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Advanced Sales Skills. Handle difficult customers like a pro.

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Lessons in This Class

    • 1.

      Introduction to Handling Customer Reactions and Attitudes

      5:01

    • 2.

      Lesson 1- Recognizing Doubt and Misunderstanding

      4:20

    • 3.

      Lesson 2 - Recognizing Objections and Complaints

      5:03

    • 4.

      Lesson 3 - Recognizing Indifference and Acceptance

      6:43

    • 5.

      Lesson 4 - Identify the customer Attitudes

      5:38

    • 6.

      Lesson 5 - The formula for handling customer reactions and attitudes

      5:39

    • 7.

      Lesson 6 - How to handle Misunderstanding and Doubt

      7:53

    • 8.

      Lesson 7 - How to handle an Objection and Complaint

      6:40

    • 9.

      Lesson 8 - how to handle Indifference

      8:54

    • 10.

      Lesson 9 - How to uncover the hidden Reaction or Attitude.

      8:13

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Not all sales interactions go smoothly; we constantly hit bumps; it's perfectly natural when you are conversing with another person. In addition, human-to-human contact is never a straight line; there are twists and turns along the way. 

In this course, we will focus on dealing with your customers when they get a bit challenging when they react to what you have said or presented. 

When you have completed this course, you will have the skills to defuse any challenges and get the sales call back on track. No more leaving a meeting frustrated and confused about why you are empty-handed.  

Welcome to the Five Minute Sales Coach. My name is Kevin Ford, and I'm the program creator and thrilled that you've chosen this to improve your sales skills and, ultimately, your sales success. This is a profession unlike any other. The learning never stops, the opportunities are neverending, and I'm hopefully here to help you along this journey.

Why five minutes? Well, it's based on a study in 2014 by. A large consulting firm found that in today's leaner-run companies, most employees can only spare about 1% of their work week for skills upgrades, which boils down to 4.8 minutes per day. So now, this course is different from what you're used to. Here we laser focus on practical, usable skills, cutting out all the fluff, and getting straight to the facts you will benefit from, and I ask that you adjust your approach. Most people, myself included, will go to a three or four-day sales training, get all the fantastic concepts and ideas, get excited, and within a couple of weeks, it's gone, almost forgotten. 

It's not your fault. We, humans, have a limited capacity for integrating new concepts into our lives. The German psychologist Herman Ebbinghaus studied memory and found that you lose about 50% of what you learn the next. And as much as 80% is gone within a month, which is pretty lousy odds. That's where this course differs. You're not going to forget, you're going to integrate what you learn immediately, and it's going to stick.

The best way to integrate a new skill is to put it into action immediately. Listen to the lesson in the morning over coffee, and put it to work during the day's sales calls. It's essential to practice this immediately. I understand the frustration of watching online courses with a video of a talking head at the bottom while the usual presentation slides whipped by.

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1. Introduction to Handling Customer Reactions and Attitudes: Welcome everybody, the five-minute sales coach. And this is the next course in our series. It's called How to deal with customer reactions. And if you haven't taken the first course, the fundamentals course, please go back and take it because it really is a prerequisite for this. I'm going to be referencing a lot of things that you'll learn in that in this course. So take an hour, go back and do that course, and then come on back to this one. It's the next in the series. In case you're not entirely sure the five-minute thing is actually based on two of two things. One is a study that was done to show that currently most employees only have about 5 min a week that they can dedicate to skills upgrades, five-minute sales coach. The other thing is a concept called micro learning. Note, if some of you who've ever attended any kind of training where you're sitting in a classroom for three days, getting a lot of stuff jammed into your head, you'll be shocked to learn that within a month, but 80% of everything you've learned is gone. You've lost it. In fact, your retention rate is even less than that. What you can actually integrate near day-to-day activities. So micro learning is a concept where we take that big three-day course when we squish it down into tiny five-minute chunks that you can digest over the course of a few days. Now, you can watch this whole course all at once if you like, or you can do it. And as I would suggest, you do just one lesson a day. Integrate what I talked about, and then move on to the next one. It's totally up to you, but I can tell you right now you're going to remember a whole lot more if you just do the one less than a day. This particular course we're working on is based on the fact that sales calls never really go smoothly as planned. We can sit and talk about all these as we did in the fundamentals course, but all the skills you can use to talk to your customer. Ask a lot of really good quality question to focus on their needs and then give them your product to solve their needs are their problems, that's great, but there's always roadblocks that get thrown up. And it's usually based on customer needs or as I call it this course reactions. What I'm hoping to show you in this course is that these miscommunications are misunderstandings or whatever you wanna call it, between you and your customer are normal and they're easily solved. What's really important, as you're going to learn is that letting a misunderstanding or misconception or whatever you wanna call it, go by, unsolved is going to throw all your sales efforts off track and make it more difficult to actually close the sale at the end of the day, we're gonna be covering off a number of different reactions. There's five basic ones and just give me a sec here, Let's look them up. There are five basic challenging ones and of course, one positive one. The challenging ones are doubt, misunderstanding, objection, complaint, and my favorite indifference. These are five attitudes or reactions that your customer will show on a regular basis in a sales call and they're all perfectly normal when there's a discussion going on between two people. The positive one is, of course, acceptance. The customer actually accepts what you've said without question. And that's their reaction. That's, that's the, that's the good one. We're gonna be looking at each one of these independently. And we'll get into more detail on what they all mean. And more importantly, I'm going to give you the tools that's going to show you how to take a customer, say misunderstanding or misconception and turn it around into a positive, okay? And it's really not that difficult. And I think once you get this, you will get out of that panic mode whenever a customer comes up and says, I don't believe you. Well, once you understand that it's normal, there's no read to get defensive and start blasting word, sell it out. And we'll talk more about that in the coming lessons. Also to, is we'll be doing a project at some point in this, in this, in this course. And it'll give you a chance to basically see customer attitudes and real-time. So I'll throw up some videos of either myself or some cartoon showing an attitude. And there'll be up to you to try and match what you think the attitude is and how you would go about doing it. So we'll tackle that at the end of the course. So that's it. I thank you for stopping by and clicking the enrollment on this, and we'll see you in lesson one. Take care. 2. Lesson 1- Recognizing Doubt and Misunderstanding: Welcome to lesson one. What we're gonna be doing is I'm gonna go through all the different reactions, or some people call them attitudes. And we'll get into the detail of what these are, what the roots of them are. I'll give you a couple of examples. And then as we go through, I believe it's gonna be in less than four or five. We will get into how you can resolve this stuff. And I think as you go through and you start recognizing the different attitudes or reactions that your customer has, you're already going to have some ideas in your head as to how you can solve them. So here in Lesson one, let's start off in the first two, which I think happened to be the most common and certainly the easiest if that's the right word to solve or to deal with, and that is doubt and misunderstanding. Or perhaps you could name that skeptics doubt or skepticism or misunderstanding could be a misconception. Get your thesaurus and call it what you like. But these are usually the most common. Doubt is very common. It also comes out of a customer encounter that doesn't quite get what you're saying. And will often will throw a negative stuff that basically doubts whatever product statement or value statement that you put out there. Here's some examples. I don t think that's possible. I doubt that's true. They'll actually use the word. There's no way you can match your competitors price. Your product can't do that. You're basically the customer at this point is doubting what you told them. And that's fine. That's perfectly normal. But if you've heard this, I'm sure we've all heard it dozens of times. How did you react? Did you commonly ask the customer question, why do you feel that way, Mr. customer, is there a problem with something I said new most of us and I was guilty of this in the beginning as well, is we get into words, what I called word salad. We're basically we panic. We get defensive, and then we start blurting something like that. No, My cousin, my company is not going out of business. What are you talking about? Of course, my product can do that and look, look at all these specs that prove it. You've lost your customer at that point. You've basically taken a slight misunderstanding, or in this case, doubt that he said. And you've basically stomped all over it with your with your defensiveness. So the number one thing I want you to try and get into your head is do not get defensive. This is perfectly normal. And as we go through the course, you're going to learn how to deal with this as well. The next one up is misunderstanding or misconception. And that's very common because you just basically said something to your customer and they didn't quite understand what you're saying. And then what they do is they kinda jump to conclusions at that point. Here's an example, your widgets are made from gold. I heard your company is in a chapter 13 bankruptcy. Why are you bothering to talk to me? I heard you guys only deal with big companies. They've heard a rumor on the street. And usually misunderstanding or misconception is that the root of all rumors. And they've basically come up with their own thought process on that misconception or misunderstanding. And they'll ever, they're making statements towards you. Now, once again, it's very easy to get defensive and go, Oh, jeez, no, we're not we're not in bankruptcy. Will get into how you deal with this. But again, think of this as remaining calm, collected. Don't panic. Customers do this all the time. And we'll talk about how you can deal with that in later lessons. So that's it for less than one. How do we do? Hopefully that's close to five-minutes. And think about this stuff and we'll see you in lesson two. Take care. 3. Lesson 2 - Recognizing Objections and Complaints: Hi, welcome back. Five-minute cells, co-chair, and welcome to lesson two. We're continuing on the listing off the different types of customer reactions or attitudes. If you want to call it that. We talked to in less than one previously about the attitude of doubt, which is very common, and the attitude or reaction of misunderstanding or misconception. They're very closely related to each other. And as they talked about, it's usually comes as a result of maybe you're not understanding what the customer said or the customer not fully understanding what you said. And something pops up and gets in the way, it's not a huge deal. The next two are very similar in that respect. However, there are, there is a very specific distinction between the two of them and there's these two are objection and complaint. Now, objection is something that a customer is going to throw up at you in real time. It's something that's happening at the moment or it could be happening in the future. Something like maybe a customer will object to. You can't give you that price. He's objecting to your your discounter or whatever or on the other side of that, he's going to he's going to object to say, Well, your prices are too high, but you can't match what I'm looking for. They'll say something. Again. This goes along the same lines of what I just said. Your product, your widget is too expensive. That's a very common objection, right? They'll also say something like, You know what, I don't yeah, it's not going to believe it's not going to perform the way you said it's going to perform. Now. You're going to notice a tremendous amount of similarity to what I just talked about and doubt and misunderstanding. It's very similar, but they are individual attitudes that you need to be aware of. The next one is complaint. And they are almost identical or very similar to objections. But there's one very important distinction that you have to be aware of because you are going to treat this much differently than the other attitudes. Or that is a complaint that is something that's happened in the past. It's not in present tense. You can't argue a complaint on the spot. When a customer says to you that shipment, you sent me arrived three days late. Now, it makes absolutely no sense to go well, gosh, what do you mean by that? No, they are actually talking about something that is real and it should be kicking you into pinMode. You should be looking at a way to solve this problem and put them at ease to make sure that it never happens again. As I, as I had mentioned before in the previous lesson, most of us tend to get defensive and customers throw this stuff up. But I can tell you right now, if there's ever a time where you never ever ever get defensive, It's now never get defensive at a complaint. This is a real issue and it's your job to go in there and actually solve it for them. Now, don't get scared. You can also use complaints as a door opener. You can use it as a way into solving one problem and giving, getting an opportunity to sell something new for another. But you've got to come across as the helper will never let this happen again. Here, here's how we do it and we'll discuss more about how you can handle further on in the course. A couple more examples of this would be my accounting department had to fight with your accounting department to clear up that pricing problem we had or the widgets you sold me just don't work. As I mentioned earlier, your shipment arrives three days late. This is all past tense stuff that the customer is complaining about that you have to say, Okay, at this point we'll look at a solution. But don't try and gain clarity on a complaint. It's not necessary there. You can you can ask for clarity as you're trying to solve it. But your number one goal with a complaint is you need to find a solution for that customer to make sure that their complaint is addressed, then they can take the complaint, just forget about it and move on with life. So that's complaints and objections. And we'll move on to the next level and talk about the next. The last two, customer attitudes, which I feel are probably the most challenging. But hopefully by the time we get to the end of this course, you'll understand that it's fairly easy to deal with. Thanks for dropping by. See you soon. 4. Lesson 3 - Recognizing Indifference and Acceptance: Welcome back to the five-minute cells, coach and gosh, Here we are at less than three already. Have you taken any time over the last couple of lessons to apply to your work day, if you noticed that your customers attitudes, you're noticing the doubt, their misconceptions or misunderstandings. Have you noticed when they object to something you say? And of course, I think it's easy to notice when they're complaining because they just come right out and say it takes some time before we figure out how to deal with it. It's really useful to recognize what you're seeing. And it's one of those situations that once you see it, it can't be unseen. So when a customer objects your misunderstands what you said, Man, you're gonna, it's gonna go off in your head like a light bulb and you'll know how to deal with it. So let's just start off slow. Start paying attention to what you're seeing. May even make a note 0 customers objecting to my statement about my widgets being the best widgets on the market or whatever, it doesn't matter. Here in lesson three, we're gonna be talking about opposite ends of the spectrum. The worst and the best. Now the worst, the worst one, in my opinion, not the worst, but the most challenging is indifference. That is the customer that really isn't complaining. He's not mad, he's not happy. He's just whatever, leave your card and your brochure and I've really not interested in talking to you. There are real challenge. Even if you do manage to get a sales call or a meeting with somebody like this, they often sit in a meeting like this with a closed posture. They're looking at this cheese, they're looking at their phone. Is that is that the worst? Usually the indifference is it's one of two things. Either they're like that to every sales rep and it's some sort of power play that they enjoy doing. And i'm, I'm sorry to say that that does happen more than enough. Some guys get off and making your life miserable. But you've also got to accept responsibility for this as well because perhaps you've missed a step. Maybe they are actually too busy and you've just ignored it near your excitement to actually finally get to talk to them. Maybe you haven't qualified these guys properly and they don't have a need. That could be very possible. And that's why they're acting in different because you're trying to sell them something they don't need. It could also be very early on in establishing the relationship with the customer. And you've still got to establish what their needs are and the value of your product. Right now you're just somebody who's taking up their time, particularly if you walked in there off the street and did a cold call, which by the way, congratulations for that. But you've really got to have an understanding of what the customer is about before you start talking to them. Because sometimes you're rushing to get to that point where you're having a discussion with them could create the indifference. So keep that in mind as well. And we'll discuss more about how you can deal with solving indifference as we get further on in the court. So as I mentioned earlier, if you've got a customer that's indifferent, you really gotta put it on yourself to determine, was it something I did? Did I rush the sales cycle that I do a poor job explaining to them the value of my product. If I not really taken the time to fully understand their needs, you can say that indifference is valuable because if you see a customer just sort of doing this or that, maybe you've got to take a look at what you've done to cause that. Now, again, I mentioned there's always going to be those jerks that just love to make your life miserable. I'll call you when I need something, stop talking, get out of my office, whatever it happens. Use it as fuel to maybe up your game a little. Be patient and we'll talk again. I'll talk more detail about how you can deal with this. Examples of when a customer statements. Examples statements of when a customers is being indifferent. I'm too busy. I don't need your products. Just leave your card and your catalog. I got a meeting. Oh gosh, Look, there's a new cat video on my phone. You know, that kind of stuff. Alright. That's indifference. I think you'll, you'll recognize it immediately. Unlike everything else, don't get defensive, don't panic. We'll talk more about how you can actually solve the indifference problem. And of course, the last one is the one that we all love to hear and that's acceptance. And that's basically means that you've knocked it out of the park. You've addressed the customer's needs. You've addressed all those questions and now they're accepting what you've said. They're asking for a purchase order. They're asking for double the order. They want your widgets and in different colors or whatever that is all accepting what you've said. Certainly an example of statements is if a customer goes with that sounds promising, that's acceptance. I liked that idea and that's exactly what I need. They're all accepting what you're saying. It's important to know that you're gaining acceptance from a customer because that way you know that you've gotten to a point where you can move on to the next issue. You don't have to keep talking about the same thing over and over again. Customer accepts it. Good check. Next one. That's the most challenging. That's the most fun. Both of them wrapped up into this lesson. And as we go further along in the next lessons, we'll look into more detail how to deal with these. A few minutes and you're next few days and your sales calls and see if you can recognize particular the indifference from customers. I know it's I know it's frustrating. There's nothing worse than talking to a guy who's staring at his phone and his computer. But you just got to have the patience to get past that and find out, does this guy really need when I'm selling or is he just being a jerk? Or was it something I said or did I miss a step? That kinda stuff. Ask more questions that you can ask yourself. Okay, that's it. We'll see you in Lesson Four. Take care. 5. Lesson 4 - Identify the customer Attitudes: Welcome back to the five-minute sales coach, and we are now up to lesson four. And what I'm gonna do now that we've covered off all the different reactions, et cetera, is I'm going to read off a few statements here. Some, some thing that a customer might say to you. And I'll give you a couple of seconds to give it some thought. And then maybe think of what the possible latitude that they're showing is, are the possible reaction. And maybe you'll see if you've got a handle on what we're, what we're doing here. It's not a test, it's just sort of a mind jog to see see how things are going. So without further ado, let's read off a couple. So your customer would say, you know, your widget could be cheaper. What reaction is he showing there? Yep. That is an objection. Your customer is objecting to the price of your product. Pretty clear. Kept present tense based on something you said. Next one. I think your idea to solve my problem will fail. What attitude is that? That is a misunderstanding or a misconception. Customer clearly doesn't quite understand what you presented to them or you've missed what his needs are. And so he's saying, You know what? I don't want exactly believe you. It's something doesn't quite line up here. That's a misconception. Next one, that sounds promising. Well, if you didn't get that one as an acceptance than Gs, no news, good news coming your way. That's a Clare acceptance there. Basically accepting what you've told them. The next one, leave your brochure with the receptionist. Yep, that is indifference, 100%. That is somebody who just doesn't really care to see you, is too busy, doesn't think that your product is going to help them, doesn't think you're going to help them. May not know you. There's 1 million reasons why, but that's a definite definite indifference. I heard your company only accepts cash. Once again, we have a misunderstanding or misconception. That's part of the rumor thing I was talking about and one of the previous lessons, it's sometimes rumors circulate around, particularly if you work for a larger company or say you're the top tier companies in your field tend to get picked on and a rumor starts up that maybe you only accept cash or maybe you put a customer on a cash account because they are correct, it was so bad. And then that sort of grew and a wildfire ensued. And next thing you know, they got everybody thinking that you only accept cash. So it happens and it's simple just to say at nano, we're okay. The last order you sent me was two days late. That is in the past. And that is clearly a complaint. Right. Now. You don't need to dig any further. You've gotten the goods on this one. Your job from this point is just to simply deal with that complaint to the customer satisfaction. There's no way you can meet my price requirements. Doubt pretty much says it in the sentence. I doubt you can meet my requirements. Customer is doubting what you've told them. You've said, yeah, I can get your price you want he's going in. No, you can't. Right. So it's basically just clarifying things there. Again, just something that was not completely understood. And the last one is yeah, No thanks. I don't need anything for this project right now. It's an objection. He's not a misunderstanding anything. He's just basically telling you the way it is. I don't have a need for your product right now. He's objecting to you try to sell them something, that's all. Nothing serious. So there's a few examples. I hope you caught them. You've got a few of them, right? I'll, I'll see if I can post some more of these examples in the project section. So you can have a look at these in real time with real video or animations. And as you practice, as you get to know them, as you start seeing them more and more often, they're just gonna become immediate to you. You're going to recognize when your customers throwing you any of those those five negative interactions, reactions or attitudes. So that's it for less than four. Look forward to seeing you in lesson five, where we're going to talk about how you deal, generally deal with customer attitudes and reactions and a very simple methodical manner. So we'll see you then. Take care. 6. Lesson 5 - The formula for handling customer reactions and attitudes : Welcome back to the five-minute sales coach Rhonda lesson five. And now we're going to get into the nuts and bolts of all of this. I'm gonna give you some tips on how to deal with these customer reactions and an attitudes. Now, the goal of this entire program is to give you the skill so that everything that you say to a customer is calculated, measured, and understood. In fact, I don't, I think by the time you get through this whole series, you're never going to make a statement unless your customer knows or use or you know, that your customer is going to appreciate the statement or see some value in it. When you don't know what to say, don't say anything. That's the best advice I can offer you. We have this overwhelming desire to fill silence spaces. The uncomfortable silences, stop it. Don't just Babylon. If you don't know what to say, then that is your cue to ask another question. Asked another question until you're basically sure that the customer is telling you exactly what they want. You don't want to create this environment of, of us versus them. And sometimes that's what sales calls can descend into. It sort of becomes a bit of a struggle. Now, let's say you've got a customer who comes out and says to you, I've got an example here. I doubt your widgets performance will meet our requirements. Now, before anything happens, I want you to take that twinge that you've got, sort of getting you in the gut there where you're suddenly feeling defensive. And I want you to toss it out the window, throw it out on the sidewalk. Arguing or being defensive is kids stuff. It's things for the sandbox when you're little. It's enough for sales professionals like yourself. That's the very first thing you have to do. So really solving this breaks is broken down into two simple steps which are not complicated in one very important skill. And that skill is for you to remain calm and resist the urge to be defensive. We just talked about that, right? Take your twinge of defensiveness and chuck it. That is a skill that you have to developed and you have to hang onto. That's what going to separate you from the average sales guy. So the two steps, step number one is acknowledged what they say and basically say it back to them. Don't agree. In fact, this is where I want you to be about as boring as you possibly can. Step number two is then asked questions, why the customer has this attitude. So here's the example of the doubt your widget will work. So the customer says, I don't use widget will work and you just basically, oh, really, yeah, I understand. So what you're really saying is you need very specific specifications for your widgets. And the customer is going to go, well, of course I do that. Just open the door for you to start asking more questions to find out exactly what its spec or specification or, or need or whatever the customer needs. And then you match your product to it. Alright, so let's, let's try an example here. Let me make this flow a little bit easier. Customer says I don't, your widget will perform exactly as I need. I understand. So widget performance is very important for you. Customer says, yes, we have a very specific and detailed quality-oriented process here. We can't afford to have things break down or not perform as they do. Bingo. You now have the door open to start asking more questions and finding out exactly what it is he needs. We'll get into this in more detail in future lessons, but it's basically just two steps, stay or number two steps and a skill, skill. Skill is stay calm. Don't get defensive. Step number one, basically acknowledged what they said with a simple rephrase back to them. Oh, I understand that. Widget performance is important to. Then step number two is asked the question that gets them to tell you why they're being doubtful or they're misunderstanding you or whatever. That's it. This works across the board for everything. When we get into the future lessons we'll dealt will look into the individual attitudes and reactions and apply this to it. And I think you'll find that once you practice this a few times, that you will start to look forward to getting reactions because you basically know that the door is now opening for you to offer up your products as a solution. So that's it. I hope it makes sense. And I look forward to getting to you guys in the next lesson, we will cover off misunderstandings and doubt. So stay tuned and we'll see you in lesson six and take a chance to maybe think about what we talked about in, in even just practice it if you can, if you're feeling that that brief will see you in Lesson Six, Take care. 7. Lesson 6 - How to handle Misunderstanding and Doubt: Welcome back to the five-minute sales coach. We are moving on to lesson number six, where it just chugging along here and now we're getting into the details of these individual customer attitudes. And today we're gonna be covering off misunderstandings in doubt. Misunderstanding, misconception, doubt, skepticism. It's there. Choose your source version. We'll talk first about the misunderstanding and how it can basically affect your customers. Incorrect assumption of you, your company, your product. It basically puts them off track. And these can arise either past, present, or future. And I've got some examples here. Of each. In the past. You may have a customer and we talked about this in the previous. Lesson number five is maybe you have a customer that's heard a rumor or some lies a boat about your company. And often those are spread by your competitors, which is really low ball, but it happens. So that's sort of past tense. Present tense would be the messenger, something misunderstood, something that you said during the sales meeting. We kind of talked about that before. So they think you're making a claim that has no validity. It's something you've got to clear up. Future. Again, rumor mills these days are actively churning and misunderstandings will allow the rumor mill to spin even faster. And if you ever get 11 of these future tense understandings or misconception, man, the quicker you stamp on that one, the better because you do not want that to just flow out there. Particularly in the age of social media, where bad news travels a whole lot faster than good news. Doubts, is something that the customer feels based on a preconceived idea or based on a claim or statement that you made that they didn't fully understand and it's usually present or future. There's no pass component to doubt. It's really based on the current situation there again, we'd, you're talking to them and here's some examples. A customer is skeptical based on something that you said that doesn't match their beliefs or Miss or understanding of your product. You could have said something wrong. It's no big deal. I don't think your product to new blah-blah-blah, future tense. So this would be a misunderstanding of deb can be projected into the future as you fail to be clear about it. I doubt you can deliver that quickly. That's future tense. So handling both of these, the customer reactions is very similar. In fact, it's, it's identical to all of them. We're going to use that two-step process I mentioned in the earlier lesson. And I'm gonna go through this in detail. And I apologize because I'm gonna be looking off camera to read this, but I think you're gonna get the idea here. So you're in the middle of giving a product presentation. You've, you've provided all your value statements, everything's looking good. You're getting close because now you're basically into buying signal territory. We talked about that in the previous course. You're into delivery negotiations, which puts you're pretty close to the sale, closing the sale, but the customer then comes up and goes away. Hang on. It's like wait, wait. There's no way you can deliver those widgets to me in two days. Now, remember skill, the skill I said on this, stay calm, don't get defensive, right? I know you're head is screaming, What is this guy an idiot, Of course I can deliver it in one day if I wanted. I'm not gonna do that. You're not gonna do that. You're going to come back with a very calm, boring statement going, oh, I see. Can I ask why you feel I can't deliver that quickly? There's no you're not trying to be patient with that. You're just trying to get clarity. Can I ask why you said that? Simple customer a year ago, I bought from your company and they were three days late with my order. So now you have it. He's kind of misunderstood. Did sort of a, you know, a complaint wrapped in there, but he's not really complaining, but he's using that misconception or misunderstanding and past tense and projecting it into the future. Well, you come back and again, stay calm. I understand. So getting on-time delivery is crucial for you. Now is a customer, we're going to say no, right? They just complain that you're not gonna be able to deliver in two days. Now the customer is going to come back with something like Absolutely. And a lot of places are like this where you run a just-in-time operation with very little inventory and getting deliveries on time is a must capital MUS take. He's basically just told you is need. So what do you do with the need based on, on the fundamentals course, is you provide a solution to that customer's problem. And at this point you can say, we have overhauled our logistics center since that order three years ago. I can show you how we can guarantee the next delivery date based on our new system. Can I show you that? Now? Unless the customer completely hatred this point, who could say no to this? You've basically just to address the problem. A number of years ago we had an issue with your delivery. Yes, I understand we've changed our system. Deliveries are now more reliable. Can I show you how? One thing, one piece of advice I can offer is don't just stop at our deliveries are much better because you sound like you're just you're boasting. Our deliveries have gotten much better since then. Add onto it, can I show you how you're getting buy-in from the customer? You're keeping them engaged the whole, the whole step of the way. That's important. Customer of course is going to say yes to that. So that's the two-step process being used for misunderstanding and doubt is very similar to this. Very similar. So I just want to close this lesson by basically reminding you that you can defuse any challenging situation as long as you stay calm. You state back to the customer what it is they told you. Check for understanding on that. Don't you get into misunderstanding or you're going to start spiraling under control. Yes, Mr. Customer, here that are delivered, you don't believe I delivery Can I ask why? Then they explain. Then you just basically go through the steps and get to the bottom of it. I can't stress enough that this is not a time for you to get upset. Take the ego, leave it in the lobby. I say that an awful lot to my sales reps leave the ego in the lobby and you'll be very surprised how things turn out from there. So I hope that helps. We're gonna move on to the next two attitudes and look forward to seeing you in lesson seven. Take care. 8. Lesson 7 - How to handle an Objection and Complaint : Welcome back, five-minute sales coach, all the way up to lesson seven. And in this lesson I'm going to be covering off the objections, the complaints. They're both very similar. We've talked about this before. The biggest difference being is that the objection is something that the customer says that is in opposition to what you have said in the course of an immediate sales meeting or some sort of discussion. And I really want to impress that when a customer objects, it's really all on you. No big deal. You can solve it very simply as we're going to look at. But it's usually something that you've said or done that they're objecting to and they're just they're calling it on it. A complaint. On the other hand, while it may sound similar is something that is in the past, It's something that already happened in the customer's complaining and we've all complained, we've all done it. Something has happened that were not happy about. So just be aware of the two similarities and most certainly the two differences. So I'm going to read off this little example I've got here. Customer says, sorry, but I can't afford to pay 20% more for your product. I know what you're doing, you're panicking, right? You're bringing out your discount table at this point, at least in your head. Nano, nano. If you're interested in the subsequent, one of the subsequent courses, I'm going to talk about how you deal with price negotiations. This tactic is particularly professional buyers is just, it's like a, it's like a knee-jerk reaction to them. They always say, Oh, I'm paying too much. Anyways, let's see how this plays out. Customer says, Sorry, I can't afford to pay 20% more for your product. You will say something like, I understand, finances are important too. Can we discuss this in more detail? Okay. You're overstating the obvious. The customer may indeed go, Yeah, yeah, whatever. Sometimes just keeping it simple, keeping the conversation, letting the customer know that you're listening to them, even overstating the brutally obvious is a very powerful thing. So the customer is just agreed to discuss this in more detail. And you can say, well, my product is indeed 20% more than my competitor. It also outperforms them by 40%, which means you will actually be saving 20%. Does that sound acceptable? Yes, the customer will say, but I do need proof. Great. Let me show you how. And then you basically get back into the sales cycle that we talked about in the fundamentals course. You've basically taken their objection to your price being, your product being too expensive, and you've turned it around. Now you have an opportunity to sell the value of your product rather than the price we get so wrapped up in the price that we just don't even try to save it. And I spent 25 years at an industry where I was the most expensive product in my, in my competitive group. And it, it takes a little more work, but it most certainly can be done because instead of selling price, you're now selling value. You should be doing anyways means that you'd make more sales, means that your commission is higher, your margins are higher, et cetera, et cetera. So that is an example of how you would deal with an objection. They just didn't quite understand you. You gave them the price, they objected to the price, and you immediately diffused it. And that's a very powerful thing. The next thing up is the complaint and just let me pull this up. Let's can kinda make you feel defensive. We're all humans. It happens. A complaint is something that's inevitable. Things never go according to plan and it gets a little emotional. Customer will most likely be annoyed or because you've caused them some discomfort. And your immediate reaction can be to be defensive. And unfortunately, I've seen a lot of things go off the tables over the years. You are the face of the company. So you have to own up to it if it's your mistake, own up to it. If it's the shipping departments mistake, own up to it. If it's a quality error, own up to it. Do not do. And I can't stress this enough. Do not engage in finger-pointing. Most certainly do not tell your customer about the inner workings of your company. I've seen some horrible things about my sales reps ******** to them about those lazy idiots in the warehouse or the absolute worse. And I'm not lying. I actually heard this. Well, yeah. Your order was two days late, but I added another customer. It was four days late because of these morons and shipping. Never ever do that. If it goes down like this, the customer says and let me pull this one up. Delivery was two days late. I understand your delivery schedule must be exact. Is that true, customer because you're plenty, right? It's true. And then you will say, Well, if you can give me a couple of days to speak with my logistics department, I can find out what the problem was and I can work on something to make sure that this never happens again. Can we get together next Tuesday to discuss my solution? Who's going to say no to that? And you've basically just gone into superhero mode where you've taken a problem and you're now saying, You know what, I'm putting on my cape and I'm going to solve it for you. This one is really important that you take your emotion out of it. You take your ego out of it, and don't make excuses. Everything stops with you. You are the face of the company. I'm sorry, the delivery was late. Yeah, we screwed up. I'm gonna go back and see how I fix it. Customer doesn't care about the moron in the shipping department that's done this five times this month. They don't care about that. And I see it happen a lot. So keep your keep to the lip, zip shut, keep it positive, keep it moving forward. Take that negative and turn it around. I can't stress this enough. Okay, so that's less than seven, less than eight is coming up. We recover off my favorite indifference. And I hope you got something out of this. Learn how to deal with those complaints, turn it into something that you can actually expand your sales width. And we'll see you in the next lesson. Take care guys. 9. Lesson 8 - how to handle Indifference: Hi folks, welcome back. Five-minute sales coach Rhonda, lesson number eight, and my favorite customer reaction or attitude in difference. This is the most challenging one you're going to run across, not just in business life, but also personal. It is when people basically show a lack of interests. They're apathetic. They're disinterested in what you're saying. You know, it's it's not easy to deal with. I'm not going to lie. But again, as I've mentioned through everything in this entire course and the one previous, remaining calm, gathering yourself, not panicking and asking some good-quality questions is going to get you out of the trap of indifference. Now, we've all had examples of this in our professional lives. You're in the middle of a fantastic, what you think is going to be a fantastic sales meeting. You sit down with a customer and they just don't show any interest whatsoever. In fact, they become extremely distracted. They're typing on their phone while you're talking. One of the worst ones is looking at their watch or looking around the room. They're basically telegraphing to you without saying a word, that they don't really have a perceived need for your product or service at that point. Now, there are some people that actually take pleasure out of this who treat everybody that they meet in the course of a day as a, as getting in their way is a problem and they're always going to be there. You've also got customers that are having a bad day. Particularly if you're dealing with a customer that is taking on multiple projects and maybe something is going wrong that day and he completely forgot that you had made an appointment with you. It happens. And they're just trying to be kind and maybe not blow you off. But really it an instance where you can't get somebody's attention. Maybe it's better to pull the plug. So these things happen and it's just a way of another attitude that you've got to deal with to figure out how to get through to them. Now I've mentioned a few extreme cases and there are gonna be those cases where somebody is just they're not there. You're better to pull the plug and come back another time when they can be there. But you are going to see some indifference in the course of any sales interaction. And the biggest challenge with it is, is that you don't have an obvious attitude to deal with, so you can't really tell if they're objecting. You don't know if they're complaining, it's really difficult to try and figure out what is going on. And so he's gonna take a little more effort for you to dive back into the sales cycle and basically start asking some questions to get them to open up. Because what I found about a difference over the years is it could be a multitude of different attitudes that you've just got to basically find out what it's all about. Here's an example. Let's look at this here. So the customer may say something along the lines of, I really don't have a need for your widgets today. Now. There could be 1 million reasons why that is, and it's up to you to dig deeper to find out. So you could say, I understand, Is it because you don't have a project for widgets at this time. The customer could then say That's correct. Simply say, do you expect the next project to be coming on soon? Customer will say next months at which point you can say when can we meet? Customer would say something like the end of April. So you've taken the indifference and found out that you really don't have a need for your product at that point and that's fine. That's an easy one actually to get by. There is another variation of this one, but perhaps the customer would say, I don't need your widget at this time. You could say because you don't have a project for our widgets, at which point the customer is going to make it a little more complicated at this point, is going to say, I do have a project, but we're not sure about our widget requirement yet. Now, you're a little salesman, salesperson brain is going to be firing off rate at that 0.000. Let me show them all the great stuff we have for this project. He isn't quite sure. And that's not your invitation to do that at that point, basically, you're saying is you're just going to ask them very simply, is there something I can help you with? No, Leave it with me. Okay. That's Will it be similar from the last project? Can I send you the same specifications again? The customer says, no, we just have too many other things on the go right now. Now you've got a choice at this point, is you can ask another question to try and dig a little deeper to find out when they're going to be getting onto that project, what they need your help with. But you're flirting and dangerous territory at this point. Because after a customer has told, you know, twice, the third time can get a little tricky. If you ask him another question. I could I could send you some brochures and her latest widgets, at which point he could say, no, I'm really too busy now you're kinda getting into the annoying the customer phase. And I really want to drive this point home. Things aren't always going to work out. And every once in awhile, you're gonna get a customer that's going to say no to the same line of questioning twice. Now, you're going to have to use your better judgement. Sometimes you're trying to drill down into something very specific and you're just trying to get to details or information and that's fine. Yes or no to try and guide you into a certain situation, That's great, That's perfect. But if you're on an indifferent track like this one and you keep getting knows, you get to that second note. And most certainly after the third one, bale, get out of there, finding another subject to talk about. Otherwise, you're going to start to knowing your customer and that's going to put you in a bad light with them because all of a sudden now you're the pushy, annoying sales rep. We don't want that. We want to be the, the consultative sales rep that helps our customers. And part of that is reading the room and understanding that your customers sometimes it's just too busy to deal with it, even though he may have said to you last month oh yeah. I'm gonna have to talk to you a month from now about this project. Everyone has their own challenges and things come up. Their problems don't necessarily match with your schedule. So just keep that in mind. No, twice means Gosh, should I keep going down here? And three means dead stop. We don't want to start annoying people, so that's it. That's the best way to handle the difference. If you get a customer that is indifferent in a, in a cold call, expect it because they don't know you, they don't understand your product and you're taking up their time. So they're gonna, they're gonna give you a bit of a hard time anyways, they're gonna be indifferent. Just expect that in that situation and kind of accept it. But when you're dealing with indifference with your normal customers and a sales call, it comes up and you're not entirely sure why he's he's looking around the room while you're talking. Again, like I always say, read the room. Don't overdo it. Don't annoy him. Understand that there's probably something else going on behind the scenes. It's causing them to be indifferent to you. All of a sudden he could just be having a bad day. It happens and treat it with respect. And understand that maybe you've got to pull the plug on that and move on to something else. I hope that helps. That's less than eight and less than nine is we're gonna be talking about the foods or reactions. As indifferent sometimes can be a result of a few different attitudes that you don't quite understand. This one is we're going to look at attitudes that you think you understand he's got, but it's actually something totally different. And we're going to give you some skills on how to deal with that. So thanks for dropping by and we'll see you in the next lesson. Take care. 10. Lesson 9 - How to uncover the hidden Reaction or Attitude.: Welcome back. We're in lesson nine, five-minute sales coach. We're getting through this course. This is the final one. And what I wanna do in this one is sort of make you aware that now that we've learned all the challenging customer attitudes and reactions, I want to throw this one out on the table at you. They're not always as they seem great. I know what she's thinking. I guess the reason I'm bringing this up is because I want you to make sure that you don't end off running off into a tangent. After 25 years of coaching sales reps, I can tell you that I've seen people go off course like you wouldn't believe it. It doesn't take much it takes that one wrong question, that one assumption and off it goes into the, into the Never, Never Land. And this is one of the number one ways it happens that you finally got a handle on these customers attitudes and their reactions and I know how to deal with that. And you assume, here's an example. If customer says your company stinks, I'll never do business with you. And immediately somebody gets defensive. But you remember your car. So I know I'm not going to get defensive. Now. That's a misunderstanding. I'm going to find out what that misunderstanding is. And so you ask a question, you use the usual com thing. Oh, I see. Can I ask why you feel that way? I did not get a return phone call from your customer support. Now, if you thought doses misunderstanding, then you'd be asking him questions like did you dial the right number? Two, did you talk to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But hang on a second. Something's not right here. Something is different. And perhaps you could say, oh, I understand. So timely tech support is important to you. Now you see you've done, you've dropped all assumptions, you've dropped everything, and you're just following that. What he's saying. Tech support is intra is important to you and the customer goes, absolutely. I suffered for three days trying to get that computer up and running because your people didn't call me back. We really suffered over that. What is that? That's a complaint. That's not a misunderstanding. You see how something can be disguised as something else. So I want you to be very careful moving forward not to get too wrapped up in what the apparent one was. And it might take a question or two more, Two. To understand what's really going on. I'll read another example of the same, of something very similar and we actually talked about this the, in another lesson. I'm not buying those purple widgets. They're way too expensive. Okay. So you're thinking price objection. This is an objection. So you could probably say something like, why do you feel like they're too expensive? Now that's a really open ended question. But in an instance like this, I'd probably get a little more detailed. Oh, I see. Well, it occurs to me the last time we spoke, we talked about the purple widgets. You liked the specifications, you are quite happy with the price and their performance. Is there a problem? Customer says, yes, there is. I use 20 of them a week. Now, this is where it gets really important that you understand your customer because at that point you can go. But when we talked about this, you've only purchased one from me in the last year. At which point maybe the customer is going to go. Oh, I meant the orange widgets. Forget about it. Was a misunderstanding. It was a misunderstanding sort of disguised as an objection. And I want you to be very careful not to assume. I would've seen more than one sales rep take this very situation or runoff in the purple widget direction. There would have been all sorts of questions and discussions could completely based on a pricing objection that didn't exist. It was a misunderstanding on the customer's part. Even admitted it. Oh, never mind my bad. I've seen it happen. So you've gotta be very careful not to. There's an old saying, don't get stuck in the weeds. Take your time. Ask a question. If something doesn't feel right, if something doesn't seem right, and that's what happened in this case, the sales rep wait a minute. What's he talking about? 20 a year. So he spotted a problem and he very non-confrontational. They just went in and adjusted things until he finally found it that the customer was misunderstanding or had a misconception about what was going on. So be very careful on that. So use the standard technique. Keep calm, acknowledged back to the customer what they said. Wait for a response. Get into some useful open-ended questions that are going to help you get to the bottom of things. So that is for your benefit. So you don't go off into tangent. And I can say without a doubt that I've seen this happen way too much, way too much. So save yourself the trouble. Stay in control. So that's it for less than nine, That's it for the course. There is a project. I'd like everybody to take a moment to go to it. For the project is going to be some style of video I haven't decided yet whether it's going to be video of me or some animation characters that I can make it look a little bit different that are going to show you the different customer attitudes. And I'm also going to throw in maybe one or two that are not the real attitude. And I'm going to leave it up to you to determine which one. But your goal in this project is to look at the videos and write down your answer and what the attitude is and give me the the acknowledged rephrase the question steps of how you would approach, defusing that attitude or that reaction. And I think the, I think you'll enjoy it and you certainly get a lot out of it. So thanks again. I really appreciate you attending my course. And just to let you know, I have another course coming up shortly. I hope to release it soon, and it will be focusing on different types of customer personalities. We talked about your personality style, you're selling style in the very first course. This one is going to enlighten you as to where your customers are acting and allow you to adjust your approach to them and be a little more, a little more engaging. One thing about being in sales is you have to be a bit of a chameleon. You have to sort of adjust, know who you're talking to and adjust your approach. So thanks again for attending, and I wish you all the best of luck and take care and we'll talk to you soon. Bye for now.