they perform. This perceived lack of
control can play a role in specific or isolated cases. Some people are more predisposed Feeling a general lack
of control than others. Now, this issue is operationalized through the
concept of locus of control, which is the degree to
which people believe that they have control over
events in their life. So these are just
some of the reasons why people actually
tend to procrastinate. In our next lecture, we will look at some
more reasons why people tend to postpone their task
and procrastinate in general.
3. Why Do We Procrastinate Part 2: Now in a previous lecture, we saw some of the reasons
why people tend to procrastinate and push
their task for it tomorrow. Now let's look at
some more reasons why people procrastinate. Failing to make a to-do list. Procrastination can come as a result of something
falling through the cracks. If you put something
off and then forget to write down that you
need to do it later. It's possible that
you could completely forget about that
task in future. Lack of priority. Now if you're asking, why do I procrastinate? It may be that you either
have too many tasks or you don't truly acknowledge the differing importance
of each task. And as there is
getting nothing done, your time is spent switching constantly from one
task to another, or spending too much time
deciding what to do. This often happens to
people who like to multitask or have variety of
things to do all the time. Things can get mixed up. And prioritization can
become a major issue. Feeling overwhelmed. This is one of the most
common answers to questions. Why do I procrastinate? The sheer overwhelms
of a daunting task. The complexity of a task
can cause the brain to lose its motivation and avoid
doing it altogether. Choosing instead to stay
in your comfort zone. The search then starts for
a more enjoyable task, and the harder tasks
are usually put off. This can cause stress
and dread when the task invariably
comes up to be computed. Indecisiveness. Now, people sometimes
procrastinate because they are unable to make decisions
in a timely manner. Now this can be an
issue in various ways, such as when a
person can't decide which course of
action to engage in, or when a person needs to
make a certain decision before they can move ahead with the agenda plan of action. For example, a person
might delay starting to die because they can't decide
which diet plan to follow. Similarly, a person might
delay getting started on the research paper
just because they cannot decide which
topic to write about. Lack of motivation. People often procrastinate
because they are not motivated enough to
work on a given task. For example, a student might just procrastinate
when it comes to studying for a test in a subject that isn't
relevant to their major because they really don't care about getting
good grade on it. Furthermore, there can
be various reasons why people can be unmotivated
to work on a task. For example, in some cases, people are unmotivated
because they really don't value the reward
for performing the task, or because they experience at disconnect between the
tasks that they need to perform and the reward
that is associated with relying on
external pressure. Now procrastinating a task does not always
equate to worst work. Some people work very well under pressure situation and can really produced very good work, while others are simply lucky. However, some people
don't do this on purpose. Even when procrastination does generally go well for them. Eventually, there will come
a time when procrastination doesn't work if it isn't
being done on purpose. So be mindful of the quality of your work and make sure that your last minute
rush doesn't show up and just being lazy. Now, this is one of the most common reason
for procrastination. We just don't feel like doing whatever it is
we're putting off. This could be translated as a
lack of motivation as well. Being lazy doesn't always
have to be a bad thing. It's totally okay for
you to lounge around and watch TV rather than
mow the lawn sometimes. But just don't let this
behavior becomes habitual. Because in the long run, that is a lot that
you will lose. Other than the reasons that
we have mentioned here. There are many
more other reasons why people can procrastinate. Let's take a quick
glimpse at some of the other reasons
why people would usually put their
task for tomorrow. Not knowing what
needs to be done, not knowing how to do something, not wanting to do something, not getting if it gets done, on not not getting when
something gets done, not feeling in the
mood to do it, being in the habit of waiting
until the last minute, believing that you work
better under pressure, thinking that you can finish
it at the last minute. Lacking the initiative
to get started, forgetting the task completely. Blaming sickness or poor health, waiting for the right moment, needing time to think
about the task and dealing one task in favor
of working for another. Now the negative effects of procrastination can
range from simply missing a deadline on an important task to
something more long term, such as missing an opportunity
that kills a dream. Some of us might be
lucky enough to identify our tendency to procrastinate in time and still do
something about it. While for others, it can have a long-lasting effect that resonates throughout their life. Yet are some of the
common effects of procrastination that can destroy
not only a productivity, but also your long-term dreams. Higher level of
stress and illness. The increased burden placed
on social relationships, resentment from friends, family, coworkers and fellow students. And last but not the least, low self-esteem and damage
to your own reputation.
4. Eat That Frog: Rule number one. Eat that frog. Eat the frog strategy
is a prioritization and productivity method used to help people identify
difficult task. The idea that you identify
one challenging task, that is the frog, and complete the task first thing in
the morning by eating it. Now the analogy of eating
frogs gum from Mark Twain, who says that if you can start your morning by
eating a live frog, you'd have tackled
the worst thing that can happen that day. Your frog is your
most crucial task. What you're most likely
to differ yet can create a biggest impact on all your outcomes
throughout the day. Take the first step and
the motivation follows. At the heart of
procrastination is the thinking that tomorrow
we will like it more. But studies show that
we are very bad at predicting how we will
fill in the future. You know how it is. Decide to give up
caffeine, for example. But before you do this, you treat yourself
one last time. And right after you
had your fixed, you think that it wouldn't be so hard to stick to your plan. But as soon as the
temptation hits, you're back to
where you started. Knowing that we are unable to predict or anticipate
our emotion, makes it easier to act
now because it can allow you to start on a task even though you're
not motivated. And ironically, when
you start to do this, that is also when the
momentum starts building up. And when momentum builds, the seed of motivation
begins to sprout. Erroneously think that
they need to feel like it or be motivated
before doing something. But it's the opposite. Motivation always
follows the action. Now finished the task. You have been postponing for a long time a sure-fire way to overcome procrastination
and become more motivated is
to do it really by, you might feel paralyzed
to start working on something because you think that it needs to
be done perfectly. Or that you can't begin because you're not capable
enough to do it. So you keep on delaying
the task instead of waiting until you're better
prepared or feel like it, just dive right into it. Pick up the task
that you have been postponing for a
really long time. Just because you thought
that it was a tough task. Completing the most difficult
task not only gives you a great sense of achievement and an initial boost to do more. But doing it badly allows you to act and make it much
easier to follow through. And you can always
refine it later. If you use this moto, you'll start to notice that the aversion that
you're feeling towards stars changes into
excitement and ease. And last but not the least,
declutter your mind. If you have a bunch of
things on your mind, you're bound to get over as the clutter of all these
tasks pile over each other, collectively look like one
giant and achievable task. And therefore, it
helps to get them on a paper and off your mind. This is one of the
essential habits in the Zen philosophy
of mindfulness. Writing down your
task and ideas. This keeps your head
from being filled with everything you need to do
and keep on remembering it. It also helps you to organize
the tasks in order of their priority and get them done based on the relevance
and importance. Now is the time for
making an action plan. Pick up a tough task that you have been postponing
for a long time, start working on the task
for at least ten minutes. You will notice that
once you start, you will feel motivated
to complete the task. Maintain that
motivation, and try to complete that task in one go. Make a list of all
your pending tasks, and start assigning a tough
timeline to each one of them.
5. Know Your Whys: Step number two. No, yo Wise recognize the early symptoms
of procrastination. Now overall, we procrastinate because our self-control
and motivation, which might be hindered
by factors such as exhaustion and rewards that are far in the future
are outweighed by demotivating factors such as
anxiety and fear of failure. Now, before we start working
on a procrastination, It's important that we first realized that we are
procrastinating. One needs to recognize
the early symptoms. Start taking corrective
action before it becomes. Second nature. You might be putting
off a task because you probably had to
re-prioritize your workload. If you are briefly delaying an important task for a
genuinely good reason, then you aren't really
procrastinating. However, if you start to put
things off indefinitely or switch focus because you want to avoid doing something
completely, then you probably
are procrastinating. You may be procrastinating,
if you will, your day with low priority task, you leave an item on your
to-do list for a long time. Even though it is important, you read emails several times ever without deciding on
what to do with them. You start a high priority task and then go off
to make a coffee. You fill your time with unimportant task that
people asked you to do, instead of getting on with important tasks which are
already on your list. Weight to be in the right mood, or weight to be in the right
time to tackle the task. Once you recognize the
symptoms that you are on the verge of building procrastination as
your second nature. Understand the reason behind it. You need to understand
the reason why you are procrastinating before
you even tackle it. Specifically, there are three main factors
that you should consider when accessing the nature of your
procrastination. When do you procrastinate? Now, this involves
asking yourself, in what situations do
you procrastinate? For example, do you tend to procrastinate more
when you're working from home compared to when you're working in
a public library. Do you struggle to finish
task after you started them? Or do you struggle to get
started in first place? Second, you should understand
how you procrastinate. Now this involves
asking yourself, what do you do when
you're procrastinating? For example, do you
browse social media? You play video games, you watch TV shows, you go out with friends, or find small and unimportant
task to complete. And last but not the least, ask yourself, why do
you procrastinate? Now, this involves
asking yourself, what is exactly causing
you to procrastinate. For example, do you constantly find yourself
being distracted? Or do you feel so over that you don't know how to
even get started. For instance, if
you are avoiding a particular task because you find it boring or unpleasant. If so, it takes steps to get out of the
way quickly so that you can focus on the aspect of your job that you enjoy more. Whatever maybe the
reason that comes out as a good reason for
your procrastination. You need to sit down with
a pen and paper and then self analyze your good reason
to postpone your task. Only when you understand
the good reasons. You can come up with
an action plan that makes us situation
vector in future. Now that you have been
able to recognize the symptoms and also understand the core reason
for your procrastination. Let's build an action
plan to tackle it. Pick up any top three
important tasks that you have procrastinated in the
last few months or years. Next to each task, write down all the
possible reasons you believe you procrastinated. You can use the list in
the first chapter or think of any other possible reasons
that come to your mind. But just be totally
honest with them. Now next to each reason, give it a rating on a
scale of one to ten, where one means the least impact and ten means the
highest impact. The one with the
highest score is the core reason for
your procrastination. Something that you need
to nip in the body.
6. Chunk it Down: Rule number three,
junk and dumb. People are more likely to procrastinate when their
goals are vague or abstract compared to when their goals are concrete
and clearly defined. For example, goals such as
getWidth or start exercising, or relatively vague, and therefore are likely to
lead to procrastination. Comparatively, a goal such as go to the gym on
Monday, Wednesday, and Friday right after work, and spend at least 45
minutes on the treadmill. Running at the highest
speed is a concrete, and therefore more likely
to lead you to act. Furthermore, note that in addition to lack of
clear definition, there are other factors that can make a goal field abstract. For example, according to
a construal level theory, goals that are
perceived as highly improbable are also perceived
as relatively abstract. This means that if
a person finds it unlikely that they will
attain a certain goal, this can cause them to view
that goal as abstract, which in turn can increase the likelihood that they
will procrastinate on it. You see even a small
task, one big project. Now people sometimes
procrastinate because they feel overwhelmed with regard to the task that they
need to handle. A feeling of overwhelm can occur due to variety of reasons, such as having a
single task that feeds huge in terms of scope, or having a large number of small tasks that add
up to one big task. When this happens,
a person might simply decide to avoid
the task in question, or they might attempt
to handle them, but then end up
feeling paralyzed before they even
complete that task. For example, if you need to
clean up your entire house, the fact that the task will
take so long and involved so many parts cause you
to feel overwhelmed, in which case, you might avoid getting started on
it in first place. So the best way to approach
a task is by breaking a large and
overwhelming task into small and actionable pieces. For example, if your goal is to write a paper for a class, you can go ahead and break
down this large task of writing the paper into
ordered list of subtask. You can go ahead and
list those sub-tasks, something like
deciding on a topic. Follow back on. Collect the list of
relevant resources. Start working with
PowerPoint slides. Beside the number of slides, proofread and polish your
content and so on and so forth. When using this technique, there are few things that
you should keep in mind. You can break the task
apart as much as you want. A good rule of thumb
is to create sub-tasks that take no more than a
single session to complete. Meaning that you can finish them before you even need to go
ahead and take a break. If it helps, start with
the small task post. Some people find that
it helps to start with the small task force in order to make it
easier for yourself. Get over the initial hurdle of even actually
getting started. And then you don't have to outline the entire
project from the start. For example, if you're
dealing with a big project, you don't need to start by outlining all its
upcoming steps. And doing so can even
be counter productive. Instead, it's often
preferable to start by figuring out only
the next few steps that you need to handle, and then keep on
adding the new ones later once you've made
sufficient progress, Let's move to our action plan. Make a list of all the pending and upcoming
tasks in your list. Break down your task
into smaller parts. Set a start time and end time
for each task and subtask. Next to every task, write down the consequences of completing or not
completing the task. And last but not the least, visualize the outcome of the real cost of
procrastination. Visualizing outcomes
that you want can definitely increase
your confidence. Seeing yourself
succeed helps you believe that it can
and will happen. Visualization helps
you practice success. When you imagine every step of an event or activity going well, you get your mind
and body ready to go ahead and take on those
steps in real life.
7. Environment Matters : Rule number four, the
environment matters. Declutter your environment and keep it free from
non distractions. Different environments have different impact
on productivity. Look at your work
desk. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it's the latter,
then you should look into changing
your workspace. One thing to note is that an
environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after
a period of time. And if that's the case, then it's time to go ahead
and change things around. For instance, if
you can't work in public places because of the
constant movement and noise, then find a quiet place
to sit down and focus to avoid procrastinating and focus on what your decided
to focus on. Try to remove every
possible distraction from your work environment, both physical and digital. For example, you can
take your iPhone, put it on do not disturb mode, and then put it in a
drawer that requires you to physically get up
in order to check it. Disabled the notifications
and alerts on your devices to basically unplug before
you plug in and focus. Understand your
body and your mind. Now, different people have different cycles
of productivity, which means that for
different people, they are productive during
different types of delete. For example, some people might work better
in the morning, while others might be more
productive in the night. Similarly, some
people might be the most productive after they eat, while others might be more productive when they are hungry. A good way to reduce your
tendency to procrastinate. Identify your peak times, which other times of the day
when you're most productive, and then plan your
schedule so that most of your work is scheduled
for those time periods. Finally, when accounting for
your productivity cycles, keep in mind that you might be able to handle
different types of tasks better during
different times of the day. For example, you might
be able to handle creative tasks better when
it's still early in the day. And menial tasks better
when it's relatively late. Using this logic, list, all the tasks from when you
wake up to get to the office, to when you go to sleep, then prioritize them based on how much effort you put
into completing them, the time that they take, and how crucial they are. Finally, you will
have a list of high, medium, and low priority tasks that you perform during the day. High productivity hours
should be reserved for client work or important task. Medium productivity
hours can be used for important tasks with
comparatively low priority. And low-productivity
hours can be used for tasks that
take minimal effort, like conducting a meeting
or reading emails. Let's work out an
action plan now. Let's go ahead and
clean up the space. You usually perform your
most important tasks. Keep all your distractions,
such as your phone, TV remote, or any other
gadgets at a distance. So they are not
easily accessible. And last but not the least, know which part of the day you are at your
peak energy levels. Schedule your most important
tasks during that period.
8. Gain Clarity: Rule number five, gain clarity. Oftentimes, the only reason we procrastinate is that
we lacked clarity. It is book Atomic Habits. James Clear has mentioned, many people think
they lack motivation. When what they really
lacked is just clarity. You see many people procrastinate not because
they lacked motivation, but because they don't
know crystal clear what to work on and in which
direction to go in life. This lack of clarity
leads to inaction. Or the other hand, when you have clear goals and clear
vision for your life, motivation tends to follow as a natural byproduct on
this mental clarity. Just like when
going on a holiday, you have to know your
end destination. So you can plan and follow the correct route to get there. If you don't know
where you're heading, you will just wandering
around in circles. Nevertheless, it's
incredibly useful to at least some sort of vision of what you want to do in your life in the coming
three to five years. Anything beyond that
might be uncertain, but you can likely make a good prediction
of what you want to do B and achieve in
the next few years. The clearer you get on
this bigger vision, the more you can
structure your days and weeks around making
this vision a reality. This level of clarity
provides a huge boost in daily inspiration,
motivation, and productivity. It's one of the
strongest antidote to inaction and procrastination. May 1 procrastinate for any
of the following reasons. I don't know why I should
complete the task. I don't know what the end
results will look like. I don't know the skills
needed to approach the task. To help you clarify your
bigger life vision, I recommend you ask yourself
the following questions. Why should I achieve
what I aim to achieve? What would the
perfect average day look like for me in the future? What projects would
I be working on? And what do I do
outside of work? Where would I want to live and what would I want my
house to look like? What parts, habits, and actions would be my standards
of few years from now? What skills and knowledge
would I love to master? And last but not the least, what goals would I love to have achieved three to
five years from now? These questions
will help you shine a light on the things
you desire in life. This will give you
your bigger vision. You can put this vision on
a paper to make it more tangible so you can
review it every day. Yet is an example of a
bigger vision written out. I want to earn at least
six figures a year writing and be able to write
from anywhere in the world. I want to be incredibly
fit, healthy, and energize. So I feel confident I can
enjoy the life to the fullest. And on top of that, I want to build a loving, supporting relationship
together with my family and want to buy my dream
house on the beach in Miami. Writing your bigger region
this way will always be one of the reason that will get you out of the bed every morning. And yet is the action plan that we will build for a future in order to avoid procrastination and rush towards our goods. Pick up the task you
have been postponing for lack of clarity for
months and years. Answer the following questions. Why completing this task
is important to me? Do I know what my final
outcome will look like? If not, how can I research
to find out the answer? Do I understand all the steps involved in reaching my goal? If not, can I seek
guidance from someone? Is there anything else I should know to get a better outcome? And last but not the least, ask all the questions on the previous slide and
create your big vision.
9. Overcome Fear of Failure: Rule number six, overcome
your fear of failure. Now, people often
procrastinate because they are afraid of failing at the task
that they need to complete. This fear of failure can promote procrastination in various ways, such as causing people
to our finishing a task, or by causing them
to our getting started on the task
in first place. For example, someone
might be so worried that their business idea will
feel that they end up continuing to work on
it indefinitely without even making it available to
the public anytime in future. Furthermore, certain
personality traits, such as low self-esteem
and low self confidence, are associated with
increased fear of failure, which makes people who have these traits are more
likely to procrastinate. Moreover, fear of failure is an especially
serious issue among those who suffer from
high level of self-doubt. And particularly among those who are prone to
having negative, irrational beliefs
about their abilities. But nevertheless, failure is
an integral part of success. Success is nothing
but going from one failure to the next without giving up until you succeed. If you wanted to succeed faster, you have to fail more. And you have to learn to love feeling and constantly
learn from it. Let's build an action plan to go ahead and overcome
our failures. Sit and analyze all the fears that have kept you from
achieving your goals. The best way to do that is write it down on
a piece of paper. Now, accept your fears
and understand that they only exist in your mind
and not in reality. Write down all the
things that you can accomplish in future if you
do what you need to do, regardless of how you
feel, right down, all the things you will miss in the future if you stay
in your comfort zone. Evaluate both the list and now gauge which one is more
important to you right now. Doing what you need to do, or just being in
your comfort zone. Accept that failures are part
and parcel of the process. And see yourself as
a lifelong learner. And always remember this mantra. That is no failure. That is either success
or a less than. So just keep moving.
10. Build a Routine and Consistency: Rule number seven, build a routine and maintain
consistency. Now one reason it
is so easy to slip back into procrastination
time after time is because we don't have
a clear system for deciding what is important and what we should
work on first, most of us tend to turn up R
knows that the word routine, because we think routines
equal to boring. Now I'm convinced
that when you put your daily routine into
place and try it out, you will see how much
freedom it gives you. You'll see how much easier than lighter your days when you no longer have to
spend so much time thinking about
what is important, what to do next, when to do it, and how long should you go
ahead and do that? You see how exhausting it is to have to do that
every single day. Now the fact that
the routine brings freedom might sound like somewhat of a
contradiction to you. But here is what creating
a routine will offer you. First of all, decide a place
and time for your routine. Know exactly what
you will be doing. Start and keep working
without distractions. Duluth finished the task. Keep it simple to be consistent. I want you to know that there is no right routine or
a perfect schedule. If you're a morning person, don't force yourself to be productive in the
night, and vice versa. Don't schedule your to-dos that require a lot from
you in the morning. If you're a night person, when you find that you do your best in certain
times of the day, schedule your most
important tasks that time. For example, if you
find that you do your best work somewhere
between 122 PM, then what you can do is you
can schedule a lunch break earlier and then start
working from three to two. Books and programs
try to make you believe that there is only
one right way to do things. That is, if you make better
use of your mornings, then you will be
more productive. Now personally, I
don't buy that. I believe that every human
being on this planet is different and each person on this planet has
different priorities, different personalities,
different talents, different ways of doing
things, and different lives. And that means that
there is no one, right? Perfect. One size fits
all kind of routine. I want you to build
your strength to create your own
routine for yourself. And having said that, now, it's time to start building an intentional daily
routine for yourself. Write down the five
most important things that you need to
accomplish tomorrow. Not, do not write
more than five. And if possible,
try to write down one big task and for
small task if possible. However, there is no
hard rule for that. You can go ahead and divide the task as per your priorities
and your preference. Prioritize these five items in order of their
true importance. Now when you arrive tomorrow, concentrate only
on the first task. Now work until the
first task is finished. Before you move on
to the second task, approach, the rest of your
list in the same fashion. And at the end of the day, move any unfinished items to a new list of fighters
for the following day. Repeat this process
every single day. And you will soon
realize how much change a routine can bring to
your everyday life.
11. Maintain Energy and Reward Yourself: Rule number eight, manager
energies and Bill bought plan. Now if you don't have
high level of energy, it is very normal
to procrastinate. A lack of energy
may be caused by overworking by now or even
temporary exhaustion. But it can also be caused
by unhealthy lifestyle. If you have a really poor
diet with no exercise, small changes can have big
benefits on your productivity. One can make small changes in their life to have more
productivity throughout the day. Forgive yourself for
procrastinating in the past. Studies show that
self forgiveness can help you feel more positive about yourself and reduce the likelihood of
procrastination in future. Get enough sleep, at
least seven to eight hours and make sure
it's a quality sleep, eat healthy and stay hydrated
and give yourself a break. Don't be too hard on
yourself if you're having a tough time
beating procrastination. Remember, you are a
human being and we all love to sit and stew in our
own uncompleted mess of work. Sometimes just work hard and make an attempt
to get out of it. And since we are plugged
into the digital world, we constantly had
music or sound on. It can be overwhelming
and stressful, causing us to tune
out of work and life. So give yourself at least
15 minutes of quiet time every day to refocus
and be with yourself. Have selective but
inspiring company. Now I'm pretty sure that if
you just spend ten minutes talking to somebody like
Steve Jobs or Jeff Bezos, you'll be more inspired to act if you spend ten
minutes doing nothing. The people we are with
influences our behavior. Of course, spending
time with Steve Jobs or Jeff Bezos everyday is probably
not a feasible method. But the same principle
applies to identify the people friends or
colleagues could trigger you. Most likely the go-getters
and the hard workers, and then hang out
with them more often. Soon, you will inculcate
the air dry and spirit to ask someone to check up on, you know, peer pressure works. This is a principle
behind self-help groups. Now if you don't
have anyone to ask, then there are lots of
online tools that can help you to self-monitor
your daily routine. Having a companion makes the
whole process much more fun. Ideally, your body
should be someone who has his own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable for your
goals and plans. While it's not necessary that both of you should
have same goods, but it will be even better. That really happens so that both of you can learn
from each other. They tell others
about your goals. Tell all your
friends, colleagues, acquaintances, and family
about your projects. Now, whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects. Seek guidance from someone who has already
achieved the outcome. What is it that you
want to accomplish? And who are the people who
have accomplished it already? Go seek them out and
connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very
well achievable if your act is one of the
best triggers for action, and never forget to
reward yourself. People often
procrastinate because important tasks that are
rewarding for them in the long term are
less appealing than the beneficial behaviors that feel more rewarding
in the short term. As such, you can reduce the likelihood that you
will procrastinate by associating the rewards
that are pleasant in the short-term with actions that are good for you
in the long term. For example, you can decide to take a short break and watch some TV for every chapter that you read in preparation
of your exam, you could eat a small piece
of chocolate as a reward for every task that you
compete on your to-do list. Similarly, you can also make your accomplishment
more rewarding. Doing simple things, such as writing down every
task that you complete throughout the day and
then going over them at night to see how much
you managed to achieve. Note that you can reward yourself either for getting
started on the task, for completing it, or
for working on it. In January. Rewards should be given
for behaviors that are meaningful enough that they
allow you to make progress, but that are also
accessible enough that they motivate you
in the short term. Look at all that you
have accomplished. Rather than punishing yourself for not having done enough. Take the more
positive approach of examining all that
you have done. It is the same theory. Is the glass half
empty or half full? Celebrate the completion
of your tasks. Have a specific reward in mind for when you finish
your project. Go out for a dinner, go to a movie, take a
weekend to have a body. The celebration
should be equal to the magnitude of the
task you just completed. Reward yourself when you
accomplish a small good. Rather than procrastinating a whole afternoon by
calling friends, girlfriend only when you
have written a page of the report as a way
to reward yourself. Now you have to understand that procrastination is prevalent at a serious problem that can negatively affect your
life in various ways. But research has
shown that people can learn how to overcome
it successfully. Procrastination can
restrict your potential and even undermine your career. It can disrupt your teamwork. It can reduce your model and even lead to depression
and job loss. So it's critical to take
proactive steps to prevent it. The first step to overcoming procrastination is to
recognize you're doing it. Then identify the reasons
behind your behavior and use appropriate strategies
to manage and overcome it. Remember, procrastination is
a tough problem to solve, but you are always more tougher. And if you're willing to follow the necessary steps in order to create a
good plan of action. Then if you're willing
to go ahead and put all your effort in following
up on your plan of action. You have a very great
chance at being able to overcome your
procrastination.