How to Date, Build a Relationship, and Stay In Love! Free class

Jerry Banfield, Teaching New Skillshare Classes Daily!

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31 Videos (3h 56m)
    • Dating is like gambling where you mostly lose and you can win big.

    • Understand you are working for the single most important part of your life.

    • Get honest about your bad habits.

    • Love yourself and you will be lovable.

    • You get what you give.

    • Start building a successful system for maintaining a healthy weight.

    • Work a little bit each day on how you look.

    • The benefits of developing spiritually.

    • Understand there is no "opposite sex" only people.

    • Discover what matters most to you in a partner.

    • Making a great dating profile

    • Make broad and relevant search criteria

    • Establish mutual interest before sending a message

    • The goal of a message is getting a face to face meeting.

    • How to convert the message into a date and what to plan.

    • Be yourself.

    • Trust your instinct about the other person.

    • The first date is the easiest time to quit.

    • How to plan a great first date.

    • DO NOT do any of these on a first date.

    • End with a hug for yes or a polite "thank you for going out with me."

    • Follow up how you would like to be followed up.

    • Establish that there will be a second date soon or forget about it.

    • Build upon the success of the first date or establish a failure.

    • Close strongly with a kiss or give up on the second date.

    • Second date follow up. Give what you want to get or end it!

    • Fall in love with me every day! The power of doing nice things every day.

    • How to have a Happy Marriage + How to be a Good Wife and Husband.

    • What is fantasy, how it hurts sex with your partner and how to stop fantasizing

    • Marriage is about the person you marry.

    • Married people have sex more and enjoy it more


About This Class

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, finding a great partner in life is the easiest way to do it! Use this course to learn about successful dating, relationships, and marriage based on my experience doing nearly everything you can do wrong for 10 years and then finally doing it right in meeting, dating, and marrying my wife!

You will appreciate this course whether you are single, dating, or in a relationship now because it will continue to expand with new lectures indefinitely. The inspiration you get out of each lecture can be used to know that you are worthy of love right now the way you are. The practical tips included in the first section are great whether you just want to be a better partner for the person you are with or be able tofind the person of your dreams!

Act on your feelings of love, hope, and faith to enroll now!






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Jerry Banfield

Teaching New Skillshare Classes Daily!

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  1. Facebook ads and marketing learned by growing my Facebook page to over 2 million likes!
  2. YouTube channel success strategies learned by building my YouTube channel to 89,000+ subscribers.
  3. Google AdWords tutorials learned by spending $100,000+ on my own advertisements on Google.
  4. Teaching online learned on YouTube with 10+ million views on my YouTube videos and on Udemy where I had 170,000+ students before being banned!
  5. A daily workflow system for creativity that I have used to make over 2,000 videos online in two years.
  6. Building a great Skillshare teaching community on a daily basis with new classes!
  7. Steps for creating and building your own freelancing business online selling products, serving clients, and doing affiliate marketing.
  8. Investing and trading cryptocurrencies such as bitcoin and ethereum as a hobby while earning a better than average return!
  9. What works most effectively to make money online based on my experience earning more than a million dollars freelancing from my home office in the first five years of starting my business.
  10. The complete system I use to run a business that is the best real job I have ever had online as seen at

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How did you get here with me?
In 2005 while I was in college at the University of South Carolina, I tried to start working online. I signed up for an MLM program and a survey website. A month later, I had refunds from both and figured working online was not possible because everything was a scam. The truth was I was afraid to fail again.

In 2011, I moved in with my wife and launched an online business focusing on video game addiction in an attempt to avoid dealing with any of my other problems. In a few months, I changed my business to selling tshirts because I realized there was no money in video game addiction. A year after starting my business, I dropped out of my criminology PHD program at the University of South Florida to run my business full time which by then had changed to helping clients with Facebook and Google ads based on my experience failing to do them successfully for myself.

In 2013, I starting sharing everything I knew for free on YouTube because I hoped it would help me get more clients. By April 2014, I was nearly bankrupt after failing at 15+ different business models. I was also nearly dead from trying to drink the pain away and fortunately the fear of death motivated me to get into recovery. Being in recovery motivated me to focus more on being of true service to others and less on what I would get out of it. I started making courses online with Udemy which soon turned into my first real business. I partnered with as many talented instructors as I could and learned from top instructors how to get my courses the most sales.

In 2015, I tried making some inspirational videos sharing what I learned in recovery and got an amazing response on YouTube. To make the background on my videos more interesting, I started making the inspirational videos while playing video games. To make a more helpful website, I hired a freelancer to convert the videos into blog posts including this about page originally.

By 2016, the Udemy courses I was teaching had made nearly $2 million dollars in sales with me receiving over $600,000 of that. Things went so well on Udemy that Udemy decided to launch a new pricing policy in April 2016 that reduced sales by 80% sitewide which encouraged many instructors to leave. Since I did not take the hint, Udemy chose to ban me based on what they said were policy violations despite my best efforts to work within the rules. Now I am recording audio books on Audible and teaching all my new video courses here on Skillshare as well as on my website!

Thank you for reading this and I hope you enjoy my courses!


Jerry Banfield