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1. Introduction to the Anti Procrastination Course: Hi and welcome to the anti
procrastination video course. This course is a collection
of tools and techniques to fight your procrastination
and patterns of bad behavior. I build this course
of tools that I used in my
procrastination struggle. And now I'm happy to share
these devices with you. The first part of the course is a theory intro into the
effective approach. In the second part is the
collection of tools that I use to find different manifestations
of procrastination. After watching the course, you will have several
tools to fight bad habits and break
negative sequences. If you find one tool is
not effective enough, you can always
choose another tool described in this course. This course is not a long one, and yet it is practical, practical and effective tools. All you need for this
course is a pen, paper, and a little inspiration. So start fighting your
procrastination right now.
2. How to Set the Right Goals: Hello everybody and welcome to the first part of the course. So this part of the course is more like a theoretical part. And I have collected all
the practical steps and things that I would
like to share with you in the second
part of the course. But here in the first part, it's important for
us to establish the map of the payoff that
you're going to take. So whenever you are in the beginning of some
kind of process, especially a serious and big posters such as
fighting procrastination, you need to find, you need to find or create
a map for this journey. So I believe that here
in this first video, we're going to create
this kind of maps. They're going to help you a lot. So first of all, you need to set the right goals. If you're in the fighting
with procrastination, then most likely you find
yourself, Emily Tomas. So if you are in a
mile, so to speak, and if you fighting
procrastination or if you're fighting any other negative
things in your life. Fighting this negative influence is going to be a journey. Probably about a long journey,
probably short journey. But anyway, it's easier to
fight any problem with a plan. So your problem is
procrastination. My problem is procrastination. You are in my solution for this, at least first step
solution would be to create a plan to fight
the procrastination. So to create a plan, you might use services and platforms that are numerous
nowadays on the Internet, you can use Google Sheets. You can use a pilot on Canvas if it's
comfortable for you. But in my understanding, the more platforms
and services you use, the more complicated
this process becomes in the beginning of your journey in fighting
with procrastination, I would suggest that to keep
it as simple as possible, you need some kind
of device that will be helping you on daily basis
to set the right goals. Not to lose focus and go on with your fighting
procrastination. So I would suggest to
create a very simple, very easy to use table. You can create it
in Google Sheets. You can just take a sheet
of paper and a pencil. And basically drove
the table as I did. If we use in Google sheets, then I'm going to
switch it over here. And this is the way this table, very simple table looks like. So it has only three columns. Column a is where you are now. Column C is where
you want to be. In. Column B is where you put answer to the
question what to do now. So column one is where you are, right, where you are right now. Column frieze where
you want to go. Column B, column two is what
you need to do right now. Here's a very simple example. Now this example might be
not, not very realistic, but it's, it's a very good
illustration of how to fill in this column. You are right now. You can swim, you
afraid of water. This is an example. You want to be, want to
go to the ocean and you want to be able to swim
there in the ocean. So ask yourself, right question. What you need to do. And the answer would be go to the swimming pool
because it's safe, because there is a coach there. There is always
someone to help you. And if you cannot or afraid or cannot go into
the ocean right now, you just need to go step
by step by step daily. And they are in
the swimming pool, you will learn to swim. So this is a very
simplified example of how to fill and this
fill out this table. Next goal is you would like
to keep your eyes healthy. Right now your
vision is declining and your eyes are stressed. Ask yourself right questions. What you need to do? The
answer is you need to cut the TV antenna and cancel your
streaming subscription. When I say cut the
TV antenna, I mean, you need to take scissors
and literally cut it. That's the way to stop negative
influence on your eyes. This is an
oversimplified example, but this is how it works. Here is a little bit
more realistic example. You would like to
run your business. But now you are hired employee. So ask yourself right questions. What you need to do to
to run your business? The answer is, first, you need to master
your daily work. You need to be a master of super professional
in your work. You need to reach
such a level of professionalism where you
not only do your job grade, but you feel that you're able to sell your job
to someone else. Then you need to
perform ten cold calls daily to get clients
for your business. Also, you need to have
meetings every week, like free meetings
with investors, with people who might be interested in your
business and so on. This wine number four is a more realistic example of
how to fill out this table. So once again, this table
is a very simple table. May the free, free columns ask yourself
where you are right now. Ask yourself where
you want to be, and ask yourself
what you need to do. Now, if you are an adult
or young adult teenager, if you are a person with
clarity of vision, so to speak, if your mind is not
clouded by alcohol, drugs, or anything else, now, traumas or anything else, then you will be able to fill
in this table very easily. Just ask yourself right questions
and fill in this table. Now, once you feel this table, this will be your blueprint for your fighting
with procrastination. So what you need to do
is to create a table and follow it and
work with this table. Use it as your used daily device in fighting your
procrastination. Now, when filling in this table, you need to ask yourself
right? Questions. Where you are right
now, where you want to be and what to do. And you need to be realistic
while filling in this table. Don't set some kind
of unrealistic goals. Just go slowly, go
daily, and be realistic. This is going to help you a lot. So whenever you are losing
focus in your journey, in fighting procrastination or improving yourself or
start doing something, you just need a helping device. You cannot fight such big thing is procrastination
with empty hands, you need a device, a weapon for this. So your weapon, your device would be
this simple table that you're going to fill in
on daily or once a week, or whenever you feel that the
time is right and use it as helping build the table
with very simple content. Then ask yourself
the right questions.
3. How to Identify your Obstacles. Know your enemy.: So when the previous
video we have created a simple table that is going to help us to keep
focused on the right goals. So think of it as a device that's going to help you on this way in
fighting procrastination. So here on this video, I would like to
focus on obstacles, things that are
holding you back. When you talk about
obstacles, you need to, you need to use the same approach as
in the previous video. You need to identify and understand the nature
of these obstacles. So you need to identify
each obstacle. Ask yourself and understand how these obstacles work for me. Because an obstacle
is not an obstacle. Any obstacle is different
to another obstacle. And you need to identify them. You need to understand
how they work. You need to understand how
they affect your actions. Just like in the previous video, I would like you to create a little table,
very simple table. I like to keep things simple. So simple table will
help you again. And using the table you're
going to ask yourself how this or that obstacles
are going to affect you and what's the
best way to fight it. So let's switch to the table. This table has four columns
here from left to right. In the column one, you write down the problem
that you experiencing. Then you ask yourself, can I solve this problem with a universal solution
or custom solution? Universal solution would
be just tell yourself, like just do it or something like those famous
five-second rule, 1 min rule or any other roles
that you might heard of. So this is a universal solution. You face any problem, you tell yourself, just do it. And if it works, if
the problem is solved, then this obstacle can be resolved using a
universal solution. But some problems are much more difficult in
deeper than they look. In this case, you might need
a custom solution for this. Now I'm going to give you
two oversimplified examples, but they are going to illustrate how these
things work in real life. So here's your problem. Problem number one,
you not go into Jim, day after day after day. You not go into gym. There is a gym. There is your car. You there is means
of transportation. All the doors are open but
you do not go in there. You don't go to gym
on daily basis. Your solution might be
telling yourself just do it. And this little thing,
this little push, might just work for you
in a mysterious way. And you just get up, you get in your car
and you go to the gym. So universal solution works. The obvious reason, the obvious obstacle for this problem is that you
just a little bit lazy. Sometimes it happens
to everyone, so it's not a big problem, especially if you can solve it easily just by telling
yourself do this. Now here's another problem. Someone has an eating disorder. Obvious reason for
this problem is that Eating Tasty tasty
snacks is just a habit. But whenever you go, you go shopping, you
just buy another snack. You put it in your, in your trolley and you,
you take it home. It's just as just a habit, it doesn't hurt anybody. But if this person
starts asking himself questions and if you start digging deeper
into this problem, you might understand
that there is actually a route for this
problem that is goes, that goes much deeper. E.g. this might be a
trauma from the past. The person who has this eating disorder might have lost somebody in the past. And whenever cure she
buys this tasty snack. These tasty snack reminds
him of good old days. And it takes him to computer in it takes
him to Google Maps. And he starts exploring those
places that they explore together with the person
who passed away in the past in eating this
next helps to feel better. So this is a
complicated problem. Or just without
Google Maps style, start watching old pictures
in eating this snake. And it all called
these things are connected and it all
comes from the past. So in this case,
telling yourself, just do it most
likely will not work. What do you need to do? You need to go to a therapist,
talk to therapists, how to stop those memories
from stopping you from doing something
because this is exactly what leads to
you buying those snacks. Snacks leak, lead to looking
at the old pictures. Old pictures is a
time procrastination. And they goes after day and this turns into a snowball
on daily basis, you have this problem. So this is an example of the problem which is much
deeper than it looks. At the first glance. There might be a simple solution telling yourself just do it. And if the problem is simple, then you will obviously solvent. But if the problem is much
more complicated than you need to understand that you need a custom solution for this. In this case, you might use someone else's help or read the book or go to a
therapist and so on. So the thing is you need to identify what your problem is. Is it just a little laziness and just push yourself
a little bit if it is deeper than you need to think through the solution
for this problem. So after you have this table, you need to understand if
one solution works for everything or if you need
custom solutions per problem. This is another device on your belt that is going to help you fighting
procrastination. Device number one is the
table which helps you to identify things that you need to achieve and
how to achieve them. Device number two
is a device that's going to help you identify
how your obstacles work. Can you find one solution for every obstacle that you have? Or do you need a custom solution for every problem that you have?
4. Is Your Will Strong?: Okay, so by now we
already have a couple of devices on your belt to help
you fight procrastination, or at least to raise your own awareness
of your situation. With the first device that
we made in the first video, you learned how to
set the right goals, how to visualize,
you write goals, how to focus on them. Then in another table
we'll learn how to find the right
solution for problems, whether it is custom
solution or whether it is a universal solution
that you can apply to any problem you have. Now in this video, I would like to share with you another device that
is going to give you a better awareness
of your failures or your achievements
over some range of time. Even though this slide is
called strong Wheeler week, we'll, we're going to
begin with another finger. We're going to begin with another table that's
going to help you to understand where
your failures are, where your successes are. So BLS to yourself and ask
yourself right questions. How many failures you
had in your last year, in your last six months, one month in your last week, yesterday, or even today. If it's already evening, just take a sheet of paper and write down how many things you wanted to accomplish and how many things you
haven't accomplished. Or just look at your daily book. These kind of device, this, this approach is going to give you a better understanding
of your time planning, of your ability to
accomplish things on time, in your ability to see things in a clause in the near future. So let's switch to the table. This again is a
very simple table. First column is
called time range. Here you identify the time range you are interested in, e.g. last year, column B, you write down things that
you have accomplished last year of those things that
you wanted to accomplish. In the column C, you write
down things that you planned but have not
done for some reason. Then you compare. If you're lacking,
if you're going successful by
comparing column B, column C. So it's very
good idea to ask yourself, how many things you've done
last year, how many things? The last six months,
three months, one month. So and so on, so on, closer
to today and yesterday. Don't go too hard on yourself. This table is for your, for your understanding,
you don't need to panic. Column B is filled in
and column C is empty. You don't need to panic
about it because the more you work with this,
with this situation, the more devices you will
have that are going to help you to equalize
this situation. Talking about this
table brings me to another key point is that your wheel might be
strong or it might be weak. When you will have
accomplished this table, you will be asking yourself, do I have a good, strong wheel or
do I have a week? We'll that's going
to hold me hold me back from doing the right
things that I have to do. Don't go too hard on yourself. Because if you make yourself
do things on daily basis, you might reverse
your good intentions. And if your table is empty, the column width done
things as empty. Don't go too hard on yourself. It's just the fact it's
not good, it's not bad. It's just a fact. It's for you. You created this table. No one's going to
punish you for this. And another key point that
you go into Learn from this, from working with this table is the daily consistency is more important than rare achievement. You will be able to
fill out this table better and faster if you
go with daily consistency. So now that you have this table, this table is going
to be showing you your achievements in a
specific range of time. And if you see that you
are failing in this table, then you don't need to
be worried about this. Well, worry a little bit, but not too much. Because this is your table. No one's going to
punish you for this. This is your table. You created this, you're
controlling this table. And this is just a
tool that is helping you to raise awareness of you, of your actions to
things that you need to understand to be
better with this tool, to grow your wheel, to fill in this table
is that first of all, you don't need to go hard
on yourself and you don't need to overfocus on
overthinking of this table. You just need to understand that you need to
do things daily, on daily basis consistently
day after day. And then you will
be able to fill in this table over the time, which brings us to the
understanding that daily consistency is more important than bright
and rare achievements. If you have bright
and rare achievements here and there once a month, once in six months and so on. You will never be
able to fill in this table and it's
going to be half empty. But if you really
want to work with this device and if
you really want to fill in this table just like you feel it's
supposed to be filled in. Then you need to have daily
consistency in your work. Then you will grow your wheel, and then it will help you
to fill in this table. The idea of this table is
that you will have to grow, your will steadily, you will repel the right daily
actions every day. Just do a little thing
that you have to do. You don't need to start
do everything at once. You just need to go daily. With daily consistence. First, you need to be
understood yourself and identify how much failures
you had in the last year, how much success
you had last year, or six months or three
months and so on. Ask yourself, how
could you be stronger, what you need to do? And the solution, solution would always be to start
with simple steps, but repeat them daily.
5. The Missing Link that Holds You Back: So we're still in part one of the course and we already have a couple of devices
that are supposed to help you fighting
the procrastination. In this video, I
would like to give you one more device or one more approach to fight
your procrastination. And hopefully it's going
to help you on your way. So this video, we will talk about your wheel
and Power of Habit. You have probably heard a
lot of things about this. You've watched all the videos, you read some books. But here is another
perspective on this, on this aspect of fighting with any type of procrastination
that you might have. Your will. Your power of
wheel is like a muscle. You go to gym to build
your, your muscles, to build your physical
muscles to be able to lift bigger objects
and fight stronger. And in the same way you
can build your wheels. So good news is that
even if right now you have a weak wheel and you don't want to do things that
you know you have to do. You can build your wool
stronger and it will take you further and it will let you accomplish those things that
are still not accomplish. So everything is in your hands. Good news, you can change it. Your goal right now is to
learn to start doing things. Now this might sound very
simple and easy to understand, but if you think about
it, this idea is, goes a little bit
deeper than it sounds. If you have some kind of
big list of things that you have to do that you tell yourself that you have
to do on daily basis. And you find yourself in a difficult situation where procrastination overcomes you in and you're not
doing those things, then you most likely missing
this so-called missing link. You don't have a habit of start doing things
on daily basis. You need to form, you need to create. You need to learn a habit to start doing
the right things. So whenever you wake
up in the morning, you don't tell yourself
go to the gym, you don't tell yourself, do this or do that. You just tell yourself, I have a habit of starting
doing the things I need to do. Because if you have been
fighting procrastination, then most likely you have a list of things that
are still not done. You have a list of
lists of things. There's still not that you have over 40 about everything that is still not done and
why it's not done and what can you do
and so on, so on. But the missing
link in all this, in all this sea of problems is that you are missing ability to start doing the things and then find your
procrastination. So let me switch to the, another table just to be more, just to have an
example to show you. So e.g. you have a list of things that
are supposed to be done, but it's not done on a daily basis and it's
been like this for months. And this means that you
have procrastination. So you need to go to gym, but you don't go there. You need to learn a language, but you don't do that. You start swimming, but you
don't go to a swimming pool. You need to find someone, but you don't go
with this process. You need to lose weight, but it doesn't work
and so on and so on. Every list is different. This is just an example. Instead of focusing on
each of these things, you need to focus on how to
start doing this finger. Because in your
case, in my case, everyone who is fighting
procrastination case, the missing link is
starting doing the things. You have, all the
possible lists, you have all the possible tools. You have done consultations with these specialist,
with therapist, with your relatives, with your mom or your
dad with anybody, with your friends, but
things are still not done. So it means that there is
some kind of missing link. The missing link is your ability to start doing
the things don't daily basis. Not start doing some specific
thing called daily basis, but just abstract ability to
start doing the right thing. So they say that
to start a habit, it takes like 21 days. I didn't know. It really depends on the
person, but anyway, you're going to need
some kind of range in time for building your habit. And then only hybrid that
you have to build is. Habit that allows you to
get up and do the thing. It doesn't matter what kind of thing you are planning to do. You just need to have an ability to start doing the thing. So I'm going to give you an oversimplified
and funny example. But you go into understand
where I'm going with this, with this tool that is going to help you
fight procrastination. So you have a task, finished painting the fence. You have a fence, you
need to paint it, and it hasn't been
painted for many months. And this is a clear
procrastination. So the problem is you need to
finish painting the fence. So instead of thinking of
this as a onetime problem, one time with one time solution, you're going to break it down
into very, very small bits. And you need to bite
this problem every day. You need to go bit by bit by bit every day to
solve this problem. Now, to do that, you need to have this habit of start doing the right things. E.g. you go into a finished painting the fence on day one, you don't need to print it
or the one you need to buy the paint than day to just put this can
of paint next to the fence done next
day. Opened the chem. Done next day, paint the fence for free means you have timer in
your smartphone. Just set your timer
to free meals. Not four, not five, or 10 min. Just free means will
be just enough. Start painting the fence. Free minutes done. This mission
accomplished for today. Tomorrow you will have
to paint the fence for five-minutes than five
five-minutes again, next day, five-minutes again, next day, 5 min again,
and so on, so on. So you will be able to create a habit of starting
doing the things. It's not about fans, it's not about going to gym, It's not about
learning language. It's about your ability
to start doing the thing, whatever the thing is. Your wheel is like a muscle
and to build your will, you cannot just start doing the things because your
brain will be scared. Yesterday, everything was okay. Your brain, your mind
was in in a comfort. You didn't have to
paint any fancy, didn't have to go to
the gym, and so on. It was a complete comfort. And all of a sudden
you tell yourself, go to gym, paint the
fence, do this, do that. Of course, your brain won't be scared and it will fight back. It will turn the procrastination in full mode. You
don't need that. You need to go daily, one step after another
step and so on and so on. So do little steps
for the first week, for the second week and so on. Improve the unseen
obstacles and move on wherever the obstacles you
have from the previous video. And grow the habit, create the power of the
hybrid for yourself. This is exactly the missing link that you have in your fighting
with procrastination. Because once again, if you're
interested in this course, if you have been fighting
procrastination, if you have read all the books, hold the videos on YouTube
and every few here and there, then you most likely know everything about
your procrastination in one last missing link is that you don't
start doing the fixed. So all you need to do is to grow this habit of start
doing the right things. So if you think of this in
more like metaphorical way, so to speak, you need
to become a stair. Instead of being a sprinter. Sprinter is someone who goes for a very short
distance, very fast. But in this case, to grow this missing link habit, you need to become a stair
in work with your problem on daily basis for
five-minutes today than 10 min today than
20 min a day and so on? Yes. You have a timer, so use a
timer in your smartphone. Don't overthink this problem. Don't postpone. Don't over improve anything. You don't need to improve anything further
than this point. You have all the tools, you have, all the understanding. So in the next part
of this course, we're going to focus on practical
approaches and devices. Then helped me to beat
my procrastination. And I hope they will help you fight your
procrastination too.
6. The Power of Replacement. How to Replace Bad Habits.: So in the last videos, we were talking mostly about fury tools that are going to help you on your way
fighting procrastination, we created a number of
helping tools such as tables, but those are for
your reference and for building your self awareness and awareness of your
procrastination. But here, starting
with this video, I would like to observe
the tools there. I actually practical
tools that you can carry in your pocket
on a daily basis. And whenever you find yourself in fighting with
procrastination, again, you just pick the right tool and fight the procrastination
with the right approach. So the first tool is
called replacement. And if you're fighting
with procrastination, if you're in a fight with bad habits or something
negative in your life than human logic tells you that
you need to basically delete this negative
thing from your life. So you need to raise
it from your life. You need to distance
from what you need. So get rid of this thing. But the trick is if you just simply delete this
thing from your life, there will be a very huge void. If you just wake up in the
morning and tell yourself, I don't have this part
of my life anymore than this void will be filled with another
procrastination, another bad thing,
another negative thing that is affecting you in probably even
even the force way. So you need to use the tool
which is called replacement. Basically you identify
what's bad for you, like smoking or eating bad
for something negative. And basically replace it
with something productive, something positive, something
good for your life. So your goal is to slowly replace this bad
thing with something new. You and goofing. Don't try to replace it too fast because you will have a void in your brain will
not understand it because yesterday
everything was okay. Smoking or eating junk food. We're not doing what you have to do was
part of your life. And today's all of a sudden you don't have this as
part of her life. There will be huge
negative reaction. So you need to find the right replacement
that will work for you. And the keyword here is
that works for you because not every replacement which somebody tells you
will work for you. You need to test The
Replacements one after another and see which
one is going to work for you. In this case, you need to try a new replacement and
then another one, and then another one. And you will be very
surprised to know that this is also a process which
takes time and power. And the key parameter here
is number of attempts. You will be lucky if you are replacing something
negative in your life and replacing it with something good and it works
with the first attempt. But in many cases you
need to understand which replacements going
to work for you and then try a couple of,
a couple of times. So try several replacements and find the one
that works for you. This is the best approach here. Now, once again, you will be
very surprised to know that replacing something bad
with something good is also a process that is
going to take your time. So be prepared two and
a negative process and replace it
with something who don't just abruptly stopped it. Give yourself some time to
be prepared like a month for two weeks before the date when you are planning
to stop the bad thing, start thinking about
the next good thing. What you should do is to
document your changes. Just create another table is you have noticed
I like tables. Let's create a table. And very simple table
are made of two columns. The bad and the
good replacement. The best thing that you do and the good replacement you are
planning to replace it with. And basically note
down every attempt that you're doing and
every new replacement. So and then check this
table and the end of the month and see which which replacement
has worked for you. What you should not do is
to change your life in one day because your brain
does not work this way. Your brain likes when everything
is okay day after day. Your brain gets used
to things that you do. You do daily. It doesn't matter if
they're good or bad. And when you just take away some part of your life
willingly from your life, your brain will be stressed in this void will be
filled with something bad. Talk to other people. Maybe they already
tried to replace it, to replace their bad
habits with something. But most likely you will, you will have to identify
what's good for you. So replacement works,
but it also takes time.
7. The Super Table helps to Fight Procrastination: So in this video, let's have a look at another tool that is going to help you in your
fighting with procrastination. If you remember in
the first video, we created the table, which was relatively
simple, free columns. And that table from the
video one was to help you to identify things that you need to do to get
where you want to be. This is a very useful, useful tool, useful table. And this one is also another useful table and useful tool in your fight
with procrastination is just, it works in a little
bit different way. So this one is called
the super table. The table has a little
bit different meaning in your fight with
procrastination is going to help you fighting. It is just gives you different information
that you might use later. So the super table is a
powerful tool because it reveals unseen sequences
in your behavior. Now when we're talking about fighting with procrastination, we know that procrastination
is all about but sequences and wasting your
time in those beds sequences. And one of the most
important things in fighting procrastination
is to break the sequences. Now to break those sequences, you need to identify them first because the
longer you live with those chains of bad behavior with this byte sequences there, the less you start
noticing them. So you need some kind of tool that is helping you to reveal those chains of bad events
that you do on daily basis, which leads to procrastination. So the supra table
is going to help you to reveal those
negative sequences. And after revealing them, you will do, you will take some other
steps to break them. Another thing that
the super table is doing for you
is it teaches you how much time you
need to accomplish something when you start
some kind of process, especially when this process
is done for the first time. You don't really
know how much time, how much efforts you need to invest in this accomplishing
this process and this tool is super table is going to help you to understand how much time and efforts you
need to accomplish things. This is going to help you
to project your future. E.g. it is December in your
planning your next year, you tell yourself I have these, these, and these goals. Thanks to the super table, you will know how much
time you are going to spend on accomplishing
the tasks, those goals. So this super table is going to help you in
projecting your future. Another thing that as
every other table does, the super table disciplines
you because when you have some kind of understanding or notion in your
head is one thing. But when you have it
written on the paper is another thing gets
in front of your eyes. And it kind of makes you follow the step that you have written
in the sheet of paper. Let me switch to Google
Sheets and I will show you how I created
this super table. Now this is the Google
Sheets and this is a prototype of a super table. It doesn't look super right now, but when you are
going to fill in more and more
information is going to become a super table for you. Let's go from left to right. Column a is the date. This particular table is
started starting September 1st, and it goes all the way down
to the end of the year. So this is the end of 22. This is the beginning of 23. This is the column,
the one just to, just to find yourself in this table whenever you
look at this table. So this is the date. Column. B is the number of the days counting down
to the end of the year. When it was September the 1st, it was 122 days before
the end of the year. December 31st is the
last day of the year. So it's in descending order, because whenever you
look in this table, you need to understand
how much time you have the anode here till
the end of the month. And also it tells you
in a very gentle way. It tells you that you need to, you need to follow
the steps that you have written for
yourself in this table, you cannot just skip a day because there is
less and less days. It's a very gentle
reminder for you. So column C, D, E, and so on are the tasks that
you need to write down here. And to cross out
each day that you accomplishing some amount of work for this particular task. So e.g. column C. Is task number one that
you want to accomplish. Next, column D is another task that you
want to accomplish. This is another task for you, another task and
so on and so on. And the more you
extend this table, the more super table this
becomes super column C. Here's an example. You, again, this is an
oversimplified example, but you will understand what I mean when I
started describing it. So e.g. task number
one is swimming. You would like to
learn swimming. So you have never swim before. You don't know how much
time it will take you. So let's say in the
month of September, give yourself a task. Learn swimming. So you just drag it down approximately here till
the end of the month for it till the end of the year
probably it's up to you. And whenever you accomplish one day of working with
this task, so e.g. September 1st, you visited the swimming pool
for the first time. You cross it out, it's done. Then you swim a little bit in the swimming pool
for the first time, you cross it out the next day, you do a swimming
little bit again, and so on and so on. You start crossing out the days. How many days you have spent time working with
this task and cross it out. And in the end of the month, you will see how much time you actually need to
accomplish this task. Now what this information
gives you is when you start creating next
task, similar task, e.g. what can be similar to swimming
is a little hard to say, but let's say metaphorically is let's say something that
you have never done before. So if you know that it takes
you two or three weeks to, let's say two weeks
to learn swimming. Then when you creating your
next task, gouache, e.g. jogging in the morning,
running in the morning. And you will know that
it's going to take you two weeks to get this process
going. This is the idea. This is how this table reveals how much time
you actually need. Now, another thing that is going the reverse way is if you create a table with a task and you don't do this task day
after day after day after day. You don't do it, you
don't cross it out. Month later or sometime later. You will look at this
table and you will see how much time
you actually wasted. And you will count the days, how much time you waste it. And this will also give
you information that you need to spend more efforts
on accomplishing this task. This is also revealing
information to you and raise awareness of failing tasks that you have to be
doing right now. Now. Next column is another task. It works in the
same way. So e.g. you want to lose weight. If you don't really
know how much time and effort it
will take you to lose, let's say five pounds. The most popular request from everyone who
is losing weight, if you don't know how much
time it's going to take, you just create this task. And every day you cross it out, if you really invested efforts into accomplishing
this task, you cross it out. And in the end of
some period of time, let's say a month, you
just count how many days it took you to
lose those five pounds. So let's say
approximately is going to take you two or three weeks. If you follow all the rules, if you follow your instructions
and all these things, if you do everything right, let's say it takes two weeks
you to lose five pounds. So next time when you, when you will tell yourself, I need to add
another five points. You will know how much
time and effort you need. Another example is
really my own example. So let's say you thinking
about changing the job, which means that you need
to learn a new technology. So I'm kind of form IT. So I need to understand how much time it takes me
to learn a new technology, let's say a new
computer language. So I created this column with this task called
learning new technology. There is supposed to give
me a boost in my job. And I count the days. So it took me, let's say two months to accomplish
in new technologies. So when I'm projecting
my next year, I know that there will be
two months in my next year, which I will be spending on accomplishing a new technology if I want another
boost in my job. And so on. You will go into create
another and another table whenever a new task
comes into your life. So now let me switch to
an image of this table. Is actually my table. I believe without some
of the things here, but the idea is clear. So this is what it
looks like after I printed out and after I
used it for some time. Let's enlarge it. So column number
one is the date. Column number two is
the number of days. It's just here. It's sound
going in descending order. It's, it was the first
version of my super table. So anyway, second column is the number of days left
until the end of the year. And starting with the
column three, I have tasks. So at that moment of time, my task number one was to change my job for better wine clients
from my side business, accomplish some kind
of Udemy course, start my sport and
so on and so on. So I was basically crossing out this things
in the end of the day. And the same thing I did
to every other tasks. So this is the way the super table looks
after he printed out. Now, here are a couple of more tips on how
to use the table. Since you're going to build this super table is
going to be big. After you accomplish it, there will be at
least five tasks, probably even ten tasks. And you will see that this is like kind
of too much for you. So I would suggest you identify the most important tasks
and do them first, accomplish the important
tasks first in your table. Obviously, I would
suggest to print it because even if you
use Google Sheets, the simplest form of
online a table form, even in this case, is going to steal your time. If you fighting with
procrastination. Procrastination will
be stealing your time. Even when you filling
out the table, you will switch to dancing
cats on the internet. You will, somebody
will text you and you will pay attention to
those messages and so on. So it's better idea
to cut yourself off these things that disturbing
you and taking your time. So you buy the
print table out and just use a sheet of paper. So once again, the super table is another tool on your belt, which is going to
reveal the amount of time you need to
accomplish any task. And it's going to
help you review where you slow down in
accomplishing your tasks. When you are going to
project your future, you might use this information
from the super table. So what you should do with
this table is to print it. And what I don't suggest
Here's to give it online.
8. How to Replace Your Bad Food, Content and Your Goals: So speaking about replacements, I would like to point out a couple of the
most popular ones. The food replacement would be
the replacement number one, everyone is thinking about. This is the most common one
and the most popular one. If you just go to
Google and try to type replacing the bad
food, would the good foot? Now first of all,
I'm not a dietitian, but I have more or less successfully replaced
my bad food, my junk food, with
my healthy foods. So if you just go online
and type healthy food, you will go into
another rabbit hole and you will find millions of articles
and information there. And I'm pretty sure
that you have, you have already read lots of articles like everyone
on the Internet, but replacing the food is the very good
example that you should use to start with if you have never tried this
replacement technique. So first of all, if you are addicted to
junk food, if you're, if you're eating bad
food on a daily basis, then most likely
there is something in this food that is holding here. So most likely it is sugar. And sugar in big amounts is very notorious for giving people
opioid like effects. Sugar. You eat sugary foods, junk food, and you have
kind of euphoria from this. There is a way to replace this euphoria with some other
euphoria like fitness, e.g. when you go fitness, your brain starts
emitting red signals and some kind of
chemical elements that make you feel good. So this is one way to replace
the bird food that gives you this sugary with
another euphoria, which is, which
comes from fitness. So this is a very good start. Just Google a couple of articles and he will understand
how this mechanism works. So if you have never tried
this replacement mechanism, this would be a
good start for you. Another thing that I
would like to say here is that if you're trying
to replace bad food, good food, you have
millions of options. Even if you trying to
replace junk food with our healthy food and you feel like something is
not going well, just add the little b sugar. E.g. you are replacing a fizzy drink with
a coconut drink. Like you buy a coconut, you make the drink out of it. And it's not sweet enough. So you just add a little bit
of sugar to equalize the, the, the level of sugar
that you used to. So this is a good example of replacing bad food with good. So try to do this with
every other junk food. Another example of replacement would be the content
replacement. Now, if your Internet user, if you leave with Internet and smartphones everywhere
around you, then most likely
you are surrounded by content of all types, of all types means
that at least half of that content that you have is junk content and you
don't really need it. I'm pretty sure that
some of you are addicted to bed content like I am
or like I used to be. There is a junk content
which is not bad, not good. It's just there and it's
just taking your time. E.g. benzene kids videos, funny videos, watching clips of your favorite
movies on the Internet. All these things
kind of harmless, but they take your time. And this is another form
of procrastination. So you know what to do. You have the replacement tool. Just create a little
table with two columns. Column number one is
the thing to replace, and column number two
is there replacement. So try to replace the bird thing with the
good fun and experiment. Try language, language videos. If you are learning
a language video, replace those cats
with language videos. If it doesn't work, replace
it with something else, something educational, something geographical
educational, anything, anything that works, just randomize those videos and try to replace them
sooner or later you will find the new content
which is more useful than dancing cats videos. And this will be
the rise, right? Replacement for you. This is another example, right? Replacement. After a couple of attempts in replacing content and
food and other things, you will come to
understanding that you might replace the
goals that you have. Remember in the beginning
of this course, we created a table, the very first table, which gives you an
awareness of where you want to be, might've
free columns. So sooner or later you
will understand that you will be replacing
those goals. Here is an example from
the previous slide. We mentioned that
you can replace bad content with
language videos. Say e.g. you want to start a new business process in the new area with
another language. And that's why one of your
goals was to update yourself, update your knowledge on
this unknown language, Spanish, e.g. over the time. While he will be experimenting
with your goals and while you will be tuning
your goals in the process, you will understand
that you don't really need to learn all the
Spanish language. You just need to hire. You just need to earn
$300 more to pay someone who's who speak Spanish to do your job there where
everyone speaks Spanish. So this is a
readjusting the ray, identifying your goals over the time and replacing
them with the right angle. So this has just
abstract example, but this is how it works. So replacing this tool of replacement is a universal
tool and you can apply it everywhere where you
feel the procrastination or negative effects from food
content that you consume, goals that you have, people that you're talking to, and so on and so on. So replacement is the
first practical tool that I want you to use in
your procrastination fight. And it works in a
very simple way. You need to constantly
try a new replacement. If it works for you is good. If it doesn't just go to
the next replacement, you will see that replacement works after
a couple of attempts. Try to identify a
replacement that works. This is what you should
do and what you should not do is just tap
the birth habit. Bad thing in your life because
it will lead to avoid. And avoid will always be filled with something
even more negative. So replacement is the
first practical tool.
9. One Ring to Rule Them All. And Procrastination.: In this video, let's talk
about another device, another tool that is
going to help you. Now, even though all
the previous tools that we mentioned for
celestial sphere, tall slash, real physical thing. I mean, all those tables
that we have been creating, this tool is a physical object and you can buy it and you
can wear it on your body. So we're talking
about a simple ring. This can be engineering,
metal ring, plastic ring, fancy
and expensive. The cheapest and unnoticeable, very simple wrinkle
work for you. So this tool is a
ring and this ring will have a special meaning
to you and it's going to help you a lot in your
file procrastination and all the other bad things
that are holding you back. So the ring would be, like I said, a
simple plastic ring would be just enough for you. The idea of wearing this ring is to irritate you
and remind you. So after you start
wearing this ring is going to irritate
you and remind you about something
that you should be doing or something that
you should not be doing. So think of this as a help to break some kind of negative
sequence that you have. You put on the ring. And all the day long, you will remember that there is a sequence of some kind
of negative actions. And with this little reminder on your finger, you will be, you will be aware of this negative sequence and
it will help you to break this chain of negative
events that you probably do on daily basis as part
of your procrastination. There are a couple of
rules in wearing the ring. First of all, you need to get
used to wearing the ring. Your brain is not used to wearing during if you don't have any rings or anything right now. And anyway, you, your brain going to need
some time to get used to it, even if you already have
some brings on your fingers. Anyway, this ring would be a lethal little
irritating thing on your finger and it will
be reminding you of something that you have to do is something that you should be, you should stop doing right now. So one of the main functions
of this ring is to interfere and disrupt
any sequence. I'm going to give you an
over-simplified example, which actually worked
for me many times. Let's say you in a daily NU, buy-in, another set
of junk food for you. The moment when you
extend your arm front of the shelf to take
something from the shelf, you notice the ring and it
gives you a signal that this is the sequence that
you should stop right now. So this is over-simplified
example of using this ring. Now, since you're
not a robot and your brain needs
some safe place, you need to have achieved day and to escape from
this ring once a week. So let's say six days a week. You were on this
ring and one day, let's say, or Saturday,
or on Sunday, you take off this ring and
your brain is free from this irritation,
from this reminder. So this will have a
positive effect on your, on your thinking because, because you're not the room with the idea of the ring once again, is to interfere in disrupt bed sequences that
you face in on daily basis. Now, if for some reason
a ring is not is not your choice and you
don't want to wear a ring or cannot wear it, you can have alternatives
such as wristband, nicholas, or any other variable object that would be constantly
reminding you of something that you have to do or off something that
you have to stop doing. So regardless of
what this object is, whether it is a ring
bent or anything else, the idea is still the same. It's to remind you that there is some kind of sequence
that you have to break. Things that you should
do with the ring is to wear it as soon
as you buy it. Because otherwise, if you
don't, if you don't buy it, your brain will just get used to the fact that there is
some kind of reminder. It actually doesn't
work because you already have it and
it's not active. So day after day, your brain will get used to
the fact that this reminder, the ring, is actually
very, very safe thing. It's not affecting
you in any way. So when you put it on, It might be not even be as
effective as it could be. One thing that you should do is to put the ring on as
soon as you buy it. Once again, the ring is the
physical object, is a tool, is a physical tool
that's going to help you to break unhealthy sequences.
10. The Number Rules to Fight the Bad Sequences: In this video, I
would like to mention the so-called number rolls. Now, just to be
on the same page, when I say the number
rules, I mean, all the rules that are
supposed to help you to fight your procrastination
or improve urine any way. That narrowed down to
some kind of number. If you read books
on self-awareness, self-improvement, for procrastination,
fighting, and so on. You most likely you have seen those books which promise you that just when you learn a couple of rules connected
with some kind of number. And if you do actions daily
based on this number, then you will have some
improvement in your life. And this rule is
supposed to help you, even though I don't really like this kind of number rules. In this video, we are going
to talk about this rule, which I will suggest to use in your daily on
your daily basis. Because anytime when
somebody tells me about another number
rule, the day, give it a presentation
like there is only this number rule in the world and everything
else is going to fail. And only if you're going to
be using this number rule, then you will change
your life for good. And this specific number
rule is going to help you. Now, every time I
hear this kind of presentation or
read another book about this kind of number rule. I feel like someone is
trying to outsmart me. But there is a trick here. It's not always somebody
is trying to outsmart you. It's almost all the time that somebody is
trying to help you. But the trick is that these specific number rule
might not work for you. There are many of
this number was the first that comes to my mind is the five-second
rule by Mel Robbins is the rule which tells you if you're
procrastinating again, just taught herself 12345. And when you count to five, you start the action. This tool is supposed to break the bed sequence of
your procrastination. Another famous thing
is the 21-day rule by Mark recall is like
a plan for changing your life in 21
days by acquiring good habits that are supposed to help you in self-improvement. There are many
other number rules. It's like when you
wake up before a 08:00 A.M. and do something before 08:00 A.M. when you're
most productive, you're going to
improve your life. And thanks to the fact that you do everything early
in the morning before 08:00 A.M. another thing
is do everything as if you're trying
to do everything like ten times more stronger, ten times better, and so on. So every type, every rule like that suggests
you some kind of number that you're
supposed to stick to and use it in your daily
procrastination fighting. The trick about all these
rules is that you will learn that some of these
rules will not work for you. And only, only few
of them are going to help you on your way with
fighting procrastination. So this is one of the questions that we
raised before in this, in this video course is, the question is, are
you going to have a universal solution or you're going to need a custom
solution for your problem. Because your procrastination is very different from
my procrastination, from everybody else
procrastination. So the question is, can you use a universal solution for your custom procrastination? Now my idea is that you need
to create your own rule. You need to come up with your own rule because
you know yourself. And even if you go to somebody who is supposed to create
a number rule for you, like a therapist or parents, or friends or anybody else. Even then, you will never reveal 100% true about the
procrastination that you have. So it means that only
you can find the key to the number rule that's
going to work for you in fighting your procrastination.
That's the idea. That's why some of this number rules from popular books will
not work for you. Now I would like to
switch to my rule that I suggest you to use and hopefully it's going to help you
the way it helped me. So as every respectable anti
procrastination course, this course is also going
to have a number rule. This rule is called 525. So why is it five
and why is it 25? I'm going to explain you when I switch to Google Sheets again. So here is the
breakdown of 525 rule. First of all, I suggest
you to break down every activity that you have no matter what
this activity is. Well, unless you have a strict requirement not
to bring their activities. But in most cases, I
will suggest you to break your activity into 30 min. Bids. 30 min, then take a break, 30 min, then take a break. Within this 30 min, you need to spend first
five time doing nothing. And then 25 min of action. So within the first 5
min of doing nothing, you turn off every device
that might distract you. Turn off all the course, all the messages, everything. You can even turn off your
screen of your computer. Stay in a complete
silence for 5 min. And in this silence, which last 5 min, you talk through the plan
for the next 25 min. You just basically tell
yourself in the next 25 min, I'm going to be
focusing on this. I am going to be doing this, this and this because I need
to accomplish this task. So you basically sit in
silence and tell yourself, I'm going to do
this, this and that. Then this five-minute
over and you start working for the next 25 min. To mark the time, I suggest you to use the
timer in your smartphone. Every smartphone nowadays
has a built-in timer. So just use the timer. And whenever 25 min are over, you give yourself a little break or switch to the
beginning of this, of this sequence into
next 5 min of silence. So the idea is to first clear your false
before you do something, because when you work with computer or
really anything else, they will always
be distractions. Especially if you work in
an office with many people, with many sounds, many movements here and there's going to
be disrupting you. So you need to conquer for yourself some kind
of safe corner. So lab this safe corner, be the five-minutes of silence. In this safe space
of five-minutes, you just think through the
next plan and then do it. There is another
hidden thing here, which is going to kind of trick your brain into
thinking that you are more successful than you
are when you do tasks, which lasts hours and hours, your productivity goes down lower and lower the
more time you spend. When you work like 1 h by timer, you will see that after 30 min, after 40 min, your
productivity is much worse. So I suggest you to keep
it up under 25 min. It's going to give you
more time to recuperate. And it's going to trick your
brain into thinking that the task is over and it
makes you more happy. And then you switch back
to five-minutes again, silence, thinking through,
then go back to action again. So this is how the
525 rule work. So among all the
number rules that you might encounter on the
internet or the bookstore, you will find some number rules that are going to work
for you and some of them are not going to work for you
no matter how you trying to accomplish them because
you are not Mel Robbins, You are not mark
recall you not any other after that is actually
trying to help you, but it might not work just
because you are not them. So my suggestion is that you do have to read some
books on the rules. If you haven't read them yet, then you have to identify the one which works
best for you. And then I suggest you create your own rule because you
know how your brain works, you know what tricks
work for your brain, what things will never
work for your brain. So you need to create
your own number rule. Once again,
suggestions, you test the rules and you
create your own rule.
11. The Food Rules and the Sleep Rules: In this video, I would like
to say a few more words about helping tools that you will be using fighting
procrastination. Even though in this video
it's not really a tool, it's more like rules
that you have to set for yourself to improve
your overall condition, which will give you more chances to find
the procrastination. First thing I'm talking
about food rules. And another thing is
the sleeping roles. Food and sleep is something
that you do daily. And these two affect your life. Bailey. Your food effects
you during the day, your sleep affects
you during the night, but you're asleep defines how you work during the next day. And your food defines how
you sleep during the night. These two things are very important and they
are continuous. They happen on a daily basis. And you need to have a rule for food consumption
and for sleeping. So the first thing
I would like to pay attention to is the food rules. Now, if you have
some beds sequences, negative habits, and
procrastination related to food, then you know that the
food that is involved in procrastination and
negative sequences is always a bad food. You'll never have a healthy dinner when
you procrastinate. It's always some
snack, Pringles, fizzy drinks or something else that is involved in
your procrastination. So bad food and procrastination. So always come hand in hand. Which means that you need
to have some kind of to, some kind of helping device
to fight this bad food rules. So instead of creating some kind of tool like we did in
the previous videos, like tables and
some other things. I would suggest you just to set some rules for your
food and follow it. First step here would be to learn your medical restrictions. Obviously, as a grownup person, you know your medical
restrictions. But there might be
situations when you consume some food daily and
don't know that you cannot actually
consume this food. And it gives you a
constant inflammation, which reduces your
productivity and reduces your health and basically gives you a very
negative effect. What do you have to do is, you need to know thyself, as ancient Greeks would say, and learn your medical
restrictions and identify exactly
which food gives you. These are their influence. So identify your
inflammatory foods excluded. Obviously, this moment is a little bit tricky because when you exclude something from your life as we have
established before, they're there comes a void. And void will be always
filled with something bad. So exclude one fizzy drink is going to be filled
with another fizzy drink. In this case, you
should use one of the rules that we have
established before. You need to replace this emptiness with some kind
of healthy alternatives. You exclude Pringles, fizzy
drinks, alcohol, nicotine, and you need to immediately replace it
with something else. Now, with today's variety
of healthy alternatives, everyone will find his or her own
alternative to bed food. To ease this process, I would suggest also
use some kind of tables and kind of system that will help you to
identify how much time you need which replacement
works for you, which replacement
didn't work for you? So even if you replace
bad food with good food, chances are big that this process will not
go well in one day. So you will have to
go through some kind of period in time when
you're replacing, buy food with good
food like two weeks, three weeks, weeks and so on. So anyway, you have to come
up with the food rule. Now talking about sleep rules is a little bit more tweaking then the situation
with the food, because when you have a
problem of replacing but food, good food, you can just
simply replace it. But you cannot replace
sleep with anything. This is something that
is irreplaceable. There is another approach here. You just need to create a right conditions
for your sleep. You just need to create a
healthy rules for your health asleep and maintain
this approach daily. So first of all, you need
to follow a schedule. You cannot fall asleep in the morning and then in the evening and then in
the middle of the night, and then during the day, this will have a very
negative effect on your own, your body, and your mind. So one thing is you need to maintain a
schedule of sleeping, go to sleep in one and
the same time daily. There are researchers
that show that blue light that comes from the, almost every screen is
tend to wake you up. That's how your brain works. When you see mourning white, your brain wakes up your
body and the same thing happens any other moment
when you see blue light. So it's a good idea to
avoid blue lights or any other lights 1 h
before you go to sleep. And this is very difficult to
turn off all your screens, to put away all your
smartphones and everything. But gradually you will
have to teach yourself how to put away the smartphone
1 h before you sleep. Just switch from
videos to audio books. Switch from a dancing cats on YouTube to reading books
which don't emit any light. And gradually over the
time, couple of weeks, you will find yourself
more comfortable with paper books
before you sleep, rather than with screens
that emit a lot of light. Another thing which many doctors say in one of the doctors
told this thing to me, is you have to teach your
brain to enjoy sleeping. So instead of enjoying alcohol, instead of enjoying
nicotine or anything else, you need to teach your
brain to enjoy sleeping. Which means that
you will have to delete such things as alcohol, nicotine, and everything
else before sleep, switch to healthy sleeping. Now this might be
very difficult. I understand that this is not something that you
can replace easily, but this task takes time. So gradually you will come up with some kind of
healthy sleeping rules. Once again, you need
to come up with food rules and
sleep rules because these two things will define your day and define your
night and the next day. So for healthy food, you need to learn what food
affects you in any way. And for health and sleeping, you need to have a
habit of health asleep.
12. Socratic Questions: So in this video,
I would like to say a couple of words
about another tool. This tool is different from those tools that we have
created in this course. Now the tools that
we have created were mostly tables that are supposed to be somewhere
on the sheet of paper in your computer
or somewhere else. And this tool is kind
of always with you. And it is a very flexible
and it changes every day, every minute, every
time you use it. The Socratic questions. Now the socrates was the ancient Greek
philosopher from Athens. And he was famous for asking the right questions in the
right time, the right people. And those questions were
very carefully formulated. And when they asked right
in the right moment, that person supposed to give a very honest and
very open ends for. And from this answer, you understand if the
person is good for you or if this activity
is good for you, or the situation is
good for you or not. So this so-called
Socratic questions is a very useful thing and it has proven to be
very useful for me. I hope this is going to be
very useful for you as well. So what are the questions? First of all, there is no any magic set of
Socratic questions. You might find on the
internet or in books, the top 50 Socratic questions, like top five Socratic questions that everybody should ask. But this is just the philosophical
fantasy of the writers. There is really no, any specific set of
Socratic questions because Socratic questions is something that is changeable. You change it, you use it, and you change it according
to the situation. You need to create
your own questions. Whenever you find yourself
in a problematic situation or in a situation where you question yourself
or someone else. While asking your questions, specifically those ones
addressed to yourself, you need to be very
honest with yourself to have to find the best
solution of the situation. So your set of questions will be a very unique for you. Here. I'm just trying to show you
an example of my questions. So these are the most
popular questions for me right now in
this moment, e.g. six months ago, the
questions were different. Six months later the questions
will be different again. So this is kind of tool that
changes over time and over the situation and even during the day, during
one conversation. Within the length of
one conversation, the questions will be different. So these are the questions are kind of actual for
me in the moment. So whenever I tried to
do something right now, I may ask myself a
very general question. Is it good for me? Now this might seem like a very simple and to general questions, but surprisingly
it works for you. The more you use these question, you stand in the grocery
daily and you ask yourself, is this product good for me? And most likely your brain will give you the right answer. No. Bring goes is
not good for you. Vegetables is good for you. So this is an example how
to use this question. Next question is, is this profitable for me or do
I lose my money here? This is a great question. If you are thinking
about your finances. The one you find, the
five-minute of time, you cut off all the distortion
and all the destruction. You think in silence for 5 min, you will be able to give yourself honest answer
to this question. Now, the next question that I often ask myself right now is, do I really need this
thing right now? So when you are, I'm
limited on finances or when you find yourself
shopaholics little bit, you just need to ask
herself right question. Do I need this right now? Do I need this object? Or can I go on without having
this object right now, the same question can be asked about any actions in your life, any changes in your life, or anybody in your life? Do I need this person
in my life right now? Or do I can or can I leave
without this person? So this is kind of questions
that I ask myself right now. When you will create your
own set of questions, your questions
will be different. The idea is that you need to
ask herself right questions. So once again, ask
the right questions. And the right and
precise questions are called socratic questions. Create your own custom questions that are going to be actual, unrelated to your
current situation. Over the time you will be
revising the question. Obviously. Obviously you should be honest while asking
these questions. Do not overthink
these questions. Keep it simple, not make
it over complicated.
13. Tools which Failed for Me, but Might work for You: Now in this video, I
would like to share with you a couple of tools
that failed for me. I believe that negative
experiences also experience and if you
fail, you only learn. So I would like to share
with you those things that fail for me
because who knows, most likely they might
fail for you too. So don't waste your time. If you are thinking
about those tools that I'm going to
talk about here. So before I started creating those tools that were mentioned in the previous videos that really worked for me. I was experimenting with some
other little help us with some other little tools
that we're supposed to help me meet my procrastination and most of them didn't work. So here are a couple of
failed experiments from me. So the one thing
that I learned from all those failing tools is that if you can
escape this tool, this tool is not going to work because your brain
is in my brain and everybody's brain
functions such a way that if you can escape samples, it's some kind of
negative situation. You will do everything
to escape it. So the idea here is when
you're creating some kind of tool is supposed to boost your productivity if I
procrastination and so on, you need to carefully created in such a manner that you would
not be able to escape it. Because if there is a
slightly chance to escape it, your brain will use this chance. So one thing that I have
been using before is I tried to put
stickers on objects. So e.g. there is an object. Let's say there is a
fence that I need, so I need to paint. So I would put a sticker
on the can with paint. And obviously, I would
not do anything about it Just because seeker
does not hurt anybody. It's not talking to me. It's not making me do anything. It's just there on the can
of paint and stickers, just a piece of paper. And it's never going to hurt me. So my brain will escape it. It doesn't even take into consideration to deal
with the stickers. Stickers just piece of paper. Now your brain will escape it, just like my brain escaped with. And most likely you will waste your time
on this technique. So forget about it. Next thing that failed for me is placing objects in
the right places. Here's an example with
the fitness ball. I actually have just like the
one in this, in this image. And my initial idea
was that to make, make me do daily
sport activities, I would place this dumbbells and the fitness ball somewhere
in the middle of the room. And whenever I walk
across the room, I'm going to see the fitness ball
in front of me and I'm going to take
it and I'm going to start doing this port. This idea of failed. Because over a very
short period of time, I think it took me
just a couple of days. My brain gets used to these objects in the
middle of the room. And I will just step
aside from this, from this fitness ball. I suspect that if I place
this fitness ball in my bed, even then my brain
would get used to this undesirable
object in the bed. So placing objects somewhere where you have to use
them is not the best, is not the best solution because your brain will find
a way to avoid it. Now, another thing that never worked for me is the
so-called public off. When you tell everybody that
you have to do something. And it's supposed to affect
your brain in positive way, like a constantly
thinking that you gave a promise to many people supposed to make
you do something. Well, this thing never
worked for me because I always knew how to escape
this public coughs. I always been very good with
coming up with excuses. So this thing that
never worked for me, I think that it's not going to work for
many other people. Maybe it's not going
to work for you. Well, if it does work for you, I will be happy for you
because it means that you find another tool in your
fighting procrastination. But I suspect a nine
out of ten cases, this is not going to
work for reading by. So these are the tools that not worked for me and I would
not suggest you to use them. However, from all
these failures, I learned one thing
is that when you creating some kind of conditions for fighting
your procrastination, you need to set the
right conditions. You need to set the conditions
so that you could not escape it because
in any other way, you will accommodate to it. You will get used to
this and you will fall. And so procrastination
once more. So what you should do is to, is you should leave
no option to you if you are creating
some kind of, I call it positive obstacle, like an obstacle that
you encounter and you have to do it to boost
your productivity. So when you create this thing
for yourself than you have, leave no option, usual, so to speak, when
before the fight. So it's when you building
all the conditions in such a manner that when you stepped into this
condition you cannot lose. So think of things that you cannot escape before you start using these things you should not do is you should
never leave a backdoor. Because when there is a slightly opportunity
to escape a situation, your brain will escape this. So once again, think
of some kind of custom solutions
that work for you. And hopefully it's going
to help to help you.